SELF and IDENTITY - SocPsy200: KEY WORDS: Unequally yoked, Unequallyoked, Unequally-yoked, equally yoked, egalitarianistic, true equality, introduction to social psychology, sociology, violation of social mores, social science, deviancy, mating, deviancies, statistics, abnormalacies, sexual perversions, data base, psychopathology, pairing off, sociopathology, Violation of Social Mores, Engagement, biostatistics, Equally-yoked, Equallyoked Couples, Equallyoked, Equallyokedtarian, Equallyokedtarians, Equallyokedtarianism, Coupling up, Pairing-Off, Coupleships, Mate Selection, Dyadic Relationships, Premartial Pairing, Civil Identity, Intimacy and Mating, Pre-engagement, Courting, Courtship, Spouses, Dyads, Dyadic Psychology, Social Mores, Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology, Biopsychosociocultural Medicine, Clinical Sociology, Social Psychiatry, Psychotherapy, Psychosocial Health, Marriage and Family Therapy, sociocultural anthropology, human ecology.

1. Self & Identity
Social Psychology 200
Copyright: 2007

2. Personal Identity
YourYour Personal IdentityPersonal Identity includes a lot - itincludes a lot - it
includes your character & personalityincludes your character & personality
and also the sum of all of these:and also the sum of all of these:
• Social IdentitySocial Identity
• Civil IdentityCivil Identity
• Family IdentityFamily Identity

3. Social Identity
YourYour Social identitySocial identity is your sense of belongingnessis your sense of belongingness toto
a collective of identified important groups such as;a collective of identified important groups such as;
CitizenshipCitizenship: a Nation,: a Nation, ResidenceResidence:: Home, Property:Home, Property:
OwnershipOwnership,, deeds, and co-ownership in Real estate,deeds, and co-ownership in Real estate,
e.g., vacation homes, office buildings, land, and maye.g., vacation homes, office buildings, land, and may
include motor homes, RVs, cars, boats, planes, etc.,include motor homes, RVs, cars, boats, planes, etc.,
ProfessionProfession: your trade, vocation, skill, craft boards or: your trade, vocation, skill, craft boards or
union,union, TitleTitle: in clubs, associations, organizations, etc.,: in clubs, associations, organizations, etc.,
Education: CredentialsCredentials, degrees, diplomas, certifications,, degrees, diplomas, certifications,
documentation of schools successfully attended. Socio-documentation of schools successfully attended. Socio-
economiceconomic ClassClass: Amount of money in bank, in stocks and: Amount of money in bank, in stocks and
bonds investments, in bank notes and certificates.bonds investments, in bank notes and certificates.

4. Civil Identity
YourYour Civil IdentityCivil Identity is actually a mosaic ofis actually a mosaic of
your present:your present:
• Ancestry, Ethnicity, Political Party, Race,Ancestry, Ethnicity, Political Party, Race,
Color, Religion, Disability, Sex, SexualColor, Religion, Disability, Sex, Sexual
(Pleasure) Preference Orientation, Marital(Pleasure) Preference Orientation, Marital
Status, Family Status, …etc.Status, Family Status, …etc.

5. Family Identity
YourYour Family identityFamily identity is based on your surnameis based on your surname
and closely associated with your family Civil identity andand closely associated with your family Civil identity and
your specific surname:your specific surname: YourYour SurnameSurname is that specificis that specific
family name passed down line generation afterfamily name passed down line generation after
generation in a family lineage from whom the origins ofgeneration in a family lineage from whom the origins of
your surname - to the very youngest new born.your surname - to the very youngest new born. YourYour
Middle nameMiddle name is a name given by your joint parentsis a name given by your joint parents
traditionally-by inter- marrying families to protect thetraditionally-by inter- marrying families to protect the
family against frauds, phoneys, and fakes out to usefamily against frauds, phoneys, and fakes out to use
your reputable ‘names’ as a tactic or strategy to profit inyour reputable ‘names’ as a tactic or strategy to profit in
a multicultural finance.a multicultural finance. YourYour First nameFirst name is a personalis a personal
name given to you as a newborn by your parents - to bename given to you as a newborn by your parents - to be
used in every day conversations - with a specificused in every day conversations - with a specific
meaning – concerning the reputation to ‘live up to’ inmeaning – concerning the reputation to ‘live up to’ in
society.society.

6. Personality
Your ‘Your ‘PersonalityPersonality’ is just how your capability’ is just how your capability
is manifested in the way you personally:is manifested in the way you personally:
observeobserve,, uphold, and promoteuphold, and promote what iswhat is
right, such as:right, such as:
• Law abidingness,Law abidingness,
• MoralityMorality/abiding in social mores,/abiding in social mores, andand
• Heartfulness/emotional stability.Heartfulness/emotional stability.

7. “Character”
YourYour CharacterCharacter is the actual way your seenis the actual way your seen
by your peers as having the capacity ofby your peers as having the capacity of
just how you personally and activelyjust how you personally and actively fightfight
againstagainst::
• Crime/infractions of the law,Crime/infractions of the law,
• ImmoralityImmorality/violating social mores/violating social mores, and, and
• Infatuation/lust.Infatuation/lust.

8. A Healthy Relationship
GoodGood
CommunicationCommunication
HonestyHonesty
TrustTrust
Equally-yokedEqually-yoked
SupportSupport
RespectRespect
TimeTime
The Liberal Arts and Humanities

9. Some “Suggested” SchoolsSome “Suggested” Schools
• Liberty U., Lee U., Houghton Coll., Southern Adventist U.,Liberty U., Lee U., Houghton Coll., Southern Adventist U., Johnson U.,Johnson U.,
California Lutheran U., Northland Coll., Milligan Coll., Coll. of the Ozarks,California Lutheran U., Northland Coll., Milligan Coll., Coll. of the Ozarks,
Cedarville U., Anderson U., Samford U., Bryan Coll., Corban U., Hendrix Coll.,Cedarville U., Anderson U., Samford U., Bryan Coll., Corban U., Hendrix Coll.,
Southwestern U., Centre Coll., Bethel Coll., Central Coll., Eastern U., BelmontSouthwestern U., Centre Coll., Bethel Coll., Central Coll., Eastern U., Belmont
U., Luther Coll., Eastern Mennonite U., Southern Methodist U., MacalesterU., Luther Coll., Eastern Mennonite U., Southern Methodist U., Macalester
Coll., Muhlenberg Coll., Gustavus Adolphus Coll., George Fox U.,Coll., Muhlenberg Coll., Gustavus Adolphus Coll., George Fox U.,
Southeastern U., Emory U., St. Olaf Coll., Hope Coll., Roberts Wesleyan Coll.,Southeastern U., Emory U., St. Olaf Coll., Hope Coll., Roberts Wesleyan Coll.,
Concordia U., NE, DePauw U., Whitworth U., Lafayette Coll., Wittenberg U.,Concordia U., NE, DePauw U., Whitworth U., Lafayette Coll., Wittenberg U.,
Taylor U., Abilene Christian U., Sewanee-U.of the South, Valparaiso U., TexasTaylor U., Abilene Christian U., Sewanee-U.of the South, Valparaiso U., Texas
Christian U., Ohio Wesleyan U., Franklin Coll., Ouachita Baptist U., U. ofChristian U., Ohio Wesleyan U., Franklin Coll., Ouachita Baptist U., U. of
Mobile, Gordon Coll., Covenant Coll., California Baptist U., Millsaps Coll.,,Mobile, Gordon Coll., Covenant Coll., California Baptist U., Millsaps Coll.,,
Goshen Coll., Allegheny Coll., Union U., Westmont Coll., Union U., WestmontGoshen Coll., Allegheny Coll., Union U., Westmont Coll., Union U., Westmont
Coll., Waynesburg U., Biola U., Wheaton Coll., Regent U., Presbyterian Coll.,Coll., Waynesburg U., Biola U., Wheaton Coll., Regent U., Presbyterian Coll.,
Baylor U., Davidson Coll., Rhodes Coll., Transylvania U., Pepperdine U.,Baylor U., Davidson Coll., Rhodes Coll., Transylvania U., Pepperdine U.,
Wofford Coll., Oklahoma Baptist U., Indiana Wesleyan U., Trinity U., AsburyWofford Coll., Oklahoma Baptist U., Indiana Wesleyan U., Trinity U., Asbury
U., Hanover Coll., Chapman U., Messiah Coll., Nebraska Wesleyan U.,, IllinoisU., Hanover Coll., Chapman U., Messiah Coll., Nebraska Wesleyan U.,, Illinois
Coll., Augustana Coll. – SD, Point Loma Nazarene U., Erskine Coll., AugsburgColl., Augustana Coll. – SD, Point Loma Nazarene U., Erskine Coll., Augsburg
Coll., Calvin Coll., Azusa Pacific U., Concordia Coll., U. of Evansville, NorthColl., Calvin Coll., Azusa Pacific U., Concordia Coll., U. of Evansville, North
Central Coll., Vanguard U. of SoCal, Seattle Pacific U., Oklahoma Christian U.,Central Coll., Vanguard U. of SoCal, Seattle Pacific U., Oklahoma Christian U.,
Patrick Henry Coll., Albion Coll., LeTourneau U., Oral Roberts U., John BrownPatrick Henry Coll., Albion Coll., LeTourneau U., Oral Roberts U., John Brown
U.John Brown U., Oklahoma City U., Wartburg Coll., Alma Coll., U. of Tulsa,U.John Brown U., Oklahoma City U., Wartburg Coll., Alma Coll., U. of Tulsa,
Grove City Coll., Belhaven U., American U.Grove City Coll., Belhaven U., American U.

10. ““Be ye not unequally yoked…”Be ye not unequally yoked…”
II Corinthians 6:14II Corinthians 6:14
Copyright: 2007