KEY WORDS:, Unequally Yoked, Equally Yoked, Equallyoked, romance, social mores, mate selection, Equallyokedtarian, Civil Identity, Equallyokedtarianism, true equality, egalitarian, Psychosocial health care, normalacy, Abnormal Psychology, love, normalacy, sex, abberations, romance, deviancy, grace, perversions, mercy, Bible counseling 101, Psychopathology, dating, Sociopathology, freedom, violation of social mores, Psychiatric Sociology, premarital, Introduction to Social Psychology, Advanced Sociology Studies, Psychotherapy, Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology, Human Ecology

1. The “Equallyoked”The “Equallyoked”
Taking self responsibility for actions in
choosing proper mate selection – as
an ‘equallyokedtarian’

2. ““Coupling-Up”Coupling-Up”
“UnequallyokedUnequallyoked”
• Deviant social
mores.
• Perverse
motives.
• Diverse ‘civil
identities’ for
aberrant
coupling-up.
“EquallyokedEquallyoked”
• The very same
civil identity – a
social mores.
• Nearly equal or
very similar civil
identities.
• Abiding in ‘true’
family values
for extending
family lineage.
“In-equallyokedIn-equallyoked”
• Incestual
relationships-
with a marital
outcome.
• Enmeshed
distance family
relationships.
• Maybe 1st
or 2nd
cousins resulting
in marriage.
- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

3. Family IdentityFamily Identity
YourYour Family identityFamily identity is based on your surnameis based on your surname andand
closely associated with your family ‘Civil Identity’ andclosely associated with your family ‘Civil Identity’ and
your specific surname:your specific surname: Your SurnameYour Surname is that specificis that specific
family name passed down-line, generation afterfamily name passed down-line, generation after
generation, in a family lineage from the origins of yourgeneration, in a family lineage from the origins of your
surname to - the very youngest new born.surname to - the very youngest new born. YourYour MiddleMiddle
namename is a name given by your joint parents traditionallyis a name given by your joint parents traditionally
- by inter-marrying families to protect the family against- by inter-marrying families to protect the family against
frauds, phoneys, and fakes out to use your reputablefrauds, phoneys, and fakes out to use your reputable
‘names’ as a tactic or strategy to profit in multicultural‘names’ as a tactic or strategy to profit in multicultural
finance.finance. YourYour First nameFirst name is a personal name given tois a personal name given to
you as a newborn by your parents - to be used in everyyou as a newborn by your parents - to be used in every
day conversations - with a specific meaning –day conversations - with a specific meaning –
concerning the reputation to ‘live up to’ in society.concerning the reputation to ‘live up to’ in society.
- Intro to Social Psychology

4. ““Civil Identity”Civil Identity”
- Ethnicity:
- Politics:
- Religion:
- Race:
- Color:
- Age:
- Sex:Sex:
- Sex preference:
- Marital status:
- Ethnicity:
- Politics:
- Religion:
- Race:
- Color:
- Age:
- Sex:Sex:
- Sex preference:
- Marital status:
- Intro to Social Psychology
‘de facto’ (in fact, in reality)
personalitypersonalitypersonalitypersonality

5. Examples:Examples:
• Ethnicity: Euro-American
• Political Party: Green Party
• Race: Cauca, Color: Med.
• Religion: Bible Christian
• Disability: None Known
• Age: 21 ½
• Sex: MaleMale
• Preference: Heterosexual
• Marital Status: Single
• Ethnicity: Euro-American
• Political Party: Green Party
• Race: Cauca, Color: Med.
• Religion: Liberal Christian
• Disability: None Known
• Age: 21
• Sex: FemaleFemale
• Preference: Heterosexual
• Marital Status: Single
Example 1Example 1 Example 2Example 2
- Intro to Social Psychology

6. ““Social Identities”Social Identities”
• CitizenshipCitizenship::
U.S. CitizenU.S. Citizen
• ResidenceResidence::
Chicago, ILChicago, IL
• Ownership:Ownership:
Buying HomeBuying Home
• ProfessionProfession::
TherapistTherapist
• Education:
Ph.D. DegreePh.D. Degree
• Titles:Titles:
““Doctor”Doctor”
• ClassClass::
Middle ClassMiddle Class
• CitizenshipCitizenship::
U.S. CitizenU.S. Citizen
• ResidenceResidence::
Chicago, ILChicago, IL
• Ownership:Ownership:
Leasing CondoLeasing Condo
• ProfessionProfession::
ManagementManagement
• Education:
M.B.A.DiplomaM.B.A.Diploma
• Titles:Titles:
““Director”Director”
• ClassClass::
Middle ClassMiddle Class
Example 2
- Intro to Social Psychology
Example 1

7. Liberal Arts Schools
Some “Suggested” SchoolsSome “Suggested” Schools
• Liberty U., Lee U., Houghton Coll., Southern Adventist U.,Liberty U., Lee U., Houghton Coll., Southern Adventist U., Johnson U.,Johnson U.,
California Lutheran U., Northland Coll., Milligan Coll., Coll. of the Ozarks,California Lutheran U., Northland Coll., Milligan Coll., Coll. of the Ozarks,
Cedarville U., Anderson U., Samford U., Bryan Coll., Corban U., Hendrix Coll.,Cedarville U., Anderson U., Samford U., Bryan Coll., Corban U., Hendrix Coll.,
Southwestern U., Centre Coll., Bethel Coll., Central Coll., Eastern U., BelmontSouthwestern U., Centre Coll., Bethel Coll., Central Coll., Eastern U., Belmont
U., Luther Coll., Eastern Mennonite U., Southern Methodist U., MacalesterU., Luther Coll., Eastern Mennonite U., Southern Methodist U., Macalester
Coll., Muhlenberg Coll., Gustavus Adolphus Coll., George Fox U.,Coll., Muhlenberg Coll., Gustavus Adolphus Coll., George Fox U.,
Southeastern U., Emory U., St. Olaf Coll., Hope Coll., Roberts Wesleyan Coll.,Southeastern U., Emory U., St. Olaf Coll., Hope Coll., Roberts Wesleyan Coll.,
Concordia U., NE, DePauw U., Whitworth U., Lafayette Coll., Wittenberg U.,Concordia U., NE, DePauw U., Whitworth U., Lafayette Coll., Wittenberg U.,
Taylor U., Abilene Christian U., Sewanee-U.of the South, Valparaiso U., TexasTaylor U., Abilene Christian U., Sewanee-U.of the South, Valparaiso U., Texas
Christian U., Ohio Wesleyan U., Franklin Coll., Ouachita Baptist U., U. ofChristian U., Ohio Wesleyan U., Franklin Coll., Ouachita Baptist U., U. of
Mobile, Gordon Coll., Covenant Coll., California Baptist U., Millsaps Coll.,,Mobile, Gordon Coll., Covenant Coll., California Baptist U., Millsaps Coll.,,
Goshen Coll., Allegheny Coll., Union U., Westmont Coll., Union U., WestmontGoshen Coll., Allegheny Coll., Union U., Westmont Coll., Union U., Westmont
Coll., Waynesburg U., Biola U., Wheaton Coll., Regent U., Presbyterian Coll.,Coll., Waynesburg U., Biola U., Wheaton Coll., Regent U., Presbyterian Coll.,
Baylor U., Davidson Coll., Rhodes Coll., Transylvania U., Pepperdine U.,Baylor U., Davidson Coll., Rhodes Coll., Transylvania U., Pepperdine U.,
Wofford Coll., Oklahoma Baptist U., Indiana Wesleyan U., Trinity U., AsburyWofford Coll., Oklahoma Baptist U., Indiana Wesleyan U., Trinity U., Asbury
U., Hanover Coll., Chapman U., Messiah Coll., Nebraska Wesleyan U., IllinoisU., Hanover Coll., Chapman U., Messiah Coll., Nebraska Wesleyan U., Illinois
Coll., Augustana Coll. – SD, Point Loma Nazarene U., Erskine Coll., AugsburgColl., Augustana Coll. – SD, Point Loma Nazarene U., Erskine Coll., Augsburg
Coll., Calvin Coll., Azusa Pacific U., Concordia Coll., U. of Evansville, NorthColl., Calvin Coll., Azusa Pacific U., Concordia Coll., U. of Evansville, North
Central Coll., Vanguard U. of SoCal, Seattle Pacific U., Oklahoma Christian U.,Central Coll., Vanguard U. of SoCal, Seattle Pacific U., Oklahoma Christian U.,
Patrick Henry Coll., Albion Coll., LeTourneau U., Oral Roberts U., John BrownPatrick Henry Coll., Albion Coll., LeTourneau U., Oral Roberts U., John Brown
U., Oklahoma City U., Wartburg Coll., Alma Coll., U. of Tulsa, Grove City Coll.,U., Oklahoma City U., Wartburg Coll., Alma Coll., U. of Tulsa, Grove City Coll.,
Belhaven U., American U.Belhaven U., American U.

8. ““Be ye not unequally yoked…”Be ye not unequally yoked…”
II Corinthians 6:14II Corinthians 6:14
Copyright: 1977 - used by permission
Bible Reference: The Layman’s Parallel Bible

9. Liberal Arts and Humanities
The “Equallyoked” - QUIZThe “Equallyoked” - QUIZ
• Why is identity and self at the focus of the
“equallyoked? How is it significantly
related to Social psychology? Psychiatric
Sociology? Marriage, Family, Child
Psychology?
Put Your name, Social Psychology, and Date Due
Homework: Write Your Answer on ONE Page,
Typed. Double spaced, 35 Points. Due Next Class.

10. Liberal Arts and Humanities
The “Equallyoked” - QUIZThe “Equallyoked” - QUIZ
• Why is identity and self at the focus of the
“equallyoked? How is it significantly
related to Social psychology? Psychiatric
Sociology? Marriage, Family, Child
Psychology?
Put Your name, Social Psychology, and Date Due
Homework: Write Your Answer on ONE Page,
Typed. Double spaced, 35 Points. Due Next Class.