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1. Self & Identity
Social Psychology
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2. Personal Identity
Your Personal Identity includes a lot - itYour Personal Identity includes a lot - it
includes your character & personalityincludes your character & personality
and the sum of all of these:and the sum of all of these:
• Social IdentitySocial Identity
• Civil IdentityCivil Identity
• Family IdentityFamily Identity
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3. Social Identity
Your Social identity is your sense ofYour Social identity is your sense of
belongingnessbelongingness to a collective of identifiedto a collective of identified
important groups such as;important groups such as; CitizenshipCitizenship: a: a
Nation,Nation, ResidenceResidence:: Home address, Property:Home address, Property:
OwnershipOwnership,, deeds, and co-ownership in Realdeeds, and co-ownership in Real
estate, e.g., vacation homes, office buildings,estate, e.g., vacation homes, office buildings,
land, and may include motor homes, RVs, cars,land, and may include motor homes, RVs, cars,
boats, planes, etc.,boats, planes, etc., ProfessionProfession: your trade,: your trade,
vocation, skill, craft boards or union,vocation, skill, craft boards or union, TitleTitle: in: in
clubs, associations, organizations, etc.,clubs, associations, organizations, etc.,
Education: CredentialsCredentials, degrees, diplomas,, degrees, diplomas,
certifications, documentation of schoolscertifications, documentation of schools
successfully attended. Socio-economicsuccessfully attended. Socio-economic ClassClass::
Amount of money in bank, in stocks and bondsAmount of money in bank, in stocks and bonds
investments, in bank notes and certificates.investments, in bank notes and certificates.
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4. Civil Identity
Your Civil identity is actually aYour Civil identity is actually a
mosaic of your present:mosaic of your present:
• Ethnicity, Political Party, Race,Ethnicity, Political Party, Race,
Color, Religion, Disability, Sex,Color, Religion, Disability, Sex,
Sexual (Pleasure) PreferenceSexual (Pleasure) Preference
Orientation, Marital Status,Orientation, Marital Status,
Family Status, etc.Family Status, etc.
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5. Family Identity
Your Family identity is based on yourYour Family identity is based on your
surnamesurname and closely associated with yourand closely associated with your
family ‘Civil Identity’ and your specific surname:family ‘Civil Identity’ and your specific surname:
YourYour SurnameSurname is that specific family nameis that specific family name
passed down line generation after generation inpassed down line generation after generation in
a family lineage from whom the origins of youra family lineage from whom the origins of your
surname - to the very youngest new born.surname - to the very youngest new born.
YourYour Middle nameMiddle name is a name given by youris a name given by your
joint parents traditionally-by inter- marryingjoint parents traditionally-by inter- marrying
families to protect the family against frauds,families to protect the family against frauds,
phoneys, and fakes out to use your reputablephoneys, and fakes out to use your reputable
‘names’ as a tactic or strategy to profit in a‘names’ as a tactic or strategy to profit in a
multicultural finance.multicultural finance. YourYour First nameFirst name is ais a
personal name given to you as a newborn bypersonal name given to you as a newborn by
your parents - to be used in every dayyour parents - to be used in every day
conversations - with a specific meaning –conversations - with a specific meaning –
concerning the reputation to ‘live up to’ inconcerning the reputation to ‘live up to’ in
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6. Personality
Your ‘Personality’ is about just howYour ‘Personality’ is about just how
your capability is manifested inyour capability is manifested in
the way you personally:the way you personally: observeobserve,,
uphold, and promoteuphold, and promote what iswhat is
right, such as:right, such as:
• Law abidingness,Law abidingness,
• Morality/abiding in socialMorality/abiding in social
mores,andmores,and
• Heartfulness/emotional stability.Heartfulness/emotional stability.
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7. Character
Your Character is the actual way yourYour Character is the actual way your
seen by your peers as having theseen by your peers as having the
capacity of just how you personallycapacity of just how you personally
and activelyand actively fight againstfight against::
• Crime/& infractions of the law,Crime/& infractions of the law,
• Immorality/violating social mores,Immorality/violating social mores,
andand
• Infatuation/lust.Infatuation/lust.
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8. A Healthy RelationshipA Healthy Relationship
GoodGood
CommunicationCommunication
HonestyHonesty
TrustTrust
Equally-yokedEqually-yoked
SupportSupport
RespectRespect
TimeTime
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9. Some “Suggested” SchoolsSome “Suggested” Schools
• Liberty U., Lee U., Houghton Coll., Southern Adventist U.,Liberty U., Lee U., Houghton Coll., Southern Adventist U., Johnson U.,Johnson U.,
California Lutheran U., Northland Coll., Milligan Coll., Coll. of the Ozarks,California Lutheran U., Northland Coll., Milligan Coll., Coll. of the Ozarks,
Cedarville U., Anderson U., Samford U., Bryan Coll., Corban U., Hendrix Coll.,Cedarville U., Anderson U., Samford U., Bryan Coll., Corban U., Hendrix Coll.,
Southwestern U., Centre Coll., Bethel Coll., Central Coll., Eastern U., BelmontSouthwestern U., Centre Coll., Bethel Coll., Central Coll., Eastern U., Belmont
U., Luther Coll., Eastern Mennonite U., Southern Methodist U., MacalesterU., Luther Coll., Eastern Mennonite U., Southern Methodist U., Macalester
Coll., Muhlenberg Coll., Gustavus Adolphus Coll., George Fox U.,Coll., Muhlenberg Coll., Gustavus Adolphus Coll., George Fox U.,
Southeastern U., Emory U., St. Olaf Coll., Hope Coll., Roberts Wesleyan Coll.,Southeastern U., Emory U., St. Olaf Coll., Hope Coll., Roberts Wesleyan Coll.,
Concordia U., NE, DePauw U., Whitworth U., Lafayette Coll., Wittenberg U.,Concordia U., NE, DePauw U., Whitworth U., Lafayette Coll., Wittenberg U.,
Taylor U., Abilene Christian U., Sewanee-U.of the South, Valparaiso U., TexasTaylor U., Abilene Christian U., Sewanee-U.of the South, Valparaiso U., Texas
Christian U., Ohio Wesleyan U., Franklin Coll., Ouachita Baptist U., U. ofChristian U., Ohio Wesleyan U., Franklin Coll., Ouachita Baptist U., U. of
Mobile, Gordon Coll., Covenant Coll., California Baptist U., Millsaps Coll.,,Mobile, Gordon Coll., Covenant Coll., California Baptist U., Millsaps Coll.,,
Goshen Coll., Allegheny Coll., Union U., Westmont Coll., Union U., WestmontGoshen Coll., Allegheny Coll., Union U., Westmont Coll., Union U., Westmont
Coll., Waynesburg U., Biola U., Wheaton Coll., Regent U., Presbyterian Coll.,Coll., Waynesburg U., Biola U., Wheaton Coll., Regent U., Presbyterian Coll.,
Baylor U., Davidson Coll., Rhodes Coll., Transylvania U., Pepperdine U.,Baylor U., Davidson Coll., Rhodes Coll., Transylvania U., Pepperdine U.,
Wofford Coll., Oklahoma Baptist U., Indiana Wesleyan U., Trinity U., AsburyWofford Coll., Oklahoma Baptist U., Indiana Wesleyan U., Trinity U., Asbury
U., Hanover Coll., Chapman U., Messiah Coll., Nebraska Wesleyan U.,, IllinoisU., Hanover Coll., Chapman U., Messiah Coll., Nebraska Wesleyan U.,, Illinois
Coll., Augustana Coll. – SD, Point Loma Nazarene U., Erskine Coll., AugsburgColl., Augustana Coll. – SD, Point Loma Nazarene U., Erskine Coll., Augsburg
Coll., Calvin Coll., Azusa Pacific U., Concordia Coll., U. of Evansville, NorthColl., Calvin Coll., Azusa Pacific U., Concordia Coll., U. of Evansville, North
Central Coll., Vanguard U. of SoCal, Seattle Pacific U., Oklahoma Christian U.,Central Coll., Vanguard U. of SoCal, Seattle Pacific U., Oklahoma Christian U.,
Patrick Henry Coll., Albion Coll., LeTourneau U., Oral Roberts U., John BrownPatrick Henry Coll., Albion Coll., LeTourneau U., Oral Roberts U., John Brown
U.John Brown U., Oklahoma City U., Wartburg Coll., Alma Coll., U. of Tulsa,U.John Brown U., Oklahoma City U., Wartburg Coll., Alma Coll., U. of Tulsa,
Grove City Coll., Belhaven U., American U.Grove City Coll., Belhaven U., American U.
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10. ““Be ye not unequally yoked…”Be ye not unequally yoked…”
II Corinthians 6:14II Corinthians 6:14
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