Introduction to ArtificiaI Intelligence in Higher Education
Why Teach Character
1. Character is the most overlooked, under explained crucial ingredient for a successful life.
Therein lies the answer to why it’s important. If a person wants to have lasting success in life,
they must make a conscious decision to work on and improve their character. Character isn’t
about winning or losing. It’s about how you move forward after either occurs.
This is why character education should be every school’s top priority when it comes to
curriculum. If schools are to prepare responsible, creative, and productive citizens of the 21st
Century, they need to show students how to achieve success that is born of hard word;
perseveres in the face of defeat; and thrives upon itself. These abilities are only possible
through a well-developed and maintained character.
Character is not easy to teach or learn. There are many detractors and distractions along the
way. It is a hard, but rewarding path for multiple reasons. For example:
Character must be revealed before you understand where to must start. The only way
character is revealed is through hardship and loss. Conversely, these are the times it is most
important. The closest education (as a whole) has come to discussing it is labeled as grit. It
takes grit to build and maintain good character, but you only discover if you have grit when it is
needed.
Integrity is not character. It is essential to good character, but it is a piece of the larger picture.
Integrity is how you act based on a set of moral principles. It is that inner set of guidelines by
which you live. Character is your overall behavior comprised of many different components.
They are often confused. This is because they are both a choice; part of an ongoing struggle
that gets easier with each difficult decision. Simply put; you act with integrity, but possess
character.
Building character requires one of the most difficult things for individuals to do; be
completely honest with themselves about who they are; who or what they want to be; and
how they are going to get there. You need to examine your life and determine if you are
happy. If not, you must discover why and determine what needs to change. That is where the
work begins.
It is difficult, but not impossible to change your character. A person just needs to realize that
it is constantly shaped by every decision you make. Therefore, it takes two ingredients;
purposeful action towards changing your behaviors and a commitment to continue the process.
This is also known as mental toughness. (Moore, 2014)
So how do educators and parents help current and future students learn to build good
character?
Model behaviors: Students, in fact many of us, do not do as we hear, but as we see. How can
we expect students to develop good character if we do not exhibit that which we ask?
2. Have clear expectations: Clarity is key. Do not mince words. Be clear about the behavior you
expect and why. Do not address the student’s success or failure; rather talk about their actions
and decisions. The less personalized the feedback, the easier those first few steps are to take.
They didn’t fail that course because they are not good at that subject. They failed because of
actions they took and decisions they made. The same holds true for behavior, sports, ect.
Be tenacious: Building character takes time, failures, and patience. Help examine those
decisions that resulted in the outcome. Character isn’t a battle, it’s a war. There will be great
victories and awful defeats over the course of time, but the ultimate goal is attainable with
help. Whenever I get impatient with the progress I am making, I remember the face of my son
looking up at me saying; “I’m not a man yet daddy, but I will be some day. I have more stuff to
learn.”
Do not overprotect: This is simple. Adults are not meant to be kids’ friends. They are meant
to be the leaders who guide students through life. Losing that dynamic affects the ability to
make tough decisions that, as adults, we realize build character. Friends do not do that. Too
often friends console, make excuses, and let the little things that could make a difference slide.
Friends are important support structures, but adults are often called to make a decision as to
whether or not a student suffers a setback. Remember that character is formed by accepting
hardship and continually working to improve. There can be no learning without failure. There
can be no excellence without hardship.
Remember, achievement in life is always birthed from effort and discipline. The same is true
of character. Success has very little to do with luck or ability. Luck is for those who want to
explain why they lost, character and mental toughness are for those who say I can win and I will
win. If not this time; then next time. If not today; then tomorrow. Put much simpler by
someone more famous; “Ability may get you to the top, but it takes character to keep you
there.” – John Wooden
This is why teaching character is important. Not just for success now, but in the future. Our
world, especially our children’s’ future, grows more uncertain every day. We must realize and
in turn teach that we cannot guarantee success or failure, only how we respond to it. The
measure of our character determines that response, which is why we must remember Anne
Frank’s words; “The formation of a person’s character lies in their own hands.” Every moment,
every day counts. Which begs the question; what effort are you making today?