This document discusses differences between men and women in their focus during sex. It notes that men are often more visual and experiential, while women place more importance on the relational and emotional aspects of sex. The document recommends that couples improve communication, spend quality non-sexual time together like date nights, and that women express their needs for touch, talk and emotional intimacy to their husbands while men express their needs to feel affirmed and pursued. The homework is for couples to discuss improving their relationships.

1. Chapter 12: X3Pure Couples Series

2. Sex (continued)

3. Sex (continued)
• Differences between husbands and wives in
how they approach sex

4. Sex (continued)

5. Sex (continued)
• Difference in focus when it comes to sex

6. Sex (continued)
• Difference in focus when it comes to sex
• Men

7. Sex (continued)
• Difference in focus when it comes to sex
• Men
- More visual.

8. Sex (continued)
• Difference in focus when it comes to sex
• Men
- More visual.
- More experiential.

9. Sex (continued)
• Difference in focus when it comes to sex
• Men
- More visual.
- More experiential.
- Can overlook the relational side of sex.

10. Sex (continued)
• Difference in focus when it comes to sex
• Men
- More visual.
- More experiential.
- Can overlook the relational side of sex.
• Women

11. Sex (continued)
• Difference in focus when it comes to sex
• Men
- More visual.
- More experiential.
- Can overlook the relational side of sex.
• Women
- Sex is directly tied to relationship.

12. Sex (continued)
• Difference in focus when it comes to sex
• Men
- More visual.
- More experiential.
- Can overlook the relational side of sex.
• Women
- Sex is directly tied to relationship.
- Communication.

13. Sex (continued)
• Difference in focus when it comes to sex
• Men
- More visual.
- More experiential.
- Can overlook the relational side of sex.
• Women
- Sex is directly tied to relationship.
- Romance.
- Communication.

14. Sex (continued)
• Difference in focus when it comes to sex
• Men
- More visual.
- More experiential.
- Can overlook the relational side of sex.
• Women
- Sex is directly tied to relationship.
- Romance.
- Communication.
- If the relationship is suffering, sex is difficult for women.

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16. Sex (continued)
• Being in relationship is key in your sex life

17. Sex (continued)
• Being in relationship is key in your sex life
• Consider having a date night once a week

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19. Sex (continued)
• Women need a non-sexual touch

20. Sex (continued)
• Women need a non-sexual touch
• Conversation is sexual in nature for women

21. Sex (continued)
• Women need a non-sexual touch
• Conversation is sexual in nature for women
• Communication matters

22. Homework Assignment

23. Homework Assignment
• Go talk about your relationship

24. Homework Assignment
• Go talk about your relationship
• Women: Tell your husbands how important
communication and non-sexual touch & talk
are to your sex life.

25. Homework Assignment
• Go talk about your relationship
• Women: Tell your husbands how important
communication and non-sexual touch & talk
are to your sex life.
• Men: Tell you wives how important it is to feel
affirmed, respected and pursued.