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For Female Cancer Survivors Struggling To Feel Confident, Beautiful, & Sexy After Cancer: 
How Heal Your Relationship With Your Body 
So You Can Enjoy Deeper Relationships, Better 
Sex & More Joy In Your Life
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WHO IS THIS FOR 
If you’re a female cancer survivor… 
 who has no idea how to feel confident, 
beautiful, and sexy again. 
 who has low sexual desire and/or has lost 
the ability to have enjoyable sex. 
 who feels like your body has been mutilated 
… and you are having a hard time getting 
over the tremendous loss you’ve endured. 
 have a poor view of your body. 
 and are struggling to feel like a woman
SEXUALITY DEFINED
SEXUALITY DEFINED 
It’s a far-reaching term that includes: 
• Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching
SEXUALITY DEFINED 
It’s a far-reaching term that includes: 
• Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching 
• Sexual desires & drives
SEXUALITY DEFINED 
It’s a far-reaching term that includes: 
• Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching 
• Sexual desires & drives 
• Sexual identity
SEXUALITY DEFINED 
It’s a far-reaching term that includes: 
• Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching 
• Sexual desires & drives 
• Sexual identity 
• Personal expression of oneself (body image 
& expressions of femininity)
SEXUALITY DEFINED 
It’s a far-reaching term that includes: 
• Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching 
• Sexual desires & drives 
• Sexual identity 
• Personal expression of oneself (body image 
& expressions of femininity) 
• Personal expression of one’s romantic 
relationship(s) with others
SEXUALITY DEFINED 
It’s a far-reaching term that includes: 
• Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching 
• Sexual desires & drives 
• Sexual identity 
• Personal expression of oneself (body image 
& expressions of femininity) 
• Personal expression of one’s romantic 
relationship(s) with others 
• Human-ness & feelings of “aliveness”
ABOUT ME… 
• Come from a family of sex educators
ABOUT ME… 
• Come from a family of sex educators 
• Registered Nurse
ABOUT ME… 
• Come from a family of sex educators 
• Registered Nurse 
• Author of the book “Sexy…it’s not that 
serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size
ABOUT ME… 
• Come from a family of sex educators 
• Registered Nurse 
• Author of the book “Sexy…it’s not that 
serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size 
• Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line 
Therapist
ABOUT ME… 
• Come from a family of sex educators 
• Registered Nurse 
• Author of the book “Sexy…it’s not that 
serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size 
• Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line 
Therapist 
• Students all around the world (over 10,000)
ABOUT ME… 
• Come from a family of sex educators 
• Registered Nurse 
• Author of the book “Sexy…it’s not that 
serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size 
• Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line 
Therapist 
• Students all around the world (over 10,000) 
• Featured expert on many local, national and 
international radio and TV shows
ABOUT ME… 
• Come from a family of sex educators 
• Registered Nurse 
• Author of the book “Sexy…it’s not that 
serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size 
• Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line 
Therapist 
• Students all around the world (over 10,000) 
• Featured expert on many local, national and 
international radio and TV shows 
• Founder of “Tools To Thrive”
ABOUT ME… 
• Come from a family of sex educators 
• Registered Nurse 
• Author of the book “Sexy…it’s not that 
serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size 
• Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line 
Therapist 
• Students all around the world (over 10,000) 
• Featured expert on many local, national and 
international radio and TV shows 
• Founder of “Tools To Thrive” 
• Known for helping women heal their 
relationship with their body and, feel more 
confident, beautiful, and sexy – in their own 
ways and on their own terms.
ABOUT ME… 
• Come from a family of sex educators 
• Registered Nurse 
• Author of the book “Sexy…it’s not that 
serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size 
• Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line 
Therapist 
• Students all around the world (over 10,000) 
• Featured expert on many local, national and 
international radio and TV shows 
• Founder of “Tools To Thrive” 
• Known for helping women heal their 
relationship with their body and, feel more 
confident, beautiful, and sexy – in their own 
ways and on their own terms. 
And that’s what we are going to 
talk about today!
WHY CANCER SURVIVORS?
WHY CANCER SURVIVORS? 
BECAUSE OF … LOVE
ON THIS SESSION … 
• I’m going to show you a powerful, innovative 
and research based way to help you feel 
confident, beautiful, and sexy … easily and 
elegantly so you can START enjoying life on 
your terms again.
ON THIS SESSION … 
• I’m going to show you a powerful, innovative 
and research based way to help you feel 
confident, beautiful, and sexy … easily and 
elegantly so you can START enjoying life on 
your terms again. 
• An in-depth look at a process that helps other 
cancer survivors enjoy having what they want: 
an amazing relationship, incredible sex, a 
positive view about their body, etc.
The space after treatment is a where a cancer 
survivor is given the opportunity to move from 
surviving back into living.
The space after treatment is a where a cancer 
survivor is given the opportunity to move from 
surviving back into living. 
Enjoying Sex. Feeling Sexy. Feeling Confident. 
Feeling Beautiful. Are all parts of LIVING.
Integrating a new body image and personal sense 
of sexuality after cancer is CRITICAL.
ON THIS SESSION … 
• I will give you an in-depth look at how to feel 
confident, beautiful and sexy – right now!
ON THIS SESSION … 
• I will give you an in-depth look at how to feel 
confident, beautiful and sexy – right now! 
• WITHOUT needing to go buy the latest trends, 
put on tons of makeup, change your hair, buy a 
new a new wig, lose 10 pounds, gain 10 
pounds, or pretend you’re someone you’re not! 
It only has 3 steps!
ON THIS SESSION … 
• Why NOT having a process like this in place will 
keep you struggling with how you see your 
body, how you talk about your body, and how 
you feel about your body.
ON THIS SESSION … 
• Why NOT having a process like this in place will 
keep you struggling with how you see your 
body, how you talk about your body, and how 
you feel about your body. 
And, I’m going to show you exactly 
how you can flip it around right now!
THERE IS NOTHING 
FOR SALE. 
AND I HAVE A $100 PROCESS MAP 
FOR YOU
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? 
• You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, 
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? 
• You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, 
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole 
• You struggle with your weight
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? 
• You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, 
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole 
• You struggle with your weight 
• Your sex life sucks
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? 
• You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, 
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole 
• You struggle with your weight 
• Your sex life sucks 
• You feel lonely
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? 
• You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, 
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole 
• You struggle with your weight 
• Your sex life sucks 
• You feel lonely 
• You feel like you have to be silent
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? 
• You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, 
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole 
• You struggle with your weight 
• Your sex life sucks 
• You feel lonely 
• You feel like you have to be silent 
• You’re tired of people telling you how good you 
look … because you feel awful inside
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? 
• You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, 
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole 
• You struggle with your weight 
• Your sex life sucks 
• You feel lonely 
• You feel like you have to be silent 
• You’re tired of people telling you how good you 
look … because you feel awful inside 
• Your relationship has been negatively impacted
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? 
• You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, 
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole 
• You struggle with your weight 
• Your sex life sucks 
• You feel lonely 
• You feel like you have to be silent 
• You’re tired of people telling you how good you 
look … because you feel awful inside 
• Your relationship has been negatively impacted 
• You’re scared to get into a relationship
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? 
• You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, 
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole 
• You struggle with your weight 
• Your sex life sucks 
• You feel lonely 
• You feel like you have to be silent 
• You’re tired of people telling you how good you 
look … because you feel awful inside 
• Your relationship has been negatively impacted 
• You’re scared to get into a relationship 
• You’re constantly reminded of cancer because of 
the way your body looks and feels
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? 
• You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, 
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole 
• You struggle with your weight 
• Your sex life sucks 
• You feel lonely 
• You feel like you have to be silent 
• You’re tired of people telling you how good you 
look … because you feel awful inside 
• Your relationship has been negatively impacted 
• You’re scared to get into a relationship 
• You’re constantly reminded of cancer because of 
the way your body looks and feels 
• Even after months or years, you still feel many 
negative emotions resultant of the cancer
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? 
• You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, 
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole 
• You struggle with your weight 
• Your sex life sucks 
• You feel lonely 
• You feel like you have to be silent 
• You’re tired of people telling you how good you 
look … because you feel awful inside 
• Your relationship has been negatively impacted 
• You’re scared to get into a relationship 
• You’re constantly reminded of cancer because of 
the way your body looks and feels 
• Even after months or years, you still feel many 
negative emotions resultant of the cancer 
• You feel radically changed as a woman, almost 
like your womanhood has been robbed from you
HOW MUCH TIME ARE YOU SPENDING 
IN SURVIVAL MODE?
THE REAL PROBLEM? 
YOU DON’T HAVE A CDE PROCESS
IF YOU HAD ONE … 
1. You would know that you as you are (right now!) 
is perfect.
IF YOU HAD ONE … 
1. You would know that you as you are (right now!) 
is perfect. 
1. You’d have a deeper understanding of what you 
need to do to have a meaningful sexual 
relationship that nurtures and supports your new 
sexuality needs
IF YOU HAD ONE … 
1. You would know that you as you are (right now!) 
is perfect. 
1. You’d have a deeper understanding of what you 
need to do to have a meaningful sexual 
relationship that nurtures and supports your new 
sexuality needs 
1. When people tell you how good you look … you 
would say “thank you” because you would 
appreciate the truth in their statement.
IF YOU HAD ONE … 
5. Your relationship would blossom and you 
experience deeper levels of intimacy with your 
partner.
IF YOU HAD ONE … 
5. Your relationship would blossom and you 
experience deeper levels of intimacy with your 
partner. 
6. If you’re single, you’ll find a partner who would 
love, appreciate, and honor you and your 
experiences.
YES, YOU REALLY CAN 
FEEL CONFIDENT, BEAUTIFUL & SEXY TODAY!
THE GAME PLAN…
THE GAME PLAN… 
Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL 
confidence and self esteem boosting process 
so you can see how and why it works.
THE GAME PLAN… 
Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL 
confidence and self esteem boosting process 
so you can see how and why it works. 
Part Two: I’m going to show you how to do 
this yourself, in the comfort of your home!
THE GAME PLAN… 
Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL 
confidence and self esteem boosting process 
so you can see how and why it works. 
Part Two: I’m going to show you how to do 
this yourself, in the comfort of your home! 
1. Clear
THE GAME PLAN… 
Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL 
confidence and self esteem boosting process 
so you can see how and why it works. 
Part Two: I’m going to show you how to do 
this yourself, in the comfort of your home! 
1. Clear 
2. Decide & Define
THE GAME PLAN… 
Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL 
confidence and self esteem boosting process 
so you can see how and why it works. 
Part Two: I’m going to show you how to do 
this yourself, in the comfort of your home! 
1. Clear 
2. Decide & Define 
3. Enforce & Enjoy
THE CDE PROCESS:
THE CDE PROCESS: 
1. CLEAR
THE CDE PROCESS: 
1. CLEAR 
2. DECIDE & DEFINE
THE CDE PROCESS: 
1. CLEAR 
2. DECIDE & DEFINE 
3. ENFORCE & ENJOY
WHEN YOU GET THIS… 
You will feel beautiful, confident and sexy – in your own 
ways and on your own terms. Everyday. 
There’s no magic pill. There’s no complicated workout 
routine to follow. 
This means you will have: more energy to focus on 
what you want (and enjoy getting it!), better 
relationships, a more positive view about your body, a 
new understanding of how you can enjoy sex again, 
authentic confidence, freedom from negative 
emotions, and freedom to really enjoy your life.
“The quality of sexiness comes from within. 
It is something that is in you or it isn't and it 
really doesn't have much to do with breasts 
or thighs or the pout of your lips.” 
Sophia Loren
… and the good news is …
… and the good news is … 
IT CAN BE LEARNED!
What would happen if you stripped away your 
disbelief, your negative emotions, and your limiting 
decisions … and really connected with the core of 
who you are?
EUREKA!
The Warrior Woman Cancer Survivor
SARAH’S STORY 
• She is a cancer survivor 
• She did 12 rounds of chemo and the 
cancer was surgically removed from 
her body 
• She felt ugly and flawed. 
• She felt tired and not like herself 
• She searched to find meaning from 
her illness. 
• She searched to find wholeness. 
• She did the CDE process and within 
the first day she started things 
started to shift… 
“It was like I was given a new set of lenses to 
view the world. The CDE process has changed 
my life for the better.”
THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAIN… 
• You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again.
THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAIN… 
• You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again. 
• You’ll never hear the hurtful words that cycle through your private thoughts.
THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAIN… 
• You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again. 
• You’ll never hear the hurtful words that cycle through your private thoughts. 
• You will never feel less than, or not good enough again.
THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAIN… 
• You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again. 
• You’ll never hear the hurtful words that cycle through your private thoughts. 
• You will never feel less than, or not good enough again. 
• You will never have to have a hole in your sex life and relationship again.
THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAIN… 
• You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again. 
• You’ll never hear the hurtful words that cycle through your private thoughts. 
• You will never feel less than, or not good enough again. 
• You will never have to have a hole in your sex life and relationship again. 
• You’ll never have to silently wrestle with loneliness again.
IS YOUR MINDSET 
ALLOWING YOU TO FEEL AS CONFIDENT, BEAUTIFUL & AS SEXY AS YOU WANT?
IF NOT…HERE’S HOW IT’S DONE 
INSIDE THE CDE PROCESS
HOW IT WORKS 
•NEGATIVE 
EMOTIONS 
•LIMITING 
DECISIONS 
CLEAR WHAT YOU 
WANT DECIDE 
•BOUNDARIES 
•GETTING 
WHAT YOU 
WANT 
ENFORCE 
ENJOY
FIRST … LET’S 
FRAME AN 
IMPORTANT 
CONCEPT!
ARE YOU AT CAUSE FOR WHAT 
HAPPENS IN YOUR LIFE? 
OR, ARE YOU AT EFFECT?
CAUSE 
CREATE LIFE 
FEEL POWERFUL 
ACTION SEAT 
SEE CHOICES 
SEE 
OPPORTUNITITES 
EFFECT 
BLAME 
VICTIM 
FEEL POWERLESS 
FEEL LIKE HAVE 
NO CHOICES
“Whether you 
think you can, or 
you think you 
can't--you're 
right.” 
― Henry Ford
STEP ONE: CLEAR 
CLEAR NEGATIVE EMOTIONS & LIMITING DECISIONS
THE GOOD NEWS … 
THEY’RE HIDING IN PLAIN SIGHT!
WHERE ARE THEY HIDING…?
WHAT ARE YOU REPEATEDLY THINKING 
AND SAYING TO YOURSELF AND 
OTHERS? 
A HUGE key to understanding what’s 
contributing to you remaining where you are.
Albert Einstein said it best … 
“Insanity: doing the 
same thing over and 
over again and 
expecting different 
results.”
Imagine for a moment ….
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE CLEAR 
NEGATIVE EMOTIONS…
EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS: 
• I can’t have a healthy relationship or sex life because 
I’ve experienced cancer
EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS: 
• I can’t have a healthy relationship or sex life because 
I’ve experienced cancer 
• I’ll never be whole again
EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS: 
• I can’t have a healthy relationship or sex life because 
I’ve experienced cancer 
• I’ll never be whole again 
• No one will ever find me sexy
EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS: 
• I can’t have a healthy relationship or sex life because 
I’ve experienced cancer 
• I’ll never be whole again 
• No one will ever find me sexy 
• I’m not beautiful anymore
EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS: 
• I can’t have a healthy relationship or sex life because 
I’ve experienced cancer 
• I’ll never be whole again 
• No one will ever find me sexy 
• I’m not beautiful anymore 
• I can never be beautiful again
EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS: 
• I can’t have a healthy relationship or sex life because 
I’ve experienced cancer 
• I’ll never be whole again 
• No one will ever find me sexy 
• I’m not beautiful anymore 
• I can never be beautiful again 
• Cancer robbed me of my confidence and womanhood
DID ANY OF THESE RESONATE?
WHAT IF YOU CHOSE INSTEAD… 
• To have the most healthy relationship and sex life 
• I’m going to use my cancer experience as a vehicle to 
bring me into an even more fully expressed sense of 
wholeness. 
• Embodying me fully, including my cancer, will make me 
irresistible to people! 
• I AM beautiful! 
• I AM confident! 
• I AM sexy!
STEP TWO: DECIDE 
DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT
IF YOU COULD GIFT YOURSELF WITH 
WHATEVER YOU WANT, WHAT WOULD 
YOU CHOOSE?
waiter…?
WAITER…!!!
What would you like?
PART THREE: ENFORCE BOUNDARIES & 
ENJOY YOUR RESULTS! 
YOU’VE WORKED HARD. NOW. ENJOY.
WHY BOUNDARIES?
WHY BOUNDARIES? 
• Do you decide something for yourself then cave in 
every time someone asks you for a favor or asks 
you to do something you don’t really want to do?
WHY BOUNDARIES? 
• Do you decide something for yourself then cave in 
every time someone asks you for a favor or asks 
you to do something you don’t really want to do? 
• Do you say yes and then complain or feel 
resentment afterwards?
WHY BOUNDARIES? 
• Do you decide something for yourself then cave in 
every time someone asks you for a favor or asks 
you to do something you don’t really want to do? 
• Do you say yes and then complain or feel 
resentment afterwards? 
• Does saying ‘No’ to one or more people in your life 
feel like a courageous undertaking best left to 
others?
WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES? 
• A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself.
WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES? 
• A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself. 
• They significantly reduce drama by honoring both you and the 
person requesting your time, money, or energy.
WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES? 
• A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself. 
• They significantly reduce drama by honoring both you and the 
person requesting your time, money, or energy. 
• A key element of a boundary is a known consequence for 
breaking it.
WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES? 
• A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself. 
• They significantly reduce drama by honoring both you and the 
person requesting your time, money, or energy. 
• A key element of a boundary is a known consequence for 
breaking it. 
• Boundaries will be tested up to three times. Be prepared to 
stick to your guns. Every time you cave means starting all over 
again.
WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES? 
• A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself. 
• They significantly reduce drama by honoring both you and the 
person requesting your time, money, or energy. 
• A key element of a boundary is a known consequence for 
breaking it. 
• Boundaries will be tested up to three times. Be prepared to 
stick to your guns. Every time you cave means starting all over 
again. 
• We teach others what our boundaries really are through 
behavior not our words.
BEDTIME EXAMPLE…
“The way to get started is to quit 
talking and start doing” 
Walt Disney
CONSEQUENCES 
• Consequences are what happen when someone does not 
keep their end of the agreement.
CONSEQUENCES 
• Consequences are what happen when someone does not 
keep their end of the agreement. 
• They eliminate the drama when everyone is aware of them 
in advance. It becomes about the other person’s choice to 
accept the consequence instead about you saying no.
CONSEQUENCES 
• Consequences are what happen when someone does not 
keep their end of the agreement (you or the other person). 
• They eliminate the drama when everyone is aware of them 
in advance. It becomes about the other person’s choice to 
accept the consequence instead about you saying no. 
• They need to be appropriate for the circumstances to be 
effective.
CONSEQUENCES 
• Consequences are what happen when someone does not 
keep their end of the agreement. 
• They eliminate the drama when everyone is aware of them 
in advance. It becomes about the other person’s choice to 
accept the consequence instead about you saying no. 
• They need to be appropriate for the circumstances to be 
effective. 
Setting a consequence you are unwilling to invoke will mean 
your word is worthless – remember words are cheap – deeds 
speak.
HOW TO SET A BOUNDARY 
THREE IMPORTANT STEPS 
Step 1 – External – there will be a request of your time, money, or energy.
HOW TO SET A BOUNDARY 
THREE IMPORTANT STEPS 
Step 1 – External – there will be a request of your time, money, or energy. 
Step 2 – Internal – missed by most people, this is an important internal check that 
consists of three questions. 
1) Do I have it to give? 
2) Do I want to give it? 
3) Under what conditions am I willing to give it?
HOW TO SET A BOUNDARY 
THREE IMPORTANT STEPS 
Step 1 – External – there will be a request of your time, money, or energy. 
Step 2 – Internal – missed by most people, this is an important internal check that 
consists of three questions. 
1) Do I have it to give? 
2) Do I want to give it? 
3) Under what conditions am I willing to give it? 
Step 3 – External – Negotiations - get back in touch with the person and deliver your 
conditions and the consequence.
HOW TO SET A BOUNDARY 
THREE IMPORTANT STEPS 
Step 1 – External – there will be a request of your time, money, or energy. 
Step 2 – Internal – missed by most people, this is an important internal check that 
consists of three questions. 
1) Do I have it to give? 
2) Do I want to give it? 
3) Under what conditions am I willing to give it? 
Step 3 – External – Negotiations - get back in touch with the person and deliver your 
conditions and the consequence. 
Note: one caveat – If you use this process and 
say ‘yes’ to someone – no complaining! You decided so move 
forward with a joyous heart – that’s the rule.
WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!! 
 You’d get what you want
WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!! 
 You’d get what you want 
 You’d feel happier
WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!! 
 You’d get what you want 
 You’d feel happier 
 You’d feel more confident, beautiful & sexy!
WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!! 
 You’d get what you want 
 You’d feel happier 
 You’d feel more confident, beautiful & sexy! 
 You’d feel seen & heard
WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!! 
 You’d get what you want 
 You’d feel happier 
 You’d feel more confident, beautiful & sexy! 
 You’d feel seen & heard 
 You’d spend less time in the eddies of life and more time enjoying!
WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!! 
 You’d get what you want 
 You’d feel happier 
 You’d feel more confident, beautiful & sexy! 
 You’d feel seen & heard 
 You’d spend less time in the eddies of life and more time enjoying! 
BOUNDARIES ARE THE SECRET KEY TO FEELING 
CONFIDENT, SEXY AND BEAUTIFUL ALL THE TIME!
RECAP of STEP #1 
THE CDE PROCESS IS SIMPLE & HAS 3 STEPS: 
1) CLEAR 
2) DECIDE & DEFINE 
3) ENFORCE BOUNDARIES & ENJOY
PART #2: 
HOW TO DO THIS YOURSELF 
1. CLEAR NEGATIVE EMOTIONS &LIMITING 
DECISIONS 
2. DECIDE & DEFINE WHAT YOU WANT 
3. ENFORCE BOUNDARIES & ENJOY YOUR RESULTS 
(BECAUSE YOU’VE GOTTEN WHAT YOU WANT!)
OUR PROCESS… 
•NEGATIVE 
EMOTIONS 
•LIMITING 
DECISIONS 
CLEAR 
WHAT YOU 
WANT 
DECIDE 
& DEFINE 
- 
BOUNDARIES 
-GETTING 
WHAT YOU 
WANT 
ENFORCE 
& ENJOY
OUR PROCESS… 
This is the simple, elegant process we’ll be using. 
It’s efficient. It’s effective. It gets us the results we 
are craving. 
•NEGATIVE 
EMOTIONS 
•LIMITING 
DECISIONS 
CLEAR 
WHAT YOU 
WANT 
DECIDE 
& DEFINE 
- 
BOUNDARIES 
-GETTING 
WHAT YOU 
WANT 
ENFORCE 
& ENJOY
“Your greatest self has 
been waiting your whole 
life; don't make it wait 
any longer.” 
― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free
HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE 
IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU
HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE 
IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU 
1) CLEAR negative emotions & limiting 
decisions
HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE 
IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU 
1) CLEAR negative emotions & limiting 
decisions 
2) DECIDE & DEFINE what you want
HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE 
IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU 
1) CLEAR negative emotions & limiting 
decisions 
2) DECIDE what you want 
3) ENFORCE boundaries & ENJOY having 
what you want!
HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE 
IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU 
1) CLEAR negative emotions & limiting 
decisions 
2) DECIDE & DEFINE what you want 
3) ENFORCE boundaries & ENJOY having 
what you want! 
It REALLY IS that simple!
STEP 1: CLEAR
CLEAR NEGATIVE EMOTIONS
CLEAR LIMITING DECISIONS
HERE’S HOW YOU DO THIS:
HERE’S HOW YOU DO THIS: 
1) Become aware of recurring thoughts and things that you say when 
you’re either thinking about or talking about having what you 
want
HERE’S HOW YOU DO THIS: 
1) Become aware of recurring thoughts and things that you say when 
you’re either thinking about or talking about having what you 
want 
2) Note any negative emotions and limiting decisions that come up 
that are keeping you STUCK in your problem.
HERE’S HOW YOU DO THIS: 
1) Become aware of recurring thoughts and things that you say when 
you’re either thinking about or talking about having what you 
want 
2) Note any negative emotions and limiting decisions that come up 
that are keeping you STUCK in your problem. 
3) Identify the root issue(s). What are the biggest issues or themes?
HERE’S HOW YOU DO THIS: 
1) Become aware of recurring thoughts and things that you say when 
you’re either thinking about or talking about having what you 
want 
2) Note any negative emotions and limiting decisions that come up 
that are keeping you STUCK in your problem. 
3) Identify the root issue(s). What are the biggest issues or themes? 
4) Decide you want to let them go and allow your neurology to 
release them.
CLEARING CHECKLIST
CLEARING CHECKLIST 
 WHAT ARE YOU SAYING THAT IS CREATING YOUR 
REALITY?
CLEARING CHECKLIST 
 WHAT ARE YOU SAYING THAT IS CREATING YOUR 
REALITY? 
 WHAT NEGATIVE EMOTIONS KEEP COMING UP WHEN 
YOU THINK/TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT?
CLEARING CHECKLIST 
 WHAT ARE YOU SAYING THAT IS CREATING YOUR 
REALITY? 
 WHAT NEGATIVE EMOTIONS KEEP COMING UP WHEN 
YOU THINK/TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT? 
 WHAT LIMITING DECISIONS COME UP WHEN YOU 
THINK/TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT?
ROOT CLEARING TIP
ROOT CLEARING TIP 
The real issue is likely that you feel “UN” 
something …
ROOT CLEARING TIP 
The real issue is likely that you feel “UN” 
something … 
 Unworthy
ROOT CLEARING TIP 
The real issue is likely that you feel “UN” 
something … 
 Unworthy 
 Unlovable
ROOT CLEARING TIP 
The real issue is likely that you feel “UN” 
something … 
 Unworthy 
 Unlovable 
 Undeserving
ROOT CLEARING TIP 
The real issue is likely that you feel “UN” 
something … 
 Unworthy 
 Unlovable 
 Undeserving 
 Undesirable
ROOT CLEARING TIP 
The real issue is likely that you feel “UN” 
something … 
 Unworthy 
 Unlovable 
 Undeserving 
 Undesirable 
 Not good enough
STEP TWO: DECIDE 
DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT
DECISION TIP ONE: 
FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT
“Where focus goes, 
energy flows. And if 
you don’t take the 
time to focus on 
what matters, then 
you’re living a life 
of someone else’s 
design.” 
- Tony Robbins, peak performance 
coach, entrepreneur and best-selling 
author.
TIPS TO DISCOVER WHAT YOU 
REALLY WANT!
TIPS TO DISCOVER WHAT YOU 
REALLY WANT! 
Tip #1: Give yourself permission to really explore 
what you really want.
TIPS TO DISCOVER WHAT YOU 
REALLY WANT! 
Tip #1: Give yourself permission to really explore 
what you really want. 
Tip #2: Decide what you want.
TIPS TO DISCOVER WHAT YOU 
REALLY WANT! 
Tip #1: Give yourself permission to really explore 
what you really want. 
Tip #2: Decide what you want. 
Tip #3: Focus on that and forget the rest!
TIPS TO DISCOVER WHAT YOU 
REALLY WANT! 
BONUS TIP: 
Take small daily actions to move you 
closer to your goal.
STEP #3: ENFORCE YOUR BOUNDARIES 
& 
ENJOY HAVING WHAT YOU WANT
BOUNDARY FLOW CHART 
A demand is made of your Energy, Money, or Time 
Decide if you have the money, energy or time 
to do it. 
Yes you do. 
Determine what parameters you are willing to 
do it under & identify the consequences if those 
parameters are not honored 
Honor the 
boundaries 
you’ve set 
No you don’t 
Say “No” and 
stick with that 
response.
ENJOY GETTING WHAT YOU WANT!
ENJOY GETTING WHAT YOU WANT! 
Relax!
ENJOY GETTING WHAT YOU WANT! 
Relax! 
Receive!
ENJOY GETTING WHAT YOU WANT! 
Relax! 
Receive! 
Rejoice!
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 And why it can set you free to have exactly what you want easily, 
effortlessly, and elegantly!
SEE?
THERE IS A LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL!
OUR PROCESS… 
(what you need to win) 
•NEGATIVE 
EMOTIONS 
•LIMITING 
DECISIONS 
CLEAR 
WHAT YOU 
DECIDE WANT 
- 
BOUNDARIES 
-GETTING 
WHAT YOU 
WANT 
ENFORCE 
& ENJOY 
A process like this, when done right, can help you feel confident, 
beautiful, and sexy in every area of your life. Easily. Effortlessly. 
So you have more time to spend on enjoying your amazing life!
IN THE NEXT 30 DAYS… 
YOU CAN CLEAR YOUR NEGATIVE EMOTIONS & LIMITING 
DECISIONS, DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT & ENJOY HAVING IT!!!
THINK: WHAT THIS IS COSTING Y0U 
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YOU HAVE A CHOICE.
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Webinar for Female Cancer Survivors: How to heal your relationship with your body so you can enjoy deeper relationships, better sex, and more joy in your life!

  • 1. For Female Cancer Survivors Struggling To Feel Confident, Beautiful, & Sexy After Cancer: How Heal Your Relationship With Your Body So You Can Enjoy Deeper Relationships, Better Sex & More Joy In Your Life
  • 2. HOW TO INTERACT TODAY: Type question here Raise your virtual hand to ask an audio question at the end Type your comments and questions here throughout #morgan_toombs
  • 3. WHO IS THIS FOR If you’re a female cancer survivor…  who has no idea how to feel confident, beautiful, and sexy again.  who has low sexual desire and/or has lost the ability to have enjoyable sex.  who feels like your body has been mutilated … and you are having a hard time getting over the tremendous loss you’ve endured.  have a poor view of your body.  and are struggling to feel like a woman
  • 5. SEXUALITY DEFINED It’s a far-reaching term that includes: • Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching
  • 6. SEXUALITY DEFINED It’s a far-reaching term that includes: • Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching • Sexual desires & drives
  • 7. SEXUALITY DEFINED It’s a far-reaching term that includes: • Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching • Sexual desires & drives • Sexual identity
  • 8. SEXUALITY DEFINED It’s a far-reaching term that includes: • Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching • Sexual desires & drives • Sexual identity • Personal expression of oneself (body image & expressions of femininity)
  • 9. SEXUALITY DEFINED It’s a far-reaching term that includes: • Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching • Sexual desires & drives • Sexual identity • Personal expression of oneself (body image & expressions of femininity) • Personal expression of one’s romantic relationship(s) with others
  • 10. SEXUALITY DEFINED It’s a far-reaching term that includes: • Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching • Sexual desires & drives • Sexual identity • Personal expression of oneself (body image & expressions of femininity) • Personal expression of one’s romantic relationship(s) with others • Human-ness & feelings of “aliveness”
  • 11. ABOUT ME… • Come from a family of sex educators
  • 12. ABOUT ME… • Come from a family of sex educators • Registered Nurse
  • 13. ABOUT ME… • Come from a family of sex educators • Registered Nurse • Author of the book “Sexy…it’s not that serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size
  • 14. ABOUT ME… • Come from a family of sex educators • Registered Nurse • Author of the book “Sexy…it’s not that serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size • Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line Therapist
  • 15. ABOUT ME… • Come from a family of sex educators • Registered Nurse • Author of the book “Sexy…it’s not that serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size • Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line Therapist • Students all around the world (over 10,000)
  • 16. ABOUT ME… • Come from a family of sex educators • Registered Nurse • Author of the book “Sexy…it’s not that serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size • Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line Therapist • Students all around the world (over 10,000) • Featured expert on many local, national and international radio and TV shows
  • 17. ABOUT ME… • Come from a family of sex educators • Registered Nurse • Author of the book “Sexy…it’s not that serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size • Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line Therapist • Students all around the world (over 10,000) • Featured expert on many local, national and international radio and TV shows • Founder of “Tools To Thrive”
  • 18. ABOUT ME… • Come from a family of sex educators • Registered Nurse • Author of the book “Sexy…it’s not that serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size • Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line Therapist • Students all around the world (over 10,000) • Featured expert on many local, national and international radio and TV shows • Founder of “Tools To Thrive” • Known for helping women heal their relationship with their body and, feel more confident, beautiful, and sexy – in their own ways and on their own terms.
  • 19. ABOUT ME… • Come from a family of sex educators • Registered Nurse • Author of the book “Sexy…it’s not that serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size • Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line Therapist • Students all around the world (over 10,000) • Featured expert on many local, national and international radio and TV shows • Founder of “Tools To Thrive” • Known for helping women heal their relationship with their body and, feel more confident, beautiful, and sexy – in their own ways and on their own terms. And that’s what we are going to talk about today!
  • 21. WHY CANCER SURVIVORS? BECAUSE OF … LOVE
  • 22. ON THIS SESSION … • I’m going to show you a powerful, innovative and research based way to help you feel confident, beautiful, and sexy … easily and elegantly so you can START enjoying life on your terms again.
  • 23. ON THIS SESSION … • I’m going to show you a powerful, innovative and research based way to help you feel confident, beautiful, and sexy … easily and elegantly so you can START enjoying life on your terms again. • An in-depth look at a process that helps other cancer survivors enjoy having what they want: an amazing relationship, incredible sex, a positive view about their body, etc.
  • 24. The space after treatment is a where a cancer survivor is given the opportunity to move from surviving back into living.
  • 25. The space after treatment is a where a cancer survivor is given the opportunity to move from surviving back into living. Enjoying Sex. Feeling Sexy. Feeling Confident. Feeling Beautiful. Are all parts of LIVING.
  • 26. Integrating a new body image and personal sense of sexuality after cancer is CRITICAL.
  • 27. ON THIS SESSION … • I will give you an in-depth look at how to feel confident, beautiful and sexy – right now!
  • 28. ON THIS SESSION … • I will give you an in-depth look at how to feel confident, beautiful and sexy – right now! • WITHOUT needing to go buy the latest trends, put on tons of makeup, change your hair, buy a new a new wig, lose 10 pounds, gain 10 pounds, or pretend you’re someone you’re not! It only has 3 steps!
  • 29. ON THIS SESSION … • Why NOT having a process like this in place will keep you struggling with how you see your body, how you talk about your body, and how you feel about your body.
  • 30. ON THIS SESSION … • Why NOT having a process like this in place will keep you struggling with how you see your body, how you talk about your body, and how you feel about your body. And, I’m going to show you exactly how you can flip it around right now!
  • 31. THERE IS NOTHING FOR SALE. AND I HAVE A $100 PROCESS MAP FOR YOU
  • 32. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? • You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, flawed, defective, devalued or not whole
  • 33. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? • You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, flawed, defective, devalued or not whole • You struggle with your weight
  • 34. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? • You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, flawed, defective, devalued or not whole • You struggle with your weight • Your sex life sucks
  • 35. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? • You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, flawed, defective, devalued or not whole • You struggle with your weight • Your sex life sucks • You feel lonely
  • 36. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? • You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, flawed, defective, devalued or not whole • You struggle with your weight • Your sex life sucks • You feel lonely • You feel like you have to be silent
  • 37. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? • You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, flawed, defective, devalued or not whole • You struggle with your weight • Your sex life sucks • You feel lonely • You feel like you have to be silent • You’re tired of people telling you how good you look … because you feel awful inside
  • 38. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? • You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, flawed, defective, devalued or not whole • You struggle with your weight • Your sex life sucks • You feel lonely • You feel like you have to be silent • You’re tired of people telling you how good you look … because you feel awful inside • Your relationship has been negatively impacted
  • 39. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? • You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, flawed, defective, devalued or not whole • You struggle with your weight • Your sex life sucks • You feel lonely • You feel like you have to be silent • You’re tired of people telling you how good you look … because you feel awful inside • Your relationship has been negatively impacted • You’re scared to get into a relationship
  • 40. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? • You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, flawed, defective, devalued or not whole • You struggle with your weight • Your sex life sucks • You feel lonely • You feel like you have to be silent • You’re tired of people telling you how good you look … because you feel awful inside • Your relationship has been negatively impacted • You’re scared to get into a relationship • You’re constantly reminded of cancer because of the way your body looks and feels
  • 41. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? • You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, flawed, defective, devalued or not whole • You struggle with your weight • Your sex life sucks • You feel lonely • You feel like you have to be silent • You’re tired of people telling you how good you look … because you feel awful inside • Your relationship has been negatively impacted • You’re scared to get into a relationship • You’re constantly reminded of cancer because of the way your body looks and feels • Even after months or years, you still feel many negative emotions resultant of the cancer
  • 42. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU? • You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged, flawed, defective, devalued or not whole • You struggle with your weight • Your sex life sucks • You feel lonely • You feel like you have to be silent • You’re tired of people telling you how good you look … because you feel awful inside • Your relationship has been negatively impacted • You’re scared to get into a relationship • You’re constantly reminded of cancer because of the way your body looks and feels • Even after months or years, you still feel many negative emotions resultant of the cancer • You feel radically changed as a woman, almost like your womanhood has been robbed from you
  • 43. HOW MUCH TIME ARE YOU SPENDING IN SURVIVAL MODE?
  • 44. THE REAL PROBLEM? YOU DON’T HAVE A CDE PROCESS
  • 45. IF YOU HAD ONE … 1. You would know that you as you are (right now!) is perfect.
  • 46. IF YOU HAD ONE … 1. You would know that you as you are (right now!) is perfect. 1. You’d have a deeper understanding of what you need to do to have a meaningful sexual relationship that nurtures and supports your new sexuality needs
  • 47. IF YOU HAD ONE … 1. You would know that you as you are (right now!) is perfect. 1. You’d have a deeper understanding of what you need to do to have a meaningful sexual relationship that nurtures and supports your new sexuality needs 1. When people tell you how good you look … you would say “thank you” because you would appreciate the truth in their statement.
  • 48. IF YOU HAD ONE … 5. Your relationship would blossom and you experience deeper levels of intimacy with your partner.
  • 49. IF YOU HAD ONE … 5. Your relationship would blossom and you experience deeper levels of intimacy with your partner. 6. If you’re single, you’ll find a partner who would love, appreciate, and honor you and your experiences.
  • 50. YES, YOU REALLY CAN FEEL CONFIDENT, BEAUTIFUL & SEXY TODAY!
  • 52. THE GAME PLAN… Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL confidence and self esteem boosting process so you can see how and why it works.
  • 53. THE GAME PLAN… Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL confidence and self esteem boosting process so you can see how and why it works. Part Two: I’m going to show you how to do this yourself, in the comfort of your home!
  • 54. THE GAME PLAN… Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL confidence and self esteem boosting process so you can see how and why it works. Part Two: I’m going to show you how to do this yourself, in the comfort of your home! 1. Clear
  • 55. THE GAME PLAN… Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL confidence and self esteem boosting process so you can see how and why it works. Part Two: I’m going to show you how to do this yourself, in the comfort of your home! 1. Clear 2. Decide & Define
  • 56. THE GAME PLAN… Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL confidence and self esteem boosting process so you can see how and why it works. Part Two: I’m going to show you how to do this yourself, in the comfort of your home! 1. Clear 2. Decide & Define 3. Enforce & Enjoy
  • 58. THE CDE PROCESS: 1. CLEAR
  • 59. THE CDE PROCESS: 1. CLEAR 2. DECIDE & DEFINE
  • 60. THE CDE PROCESS: 1. CLEAR 2. DECIDE & DEFINE 3. ENFORCE & ENJOY
  • 61. WHEN YOU GET THIS… You will feel beautiful, confident and sexy – in your own ways and on your own terms. Everyday. There’s no magic pill. There’s no complicated workout routine to follow. This means you will have: more energy to focus on what you want (and enjoy getting it!), better relationships, a more positive view about your body, a new understanding of how you can enjoy sex again, authentic confidence, freedom from negative emotions, and freedom to really enjoy your life.
  • 62. “The quality of sexiness comes from within. It is something that is in you or it isn't and it really doesn't have much to do with breasts or thighs or the pout of your lips.” Sophia Loren
  • 63. … and the good news is …
  • 64. … and the good news is … IT CAN BE LEARNED!
  • 65. What would happen if you stripped away your disbelief, your negative emotions, and your limiting decisions … and really connected with the core of who you are?
  • 67. The Warrior Woman Cancer Survivor
  • 68. SARAH’S STORY • She is a cancer survivor • She did 12 rounds of chemo and the cancer was surgically removed from her body • She felt ugly and flawed. • She felt tired and not like herself • She searched to find meaning from her illness. • She searched to find wholeness. • She did the CDE process and within the first day she started things started to shift… “It was like I was given a new set of lenses to view the world. The CDE process has changed my life for the better.”
  • 69. THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAIN… • You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again.
  • 70. THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAIN… • You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again. • You’ll never hear the hurtful words that cycle through your private thoughts.
  • 71. THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAIN… • You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again. • You’ll never hear the hurtful words that cycle through your private thoughts. • You will never feel less than, or not good enough again.
  • 72. THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAIN… • You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again. • You’ll never hear the hurtful words that cycle through your private thoughts. • You will never feel less than, or not good enough again. • You will never have to have a hole in your sex life and relationship again.
  • 73. THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAIN… • You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again. • You’ll never hear the hurtful words that cycle through your private thoughts. • You will never feel less than, or not good enough again. • You will never have to have a hole in your sex life and relationship again. • You’ll never have to silently wrestle with loneliness again.
  • 74. IS YOUR MINDSET ALLOWING YOU TO FEEL AS CONFIDENT, BEAUTIFUL & AS SEXY AS YOU WANT?
  • 75. IF NOT…HERE’S HOW IT’S DONE INSIDE THE CDE PROCESS
  • 76. HOW IT WORKS •NEGATIVE EMOTIONS •LIMITING DECISIONS CLEAR WHAT YOU WANT DECIDE •BOUNDARIES •GETTING WHAT YOU WANT ENFORCE ENJOY
  • 77. FIRST … LET’S FRAME AN IMPORTANT CONCEPT!
  • 78. ARE YOU AT CAUSE FOR WHAT HAPPENS IN YOUR LIFE? OR, ARE YOU AT EFFECT?
  • 79. CAUSE CREATE LIFE FEEL POWERFUL ACTION SEAT SEE CHOICES SEE OPPORTUNITITES EFFECT BLAME VICTIM FEEL POWERLESS FEEL LIKE HAVE NO CHOICES
  • 80. “Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.” ― Henry Ford
  • 81. STEP ONE: CLEAR CLEAR NEGATIVE EMOTIONS & LIMITING DECISIONS
  • 82. THE GOOD NEWS … THEY’RE HIDING IN PLAIN SIGHT!
  • 83. WHERE ARE THEY HIDING…?
  • 84.
  • 85. WHAT ARE YOU REPEATEDLY THINKING AND SAYING TO YOURSELF AND OTHERS? A HUGE key to understanding what’s contributing to you remaining where you are.
  • 86. Albert Einstein said it best … “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
  • 87. Imagine for a moment ….
  • 88.
  • 89. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE CLEAR NEGATIVE EMOTIONS…
  • 90.
  • 91. EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS: • I can’t have a healthy relationship or sex life because I’ve experienced cancer
  • 92. EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS: • I can’t have a healthy relationship or sex life because I’ve experienced cancer • I’ll never be whole again
  • 93. EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS: • I can’t have a healthy relationship or sex life because I’ve experienced cancer • I’ll never be whole again • No one will ever find me sexy
  • 94. EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS: • I can’t have a healthy relationship or sex life because I’ve experienced cancer • I’ll never be whole again • No one will ever find me sexy • I’m not beautiful anymore
  • 95. EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS: • I can’t have a healthy relationship or sex life because I’ve experienced cancer • I’ll never be whole again • No one will ever find me sexy • I’m not beautiful anymore • I can never be beautiful again
  • 96. EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS: • I can’t have a healthy relationship or sex life because I’ve experienced cancer • I’ll never be whole again • No one will ever find me sexy • I’m not beautiful anymore • I can never be beautiful again • Cancer robbed me of my confidence and womanhood
  • 97. DID ANY OF THESE RESONATE?
  • 98. WHAT IF YOU CHOSE INSTEAD… • To have the most healthy relationship and sex life • I’m going to use my cancer experience as a vehicle to bring me into an even more fully expressed sense of wholeness. • Embodying me fully, including my cancer, will make me irresistible to people! • I AM beautiful! • I AM confident! • I AM sexy!
  • 99. STEP TWO: DECIDE DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT
  • 100. IF YOU COULD GIFT YOURSELF WITH WHATEVER YOU WANT, WHAT WOULD YOU CHOOSE?
  • 103. What would you like?
  • 104. PART THREE: ENFORCE BOUNDARIES & ENJOY YOUR RESULTS! YOU’VE WORKED HARD. NOW. ENJOY.
  • 106. WHY BOUNDARIES? • Do you decide something for yourself then cave in every time someone asks you for a favor or asks you to do something you don’t really want to do?
  • 107. WHY BOUNDARIES? • Do you decide something for yourself then cave in every time someone asks you for a favor or asks you to do something you don’t really want to do? • Do you say yes and then complain or feel resentment afterwards?
  • 108. WHY BOUNDARIES? • Do you decide something for yourself then cave in every time someone asks you for a favor or asks you to do something you don’t really want to do? • Do you say yes and then complain or feel resentment afterwards? • Does saying ‘No’ to one or more people in your life feel like a courageous undertaking best left to others?
  • 109. WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES? • A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself.
  • 110. WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES? • A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself. • They significantly reduce drama by honoring both you and the person requesting your time, money, or energy.
  • 111. WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES? • A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself. • They significantly reduce drama by honoring both you and the person requesting your time, money, or energy. • A key element of a boundary is a known consequence for breaking it.
  • 112. WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES? • A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself. • They significantly reduce drama by honoring both you and the person requesting your time, money, or energy. • A key element of a boundary is a known consequence for breaking it. • Boundaries will be tested up to three times. Be prepared to stick to your guns. Every time you cave means starting all over again.
  • 113. WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES? • A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself. • They significantly reduce drama by honoring both you and the person requesting your time, money, or energy. • A key element of a boundary is a known consequence for breaking it. • Boundaries will be tested up to three times. Be prepared to stick to your guns. Every time you cave means starting all over again. • We teach others what our boundaries really are through behavior not our words.
  • 115. “The way to get started is to quit talking and start doing” Walt Disney
  • 116. CONSEQUENCES • Consequences are what happen when someone does not keep their end of the agreement.
  • 117. CONSEQUENCES • Consequences are what happen when someone does not keep their end of the agreement. • They eliminate the drama when everyone is aware of them in advance. It becomes about the other person’s choice to accept the consequence instead about you saying no.
  • 118. CONSEQUENCES • Consequences are what happen when someone does not keep their end of the agreement (you or the other person). • They eliminate the drama when everyone is aware of them in advance. It becomes about the other person’s choice to accept the consequence instead about you saying no. • They need to be appropriate for the circumstances to be effective.
  • 119. CONSEQUENCES • Consequences are what happen when someone does not keep their end of the agreement. • They eliminate the drama when everyone is aware of them in advance. It becomes about the other person’s choice to accept the consequence instead about you saying no. • They need to be appropriate for the circumstances to be effective. Setting a consequence you are unwilling to invoke will mean your word is worthless – remember words are cheap – deeds speak.
  • 120. HOW TO SET A BOUNDARY THREE IMPORTANT STEPS Step 1 – External – there will be a request of your time, money, or energy.
  • 121. HOW TO SET A BOUNDARY THREE IMPORTANT STEPS Step 1 – External – there will be a request of your time, money, or energy. Step 2 – Internal – missed by most people, this is an important internal check that consists of three questions. 1) Do I have it to give? 2) Do I want to give it? 3) Under what conditions am I willing to give it?
  • 122. HOW TO SET A BOUNDARY THREE IMPORTANT STEPS Step 1 – External – there will be a request of your time, money, or energy. Step 2 – Internal – missed by most people, this is an important internal check that consists of three questions. 1) Do I have it to give? 2) Do I want to give it? 3) Under what conditions am I willing to give it? Step 3 – External – Negotiations - get back in touch with the person and deliver your conditions and the consequence.
  • 123. HOW TO SET A BOUNDARY THREE IMPORTANT STEPS Step 1 – External – there will be a request of your time, money, or energy. Step 2 – Internal – missed by most people, this is an important internal check that consists of three questions. 1) Do I have it to give? 2) Do I want to give it? 3) Under what conditions am I willing to give it? Step 3 – External – Negotiations - get back in touch with the person and deliver your conditions and the consequence. Note: one caveat – If you use this process and say ‘yes’ to someone – no complaining! You decided so move forward with a joyous heart – that’s the rule.
  • 124. WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!!  You’d get what you want
  • 125. WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!!  You’d get what you want  You’d feel happier
  • 126. WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!!  You’d get what you want  You’d feel happier  You’d feel more confident, beautiful & sexy!
  • 127. WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!!  You’d get what you want  You’d feel happier  You’d feel more confident, beautiful & sexy!  You’d feel seen & heard
  • 128. WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!!  You’d get what you want  You’d feel happier  You’d feel more confident, beautiful & sexy!  You’d feel seen & heard  You’d spend less time in the eddies of life and more time enjoying!
  • 129. WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!!  You’d get what you want  You’d feel happier  You’d feel more confident, beautiful & sexy!  You’d feel seen & heard  You’d spend less time in the eddies of life and more time enjoying! BOUNDARIES ARE THE SECRET KEY TO FEELING CONFIDENT, SEXY AND BEAUTIFUL ALL THE TIME!
  • 130. RECAP of STEP #1 THE CDE PROCESS IS SIMPLE & HAS 3 STEPS: 1) CLEAR 2) DECIDE & DEFINE 3) ENFORCE BOUNDARIES & ENJOY
  • 131. PART #2: HOW TO DO THIS YOURSELF 1. CLEAR NEGATIVE EMOTIONS &LIMITING DECISIONS 2. DECIDE & DEFINE WHAT YOU WANT 3. ENFORCE BOUNDARIES & ENJOY YOUR RESULTS (BECAUSE YOU’VE GOTTEN WHAT YOU WANT!)
  • 132. OUR PROCESS… •NEGATIVE EMOTIONS •LIMITING DECISIONS CLEAR WHAT YOU WANT DECIDE & DEFINE - BOUNDARIES -GETTING WHAT YOU WANT ENFORCE & ENJOY
  • 133. OUR PROCESS… This is the simple, elegant process we’ll be using. It’s efficient. It’s effective. It gets us the results we are craving. •NEGATIVE EMOTIONS •LIMITING DECISIONS CLEAR WHAT YOU WANT DECIDE & DEFINE - BOUNDARIES -GETTING WHAT YOU WANT ENFORCE & ENJOY
  • 134. “Your greatest self has been waiting your whole life; don't make it wait any longer.” ― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free
  • 135. HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU
  • 136. HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU 1) CLEAR negative emotions & limiting decisions
  • 137. HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU 1) CLEAR negative emotions & limiting decisions 2) DECIDE & DEFINE what you want
  • 138. HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU 1) CLEAR negative emotions & limiting decisions 2) DECIDE what you want 3) ENFORCE boundaries & ENJOY having what you want!
  • 139. HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU 1) CLEAR negative emotions & limiting decisions 2) DECIDE & DEFINE what you want 3) ENFORCE boundaries & ENJOY having what you want! It REALLY IS that simple!
  • 143. HERE’S HOW YOU DO THIS:
  • 144. HERE’S HOW YOU DO THIS: 1) Become aware of recurring thoughts and things that you say when you’re either thinking about or talking about having what you want
  • 145. HERE’S HOW YOU DO THIS: 1) Become aware of recurring thoughts and things that you say when you’re either thinking about or talking about having what you want 2) Note any negative emotions and limiting decisions that come up that are keeping you STUCK in your problem.
  • 146. HERE’S HOW YOU DO THIS: 1) Become aware of recurring thoughts and things that you say when you’re either thinking about or talking about having what you want 2) Note any negative emotions and limiting decisions that come up that are keeping you STUCK in your problem. 3) Identify the root issue(s). What are the biggest issues or themes?
  • 147. HERE’S HOW YOU DO THIS: 1) Become aware of recurring thoughts and things that you say when you’re either thinking about or talking about having what you want 2) Note any negative emotions and limiting decisions that come up that are keeping you STUCK in your problem. 3) Identify the root issue(s). What are the biggest issues or themes? 4) Decide you want to let them go and allow your neurology to release them.
  • 149. CLEARING CHECKLIST  WHAT ARE YOU SAYING THAT IS CREATING YOUR REALITY?
  • 150. CLEARING CHECKLIST  WHAT ARE YOU SAYING THAT IS CREATING YOUR REALITY?  WHAT NEGATIVE EMOTIONS KEEP COMING UP WHEN YOU THINK/TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT?
  • 151. CLEARING CHECKLIST  WHAT ARE YOU SAYING THAT IS CREATING YOUR REALITY?  WHAT NEGATIVE EMOTIONS KEEP COMING UP WHEN YOU THINK/TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT?  WHAT LIMITING DECISIONS COME UP WHEN YOU THINK/TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT?
  • 153. ROOT CLEARING TIP The real issue is likely that you feel “UN” something …
  • 154. ROOT CLEARING TIP The real issue is likely that you feel “UN” something …  Unworthy
  • 155. ROOT CLEARING TIP The real issue is likely that you feel “UN” something …  Unworthy  Unlovable
  • 156. ROOT CLEARING TIP The real issue is likely that you feel “UN” something …  Unworthy  Unlovable  Undeserving
  • 157. ROOT CLEARING TIP The real issue is likely that you feel “UN” something …  Unworthy  Unlovable  Undeserving  Undesirable
  • 158. ROOT CLEARING TIP The real issue is likely that you feel “UN” something …  Unworthy  Unlovable  Undeserving  Undesirable  Not good enough
  • 159. STEP TWO: DECIDE DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT
  • 160. DECISION TIP ONE: FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT
  • 161. “Where focus goes, energy flows. And if you don’t take the time to focus on what matters, then you’re living a life of someone else’s design.” - Tony Robbins, peak performance coach, entrepreneur and best-selling author.
  • 162. TIPS TO DISCOVER WHAT YOU REALLY WANT!
  • 163. TIPS TO DISCOVER WHAT YOU REALLY WANT! Tip #1: Give yourself permission to really explore what you really want.
  • 164. TIPS TO DISCOVER WHAT YOU REALLY WANT! Tip #1: Give yourself permission to really explore what you really want. Tip #2: Decide what you want.
  • 165. TIPS TO DISCOVER WHAT YOU REALLY WANT! Tip #1: Give yourself permission to really explore what you really want. Tip #2: Decide what you want. Tip #3: Focus on that and forget the rest!
  • 166. TIPS TO DISCOVER WHAT YOU REALLY WANT! BONUS TIP: Take small daily actions to move you closer to your goal.
  • 167. STEP #3: ENFORCE YOUR BOUNDARIES & ENJOY HAVING WHAT YOU WANT
  • 168. BOUNDARY FLOW CHART A demand is made of your Energy, Money, or Time Decide if you have the money, energy or time to do it. Yes you do. Determine what parameters you are willing to do it under & identify the consequences if those parameters are not honored Honor the boundaries you’ve set No you don’t Say “No” and stick with that response.
  • 169. ENJOY GETTING WHAT YOU WANT!
  • 170. ENJOY GETTING WHAT YOU WANT! Relax!
  • 171. ENJOY GETTING WHAT YOU WANT! Relax! Receive!
  • 172. ENJOY GETTING WHAT YOU WANT! Relax! Receive! Rejoice!
  • 174. TONIGHT I PROMISED…  An inside look at a powerful process that gives you the tools you need to feel confident, beautiful and sexy in every area of your life.
  • 175. TONIGHT I PROMISED…  An inside look at a powerful process that gives you the tools you need to feel confident, beautiful and sexy in every area of your life.  How to do this at home, on your own. Each step.
  • 176. TONIGHT I PROMISED…  An inside look at a powerful process that gives you the tools you need to feel confident, beautiful and sexy in every area of your life.  How to do this at home, on your own. Each step. Why this would solve your relationship, sexuality, self-esteem, body image, and your intimacy problems forever.
  • 177. TONIGHT I PROMISED…  An inside look at a powerful process that gives you the tools you need to feel confident, beautiful and sexy in every area of your life.  How to do this at home, on your own. Each step. Why this would solve your relationship, sexuality, self-esteem, body image, and your intimacy problems forever.  And why it can set you free to have exactly what you want easily, effortlessly, and elegantly!
  • 178. SEE?
  • 179. THERE IS A LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL!
  • 180. OUR PROCESS… (what you need to win) •NEGATIVE EMOTIONS •LIMITING DECISIONS CLEAR WHAT YOU DECIDE WANT - BOUNDARIES -GETTING WHAT YOU WANT ENFORCE & ENJOY A process like this, when done right, can help you feel confident, beautiful, and sexy in every area of your life. Easily. Effortlessly. So you have more time to spend on enjoying your amazing life!
  • 181. IN THE NEXT 30 DAYS… YOU CAN CLEAR YOUR NEGATIVE EMOTIONS & LIMITING DECISIONS, DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT & ENJOY HAVING IT!!!
  • 182. THINK: WHAT THIS IS COSTING Y0U NOT TO HAVE THIS IN YOUR LIFE?
  • 183. YOU HAVE A CHOICE.
  • 184. HOW I CAN HELP YOU
  • 185. HOW I CAN HELP YOU I’ve set aside some time in the next 2 weeks for an HOUR about how to deliciously start to feel beautiful, confident, and sexy every day!
  • 186. HOW I CAN HELP YOU I’ve set aside some time in the next 2 weeks for an HOUR about how to deliciously start to feel beautiful, confident, and sexy every day! We’ll look at what you’re seeing, hearing and doing about where you are at in your life, right now! And find ways to change.
  • 187. HOW I CAN HELP YOU I’ve set aside some time in the next 2 weeks for an HOUR about how to deliciously start to feel beautiful, confident, and sexy every day! We’ll look at what you’re seeing, hearing and doing about where you are at in your life, right now! And find ways to change. FREE.
  • 188. WHY I AM DOING THIS…
  • 189. The only thing you have to lose is …
  • 190. The only thing you have to lose is … YOUR DECISION TO STAY STUCK!