Webinar for Female Cancer Survivors: How to heal your relationship with your body so you can enjoy deeper relationships, better sex, and more joy in your life!
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Webinar for Female Cancer Survivors: How to heal your relationship with your body so you can enjoy deeper relationships, better sex, and more joy in your life!
1. For Female Cancer Survivors Struggling To Feel Confident, Beautiful, & Sexy After Cancer:
How Heal Your Relationship With Your Body
So You Can Enjoy Deeper Relationships, Better
Sex & More Joy In Your Life
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3. WHO IS THIS FOR
If youâre a female cancer survivorâŚ
ďź who has no idea how to feel confident,
beautiful, and sexy again.
ďź who has low sexual desire and/or has lost
the ability to have enjoyable sex.
ďź who feels like your body has been mutilated
⌠and you are having a hard time getting
over the tremendous loss youâve endured.
ďź have a poor view of your body.
ďź and are struggling to feel like a woman
5. SEXUALITY DEFINED
Itâs a far-reaching term that includes:
⢠Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching
6. SEXUALITY DEFINED
Itâs a far-reaching term that includes:
⢠Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching
⢠Sexual desires & drives
7. SEXUALITY DEFINED
Itâs a far-reaching term that includes:
⢠Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching
⢠Sexual desires & drives
⢠Sexual identity
8. SEXUALITY DEFINED
Itâs a far-reaching term that includes:
⢠Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching
⢠Sexual desires & drives
⢠Sexual identity
⢠Personal expression of oneself (body image
& expressions of femininity)
9. SEXUALITY DEFINED
Itâs a far-reaching term that includes:
⢠Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching
⢠Sexual desires & drives
⢠Sexual identity
⢠Personal expression of oneself (body image
& expressions of femininity)
⢠Personal expression of oneâs romantic
relationship(s) with others
10. SEXUALITY DEFINED
Itâs a far-reaching term that includes:
⢠Intimacy/Physical closeness/Touching
⢠Sexual desires & drives
⢠Sexual identity
⢠Personal expression of oneself (body image
& expressions of femininity)
⢠Personal expression of oneâs romantic
relationship(s) with others
⢠Human-ness & feelings of âalivenessâ
12. ABOUT MEâŚ
⢠Come from a family of sex educators
⢠Registered Nurse
13. ABOUT MEâŚ
⢠Come from a family of sex educators
⢠Registered Nurse
⢠Author of the book âSexyâŚitâs not that
serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size
14. ABOUT MEâŚ
⢠Come from a family of sex educators
⢠Registered Nurse
⢠Author of the book âSexyâŚitâs not that
serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size
⢠Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line
Therapist
15. ABOUT MEâŚ
⢠Come from a family of sex educators
⢠Registered Nurse
⢠Author of the book âSexyâŚitâs not that
serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size
⢠Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line
Therapist
⢠Students all around the world (over 10,000)
16. ABOUT MEâŚ
⢠Come from a family of sex educators
⢠Registered Nurse
⢠Author of the book âSexyâŚitâs not that
serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size
⢠Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line
Therapist
⢠Students all around the world (over 10,000)
⢠Featured expert on many local, national and
international radio and TV shows
17. ABOUT MEâŚ
⢠Come from a family of sex educators
⢠Registered Nurse
⢠Author of the book âSexyâŚitâs not that
serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size
⢠Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line
Therapist
⢠Students all around the world (over 10,000)
⢠Featured expert on many local, national and
international radio and TV shows
⢠Founder of âTools To Thriveâ
18. ABOUT MEâŚ
⢠Come from a family of sex educators
⢠Registered Nurse
⢠Author of the book âSexyâŚitâs not that
serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size
⢠Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line
Therapist
⢠Students all around the world (over 10,000)
⢠Featured expert on many local, national and
international radio and TV shows
⢠Founder of âTools To Thriveâ
⢠Known for helping women heal their
relationship with their body and, feel more
confident, beautiful, and sexy â in their own
ways and on their own terms.
19. ABOUT MEâŚ
⢠Come from a family of sex educators
⢠Registered Nurse
⢠Author of the book âSexyâŚitâs not that
serious: How to feel sexy at any age and size
⢠Board certified Hypnotherapist & Time Line
Therapist
⢠Students all around the world (over 10,000)
⢠Featured expert on many local, national and
international radio and TV shows
⢠Founder of âTools To Thriveâ
⢠Known for helping women heal their
relationship with their body and, feel more
confident, beautiful, and sexy â in their own
ways and on their own terms.
And thatâs what we are going to
talk about today!
22. ON THIS SESSION âŚ
⢠Iâm going to show you a powerful, innovative
and research based way to help you feel
confident, beautiful, and sexy ⌠easily and
elegantly so you can START enjoying life on
your terms again.
23. ON THIS SESSION âŚ
⢠Iâm going to show you a powerful, innovative
and research based way to help you feel
confident, beautiful, and sexy ⌠easily and
elegantly so you can START enjoying life on
your terms again.
⢠An in-depth look at a process that helps other
cancer survivors enjoy having what they want:
an amazing relationship, incredible sex, a
positive view about their body, etc.
24. The space after treatment is a where a cancer
survivor is given the opportunity to move from
surviving back into living.
25. The space after treatment is a where a cancer
survivor is given the opportunity to move from
surviving back into living.
Enjoying Sex. Feeling Sexy. Feeling Confident.
Feeling Beautiful. Are all parts of LIVING.
26. Integrating a new body image and personal sense
of sexuality after cancer is CRITICAL.
27. ON THIS SESSION âŚ
⢠I will give you an in-depth look at how to feel
confident, beautiful and sexy â right now!
28. ON THIS SESSION âŚ
⢠I will give you an in-depth look at how to feel
confident, beautiful and sexy â right now!
⢠WITHOUT needing to go buy the latest trends,
put on tons of makeup, change your hair, buy a
new a new wig, lose 10 pounds, gain 10
pounds, or pretend youâre someone youâre not!
It only has 3 steps!
29. ON THIS SESSION âŚ
⢠Why NOT having a process like this in place will
keep you struggling with how you see your
body, how you talk about your body, and how
you feel about your body.
30. ON THIS SESSION âŚ
⢠Why NOT having a process like this in place will
keep you struggling with how you see your
body, how you talk about your body, and how
you feel about your body.
And, Iâm going to show you exactly
how you can flip it around right now!
31. THERE IS NOTHING
FOR SALE.
AND I HAVE A $100 PROCESS MAP
FOR YOU
32. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
⢠You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged,
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole
33. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
⢠You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged,
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole
⢠You struggle with your weight
34. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
⢠You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged,
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole
⢠You struggle with your weight
⢠Your sex life sucks
35. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
⢠You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged,
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole
⢠You struggle with your weight
⢠Your sex life sucks
⢠You feel lonely
36. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
⢠You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged,
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole
⢠You struggle with your weight
⢠Your sex life sucks
⢠You feel lonely
⢠You feel like you have to be silent
37. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
⢠You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged,
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole
⢠You struggle with your weight
⢠Your sex life sucks
⢠You feel lonely
⢠You feel like you have to be silent
⢠Youâre tired of people telling you how good you
look ⌠because you feel awful inside
38. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
⢠You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged,
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole
⢠You struggle with your weight
⢠Your sex life sucks
⢠You feel lonely
⢠You feel like you have to be silent
⢠Youâre tired of people telling you how good you
look ⌠because you feel awful inside
⢠Your relationship has been negatively impacted
39. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
⢠You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged,
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole
⢠You struggle with your weight
⢠Your sex life sucks
⢠You feel lonely
⢠You feel like you have to be silent
⢠Youâre tired of people telling you how good you
look ⌠because you feel awful inside
⢠Your relationship has been negatively impacted
⢠Youâre scared to get into a relationship
40. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
⢠You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged,
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole
⢠You struggle with your weight
⢠Your sex life sucks
⢠You feel lonely
⢠You feel like you have to be silent
⢠Youâre tired of people telling you how good you
look ⌠because you feel awful inside
⢠Your relationship has been negatively impacted
⢠Youâre scared to get into a relationship
⢠Youâre constantly reminded of cancer because of
the way your body looks and feels
41. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
⢠You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged,
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole
⢠You struggle with your weight
⢠Your sex life sucks
⢠You feel lonely
⢠You feel like you have to be silent
⢠Youâre tired of people telling you how good you
look ⌠because you feel awful inside
⢠Your relationship has been negatively impacted
⢠Youâre scared to get into a relationship
⢠Youâre constantly reminded of cancer because of
the way your body looks and feels
⢠Even after months or years, you still feel many
negative emotions resultant of the cancer
42. DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
⢠You feel ugly, incomplete, freakish, damaged,
flawed, defective, devalued or not whole
⢠You struggle with your weight
⢠Your sex life sucks
⢠You feel lonely
⢠You feel like you have to be silent
⢠Youâre tired of people telling you how good you
look ⌠because you feel awful inside
⢠Your relationship has been negatively impacted
⢠Youâre scared to get into a relationship
⢠Youâre constantly reminded of cancer because of
the way your body looks and feels
⢠Even after months or years, you still feel many
negative emotions resultant of the cancer
⢠You feel radically changed as a woman, almost
like your womanhood has been robbed from you
45. IF YOU HAD ONE âŚ
1. You would know that you as you are (right now!)
is perfect.
46. IF YOU HAD ONE âŚ
1. You would know that you as you are (right now!)
is perfect.
1. Youâd have a deeper understanding of what you
need to do to have a meaningful sexual
relationship that nurtures and supports your new
sexuality needs
47. IF YOU HAD ONE âŚ
1. You would know that you as you are (right now!)
is perfect.
1. Youâd have a deeper understanding of what you
need to do to have a meaningful sexual
relationship that nurtures and supports your new
sexuality needs
1. When people tell you how good you look ⌠you
would say âthank youâ because you would
appreciate the truth in their statement.
48. IF YOU HAD ONE âŚ
5. Your relationship would blossom and you
experience deeper levels of intimacy with your
partner.
49. IF YOU HAD ONE âŚ
5. Your relationship would blossom and you
experience deeper levels of intimacy with your
partner.
6. If youâre single, youâll find a partner who would
love, appreciate, and honor you and your
experiences.
52. THE GAME PLANâŚ
Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL
confidence and self esteem boosting process
so you can see how and why it works.
53. THE GAME PLANâŚ
Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL
confidence and self esteem boosting process
so you can see how and why it works.
Part Two: Iâm going to show you how to do
this yourself, in the comfort of your home!
54. THE GAME PLANâŚ
Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL
confidence and self esteem boosting process
so you can see how and why it works.
Part Two: Iâm going to show you how to do
this yourself, in the comfort of your home!
1. Clear
55. THE GAME PLANâŚ
Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL
confidence and self esteem boosting process
so you can see how and why it works.
Part Two: Iâm going to show you how to do
this yourself, in the comfort of your home!
1. Clear
2. Decide & Define
56. THE GAME PLANâŚ
Part One: An inside look at POWERFUL
confidence and self esteem boosting process
so you can see how and why it works.
Part Two: Iâm going to show you how to do
this yourself, in the comfort of your home!
1. Clear
2. Decide & Define
3. Enforce & Enjoy
61. WHEN YOU GET THISâŚ
You will feel beautiful, confident and sexy â in your own
ways and on your own terms. Everyday.
Thereâs no magic pill. Thereâs no complicated workout
routine to follow.
This means you will have: more energy to focus on
what you want (and enjoy getting it!), better
relationships, a more positive view about your body, a
new understanding of how you can enjoy sex again,
authentic confidence, freedom from negative
emotions, and freedom to really enjoy your life.
62. âThe quality of sexiness comes from within.
It is something that is in you or it isn't and it
really doesn't have much to do with breasts
or thighs or the pout of your lips.â
Sophia Loren
64. ⌠and the good news is âŚ
IT CAN BE LEARNED!
65. What would happen if you stripped away your
disbelief, your negative emotions, and your limiting
decisions ⌠and really connected with the core of
who you are?
68. SARAHâS STORY
⢠She is a cancer survivor
⢠She did 12 rounds of chemo and the
cancer was surgically removed from
her body
⢠She felt ugly and flawed.
⢠She felt tired and not like herself
⢠She searched to find meaning from
her illness.
⢠She searched to find wholeness.
⢠She did the CDE process and within
the first day she started things
started to shiftâŚ
âIt was like I was given a new set of lenses to
view the world. The CDE process has changed
my life for the better.â
69. THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAINâŚ
⢠You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again.
70. THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAINâŚ
⢠You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again.
⢠Youâll never hear the hurtful words that cycle through your private thoughts.
71. THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAINâŚ
⢠You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again.
⢠Youâll never hear the hurtful words that cycle through your private thoughts.
⢠You will never feel less than, or not good enough again.
72. THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAINâŚ
⢠You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again.
⢠Youâll never hear the hurtful words that cycle through your private thoughts.
⢠You will never feel less than, or not good enough again.
⢠You will never have to have a hole in your sex life and relationship again.
73. THINGS YOUL WILL NEVER HAVE TO DO AGAINâŚ
⢠You will never see yourself as ugly, flawed or defected again.
⢠Youâll never hear the hurtful words that cycle through your private thoughts.
⢠You will never feel less than, or not good enough again.
⢠You will never have to have a hole in your sex life and relationship again.
⢠Youâll never have to silently wrestle with loneliness again.
74. IS YOUR MINDSET
ALLOWING YOU TO FEEL AS CONFIDENT, BEAUTIFUL & AS SEXY AS YOU WANT?
85. WHAT ARE YOU REPEATEDLY THINKING
AND SAYING TO YOURSELF AND
OTHERS?
A HUGE key to understanding whatâs
contributing to you remaining where you are.
86. Albert Einstein said it best âŚ
âInsanity: doing the
same thing over and
over again and
expecting different
results.â
91. EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS:
⢠I canât have a healthy relationship or sex life because
Iâve experienced cancer
92. EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS:
⢠I canât have a healthy relationship or sex life because
Iâve experienced cancer
⢠Iâll never be whole again
93. EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS:
⢠I canât have a healthy relationship or sex life because
Iâve experienced cancer
⢠Iâll never be whole again
⢠No one will ever find me sexy
94. EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS:
⢠I canât have a healthy relationship or sex life because
Iâve experienced cancer
⢠Iâll never be whole again
⢠No one will ever find me sexy
⢠Iâm not beautiful anymore
95. EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS:
⢠I canât have a healthy relationship or sex life because
Iâve experienced cancer
⢠Iâll never be whole again
⢠No one will ever find me sexy
⢠Iâm not beautiful anymore
⢠I can never be beautiful again
96. EXAMPLES OF LIMITING DECISIONS:
⢠I canât have a healthy relationship or sex life because
Iâve experienced cancer
⢠Iâll never be whole again
⢠No one will ever find me sexy
⢠Iâm not beautiful anymore
⢠I can never be beautiful again
⢠Cancer robbed me of my confidence and womanhood
98. WHAT IF YOU CHOSE INSTEADâŚ
⢠To have the most healthy relationship and sex life
⢠Iâm going to use my cancer experience as a vehicle to
bring me into an even more fully expressed sense of
wholeness.
⢠Embodying me fully, including my cancer, will make me
irresistible to people!
⢠I AM beautiful!
⢠I AM confident!
⢠I AM sexy!
106. WHY BOUNDARIES?
⢠Do you decide something for yourself then cave in
every time someone asks you for a favor or asks
you to do something you donât really want to do?
107. WHY BOUNDARIES?
⢠Do you decide something for yourself then cave in
every time someone asks you for a favor or asks
you to do something you donât really want to do?
⢠Do you say yes and then complain or feel
resentment afterwards?
108. WHY BOUNDARIES?
⢠Do you decide something for yourself then cave in
every time someone asks you for a favor or asks
you to do something you donât really want to do?
⢠Do you say yes and then complain or feel
resentment afterwards?
⢠Does saying âNoâ to one or more people in your life
feel like a courageous undertaking best left to
others?
109. WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES?
⢠A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself.
110. WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES?
⢠A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself.
⢠They significantly reduce drama by honoring both you and the
person requesting your time, money, or energy.
111. WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES?
⢠A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself.
⢠They significantly reduce drama by honoring both you and the
person requesting your time, money, or energy.
⢠A key element of a boundary is a known consequence for
breaking it.
112. WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES?
⢠A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself.
⢠They significantly reduce drama by honoring both you and the
person requesting your time, money, or energy.
⢠A key element of a boundary is a known consequence for
breaking it.
⢠Boundaries will be tested up to three times. Be prepared to
stick to your guns. Every time you cave means starting all over
again.
113. WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES?
⢠A boundary is a sphere of respect you build around yourself.
⢠They significantly reduce drama by honoring both you and the
person requesting your time, money, or energy.
⢠A key element of a boundary is a known consequence for
breaking it.
⢠Boundaries will be tested up to three times. Be prepared to
stick to your guns. Every time you cave means starting all over
again.
⢠We teach others what our boundaries really are through
behavior not our words.
117. CONSEQUENCES
⢠Consequences are what happen when someone does not
keep their end of the agreement.
⢠They eliminate the drama when everyone is aware of them
in advance. It becomes about the other personâs choice to
accept the consequence instead about you saying no.
118. CONSEQUENCES
⢠Consequences are what happen when someone does not
keep their end of the agreement (you or the other person).
⢠They eliminate the drama when everyone is aware of them
in advance. It becomes about the other personâs choice to
accept the consequence instead about you saying no.
⢠They need to be appropriate for the circumstances to be
effective.
119. CONSEQUENCES
⢠Consequences are what happen when someone does not
keep their end of the agreement.
⢠They eliminate the drama when everyone is aware of them
in advance. It becomes about the other personâs choice to
accept the consequence instead about you saying no.
⢠They need to be appropriate for the circumstances to be
effective.
Setting a consequence you are unwilling to invoke will mean
your word is worthless â remember words are cheap â deeds
speak.
120. HOW TO SET A BOUNDARY
THREE IMPORTANT STEPS
Step 1 â External â there will be a request of your time, money, or energy.
121. HOW TO SET A BOUNDARY
THREE IMPORTANT STEPS
Step 1 â External â there will be a request of your time, money, or energy.
Step 2 â Internal â missed by most people, this is an important internal check that
consists of three questions.
1) Do I have it to give?
2) Do I want to give it?
3) Under what conditions am I willing to give it?
122. HOW TO SET A BOUNDARY
THREE IMPORTANT STEPS
Step 1 â External â there will be a request of your time, money, or energy.
Step 2 â Internal â missed by most people, this is an important internal check that
consists of three questions.
1) Do I have it to give?
2) Do I want to give it?
3) Under what conditions am I willing to give it?
Step 3 â External â Negotiations - get back in touch with the person and deliver your
conditions and the consequence.
123. HOW TO SET A BOUNDARY
THREE IMPORTANT STEPS
Step 1 â External â there will be a request of your time, money, or energy.
Step 2 â Internal â missed by most people, this is an important internal check that
consists of three questions.
1) Do I have it to give?
2) Do I want to give it?
3) Under what conditions am I willing to give it?
Step 3 â External â Negotiations - get back in touch with the person and deliver your
conditions and the consequence.
Note: one caveat â If you use this process and
say âyesâ to someone â no complaining! You decided so move
forward with a joyous heart â thatâs the rule.
124. WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!!
ďź Youâd get what you want
125. WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!!
ďź Youâd get what you want
ďź Youâd feel happier
126. WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!!
ďź Youâd get what you want
ďź Youâd feel happier
ďź Youâd feel more confident, beautiful & sexy!
127. WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!!
ďź Youâd get what you want
ďź Youâd feel happier
ďź Youâd feel more confident, beautiful & sexy!
ďź Youâd feel seen & heard
128. WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!!
ďź Youâd get what you want
ďź Youâd feel happier
ďź Youâd feel more confident, beautiful & sexy!
ďź Youâd feel seen & heard
ďź Youâd spend less time in the eddies of life and more time enjoying!
129. WHAT IF YOU DID SET BOUNDARIES?!!
ďź Youâd get what you want
ďź Youâd feel happier
ďź Youâd feel more confident, beautiful & sexy!
ďź Youâd feel seen & heard
ďź Youâd spend less time in the eddies of life and more time enjoying!
BOUNDARIES ARE THE SECRET KEY TO FEELING
CONFIDENT, SEXY AND BEAUTIFUL ALL THE TIME!
130. RECAP of STEP #1
THE CDE PROCESS IS SIMPLE & HAS 3 STEPS:
1) CLEAR
2) DECIDE & DEFINE
3) ENFORCE BOUNDARIES & ENJOY
131. PART #2:
HOW TO DO THIS YOURSELF
1. CLEAR NEGATIVE EMOTIONS &LIMITING
DECISIONS
2. DECIDE & DEFINE WHAT YOU WANT
3. ENFORCE BOUNDARIES & ENJOY YOUR RESULTS
(BECAUSE YOUâVE GOTTEN WHAT YOU WANT!)
132. OUR PROCESSâŚ
â˘NEGATIVE
EMOTIONS
â˘LIMITING
DECISIONS
CLEAR
WHAT YOU
WANT
DECIDE
& DEFINE
-
BOUNDARIES
-GETTING
WHAT YOU
WANT
ENFORCE
& ENJOY
133. OUR PROCESSâŚ
This is the simple, elegant process weâll be using.
Itâs efficient. Itâs effective. It gets us the results we
are craving.
â˘NEGATIVE
EMOTIONS
â˘LIMITING
DECISIONS
CLEAR
WHAT YOU
WANT
DECIDE
& DEFINE
-
BOUNDARIES
-GETTING
WHAT YOU
WANT
ENFORCE
& ENJOY
134. âYour greatest self has
been waiting your whole
life; don't make it wait
any longer.â
â Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free
135. HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE
IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU
136. HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE
IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU
1) CLEAR negative emotions & limiting
decisions
137. HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE
IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU
1) CLEAR negative emotions & limiting
decisions
2) DECIDE & DEFINE what you want
138. HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE
IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU
1) CLEAR negative emotions & limiting
decisions
2) DECIDE what you want
3) ENFORCE boundaries & ENJOY having
what you want!
139. HOW TO ENGAGE THE PROCESS & MAKE
IT MEANINGFUL TO YOU
1) CLEAR negative emotions & limiting
decisions
2) DECIDE & DEFINE what you want
3) ENFORCE boundaries & ENJOY having
what you want!
It REALLY IS that simple!
144. HEREâS HOW YOU DO THIS:
1) Become aware of recurring thoughts and things that you say when
youâre either thinking about or talking about having what you
want
145. HEREâS HOW YOU DO THIS:
1) Become aware of recurring thoughts and things that you say when
youâre either thinking about or talking about having what you
want
2) Note any negative emotions and limiting decisions that come up
that are keeping you STUCK in your problem.
146. HEREâS HOW YOU DO THIS:
1) Become aware of recurring thoughts and things that you say when
youâre either thinking about or talking about having what you
want
2) Note any negative emotions and limiting decisions that come up
that are keeping you STUCK in your problem.
3) Identify the root issue(s). What are the biggest issues or themes?
147. HEREâS HOW YOU DO THIS:
1) Become aware of recurring thoughts and things that you say when
youâre either thinking about or talking about having what you
want
2) Note any negative emotions and limiting decisions that come up
that are keeping you STUCK in your problem.
3) Identify the root issue(s). What are the biggest issues or themes?
4) Decide you want to let them go and allow your neurology to
release them.
150. CLEARING CHECKLIST
ďź WHAT ARE YOU SAYING THAT IS CREATING YOUR
REALITY?
ďź WHAT NEGATIVE EMOTIONS KEEP COMING UP WHEN
YOU THINK/TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT?
151. CLEARING CHECKLIST
ďź WHAT ARE YOU SAYING THAT IS CREATING YOUR
REALITY?
ďź WHAT NEGATIVE EMOTIONS KEEP COMING UP WHEN
YOU THINK/TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT?
ďź WHAT LIMITING DECISIONS COME UP WHEN YOU
THINK/TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT?
153. ROOT CLEARING TIP
The real issue is likely that you feel âUNâ
something âŚ
154. ROOT CLEARING TIP
The real issue is likely that you feel âUNâ
something âŚ
ďź Unworthy
155. ROOT CLEARING TIP
The real issue is likely that you feel âUNâ
something âŚ
ďź Unworthy
ďź Unlovable
156. ROOT CLEARING TIP
The real issue is likely that you feel âUNâ
something âŚ
ďź Unworthy
ďź Unlovable
ďź Undeserving
157. ROOT CLEARING TIP
The real issue is likely that you feel âUNâ
something âŚ
ďź Unworthy
ďź Unlovable
ďź Undeserving
ďź Undesirable
158. ROOT CLEARING TIP
The real issue is likely that you feel âUNâ
something âŚ
ďź Unworthy
ďź Unlovable
ďź Undeserving
ďź Undesirable
ďź Not good enough
161. âWhere focus goes,
energy flows. And if
you donât take the
time to focus on
what matters, then
youâre living a life
of someone elseâs
design.â
- Tony Robbins, peak performance
coach, entrepreneur and best-selling
author.
163. TIPS TO DISCOVER WHAT YOU
REALLY WANT!
Tip #1: Give yourself permission to really explore
what you really want.
164. TIPS TO DISCOVER WHAT YOU
REALLY WANT!
Tip #1: Give yourself permission to really explore
what you really want.
Tip #2: Decide what you want.
165. TIPS TO DISCOVER WHAT YOU
REALLY WANT!
Tip #1: Give yourself permission to really explore
what you really want.
Tip #2: Decide what you want.
Tip #3: Focus on that and forget the rest!
166. TIPS TO DISCOVER WHAT YOU
REALLY WANT!
BONUS TIP:
Take small daily actions to move you
closer to your goal.
168. BOUNDARY FLOW CHART
A demand is made of your Energy, Money, or Time
Decide if you have the money, energy or time
to do it.
Yes you do.
Determine what parameters you are willing to
do it under & identify the consequences if those
parameters are not honored
Honor the
boundaries
youâve set
No you donât
Say âNoâ and
stick with that
response.
174. TONIGHT I PROMISEDâŚ
ďź An inside look at a powerful process that gives you the tools you
need to feel confident, beautiful and sexy in every area of your life.
175. TONIGHT I PROMISEDâŚ
ďź An inside look at a powerful process that gives you the tools you
need to feel confident, beautiful and sexy in every area of your life.
ďź How to do this at home, on your own. Each step.
176. TONIGHT I PROMISEDâŚ
ďź An inside look at a powerful process that gives you the tools you
need to feel confident, beautiful and sexy in every area of your life.
ďź How to do this at home, on your own. Each step.
ďźWhy this would solve your relationship, sexuality, self-esteem, body
image, and your intimacy problems forever.
177. TONIGHT I PROMISEDâŚ
ďź An inside look at a powerful process that gives you the tools you
need to feel confident, beautiful and sexy in every area of your life.
ďź How to do this at home, on your own. Each step.
ďźWhy this would solve your relationship, sexuality, self-esteem, body
image, and your intimacy problems forever.
ďź And why it can set you free to have exactly what you want easily,
effortlessly, and elegantly!
180. OUR PROCESSâŚ
(what you need to win)
â˘NEGATIVE
EMOTIONS
â˘LIMITING
DECISIONS
CLEAR
WHAT YOU
DECIDE WANT
-
BOUNDARIES
-GETTING
WHAT YOU
WANT
ENFORCE
& ENJOY
A process like this, when done right, can help you feel confident,
beautiful, and sexy in every area of your life. Easily. Effortlessly.
So you have more time to spend on enjoying your amazing life!
181. IN THE NEXT 30 DAYSâŚ
YOU CAN CLEAR YOUR NEGATIVE EMOTIONS & LIMITING
DECISIONS, DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT & ENJOY HAVING IT!!!
185. HOW I CAN HELP YOU
Iâve set aside some time in the next 2 weeks for an
HOUR about how to deliciously start to feel
beautiful, confident, and sexy every day!
186. HOW I CAN HELP YOU
Iâve set aside some time in the next 2 weeks for an
HOUR about how to deliciously start to feel
beautiful, confident, and sexy every day!
Weâll look at what youâre seeing, hearing and doing
about where you are at in your life, right now! And
find ways to change.
187. HOW I CAN HELP YOU
Iâve set aside some time in the next 2 weeks for an
HOUR about how to deliciously start to feel
beautiful, confident, and sexy every day!
Weâll look at what youâre seeing, hearing and doing
about where you are at in your life, right now! And
find ways to change.
FREE.