For you,
I do not own this presentation, it was just shared to us by our
resource speaker during our SEMINAR WORKSHOP ON S...
CELL PHONE
at
pagibig
What is sex to you?
• Sex is katuwaan lamang.
• Sex is pagpapahayag ng pagmamahal.
• Sex belongs only in marriage.
• Sex is a healthy recreati...
Modern culture tells young people that it isModern culture tells young people that it is
alright to sleep with their partn...
Modern culture tends to erase the distinction
between right behavior and wrong behavior.
Advertisements spell it in these
ways:
“Just do it”
“Obey your thirst”
“Follow your hunger”
“No fear”
“No rules”
1. Casual sex isn’t harmful.
2. Homosexual behavior is normal.
Those who say otherwise are
villains
3. Abortion is compass...
The glittering bait –
ABSOLUTE FREEDOM
How?
Lead youth to
-- reject parental authority
-- develop their own system of valu...
• Implications, attitudes, behaviors
– Have sex without commitment
– Treat another as object of pleasure
– Exploit other p...
You must know ‘bout meYou must know ‘bout me
You must know ‘bout meYou must know ‘bout me
I can have another you in a minu...
•
How should we view sex?
• Gen 1:27Gen 1:27
• ““God created man in his own image, inGod created man in his own image, in
the image of God He create...
• Sex involves the whole
person: body and
spirit.
The body becomes a vehicle for self-giving.
to one’s commitment
in ways that arein ways that are appropriate...appropriate...
Unity is
between male-female,
not male-male,
female-female.
UnityUnityin diversityin diversity
God made man His partner
in
PROCREATION
God is a Creator and in this aspect,God is a Creator and in this aspect,
man is Go...
•SEX is SACRED
Sexuality is truly human (Sexuality is truly human (ImagoImago
Dei contextDei context))
Sexuality is capacity to be
“gift”...
• Sex is both unitive
and procreative.
• Admiration – appreciation,
esteem, respect, amazement,
wonder, awe, astonishment,
honor, regard
• This is the initial st...
Friendship
• It begins when one discovers that somebody cares
• Respect and trust are basic pillars.
• A real friend is:
•...
Love versus infatuation
• Infatuation -- A foolish, unreasoning, or
extravagant passion or attraction. An
object of extrav...
is based on
mutual
interest and
a sharing of
ideas
 a person is
in love with
love, not with
the person
the needs of
the...
the relationship grows
deeper despite difficulties
or separation
breaks up when saddled
with problems and when
"the ugly...
is person oriented is sexually focused: the
typical "You're so cute
and I like you", or, "Ang
macho niya!", "Type kita"
o...
welcomes friends and
other people; not jealous
"I want that you stop
seeing your friends."
brings confidence triggers ...
The Christian meaning of LOVEThe Christian meaning of LOVE
• What is love according to the Bible?
(1 Corinthians 13)(1 Cor...
Love is kind. You would never ask
another to have sex outside of
marriage because of the
consequences.
Love is patient. Yo...
Love does not rejoice over wrongdoing.
Love does not delight in another’s pain; it
does not participate in evil doings.
Lo...
Love trusts. True love builds a
foundation from
trust and
confidence.
Love always hopes. True love has the hope
of the Cre...
Love never fails. You are always
supportive of your loved one. You do
not disappoint your loved with
irresponsible actions...
The greatest gift is love.
Love endures through
eternity and is shared
by God with his creation.
He gave us love and
never...
InfatuationInfatuation
• involves sexual attraction and feeling.
• is being Interested, wanting to be Involved,
becoming I...
Courtship is a social process.
A way of communicating thoughtsA way of communicating thoughts
and feelingsand feelings
A m...
How do you know if you are ready to
date?
When dating, it’s good to remember the
following:
 Kissing is not a game.Kissing is not a game.
 Don’t get too serious.D...
Checklist AChecklist A
1.1. Have you informed your parents or elders about the date?Have you informed your parents or elde...
Checklist B
1. Have you had enough exercise in being responsible, that is,
you have often managed to control yourself in t...
To kiss or not to kiss?
How do you control your bodies in
ways that are holy and
honorable? (By the way you
dress, speak, sit, etc. Talk about
fas...
• Can infatuationCan infatuation
lead to abortion?lead to abortion?
Yes!Yes! Infatuation
Interest
Intimacy
Intercourse...
• Why do young people go
into pre-marital sex
• AFRAID TO LOSE RELATIONSHIPAFRAID TO LOSE RELATIONSHIP
• IMAGINES "EVERYONE IS DOING IT“IMAGINES "EVERYONE IS DOING IT“
...
 SEEKS TO GAIN AFFECTION AND WARMTHSEEKS TO GAIN AFFECTION AND WARMTH
 WANTS TO "PROVE" LOVEWANTS TO "PROVE" LOVE
 THIN...
• Why say, “No!” to
premarital sex?
EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS
• Guilt
• Regrets
• Loss of self-respect
• Depression
• Suicidal thoughts
• Ruined relationships
• Anger
PREGNANCY
• Immediate marriage
• Adoption (to give your baby to
another family)
• Single parenthood
• Abortion’s consequen...
STDS AND OTHER HEALTH PROBLEMS
• AIDS Syphilis
• Gonorrhea Herpes
• Chlamydia Genital warts
• Vaginal infections Sterility...
• chastity
For single:
KEEP FROM MARITAL SEX
For married:
TRUE, SINCERE, LOYAL TO SPOUSE
Not exploiting others; sense of j...
Love GOD!!!Love GOD!!!Love yourLove your
Family!Family!
Love Life!Love Life!
• My kisses are
WORTH MORE THAN
a party or a movie
I AM
RESPONSIBLE GIRL
My BODY is the
TEMPLE
of GOD- NOT a
plaything
The first “NO” may be
difficult- after that, it’s
easy
•VIRGINITY is still a
virtue;
•LUST is still a capital
sin
The way I DRESS, ACT
and SPEAK may be a
temptation to my boyfriend.
I will observe MODESTY for
his and my own
PROTECTION
My PARENTS have done so
MUCH for me, I wish always to
be a credit to them
My boyfriend will be my husband
and a father someday
He must be a HERO in the eyes of
his wife and children. I will DO
NOT...
I want to be a wife and
mother. I will reserve my
PURITY and
AFFECTION for my
husband and children
• If through my weaknesses,
I should get pregnant,
I WILL NOT TAKE
the “EASY WAY OUT” by killing my
unborn child.
DO YOU NEED HELP?
“LET US SIT AND
TALK
A WHILE”…
Your TEACHER
Your GUIDANCE
COUNSELOR
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  1. 1. For you, I do not own this presentation, it was just shared to us by our resource speaker during our SEMINAR WORKSHOP ON SEXUALITY AND FERTILITY AWARENESS FOR SECONDARY SCHOOL TEACHERS IN NAGA CITY. I intend to share this presentation especially to Values Ed. Teachers because this I think is a material that will be more useful in teaching MORAL ISSUES. kikoaureo
  2. 2. CELL PHONE at pagibig
  3. 3. What is sex to you?
  4. 4. • Sex is katuwaan lamang. • Sex is pagpapahayag ng pagmamahal. • Sex belongs only in marriage. • Sex is a healthy recreational activity. • Sex is merely a physical, biological act. • Sex is only for procreation. • Sex is sagrado. • Sex involves the whole person, body and spirit.
  5. 5. Modern culture tells young people that it isModern culture tells young people that it is alright to sleep with their partners and livealright to sleep with their partners and live together for a while before they get married.together for a while before they get married. Modern culture has reduced human sexuality to the level of something commonplace and links it solely with the body and selfish pleasure.
  6. 6. Modern culture tends to erase the distinction between right behavior and wrong behavior.
  7. 7. Advertisements spell it in these ways: “Just do it” “Obey your thirst” “Follow your hunger” “No fear” “No rules”
  8. 8. 1. Casual sex isn’t harmful. 2. Homosexual behavior is normal. Those who say otherwise are villains 3. Abortion is compassion. 4. Three is a family.
  9. 9. The glittering bait – ABSOLUTE FREEDOM How? Lead youth to -- reject parental authority -- develop their own system of values -- defy God and his Commandments
  10. 10. • Implications, attitudes, behaviors – Have sex without commitment – Treat another as object of pleasure – Exploit other people especially women – Risk the danger of contracting sexually transmitted diseases – Indulge in irresponsible behavior – no self-control, aborting the baby
  11. 11. You must know ‘bout meYou must know ‘bout me You must know ‘bout meYou must know ‘bout me I can have another you in a minuteI can have another you in a minute Matter of fact, he’ll be here in a minute babyMatter of fact, he’ll be here in a minute baby So since I’m not your everythingSo since I’m not your everything How about I’ll be nothing, nothing at all to youHow about I’ll be nothing, nothing at all to you Baby I won’t shed a tear for youBaby I won’t shed a tear for you I won’t lose a wink of sleep for youI won’t lose a wink of sleep for you Cause the truth of the matter is replacing you is soCause the truth of the matter is replacing you is so easy.easy. Profanity in lyrics like the following:Profanity in lyrics like the following: From: Irreplaceable by Beyonce
  12. 12. • How should we view sex?
  13. 13. • Gen 1:27Gen 1:27 • ““God created man in his own image, inGod created man in his own image, in the image of God He created him.”the image of God He created him.” The basis for man’s dignity:The basis for man’s dignity: MADE IN GOD’S IMAGEMADE IN GOD’S IMAGE
  14. 14. • Sex involves the whole person: body and spirit.
  15. 15. The body becomes a vehicle for self-giving. to one’s commitment in ways that arein ways that are appropriate...appropriate... to one’s age to one’s state of life
  16. 16. Unity is between male-female, not male-male, female-female. UnityUnityin diversityin diversity
  17. 17. God made man His partner in PROCREATION God is a Creator and in this aspect,God is a Creator and in this aspect, man is God’s image and likeness.man is God’s image and likeness. PROCREATION is a Divine will for humanity.
  18. 18. •SEX is SACRED
  19. 19. Sexuality is truly human (Sexuality is truly human (ImagoImago Dei contextDei context)) Sexuality is capacity to be “gift” for an “other.” Human sexuality is a call to participate to a life of love- giving, life-giving communion.
  20. 20. • Sex is both unitive and procreative.
  21. 21. • Admiration – appreciation, esteem, respect, amazement, wonder, awe, astonishment, honor, regard • This is the initial stage of love. • Love grows.
  22. 22. Friendship • It begins when one discovers that somebody cares • Respect and trust are basic pillars. • A real friend is: • One with whom you can be yourself without pretending. • One with whom you can say what you feel • One who can inspire you to do good.
  23. 23. Love versus infatuation • Infatuation -- A foolish, unreasoning, or extravagant passion or attraction. An object of extravagant, short-lived passion. (American Heritage Dictionary) •Do you believe in love at first sight?
  24. 24. is based on mutual interest and a sharing of ideas  a person is in love with love, not with the person the needs of the loved are taken into  immature attitude: "I can't live DifferencebetweenloveandinfatuationDifferencebetweenloveandinfatuation LOVE INFATUATIONINFATUATION
  25. 25. the relationship grows deeper despite difficulties or separation breaks up when saddled with problems and when "the ugly face" of the person shows love is a decision; it does not hurry up, but lasts and endures the test of time and absence is often short-lived like a whirlwind; instant like love at first sight. LOVE INFATUATIONINFATUATION
  26. 26. is person oriented is sexually focused: the typical "You're so cute and I like you", or, "Ang macho niya!", "Type kita" or "Trip kita", are often said lovers have the freedom to grow as persons stifles growth because it is very possessive and exclusive LOVE INFATUATIONINFATUATION
  27. 27. welcomes friends and other people; not jealous "I want that you stop seeing your friends." brings confidence triggers insecurity: "Will he still love me if he/she discovers that my family is very poor?", etc jealous, possessive, selfish LOVE INFATUATIONINFATUATION
  28. 28. The Christian meaning of LOVEThe Christian meaning of LOVE • What is love according to the Bible? (1 Corinthians 13)(1 Corinthians 13)
  29. 29. Love is kind. You would never ask another to have sex outside of marriage because of the consequences. Love is patient. You can wait to have sex until marriage.
  30. 30. Love does not rejoice over wrongdoing. Love does not delight in another’s pain; it does not participate in evil doings. Love rejoices with the truth. Love embraces the light of God and stays away from the darkness of temptations.
  31. 31. Love trusts. True love builds a foundation from trust and confidence. Love always hopes. True love has the hope of the Creator’s plan for the future and always hopes for the best.
  32. 32. Love never fails. You are always supportive of your loved one. You do not disappoint your loved with irresponsible actions or unkind words. Love endures all things. True love perseveres and keeps on loving even in times of adversity.
  33. 33. The greatest gift is love. Love endures through eternity and is shared by God with his creation. He gave us love and never stops hoping that we will give it to one another and to him. Love is theLove is the mission to servemission to serve God.God.
  34. 34. InfatuationInfatuation • involves sexual attraction and feeling. • is being Interested, wanting to be Involved, becoming Intimate and having Intercourse • can be exciting,joyful, ecstatic experience, but most often it is painful, depressive and confused with love.
  35. 35. Courtship is a social process. A way of communicating thoughtsA way of communicating thoughts and feelingsand feelings A man’s way of expressing his love forA man’s way of expressing his love for the woman he lovesthe woman he loves A venue for knowing each other wellA venue for knowing each other well A form of social control, i.e. aA form of social control, i.e. a man behaves well in theman behaves well in the presence of his loved onepresence of his loved one
  36. 36. How do you know if you are ready to date?
  37. 37. When dating, it’s good to remember the following:  Kissing is not a game.Kissing is not a game.  Don’t get too serious.Don’t get too serious.  Passion is not affection.Passion is not affection.  Express yourself verbally, notExpress yourself verbally, not physically.physically.  Sexual arousal progresses.Sexual arousal progresses. Tips to remember: For the girls, exercise modesty For the boys, be respectful and never take advantage For both, avoid being by yourselves and don’t drink
  38. 38. Checklist AChecklist A 1.1. Have you informed your parents or elders about the date?Have you informed your parents or elders about the date? 2.2. Have you discussed the date with them and sought theirHave you discussed the date with them and sought their permission?permission? 3.3. Have you discussed curfew and dating rules with them?Have you discussed curfew and dating rules with them? 4.4. Are you open to their suggestions?Are you open to their suggestions? 5.5. Are you willing to have a chaperon or only go on groups you canAre you willing to have a chaperon or only go on groups you can trust?trust? 6.6. Do you have time for the date, that is, you do not sacrifice anDo you have time for the date, that is, you do not sacrifice an important activity orimportant activity or appointment?appointment?
  39. 39. Checklist B 1. Have you had enough exercise in being responsible, that is, you have often managed to control yourself in tempting situations? 2. Have you proven to your parents that you can make good, informed decisions? 3. Can you afford the date financially and you do not put extra burden on your parents because of the date? 4. Can you go out and have fun without doing anything immoral or illegal? 5. Do you think you can stick to your morals even under pressure? 6. Can you defend yourself against possible dangers?
  40. 40. To kiss or not to kiss?
  41. 41. How do you control your bodies in ways that are holy and honorable? (By the way you dress, speak, sit, etc. Talk about fashion.)
  42. 42. • Can infatuationCan infatuation lead to abortion?lead to abortion? Yes!Yes! Infatuation Interest Intimacy Intercourse Iniwan Iniyakan Inabort Now choose:Now choose: Play now and pay laterPlay now and pay later or practice chastity?or practice chastity?
  43. 43. • Why do young people go into pre-marital sex
  44. 44. • AFRAID TO LOSE RELATIONSHIPAFRAID TO LOSE RELATIONSHIP • IMAGINES "EVERYONE IS DOING IT“IMAGINES "EVERYONE IS DOING IT“ • WANTS TO PROVE THAT ONE IS REAL MAN OR REALWANTS TO PROVE THAT ONE IS REAL MAN OR REAL WOMAN.WOMAN. • THINKS THAT HE OWES IT TO OTHER PERSON.THINKS THAT HE OWES IT TO OTHER PERSON. • FEELS GUILTY FOR MAKING THE OTHER PERSONFEELS GUILTY FOR MAKING THE OTHER PERSON SEXUALLY EXCITED.SEXUALLY EXCITED. • CURIOUSITYCURIOUSITY • DOES NOT WANT TO APPEAR OLD-FASHIONEDDOES NOT WANT TO APPEAR OLD-FASHIONED
  45. 45.  SEEKS TO GAIN AFFECTION AND WARMTHSEEKS TO GAIN AFFECTION AND WARMTH  WANTS TO "PROVE" LOVEWANTS TO "PROVE" LOVE  THINKS HE / SHE WILL FIND SECURITYTHINKS HE / SHE WILL FIND SECURITY  CANT "HELP HIMSELF": NO CONTROL ESPECIALLY WHENCANT "HELP HIMSELF": NO CONTROL ESPECIALLY WHEN DRUNK OR ON DRUGS.DRUNK OR ON DRUGS.  THTHINKS IT IS THE NEXT STEP TO THE RELATIONSHIPINKS IT IS THE NEXT STEP TO THE RELATIONSHIP
  46. 46. • Why say, “No!” to premarital sex?
  47. 47. EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS • Guilt • Regrets • Loss of self-respect • Depression • Suicidal thoughts • Ruined relationships • Anger
  48. 48. PREGNANCY • Immediate marriage • Adoption (to give your baby to another family) • Single parenthood • Abortion’s consequences
  49. 49. STDS AND OTHER HEALTH PROBLEMS • AIDS Syphilis • Gonorrhea Herpes • Chlamydia Genital warts • Vaginal infections Sterility risks • Cervical cancer Breast cancer
  50. 50. • chastity For single: KEEP FROM MARITAL SEX For married: TRUE, SINCERE, LOYAL TO SPOUSE Not exploiting others; sense of justice SELF DISCIPLINE: SELF POSSESION AND DELAYING GRATIFICATION Purity of thoughts and intentions
  51. 51. Love GOD!!!Love GOD!!!Love yourLove your Family!Family! Love Life!Love Life!
  52. 52. • My kisses are WORTH MORE THAN a party or a movie I AM RESPONSIBLE GIRL
  53. 53. My BODY is the TEMPLE of GOD- NOT a plaything
  54. 54. The first “NO” may be difficult- after that, it’s easy
  55. 55. •VIRGINITY is still a virtue; •LUST is still a capital sin
  56. 56. The way I DRESS, ACT and SPEAK may be a temptation to my boyfriend. I will observe MODESTY for his and my own PROTECTION
  57. 57. My PARENTS have done so MUCH for me, I wish always to be a credit to them
  58. 58. My boyfriend will be my husband and a father someday He must be a HERO in the eyes of his wife and children. I will DO NOTHING to prevent that on my dates with him.
  59. 59. I want to be a wife and mother. I will reserve my PURITY and AFFECTION for my husband and children
  60. 60. • If through my weaknesses, I should get pregnant, I WILL NOT TAKE the “EASY WAY OUT” by killing my unborn child.
  61. 61. DO YOU NEED HELP? “LET US SIT AND TALK A WHILE”… Your TEACHER Your GUIDANCE COUNSELOR

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