X3 Rock Your FamilyJanuary 14
X3 Rock Your Family             Session 3: Iʼm the Parent...                           ...dealing with toddlersJanuary 14
What is the bullseye?January 14
What is the bullseye?             • “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact              the world for Jesus Chris...
What is the bullseye?             • “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact              the world for Jesus Chris...
What is the bullseye?             • “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact              the world for Jesus Chris...
What does it look like?January 14
What does it look like?             • Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not exasperate              your children; instead, bring...
What does it look like?             • Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not exasperate              your children; instead, bring...
DisciplineJanuary 14
Discipline             • This is one of the most draining and              exhausting aspects of parentingJanuary 14
Discipline             • This is one of the most draining and              exhausting aspects of parenting             • Y...
Discipline             • This is one of the most draining and              exhausting aspects of parenting             • Y...
Ten Commandments of             Rock Your FamilyJanuary 14
Ten Commandments of             Rock Your Family             • #1) I am the parent and you arenʼtJanuary 14
Ten Commandments of             Rock Your Family             • #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt             • You make t...
Ten Commandments of             Rock Your Family             • #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt             • You make t...
I Am The ParentJanuary 14
I Am The Parent             • The second you set the boundary they are              going to challenge itJanuary 14
I Am The Parent             • The second you set the boundary they are              going to challenge it             • Wh...
I Am The Parent             • The second you set the boundary they are              going to challenge it             • Wh...
I Am The ParentJanuary 14
I Am The Parent             • Enforced in a good, loving wayJanuary 14
I Am The Parent             • Enforced in a good, loving way             • If you let them move the boundary, they willJan...
I Am The Parent             • Enforced in a good, loving way             • If you let them move the boundary, they will   ...
I Am The Parent             • Enforced in a good, loving way             • If you let them move the boundary, they will   ...
I Am The ParentJanuary 14
I Am The Parent             • When the rules are enforced consistently              they feel lovedJanuary 14
I Am The Parent             • When the rules are enforced consistently              they feel loved             • It is im...
I Am The Parent             • When the rules are enforced consistently              they feel loved             • It is im...
I Am The ParentJanuary 14
I Am The Parent             • You donʼt want to discipline in angerJanuary 14
I Am The Parent             • You donʼt want to discipline in anger             • You have to decide what the consequences...
I Am The Parent             • You donʼt want to discipline in anger             • You have to decide what the consequences...
I Am The Parent             • You donʼt want to discipline in anger             • You have to decide what the consequences...
HomeworkJanuary 14
Homework             • Spend some time writing out boundariesJanuary 14
Homework             • Spend some time writing out boundaries             • How will you enforce the rules?January 14
Homework             • Spend some time writing out boundaries             • How will you enforce the rules?             • ...
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X3 family session 3

  1. 1. X3 Rock Your FamilyJanuary 14
  2. 2. X3 Rock Your Family Session 3: Iʼm the Parent... ...dealing with toddlersJanuary 14
  3. 3. What is the bullseye?January 14
  4. 4. What is the bullseye? • “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact the world for Jesus Christ”January 14
  5. 5. What is the bullseye? • “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact the world for Jesus Christ” • TrainingJanuary 14
  6. 6. What is the bullseye? • “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact the world for Jesus Christ” • Training • DisciplingJanuary 14
  7. 7. What does it look like?January 14
  8. 8. What does it look like? • Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord”January 14
  9. 9. What does it look like? • Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord” • What would it look like to bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord?January 14
  10. 10. DisciplineJanuary 14
  11. 11. Discipline • This is one of the most draining and exhausting aspects of parentingJanuary 14
  12. 12. Discipline • This is one of the most draining and exhausting aspects of parenting • Youʼve got to set the boundaryJanuary 14
  13. 13. Discipline • This is one of the most draining and exhausting aspects of parenting • Youʼve got to set the boundary • By setting the boundary you tell them who is in chargeJanuary 14
  14. 14. Ten Commandments of Rock Your FamilyJanuary 14
  15. 15. Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family • #1) I am the parent and you arenʼtJanuary 14
  16. 16. Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family • #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt • You make the rulesJanuary 14
  17. 17. Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family • #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt • You make the rules • You set the boundariesJanuary 14
  18. 18. I Am The ParentJanuary 14
  19. 19. I Am The Parent • The second you set the boundary they are going to challenge itJanuary 14
  20. 20. I Am The Parent • The second you set the boundary they are going to challenge it • When they challenge the boundary, you must enforce itJanuary 14
  21. 21. I Am The Parent • The second you set the boundary they are going to challenge it • When they challenge the boundary, you must enforce it • If children have no boundary, they have no securityJanuary 14
  22. 22. I Am The ParentJanuary 14
  23. 23. I Am The Parent • Enforced in a good, loving wayJanuary 14
  24. 24. I Am The Parent • Enforced in a good, loving way • If you let them move the boundary, they willJanuary 14
  25. 25. I Am The Parent • Enforced in a good, loving way • If you let them move the boundary, they will • Teaching children how to obey GodJanuary 14
  26. 26. I Am The Parent • Enforced in a good, loving way • If you let them move the boundary, they will • Teaching children how to obey God • The fence has to be clearly definedJanuary 14
  27. 27. I Am The ParentJanuary 14
  28. 28. I Am The Parent • When the rules are enforced consistently they feel lovedJanuary 14
  29. 29. I Am The Parent • When the rules are enforced consistently they feel loved • It is important that children experience the consequences of overstepping the boundaryJanuary 14
  30. 30. I Am The Parent • When the rules are enforced consistently they feel loved • It is important that children experience the consequences of overstepping the boundary • Good consequences and bad consequencesJanuary 14
  31. 31. I Am The ParentJanuary 14
  32. 32. I Am The Parent • You donʼt want to discipline in angerJanuary 14
  33. 33. I Am The Parent • You donʼt want to discipline in anger • You have to decide what the consequences will be when your children are youngJanuary 14
  34. 34. I Am The Parent • You donʼt want to discipline in anger • You have to decide what the consequences will be when your children are young • If you are married, the decision must be made togetherJanuary 14
  35. 35. I Am The Parent • You donʼt want to discipline in anger • You have to decide what the consequences will be when your children are young • If you are married, the decision must be made together • It has to be done in a loving way that your kids understandJanuary 14
  36. 36. HomeworkJanuary 14
  37. 37. Homework • Spend some time writing out boundariesJanuary 14
  38. 38. Homework • Spend some time writing out boundaries • How will you enforce the rules?January 14
  39. 39. Homework • Spend some time writing out boundaries • How will you enforce the rules? • Iʼm the parent, youʼre notJanuary 14

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