X3 Rock Your FamilySession 3: Iʼm the Parent...              ...dealing with toddlers
What is the bullseye?
What is the bullseye?• “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact the world for Jesus Christ”
What is the bullseye?• “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact the world for Jesus Christ”• Training
What is the bullseye?• “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact the world for Jesus Christ”• Training• Discipling
What does it look like?
What does it look like?• Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training a...
What does it look like?• Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training a...
Discipline
Discipline• This is one of the most draining and exhausting aspects of parenting
Discipline• This is one of the most draining and exhausting aspects of parenting• Youʼve got to set the boundary
Discipline• This is one of the most draining and exhausting aspects of parenting• Youʼve got to set the boundary• By setti...
Ten Commandments ofRock Your Family
Ten Commandments ofRock Your Family• #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt
Ten Commandments ofRock Your Family• #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt• You make the rules
Ten Commandments ofRock Your Family• #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt• You make the rules• You set the boundaries
I Am The Parent• The second you set the boundary they are going to challenge it
I Am The Parent• The second you set the boundary they are going to challenge it• When they challenge the boundary, you mus...
I Am The Parent• The second you set the boundary they are going to challenge it• When they challenge the boundary, you mus...
I Am The Parent• Enforced in a good, loving way
I Am The Parent• Enforced in a good, loving way• If you let them move the boundary, they will
I Am The Parent• Enforced in a good, loving way• If you let them move the boundary, they will• Teaching children how to ob...
I Am The Parent• Enforced in a good, loving way• If you let them move the boundary, they will• Teaching children how to ob...
I Am The Parent• When the rules are enforced consistently they feel loved
I Am The Parent• When the rules are enforced consistently they feel loved• It is important that children experience the co...
I Am The Parent• When the rules are enforced consistently they feel loved• It is important that children experience the co...
I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger
I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger• You have to decide what the consequences will be when your childre...
I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger• You have to decide what the consequences will be when your childre...
I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger• You have to decide what the consequences will be when your childre...
Homework
Homework• Spend some time writing out boundaries
Homework• Spend some time writing out boundaries• How will you enforce the rules?
Homework• Spend some time writing out boundaries• How will you enforce the rules?• Iʼm the parent, youʼre not
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X3 family session 3

  1. 1. X3 Rock Your FamilySession 3: Iʼm the Parent... ...dealing with toddlers
  2. 2. What is the bullseye?
  3. 3. What is the bullseye?• “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact the world for Jesus Christ”
  4. 4. What is the bullseye?• “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact the world for Jesus Christ”• Training
  5. 5. What is the bullseye?• “Train and launch L-3 warriors that will impact the world for Jesus Christ”• Training• Discipling
  6. 6. What does it look like?
  7. 7. What does it look like?• Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord”
  8. 8. What does it look like?• Ephesians 6:4 “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord”• What would it look like to bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord?
  9. 9. Discipline
  10. 10. Discipline• This is one of the most draining and exhausting aspects of parenting
  11. 11. Discipline• This is one of the most draining and exhausting aspects of parenting• Youʼve got to set the boundary
  12. 12. Discipline• This is one of the most draining and exhausting aspects of parenting• Youʼve got to set the boundary• By setting the boundary you tell them who is in charge
  13. 13. Ten Commandments ofRock Your Family
  14. 14. Ten Commandments ofRock Your Family• #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt
  15. 15. Ten Commandments ofRock Your Family• #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt• You make the rules
  16. 16. Ten Commandments ofRock Your Family• #1) I am the parent and you arenʼt• You make the rules• You set the boundaries
  17. 17. I Am The Parent• The second you set the boundary they are going to challenge it
  18. 18. I Am The Parent• The second you set the boundary they are going to challenge it• When they challenge the boundary, you must enforce it
  19. 19. I Am The Parent• The second you set the boundary they are going to challenge it• When they challenge the boundary, you must enforce it• If children have no boundary, they have no security
  20. 20. I Am The Parent• Enforced in a good, loving way
  21. 21. I Am The Parent• Enforced in a good, loving way• If you let them move the boundary, they will
  22. 22. I Am The Parent• Enforced in a good, loving way• If you let them move the boundary, they will• Teaching children how to obey God
  23. 23. I Am The Parent• Enforced in a good, loving way• If you let them move the boundary, they will• Teaching children how to obey God• The fence has to be clearly defined
  24. 24. I Am The Parent• When the rules are enforced consistently they feel loved
  25. 25. I Am The Parent• When the rules are enforced consistently they feel loved• It is important that children experience the consequences of overstepping the boundary
  26. 26. I Am The Parent• When the rules are enforced consistently they feel loved• It is important that children experience the consequences of overstepping the boundary• Good consequences and bad consequences
  27. 27. I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger
  28. 28. I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger• You have to decide what the consequences will be when your children are young
  29. 29. I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger• You have to decide what the consequences will be when your children are young• If you are married, the decision must be made together
  30. 30. I Am The Parent• You donʼt want to discipline in anger• You have to decide what the consequences will be when your children are young• If you are married, the decision must be made together• It has to be done in a loving way that your kids understand
  31. 31. Homework
  32. 32. Homework• Spend some time writing out boundaries
  33. 33. Homework• Spend some time writing out boundaries• How will you enforce the rules?
  34. 34. Homework• Spend some time writing out boundaries• How will you enforce the rules?• Iʼm the parent, youʼre not

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