1. Evaluating listening habits
For each of the following statements select the answer that
best describes your listening habits-
Usually,Sometimes,Seldom
1. I maintain eye-contact with the speaker.
2. I determine whether or not speakers ideas are worth
while solely by their appearance and delivery.
3. I try to understand the message from the speakers point
of view.
4. I listen for specific facts rather than the big picture.
5. I listen for factual content and the emotion behind the
literal words.
2. Evaluating Listening habits
6.I ask questions for clarification and understanding.
7.I withhold judgment of what speakers are saying until they
have finished.
8. I make a conscious effort to evaluate the logic and
consistency of what is being said.
9. While listening, I think about what I am going to say as
soon as I have my chance.
10.I try to have the last word.
3. Scoring
• For statements
1,3,5,6,7,8
3 points for Usually
2 points for
Sometimes
1 point for Seldom.
• For statements
2,4,9,10
3 points for Seldom
2 points for
Sometimes
1 point for Usually
4. Listening and its types
• Marginal Listening-Paying attention to matters
other than being spoken by the speaker.
• Evaluative listening-It traps a listener into the
temptation of passing hasty judgments or
unfounded evaluations about the speaker.Such a
listener fails to get into the speakers’ frame of
reference and understand an idea from the
speakers point of view.
5. Types of listening
Active/empathic listening-A good listener
is an empathic listener.
• Pays close attention to what the speaker
says
• interferes very little
•Uses encouraging nods and words of
appreciation
•Is willing to listen completely
6. Different stages in listening
1.Sensing/selecting stage.The listener selects from
many stimuli only the one that seems important at
that point in time and converts it into a message.
2.Interpreting Stage.The listener is engaged in the
act of decoding the message.It is at this stage that
the listener is faced with many kinds of barriers.
3.Evaluating Stage.A great deal of critical listening
takes place at this stage .The listener assigns
meanings to the message,draw inferences,takes an
overview of the message.
7. Different stages in listening
4.Responding Stage. Listener is ready to respond.This is
the feedback stage which is important to the speaker.The
listener’s non verbal signals tell the speaker whether the
message has been understood or not.
5.Memory Stage. Effective listening helps listeners retain
chunks of what they have listened.Unfortunately, no matter
how brilliant a speaker is,most listeners can retain only 25-
40 %.That is why good speakers always make it a point to
organize their matter sequentially supported by audio
visuals or other supplementary material.
12. Linguistic/Semantic Barriers
• Speaker's style of speaking
• Difficult words and use of jargon
• Lag time
• Mispronounced words or words with more
than one meaning
14. Increasing listening efficiency
• Concentrate-Focus your attention on what the speaker is
saying.
• Acknowledge-Appreciative body language without faking
• Research-Review periodically what the speaker has said
until now.
• Exercise control-Restrain your impatience.
• Sense the non-verbal message
• Structure-put the message in order.
15. Body language of a good listener
• Attentive face
• A closed mouth smile and direct eye contact
• No distracting body gestures .
• Occasional head nods in appreciation of what is
being said by the speaker.
• Paraphrases using his/her own words.
• Avoids interrupting the speaker
• Asks appropriate questions.
16. Types of listeners
• The Sleeper-seeks a restful haven in a quiet hall,no
intention of listening,irritated if the sleep is
disturbed,reclines in the seat ready to go off to
sleep,his face reflects his state of blissful sleep.
• Eager Beaver-keeps smiling and nodding,eyes
have a strange out of focus appearance,energies
are directed to impress the speaker with what a
good listener he is-a real waste!
17. Types of listeners
• The Tiger-ready to pounce on everything the
speaker says,occupied with looking for trouble,has
a crouching position,leaning forward,eyes flashing
with the alertness of a big cat,silently growls when
he hears something he does not agree with.
• The shy ,bewildered-has never been able to find
out what the lecture is all about,Confused,pained
glances from him are a constant reminder to the
speaker that he must go slow…very slow!
18. Types of listeners
• The frowner-forehead has a perpetual
furrow,seems always on the verge of a
question,fakes attention .
• The Relaxed-seems to stay awake but slips down
in his chair resting his head on the back,stares
fixedly at some object or person,little
tension,never seems to react to anything,a real
problem for the speaker.
19. Types of listeners
• Busy bee-listens and impresses by writing
notes,buzzing with neighbours,sneaking glances at
magazines,cleaning fingernails,combing hair and
so on.A potential auditor in the audience,tries
various devices to capture the speakers’ attention.
• Two-Eared listener-Listens with ears and
mind,actively participates,reacts
objectively,decodes and evaluates carefully,right
body language,a model for all to follow.
