Zach and Lacy were best friends for many years until one day in 2009 when Lacy suddenly deleted Zach from Facebook without explanation and stopped responding to his messages. The document discusses reasons why people sometimes suddenly cut off contact with friends without explanation, such as not wanting to deal with relationship issues, secretly having issues with the other person, not considering the relationship important enough, politeness, a change of heart, having other issues in their own life, or wanting more independence. It advises that when this happens, the best thing to do is let go and move on rather than chasing after the person, and to focus on surrounding yourself with people who will be there for you.
Always consider giving your relationship your own privacy because when you have privacy, it means that you trust each other. You are not afraid of giving space because you know that you both need this in order for your relationship to work and grow. Before you enter in a life
Unconditional love knows no boundaries, no limitations and no
conditions. When you love someone unconditionally, you are just
there to support, love, protect and care for them without asking for
anything in return.
Always consider giving your relationship your own privacy because when you have privacy, it means that you trust each other. You are not afraid of giving space because you know that you both need this in order for your relationship to work and grow. Before you enter in a life
Unconditional love knows no boundaries, no limitations and no
conditions. When you love someone unconditionally, you are just
there to support, love, protect and care for them without asking for
anything in return.
Unconditional love knows no boundaries, no limitations and no
conditions. When you love someone unconditionally, you are just
there to support, love, protect and care for them without asking for
anything in return.
Here, know how to remove attachment in your love life
Learn how to love your beloved unconditionally
Know the basic steps to make your love life count
know how to prove your unconditional love life
Steps on removing Attachments and loving unconditionally.
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Saving Marriage With Unconditional Love
What are the essential ingredients in an ideal relationship?
In the middle of a workshop recently a pertinent question was asked about what creates the ideal relationship. We were asked to think of a relationship we had with something in the last week that in one's mind was the ideal relationship, and to think of what it was about that relationship that made it ideal.
A number of men in the group thought of their cars, tool sheds, families, workmates, old friends, even relationships with objects such as their television remote, recliner chair, or favorite pair of shoes. To each of these men, these things felt comfortable, and simple. The relationships they had with these people or objects was rewarding and easy to maintain.
A number of women considered kitchen appliances, favorite clothes or shoes, old friends, neighbours, and treasured items in their lives, and the bond that they had created either between people or with items they used in their lives. Words such as reliable, dependable, and comforting were used.
When my turn came to identify my ideal relationship, I thought of my dog. My dog has very simple needs, requiring only food, shelter, and love. No matter how my day has been or what kind of mood I'm in, when I get home at night and I'm greeted in such an authentic, transparent, and enthusiastic fashion. My dog is always excited to see me, and it's very humbling when you consider it.
I don't know of any others that greet me so enthusiastically night after night. No matter how long I have been away from the house or no matter how my day has been. His needs are few, yet he gives so much. I call this unconditional love.
So what is unconditional love?
Unconditional love is the type of love that comes without conditions. It is the type of love that you have for your partner when the romantic, hollywood-style love is gone. Once the romantic love is gone you make the transition to "real" love. Real love is love you have for your partner despite the knowledge that they are not perfect.
Introducing Unconditional Love – Steps on Removing Attachments and to Love Unconditionally. Inside this eBook, you will discover the topics about nature of an unconditional love, how to remove attachments in your love life, learning how to love unconditionally, basic steps in making your love life count, the A-Z of love life, 10 reasons why you need an unconditional love life, how to prove an unconditional love life, how to make your love life count for the other and killing attachments in an unconditional love life.
You can’t make someone have feelings for you. But you can change the interactions between the two of you. And the right kinds of interactions can force him to see you in a different light.
12 Things Every Woman Wants to Tell Her Mother-in-LawMulti Matrimony
Think mother-in-law and you instantly get an image of a disapproving woman, sitting on the sofa, ordering another woman – most probably her daughter-in-law – around. Blame Indian television for this, but we instantly associate a non-likable woman to a mother-in-law. And the same goes for the daughter-in-law too. She is this scheming woman who studied ‘break up families’ in school and majored in ‘make the husband choose you over his family‘
12 Things Every Woman Wants to Tell Her Mother-in-LawMulti Matrimony
Think mother-in-law and you instantly get an image of a disapproving woman, sitting on the sofa, ordering another woman – most probably her daughter-in-law – around. Blame Indian television for this, but we instantly associate a non-likable woman to a mother-in-law. And the same goes for the daughter-in-law too. She is this scheming woman who studied ‘break up families’ in school and majored in ‘make the husband choose you over his family
Let’s just to get this out there straight away, you cannot make someone like you, so don’t expect every guy or girl to fall in love with you. Secondly, each individual is different to the next and everyone has different preferences for their attraction, for example many people find beards amazing, I personally find them disgusting. So it’s tricky to have a set of baseline laws of attraction. Everyone is unique and as such have different preferences and tastes as to what they may find attractive.
The political climate of today is different from what it used to be. The Presidential contenders of previous elections would debate fiercely on their own position, but then go out for a drink after their time was up. Respect was expected, and deserved, and given. America’s issues were shared by all citizens. Whoever spoke against integrity, honesty, empathy, and good moral values like these were looked down upon, and thought to be the outliers of American Society. But now, people who don’t hold these values are looked up to, are tolerated, and are gaining support everyday. Discrimination based on race, sex, gender, sexual orientation, mental handicap, and other attributes are now more public than ever, and aren’t questioned. We are divided based on the differences we see in other people. It’s not much different from America’s deadly past that most people think we’ve moved on from. But the truth is, we haven’t moved on at all. Things have only gotten worse.
To stop racism, jealousy and untamed emotions! Get it together world. We need to create change and give love instead of indifference. Change your heart!
Unconditional love knows no boundaries, no limitations and no
conditions. When you love someone unconditionally, you are just
there to support, love, protect and care for them without asking for
anything in return.
Here, know how to remove attachment in your love life
Learn how to love your beloved unconditionally
Know the basic steps to make your love life count
know how to prove your unconditional love life
Steps on removing Attachments and loving unconditionally.
His secret Obsession (how to make a man fall deeply in love with you) copy and open the link below to be amazed.
https://c3b36fleiatq9s2apmt2gnhk6a.hop.clickbank.net/
Saving Marriage With Unconditional Love
What are the essential ingredients in an ideal relationship?
In the middle of a workshop recently a pertinent question was asked about what creates the ideal relationship. We were asked to think of a relationship we had with something in the last week that in one's mind was the ideal relationship, and to think of what it was about that relationship that made it ideal.
A number of men in the group thought of their cars, tool sheds, families, workmates, old friends, even relationships with objects such as their television remote, recliner chair, or favorite pair of shoes. To each of these men, these things felt comfortable, and simple. The relationships they had with these people or objects was rewarding and easy to maintain.
A number of women considered kitchen appliances, favorite clothes or shoes, old friends, neighbours, and treasured items in their lives, and the bond that they had created either between people or with items they used in their lives. Words such as reliable, dependable, and comforting were used.
When my turn came to identify my ideal relationship, I thought of my dog. My dog has very simple needs, requiring only food, shelter, and love. No matter how my day has been or what kind of mood I'm in, when I get home at night and I'm greeted in such an authentic, transparent, and enthusiastic fashion. My dog is always excited to see me, and it's very humbling when you consider it.
I don't know of any others that greet me so enthusiastically night after night. No matter how long I have been away from the house or no matter how my day has been. His needs are few, yet he gives so much. I call this unconditional love.
So what is unconditional love?
Unconditional love is the type of love that comes without conditions. It is the type of love that you have for your partner when the romantic, hollywood-style love is gone. Once the romantic love is gone you make the transition to "real" love. Real love is love you have for your partner despite the knowledge that they are not perfect.
Introducing Unconditional Love – Steps on Removing Attachments and to Love Unconditionally. Inside this eBook, you will discover the topics about nature of an unconditional love, how to remove attachments in your love life, learning how to love unconditionally, basic steps in making your love life count, the A-Z of love life, 10 reasons why you need an unconditional love life, how to prove an unconditional love life, how to make your love life count for the other and killing attachments in an unconditional love life.
You can’t make someone have feelings for you. But you can change the interactions between the two of you. And the right kinds of interactions can force him to see you in a different light.
12 Things Every Woman Wants to Tell Her Mother-in-LawMulti Matrimony
Think mother-in-law and you instantly get an image of a disapproving woman, sitting on the sofa, ordering another woman – most probably her daughter-in-law – around. Blame Indian television for this, but we instantly associate a non-likable woman to a mother-in-law. And the same goes for the daughter-in-law too. She is this scheming woman who studied ‘break up families’ in school and majored in ‘make the husband choose you over his family‘
12 Things Every Woman Wants to Tell Her Mother-in-LawMulti Matrimony
Think mother-in-law and you instantly get an image of a disapproving woman, sitting on the sofa, ordering another woman – most probably her daughter-in-law – around. Blame Indian television for this, but we instantly associate a non-likable woman to a mother-in-law. And the same goes for the daughter-in-law too. She is this scheming woman who studied ‘break up families’ in school and majored in ‘make the husband choose you over his family
Let’s just to get this out there straight away, you cannot make someone like you, so don’t expect every guy or girl to fall in love with you. Secondly, each individual is different to the next and everyone has different preferences for their attraction, for example many people find beards amazing, I personally find them disgusting. So it’s tricky to have a set of baseline laws of attraction. Everyone is unique and as such have different preferences and tastes as to what they may find attractive.
The political climate of today is different from what it used to be. The Presidential contenders of previous elections would debate fiercely on their own position, but then go out for a drink after their time was up. Respect was expected, and deserved, and given. America’s issues were shared by all citizens. Whoever spoke against integrity, honesty, empathy, and good moral values like these were looked down upon, and thought to be the outliers of American Society. But now, people who don’t hold these values are looked up to, are tolerated, and are gaining support everyday. Discrimination based on race, sex, gender, sexual orientation, mental handicap, and other attributes are now more public than ever, and aren’t questioned. We are divided based on the differences we see in other people. It’s not much different from America’s deadly past that most people think we’ve moved on from. But the truth is, we haven’t moved on at all. Things have only gotten worse.
To stop racism, jealousy and untamed emotions! Get it together world. We need to create change and give love instead of indifference. Change your heart!
Job Search Survival Kit -- Nasty People Can Be Tamed --Anthony Hines
The following is a presenation that discusses possible ways to handle people at work who are just plain nasty to be around. Hopefully these tips will help you out if you are dealing with this in the workplace.
Who Am I….I am a hardworking guy who, like many others, found himself out of work during the economic downturn in 2010. After a long battle of wrong turns, job search strategies that led to no where, and dead end leads, I decided to take a more strategic approach to my job search. Like anything else in life, I needed to treat my search like a full-time job and create a plan that would allow me to stand out above the competition. This came in especially handy as I was in transition again in 2017. Basically, I just used the tips that I have shared with others and was out of work a total of ZERO days. Yes, I got a job offer the day after my last day at my previous job. Let me show you how I did it so you too can have a quicker landing than you would have had without my tips.
Why Am I Sharing What Helped Me…because I quickly realized that to handle an event like that is to focus on what you can control and share the experience to help others. I believe that an experience not shared is a lost opportunity in life, and that smart people learn from their mistakes and smarter people learn from other people’s experiences. Plus, I told myself that once I figured this out I would share it with others so that they too could navigate the world of unemployment. In these chapters, I show you how I did it so that you will have the confidence to make it through the process. I hope that this presentation helps you to get your next great job.
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Check out this blog and find out what a soulmate really is according to me. This is the transcript for the audio posted on Tumblr @ www.tumblr.com/messages2mankind
14 Signs You Have A Strong Intimidating PersonalityKrisman S
If you find yourself alone more often than not, it might be because of your deep and complex personality traits.
Sure, people love complexity in theory, but in action, it can be really intimidating to other people.
This is especially true of men in relation to women: men say they want a deep and complex woman, but when it comes down to it, they just get scared off by the intensity of the woman’s personality.
That’s not a bad thing though – deep women are willing to wait for someone who can handle them.
Here are 15 signs your personality is so deep that it’s intimidating others.
Partnership has to do with the relationship that exist between two parties. It can be love , friendship, business and so on. How can you know your partner is a committed one. How can you know someone you are seriously relating with is not playing games with you. How will you know that your partner is serious and not wasting your time. This book lay more emphasis on the love relationship aspect between two individuals.The ebook enables you to know if your partner is a loyal and dependable one based on the signs and act you receive from the partner. The book is an eye opener to show you if you are having a good sincere and serious partner and actually going in t]he right direction. Thanks
Moving on without you - A complete guide to get over your exJibranAzhar
Breaking up is really hurtful, but getting lost in the process is unacceptable.
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The most practical ways to make any person fall in love with youAnanthunair17
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I’m going to share a rather big secret.
It’s one of those secrets men aren’t going to tell you.
It’s TOO personal.
It gets at the core of what makes us vulnerable.
This secret also gets at the reason why so many men abandon otherwise good relationships.
It triggers men deep down in their heart and in their gut.
They may not even be able to express it…
But every guy knows this truth in his bones.
Are you ready for it?
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Why is he doing this?
He’s still calling and texting you, even though he’s the one who broke up with you.
He said he didn’t want a relationship. So why is he acting as if you’re still in one?
Could it be that he’s missing you?
Does he regret breaking up with you?
Does he want you back?
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His secret obsession is a breakthrough program written by relationship expert James Bauer, based on over 12 years worth of research and experience.
It shows women how to tap into a powerful life-long desire all men share, and harness it to transform the way men experience them.
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Winning your ex back isn’t really the hard part. The hard part is keeping them.
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A presentation on Bullying. The victim. The bully . Types of bullying. How to help the victim. Are you a bully? Discussion questions and a writing exercise. Vocabulary section .
Similar to When people flee in the middle of the night (20)
1. When People Flee In The Middle of the Night
For many years, Zach and Lacy were best friends. They enjoyed talking to each other and loved each
other. Everything seemed to go great and nothing separated them from each other. Then one day in
2009, Zach tried to call Lacy and he didn’t get any responses. Zach noticed Lacy normally talking to
her friends as usual. Then hours later, he noticed Lacy delete Zach from her Facebook. Zach then
talked to her to see what happened, no response. Everything seemed fine up to that point. He didn’t see
this coming. Zach was devastated. He didn’t understand why she would just leave him like that without
talking about any issues they have had. Zach remained confused, trying to figure everything out.
Situations like this happen all the time. The reason for it is because people operate in secrecy, and they
do things secretly because:
1. They do not want to deal with the situation
Many people just delete someone without talking to them about it because they refuse to deal with the
situation. They just want to move on past it. Either they are too scared to deal with the issue or they
just do not care about dealing with the situation. In most cases, the latter is true.
2. They secretly had issues with you
Many people do not realize some of their friends have issues with them on the inside. People tend to
hide certain issues from you because they do not want to deal with certain issues. I can relate to this
since I can have certain issues with people and they never know I did and they probably wondered why
I did not want to talk to them much. There is power in secrecy and I have seen people do it. People just
don’t tell everyone, they just hold it in secret. It is why people get away with lying all the time. They
can secretly hide things from you and tell you what you want to hear, and get you in the end for it. You
never know if they have issues with you until they delete you or drop you. It is why if you have noticed
people backing away from you, maybe it’s a sign they had an issue with you. Instead of talking to you
about it, they just distance themselves from you. It’s the opposite of trust.
3. They do not consider the relationship valuable enough to deal with it with them
This happened to me recently. One girl blocked me from Instagram because I was liking and
commenting and being too much and I did not mean to be so. Me and her are fine now, its just that
instead of talking to me about it, she just blocked me. I now had to back away from her because she
just did not seem to trust me much. It is an issue with trust. A lot of people just delete you instead of
talking to you about it because the relationships aren’t valuable enough. They had too many issues
with you so it’s like “what the heck”, I rather just delete the person.
4. Politeness.
People mainly just do not tell you just to not hurt your feelings. That is why they do not tell you the
truth that they just do not like you much anymore. It is why people just walk away from you without
telling you. They just want to do the polite thing to do. It is why people back away from you because
they do not want to tell you that you STINK! LOLS. People just do not say anything because of issues
it may cause. That is why people back away from you, delete you because they just do not want to deal
with the issue.
5. Recent Heart Change, True Self Comes Out
The main reason people do a 180 on you and change is because their true colors get revealed. The lies
get revealed and you realized this person was being sleezy. It could also mean their heart changed all
of a sudden. It happens. Some people just start distancing themselves and being different to you
because they recently changed on you. Its awesome when people go up, but when people downsize on
2. you, its no fun. I remember I had an internet friend in 2007-08 who me and her were great, but then in
2008, she told me to give her space, and told me also that she just did not know me at all. She went
from talking to me, to not knowing me. What was weird is that she told me it was okay for me to talk
to her on the phone and on the internet and she turned around and said I was harassing her. This
happens quite frequently so you need to be careful and on your guard. Changes like this happen all the
time and there is very little anyone can do about it. Things can be going just well and then all of a
sudden, they back away from you, because their true self came out. Its not that they did a 180 at times,
it is just that their true colors came out. Maybe the internet friend did not really know me and she was
being deceiving. People can be treacherous and deceiving so be very careful when dealing with people.
6. Just have issues going on
Maybe something is going on in their lives and they need their space. Just let them be and let God
handle it. They probably have not changed on you. One of my friends acted very hostile for an entire
semester, but it was mainly because she had a lot of work to do and she needed space. I gave it to her.
7. Acting Independent of You
In relationships, we do things to keep the bond flowing, but many people will [start to] act independent
of you because of issues they have with you, and they just do not want to talk to you about it. It is why
they change on you all of a sudden and if they had an issue, instead of going to you about it, they just
keep it to themselves and back away from you. The beginning signs of deterioration according to
Knapp starts with differentiation, when you start to notice whats different and pull apart, and then you
circumscribe, or start to do things independent, and set more boundaries, and then you stagnate, and
communication becomes less frequent, and then you start avoiding each other until the relationship
ends. This is how relationships deteriorate. You will start notice people start acting independent of you
by talking to you less, and not being the same. People change because they just do not want the status
quo anymore, they want different so since they do have the right to change on you, they will.
How do I prevent this from happening?
Truth is, one cannot control someone else’s actions or else they would not be a good friend.
Manipulation takes you nowhere. You can tell people to trust you, but they just do not have to. You
cannot control people from leaving, and neither can you tell others what to do. People will be people
and you will have plenty of friends who just back away from you for no reason. You wonder why they
did. But the best thing you can do is be yourself and continue to love people. When people drift on you
without warning and when people stop talking to you, just give it over to God. Maybe something you
said bothered them and you did not mean to do anything to them. Now some people leave for various
reasons known but I am mainly talking about those who drift because of uknown reasons. Do not
worry about those. If you feel like you did something, just apologize to the person and move on. I had
to do that this week.
You cannot prevent people from deleting you off of Facebook for no warning, nor can you present a
code of conduct for your friends. But let your friends know that if there is a problem, they can talk to
you about it. Many times, people use the politeness principle because they just do not know how to talk
to you about it. Just continue to do these four things:
1. Be Yourself
Do not try to be someone else or go outside of your circle so people will not leave you. Just be yourself
and be strong.
3. 2. Love Others
Love, respect and value others. Care for others and do not try to cause them harm. 1 Peter 2:14-17
3. Be Confident in Christ
Be strong in the LORD and in the power of his might. Let him take care of your needs. Ephesians
6:10-18
4. Be Trustworthy
Always be a trustworthy person. Do not break confidences. Show people that you can be trusted.
Do not let people get you fearful of others because they can leave without warning. Just let go and let
God deal with situations because you cannot make people do anything. You can message someone
about it, but they do not have to forgive you or rebuild trust. The truth is, just be trustworthy, love
others, be interested in others, and you will not have to worry about people deleting you. You cannot
control others so you can have a great relationship, just let it flow. You’ll find the right friends and the
right girlfriend. The philosophy I use is, if people want to be my friends and talk to me, great, if they
don’t, great. My AP Economics teacher in High School used his philosophy, “You can work or not
work in my class if you want, but I will still receive my paycheck no matter if you pass or fail. Its up to
you on if you want to get an A, B, C or F in my class.” Instead of being controlling, just let people
come in and out of your life as they please. Let people do what they will. As long as people care about
you, like you and trust you, then go ahead. You want people to do well in your class, you want others
to like you and trust you, but you have to show them they can like you and trust you, and show them
they can do well in your class. My AP Econ teacher did all he could to help us succeed, as long as we
put forth effort and asked him for help. This is how God is. He wants us to succeed and he wants a
relationship with us, but it is our responsibility if we want to keep the relationship and succeed in life.
God rewards our faith in him. That’s how it works with people, and with students. We cannot make
them succeed and we cannot make them continue to like us and trust us, but as long as we are
ourselves, love others, be confident in Christ and be trustworthy, God will take care of the rest. We
will make mistakes, and if people want to leave us because of it, let them. But continue to be
trustworthy and love others. We cannot push, but all we can do is pull, so people can be who they are.
We can influence people, we just cannot manipulate others or control others. A teacher influences her
students to learn because she teaches them great principles to live by and makes class suitable for
them.
What to do if people walk away?
Situations like these can be super hard to deal with so if people walk away, do not bother them. Just let
them go. They may come back. If people walk away from you, do not chase after them, just let them
be. Then maybe later, you can apologize to them if you did anything. Maybe they left because they just
did not see you as a friend anymore. Just let them go.
How should I recover from this type of rejection?
Just give all your ashes to God and he will give you beauty for ashes. Just stand strong, and continue to
fight the good fight of faith. Do not shrink back, but keep on moving forward in God and let him heal
you. I know it’s hard, and anger is a natural response because you feel mistreated, but you need to
stand strong, and learn from your mistakes and move on. Let God’s love overflow you so he can heal
you.
How do I move forward?
4. Just recognize that person wants to exit your story and is not a true friend in your life. This person
refuses to be there for you so move forward and focus on the ones that will. Just keep growing up in
Christ and let him love on you. Since people refuse to have a relationship with you, just let them go.
Remember Zach and Lacy?
Well long story short, Lacy stopped talking to Zach because she noticed Zach was talking different on
Facebook. She did not like what she saw, so she just blew him off. Zach realized Lacy did not want to
accept Zach for who he was so Zach just realized she wasn’t for him anymore. Since people rejected
you, or backed away from you, or did a 360 on you, its not worth having them in your life so don’t
focus on them too much. Just be you and move on.