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What if my student gets upset? 
If your student feels threatened by your discovery or observations, 
she may deny that she has a problem or get upset. If she gets upset 
or mad, stay calm. Do not panic or get angry. Do not get into a "Yes 
you do / No I don't" power struggle. Give her space to respond, 
listen to her, and ask her to listen to you. Remind her that coaches 
tell students when they are worried about them. 
If she insists that she does not have a problem, or that she can stop 
on their own, you can say something like, "You know how it is with 
alcoholism and denial. The addiction makes it so hard to see when 
you have a serious problem and that you need help. I'm worried 
you're trapped in a similar kind of situation. I'm really worried about 
you, and even though I hear what you're saying, I think you are really struggling and you 
need help stopping. I believe in you and I know you deserve to get help and get better." 
If she has tried to get better on her own and hasn't succeeded and is ashamed, point 
out that it is very hard to recover without help and that this is not a weakness or failure 
on her part. You may need to approach a student more than once before she will agree 
to get help. 
Offer the name of a referral (physician or psychotherapist) for her to contact. Let her 
know that you'll touch base with her to follow up. Ask if it is okay for you to notify the 
referral person that he or she can expect to hear from her. In a few days, or whatever 
seems to be the right amount of time, check in with the student and ask if she contacted 
the person. Follow up with the referral person, and then continue to be supportive of the 
student as you would any student. Avoid comments about food, exercise, or 
appearance. 
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What if my student gets upset

  • 1. What if my student gets upset? If your student feels threatened by your discovery or observations, she may deny that she has a problem or get upset. If she gets upset or mad, stay calm. Do not panic or get angry. Do not get into a "Yes you do / No I don't" power struggle. Give her space to respond, listen to her, and ask her to listen to you. Remind her that coaches tell students when they are worried about them. If she insists that she does not have a problem, or that she can stop on their own, you can say something like, "You know how it is with alcoholism and denial. The addiction makes it so hard to see when you have a serious problem and that you need help. I'm worried you're trapped in a similar kind of situation. I'm really worried about you, and even though I hear what you're saying, I think you are really struggling and you need help stopping. I believe in you and I know you deserve to get help and get better." If she has tried to get better on her own and hasn't succeeded and is ashamed, point out that it is very hard to recover without help and that this is not a weakness or failure on her part. You may need to approach a student more than once before she will agree to get help. Offer the name of a referral (physician or psychotherapist) for her to contact. Let her know that you'll touch base with her to follow up. Ask if it is okay for you to notify the referral person that he or she can expect to hear from her. In a few days, or whatever seems to be the right amount of time, check in with the student and ask if she contacted the person. Follow up with the referral person, and then continue to be supportive of the student as you would any student. Avoid comments about food, exercise, or appearance. Photo credit-Creative Commons, K.M. Klemencic