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Turnaround Sept 09
- 1. School of Mastery Emotional Intelligence: Mastering Relationships Founder: Joseph Geraghty, B.A. Hons. HRMD. NLP & EFT
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- 3. TURNAROUND: Goals Unless youhave a clear cut goal set at the outset, things just happen and you try to make sense of them after the event. Evaluation is therefore impossible! Please set your learning goals (purpose) for this course.
- 4. Goals Notends Signposts Learning aids Expressing joy Expressing freedom Mastery co-creator
- 5. Co – CreativeProcess Energy Matter Choice
- 6. Nature is Extravagant Add one outrageous goal to your list!
- 7. Our Mission Absolute liberationfor the mind Freedom from fear Help others learn the joy of co-creating
- 8. Present World View Ourworld view is upside down! Matter dominates what we see, and so we are fearful and distrustful. No one is seen as complete and stable Our view is competitive and adversarial We have given away our power to others
- 9. How Did ThisHappen? Education system is not balanced Control was more important than empowerment We were not trained to contribute and co-create We mostly end up as struggling victims We loose our happiness and our self esteem
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- 11. Skills for theFuture Developing Discriminating Emotional Intelligence Exercising Choice: The Critical Factor Thoughtful Decision Making What needs to be changed? How can it be changed?
- 12. Active Mind Lower Realms Input and output based on myopic egoic five senses Pure animal instinct - fighting for survival Poverty stricken mentality Shame, guilt or any sense of limitation, causing: constant turmoil - a world of paranoia Not the whole story!
- 13. Higher Realm Beyond thesensory based world is a world of reason and intellect A formless world of thought, a fourth dimension Both have a function but the navigation is best handled by reason
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- 15. Renewing the Mind The solution What is to be saved? How is it to be saved?
- 16. The Narrow Door Well head is the five senses Not the whole story Pure reason found beyond five senses The home of the True Self!
- 17. The Transformative Shift Beginwith discovering who and what we are Renew our minds Change the unhappy dream Move to the higher realm USE STOP!
- 18. Comfort Break Mix and chat
- 19. Inner Conflict Eskimo Story
- 20. Finding True Self:Unique Self Ego must die Born again Transformative process Exercising choice Spiritual practice
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- 22. School of Mastery Creating Solutions Together: Life By Design Founder: Joseph Geraghty, B.A. Hons. HRMD. NLP & EFT
- 23. Learning to Learn ConsciousGrowth 1.Unconscious incompetence 2. Conscious incompetence 3. Conscious competence 4. Unconscious competence
- 24. Tell a friend! Tellyour neighbour why you are positively 100% committed to mastering your emotions. Switch roles
- 25. World View Personal ParadigmShift Belief system how things work Kuhn 1962 Earth is flat! Crises Cause shifts Rules no longer fit
- 26. Key Questions Who or what am I? What sort of person am I going to be? What am I going to contribute to this world? Where lives true happiness
- 27. Key Ideas Perfection Stages of development Exercising choice Act of will Renewing the mind Transformation of consciousness
- 28. Are We Perfect? The body cannot think It has no power to learn It cannot pardon It cannot enslave It gives no orders the mind need serve Nor set conditions it must obey It has no self-image!
- 29. Perfection Two key ideas Perfection equals accomplishment Ability equals potential At the celestial of spirit you are perfect Managing emotions?
- 30. Pure Consciousness What is it? It’s indivisible It’s alive & dynamic Infinitely intelligent Infinitely creative It’s completely open It’s absolutely free
- 31. Observer Exercise Experience Facilitation Observation Discussion Who are you?
- 32. Discriminating Intelligence: Feelings False perceptions Ranting ego Gentle Spirit
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- 34. School of Mastery Together: Creating Breakthrough Solutions Founder: Joseph Geraghty, B.A. Hons. HRMD. NLP & EFT
- 35. Fear & ParentTapes You were taught that love was conditional Affection could be withdrawn You could be punished You were taught a fear based reality.
- 36. Partnership versus Parenting Boss surrogate parent Find your voice Integrated adult Self reliant and contributing
- 37. Emotional Conscious Competence Strong intuition Beyond good/bad Emotional clarity Let go…or Follow your heart Active listening
- 38. Unlimited Personal Power Lake Eire Niagara Falls Ocean of consciousness You are the point of its expression! Choice?
- 39. Baggage Reclaim! What energy baggage do you need to reclaim ? Outside symbols of power!
- 40. Symbolic Power Leaks Guilt - shame Money Sex Negative circumstances Others?
- 41. Transforming Power Leaks Recognition first vital step Leaks always specific Observer not the reaction! Free from doubt
- 42. Energy Management & PersonalPower 10+10 Personal reflection Application GROUP SHARING Practical applications
- 43. Sponsoring Belief, thoughts andaction Raw energy- drives the human experience EVERY action is triggered by a sponsoring belief Only two emotions fear and love
- 44. Two Emotions A Greek story Emotion, unbridled energy Observe your emotions Ride the wind horse Learn to exercise choice and ride!
- 45. Empty tank Fear: energy which contracts closes down runs hides hoards and harms
- 46. Full tank: Energy Management Love energy: Expands, Opens up Sends out Reveals, Shares and heals
- 47. Parent Tapes &Rules Rules New ideas Test drive before you buy! O.M.R
- 48. Emotional Intelligence Freedomfrom fear Don’t gamble, express! Grief v Depression Anger v Rage Envy v Jealousy Caution v Panic Love v Possessiveness
- 49. Emotional Intelligence The Power of Belief A Purpose Filled Life Creating that which brings you joy
- 50. Emotional Intelligence 10 +10 What were the BIG IDEAS? Group What can we use? Individual Reflection Practical Applications
- 51. Mind Management Liberate the mind or body? Tame the unruly mind Unified purpose
- 52. Crossing the Threshold: Discovering You Let the past go Enter into a new identity Become a new “no limit” person Emerge effortlessly
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- 54. Upside Down Perception We think we build our identity from zero! We learn that cause of the pain is “out-there” Parent tapes define who we are “Things” define who we are
- 55. Reversing Effect &Cause Cause & Effect Mind Cause Thoughts Effects Thoughts have consequences Observer-Navigator Journey of reconciliation Healing the split mind
- 56. Correcting Error List one situation where you become angry or irritated Recognise this is body pain What’s your reaction to these thoughts It's your story!
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- 58. Driving in YourInner World Car metaphor Headlights = Awareness Steering Wheel = Choice Fuel = Desire
- 59. Conditioned Suffering Who is pulling your strings? Birth, Sickness and Death “Suffering” of change “Conditioned Suffering”
- 60. Conscious Growth 1. Unconscious competence 2.Conscious Incompetence 3.Conscious competence 4.Unconscious competence
- 61. Infinite Intelligence God’s greatest gift: Unconditional love God’s greatest promise: Unlimited potential
- 62. Growing Up! Break free from the mental cords which bind us Forgiveness, absol ute key to emotional freedom Unity restored to the mind
- 63. Exercising Choice: The CriticalFactor Control your mind! Mind a mechanism of decision Level of choice Consequences Alternatives
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- 65. The Miracle ofThought a Transformative Power All thought has consequences Lower body level of experience Higher spiritual level of experience One makes the physical the other the spiritual
- 66. Exercising choice What makes you angry? Obstacles and difficult situations Possible alternatives Group sharing
- 67. Transforming Patterns Breaking the Bonds Frozen patterns Guilt made eternal Gain and loss Sacrifice pivotal! Reclaim your power
- 68. Power Choice Will theforce that manages energy Congruence the ultimate challenge Harmonise head and heart See, do and learn
- 69. Thoughts “Thoughts” are the building blocks of the universe Do not let “things” define who you are Happiness is an inside job! Life is an inside job!
- 70. Reflection: Transforming Patterns Personalreflection What did I learn? GROUP SHARING Practical application
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- 72. Mind Management Learn to capture our thoughts Change our thoughts and bring order from chaos Change our self- concept The truth will set us free
- 73. Mind Management StinkingThinking Internal cleaning kit Virus scan Conflict patterns!
- 74. Decision Making Always two! Critic or Observer Need Decision Resolution Action
- 75. Disidentification Exercise Body Emotions Mind
- 76. Disidentification What practical use? How can it add purpose to my Life? What one thing if I did it each day would impact my life?
- 77. Congratulations you havepassed! Now you have parked the ego what next?
- 78. Life in Spirit “Whenyou are inspired… dormant forces, faculties, and talents become alive, and you discover yourself to be a greater person by far than you ever dreamed yourself to be.” - Pantanjali
- 79. The Creative Process Quantum Wealth Always a message!
- 80. The Creative Process The arrow - intellect The bow - action Phenomenal world Always a “message” “What's working”
- 81. The Creative Process Creative tools Imagination & Ignition Thoughts Words Action
- 82. Beliefs = MissionControl Will = Free or bound Continuous presence Continuous expression Conscious growth Two stages: Undoing ego blocks Creating solutions
- 83. Creative Tools The law of attraction The power of focus Unwanted circumstances? Change your focus Fire you arrow
- 84. Mountain Moving Faith Beliefs OK? Feelings OK? OK, now take action! Fire your first arrow Now decide on the next steps
- 85. Quantum Wealth Circle© 2004 School of Mastery BREAKTHROUGH Where are we? Where are we going? Ignition No struggle learning Blockages Gone-Open Cultivate Playful Process beginning Sympathetic environment Direct Action Refreshing, not Avoid Conclusions slavish Positive & Negative Enlightened Further starting confidence Points Next Step!
- 86. Creative Process What’s the BIG IDEA you will take away. What else?
- 87. Obstacles to MajorChange Ingrained habits Comfort Zone Move to conscious competence Celebrate every small win
- 88. Exercising Choice: Commitment Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation) there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: the moment one definitely commits oneself.... then providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would otherwise never have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manor of unforeseen incidents and meetings, and material assistance which no man could have dreamt could come his way. “ W.H. Murray
- 89. My Destiny What ismy life's purpose? To be a slave to fear? Play small part in film, “Limitation”? Or star in the film, “Abundance”?
- 90. Your Five MinuteFun Movie Director Producer Script writer Star Film critic
- 91. My New Beginning Tofollow my heart To follow my dream To sing my song To dance my tune
- 92. Staying in theGrowth Stage The Miracle “Can Do” Club One-on-One Life Skills Coaching One-on-One Business coaching EI Basics: Mastering Emotions
- 93. Helping Humanity Evolve Please help to spread the word of what we do. Please complete our course evaluation, your testimononial is very important.
- 94. School of Mastery Contactdetails Post: Joseph Geraghty 7 Eden Park, Loughrea, Co Galway Phone: 091 871630 (9 till 5) Mobile: 086 3980233 Email: Joseph@schoolofmastery.ie Visit www.schoolofmastery.ie