•Willpower
•Analytical
Conscious Mind •Rational
Defence Mechanisms
•Strategies
•Hungry •Habits
•Angry •Impulses/Emotions
Sub Conscious Mind •Physiological control
•Lonely
•Tired
When you have conflict between any two you will feel
stress. If all three are in conflict you will be HIGHLY
STRESSED
NLP model of our brains
6.
Hello Ego
It isyour personality
It helps you survive
It’s strongest argument against
change is you are still alive!
Gatekeeper to your belief
systems
Ensures events prove that your
beliefs are correct
“I know that”
7.
Hello Reticular
Activating Systems
(RAS)
A very important brain
function
In essence it is a filter
It helps you find references
It is a key channel to the
subconscious
8.
RAS helps defineconsciousness
You are aware of things in the room right now
Your brain has processed information
It has probably processed around 130 bits
How many bits of information do you think are in the room?
Millions!!
9.
Awareness / consciousness
Youcan see that “reality” is very personal process
Your perception is driven by what bits of information you
are allowing to be processed
The rest of the information exists - you have just discounted
it
RAS is the gatekeeper to your Subconscious - it lets in
what you tell it is important
Your beliefs are stored in your subconscious
10.
Up to 60,000
thoughtsper day –
what percentage is
negative?
Are your thoughts + or -?
An idea gets Money does not
References create
planted grow on trees
roots and the
Subconscious looks
belief is fully
for references
formed
How beliefs are created
18.
Roger
Bannister
The 4 minutemile
Believed to be impossible
Doctors said that the human heart
would explode if running at that speed
In 1954 Roger Bannister ran the mile in
3 mins 54.4 secs
By end of 1957 16 other runners had
broken the 4 minute “barrier”
The old belief was simply not true
19.
What about the
flatearth belief?
The ancient Greeks figured it out
However there is still a flat Earth
Society alive and well today!
20.
One simple approachto change a belief.......
Don’t keep beating the same drum
Date
21.
Exercise - Part1
List any beliefs that you think are holding you back
Where did that belief come from?
What has this belief cost me over the years?
What has it prevented me from doing/ having/ being?
22.
Exercise Part 2
-
Success
What does it mean to YOU?
What would it look like?
How would you “feel”?
What resources will you need?
What do you need to BELIEVE
23.
We need toexamine our beliefs - what do we
need to support our success?
EFT (emotional
freedom technique)
Mixes psychology with
acupressure
Primarily uses “tapping” to
stimulate acupuncture
points
Balances the energy system
Appears to relieve
psychological and even
physiological pain
26.
NLP (neuro linguistic
programming)
A set of tools that marry
psychotherapy with behavioural
change
There is a relationship between
thought patterns and behavioural
patters
Benefits:
Self -motivation
Behavioural change
State change
27.
Dialoguing
Acknowledge the existenceof the
negative belief or feeling
Thank it you need to acknowledge
its presence
Tell the feeling or belief that it is no
longer required. It was then this is
NOW - letting it remain takes
you AWAY from what you desire
Think of the feeling or belief you
DO WANT that leads to what
you desire
28.
Sedona Method
In anutshell
Allow the negative emotion to
appear
Examine it
“Could I let this feeling go?
“Would I let this feeling go?”
If so when?
The Power ofQuestions
They can be life enhancing
They can be life detracting
31.
The Power ofQuestions
• Is this situation as bad as I
am making out to be?
Why me? • What is the worst thing that
could happen? How likely is
it?
Why does it always go
wrong? • What is the best thing that
could happen?
When will my luck change? • What is most likely to
happen?
Why does my life suck? • What can I learn about this
situation?
• Will this matter in five years
time?
32.
Tony Robbins -morning
power questions
What am I happy about in my
life right now?
What am I excited about in my
life right now?
What am I grateful for right
now?
What am I enjoying in my life
right now?
Who do I love and who loves
me?
33.
Evening power
questions
What haveI given today?
What did I learn today?
How has today contributed
to my future?
What did I feel grateful for
today?
34.
Transformance
power thoughts
“What if......?”
“What else is possible?”
“How does it get any better
than this?”
“Wouldn’t it be nice if...?”
“There is plenty more
where that came from”