This document discusses the need for respect and privacy in an increasingly digital world dominated by large technology companies collecting "big data". It proposes a private peer-to-peer network called "The Real Deal" that would allow people to own and control their own data through a new "social contract" defined by governments and facilitated by technology, while respecting individuals' privacy and basic rights. The document notes that some technology companies currently act as "digital traffickers" and calls for new laws and frameworks to better protect users in the new digital landscape.