The document discusses how to read body language by observing various body parts and signals. It notes that head position, eye contact, mirroring behaviors, arm and hand positions, foot tapping and positioning can all provide clues about a person's emotional state, interest level, confidence, openness and intentions. The document suggests that noticing these subtle nonverbal cues can help one better understand social dynamics and read people.
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Learn to Read Body Language Signals
1. Body language
Noticing the signals that people send
out with their body language is a very
useful social skill. Some of us can read it
naturally and some of us are notoriously
oblivious. Fortunately, with a little extra
attentiveness, you can learn to read
body language
2. Watch their head position.
Overly tilted heads a potential sign of sympathy, or if a person
smiles while tilting their head, they are being playful and maybe
even flirting.
Lowered heads indicate a reason to hide something. Take note if
someone lowers their head. If it is when he is complimented, he
may be shy, ashamed, timid, keeping distance from the other
person, in disbelief, or thinking to himself or herself. If it is after
an explanation, then he may be unsure if what he said was
correct, or could be reflecting.
It should be noted that some cultures see this as a sign of
respect.
Cocked heads mean that they are confused or challenging you,
depending on their eye, eyebrow, and mouth gestures.
3. Look into their eyes.
People who look to the sides a lot are nervous, lying, or distracted. However, if a
person looks away from the speaker, it very well could be a comfort display or indicate
submissiveness. Looking askance generally means the person is distrustful or
unconvinced.
If someone looks down at the floor a lot, they are probably shy or timid. People also
tend to look down when they are upset, or trying to hide something emotional.
People are often thinking and feeling unpleasant emotions when they are in the
process of staring at the ground.
Some cultures believe that looking at someone in the eyes is a sign of disrespect, or is
only done with intimate friends or family, so this could explain why someone is
avoiding eye contact with you.
Dilated pupils mean that the person is interested. Keep in mind, however, that many
substances cause pupils to dilate, including alcohol, cocaine, amphetamines, LSD and
others. Don't mistake having a few drinks for attraction.
If their eyes seem focused far away, that usually indicates that a person is in deep
thought or not listening.
4. See if they're mirroring you.
If someone mimics your body language this is a very
genuine sign that they are trying to establish
rapport with you. Try changing your body position
here and there. If you find that they change theirs
similarly, they are mirroring.
5. Check their arms.
People with crossed arms are closing themselves to social influence. Though
some people just cross their arms as a habit, it may indicate that the person
is (slightly) reserved, uncomfortable with their appearance (self conscious
and trying to cover it), or just trying to hide something on their shirt. If their
arms are crossed while their feet are shoulder width or wider apart, this is a
position of toughness or authority.
If they are rubbing their hands together or somehow touching their own
body, they might be comforting themselves (which means they aren't
enjoying the current situation).
If someone rests their arms behind their neck or head, they are open to
what is being discussed or just laid back in general.
If their hands are on their hips, they might be waiting, impatient or just
tired.
If their hands are closed or clenched, they may be irritated, angry, or
nervous.
6. Watch their feet.
A fast tapping, shifting of weight, laughing, or movement of the foot will most often mean
that the person is impatient, excited, nervous, scared, or intimidated.
The meaning of feet tapping can usually be discerned depending on the context; if you
are currently talking and they are tapping their feet, that is an indication of a desire to
leave (though usually this behavior manifests when the person is anxious to get
somewhere specific, such as a meeting, rather than because of what you're doing
specifically). Slow shuffling indicates boredom with the current situation. If during
flirtation your legs/feet touch, tapping can generally be interpreted as nervous
excitement. This is because if they were uncomfortable, they would discreetly move
away from the contact, a much more subtle escape than indirectly trying to tell you to
move away.
If the person is sitting, feet crossed at the ankles means they're generally at ease.
If while standing, a person seems to always keep their feet very close together, it probably
means they are trying to be "proper" in some way. Sometimes feet together means that
they are feeling more submissive or passive.
If they purposely touch their feet to yours, they are flirting.
Some people may point their feet to the direction of where they want to go or sometimes
their interest. So if it's pointing at you, he/she may be interested in you.