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#OurBodiesOurMinds
Our Bodies, Our Minds
Shasta College
March 9, 2020
@artwithimpact
#OurBodiesOurMinds
#OurBodiesOurMinds
About Your Facilitator
Cary McQueen, she/her
Founder, Executive Director
Art With Impact
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Brought to you by…
● Campus workshops
● Monthly film competition
● Short film production grants
● Global community
● Mental Health Services Act (2004)
● 1% tax on people earning >$1m/year
● 20% to prevention and early intervention
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Here’s the Plan
• Introductory conversation
• Monologues and activities
• Panel of speakers
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Heads Up
• Mental health is personal – YOU are the expert on
your own experience
• Public space – no confidentiality
• It’s okay to feel, and it’s okay to be uncomfortable
• Conversations and activities might be triggering
• Please take care of yourself however you need,
including asking for help
• If you don’t want your photo shared, please let us know
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Group Agreements - What do you
need to feel safe here?
• Using correct pronouns for people
• Don’t dull people’s sparkle
• Respect when people are speaking – don’t interrupt/interject
• Don’t romanticize bad behaviors
• Ouch and oops
• Assuming good intent
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Sexual Violence Survivor
• Personal definition
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Sexual Violence Survivor
• Personal definition
• Has been through a potentially traumatic sexual/intimate
experience, or set of experiences
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Sexual Violence Survivor
• Personal definition
• Has been through a potentially traumatic sexual/intimate
experience, or set of experiences
• Experience was against their wishes
and/or crossed a boundary that they had set
and/or left them feeling violated, used, scared, unsafe or hurt
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Sexual Violence Survivor
• Personal definition
• Has been through a potentially traumatic sexual/intimate
experience, or set of experiences
• Experience was against their wishes
and/or crossed a boundary that they had set
and/or left them feeling violated, used, scared, unsafe or hurt
• Mental health and mental wellness - impacts of traumatic
event and ability to be full self
#OurBodiesOurMinds
What are ways that sexual violence might
impact survivors?
• Future relationships
• Ability to trust
• Unexplained stress
• Change in emotions or feelings
• Impact ability to do work
• Ability to focus
• Physical and mental health issues
• Sleep
• Fear
• Eating
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Monologue
Kara, 19, she/her
In small groups…
• Read the monologue out loud
• Discuss initial reactions
#OurBodiesOurMinds
How does Kara
seem to feel?
• Fear
• Everything is different
• Grateful for support
• Doubt
• Disconnect between mind and
body
• Disconnect between her and her
friend
• Anger
• Empowered in other areas
What thoughts might
Kara have?
• Dad’s response made a difference
• Going slow, but trying to process
• Doesn’t want to tell other people
• Questioning her own reality
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Activity: Walking in
Their Shoes
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Monologues
Marcus, 45, he/him
Alma, 20, she/her
In small groups…
• Read both monologues out loud
• Then, discuss the characters’ thoughts
and feelings
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Marcus
Thoughts
Its too late to talk about abuse (MST)
Holds stigma around definition of being a
survivor
Feelings
Can help daughter and support her
May find healing through helping Kara
Hope that healing is possible
Shame
Self blame- victim blaming for his experience
and not sharing his truth
Thoughts
Doesn’t know what happened and doesn’t
know what to do/how to respond
Girlfriend has a radar and understands
trauma; recognized Kara’s behavior
Feelings
Wants to be helpful
Respect Kara’s boundaries
Lost and confused
Uncertain/Sad/Helpless to help
Alma
#OurBodiesOurMinds
In small groups...
• Create a 2-person statue that represents
the current relationship dynamics
• Half of the room: relationship between
Kara and Marcus
• Half of the room: relationship between
Kara and Alma
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Kara and Marcus
Example statues: What do we see?
#OurBodiesOurMinds
How is Marcus able to support Kara?
What does that support look like?
• Supportive of her seeing a therapist, also of reaching out to friends
• Careful to validate her
• Active listening
• Internal support and not bringing out to the world
• Kept it about her and didn’t project his trauma/make it about him
• Believed her
• Empathetic
• Showed restraint/didn’t blow up and freak out about this guy
• Trained to kill; but didn’t go there
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Kara and Alma
Example statues: What do we see?
#OurBodiesOurMinds
What is keeping Alma from being able to
support Kara in the way that they need?
• Communication
• Ignorance and sheltering
• Uncertainty
• Can’t imagine their shared value in this struggle
• Respect boundaries
• Doesn’t want to overstep
• Disqualifies herself because she hasn’t gone through ‘Trauma’
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Scene
#OurBodiesOurMinds
What tools or approaches could Alma use to
better support Kara in this scene?
• Create opportunities to make friendship stronger
• Build trust
• Show support for other activities (debates/events)
• Share her story to be vulnerable/give space for open dialogue with no
expectation (again building trust/intimacy)
• Distract: activities to relax/self care
• Delegate: ask Sam to talk with her/check in
• Direct: Be open and ask open ended questions
• Name behavior; and what she has noticed; give her option to talk
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Scene: Take Two
#OurBodiesOurMinds
What can we do?
• I can open up conversations even I may not feel equipped
• I can be conscious of the boundaries of my loved ones
• I can listen carefully
• I can check in with people around me
• I can ask questions about things I don’t understand
• I can always shake it off- T Swift
• I can lean into situations that feel uncomfortable
• I can be a trustworthy person
• I can be someone who is kind and open
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Panel
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Meet the Panel
bit.ly/OBOM-Shasta
Caitlin Sanders, she/her
Student, Shasta College
Lydia Gibson, they/them
Student, Shasta College
Jessie Ballard, she/her, they/them
Program Director, Shasta CARES
shastacollege.edu/shastacares
Christine Hixenbaugh, she/her/hers
Advocate and Prevention Educator, One SAFE Place
ospshasta.org
#OurBodiesOurMinds
Stay in touch!
Don’t forget to leave your name and email
on the sign-up sheet!
@artwithimpact
info@artwithimpact.org

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  • 1. #OurBodiesOurMinds Our Bodies, Our Minds Shasta College March 9, 2020 @artwithimpact #OurBodiesOurMinds
  • 2. #OurBodiesOurMinds About Your Facilitator Cary McQueen, she/her Founder, Executive Director Art With Impact
  • 3. #OurBodiesOurMinds Brought to you by… ● Campus workshops ● Monthly film competition ● Short film production grants ● Global community ● Mental Health Services Act (2004) ● 1% tax on people earning >$1m/year ● 20% to prevention and early intervention
  • 4. #OurBodiesOurMinds Here’s the Plan • Introductory conversation • Monologues and activities • Panel of speakers
  • 5. #OurBodiesOurMinds Heads Up • Mental health is personal – YOU are the expert on your own experience • Public space – no confidentiality • It’s okay to feel, and it’s okay to be uncomfortable • Conversations and activities might be triggering • Please take care of yourself however you need, including asking for help • If you don’t want your photo shared, please let us know
  • 6. #OurBodiesOurMinds Group Agreements - What do you need to feel safe here? • Using correct pronouns for people • Don’t dull people’s sparkle • Respect when people are speaking – don’t interrupt/interject • Don’t romanticize bad behaviors • Ouch and oops • Assuming good intent
  • 8. #OurBodiesOurMinds Sexual Violence Survivor • Personal definition • Has been through a potentially traumatic sexual/intimate experience, or set of experiences
  • 9. #OurBodiesOurMinds Sexual Violence Survivor • Personal definition • Has been through a potentially traumatic sexual/intimate experience, or set of experiences • Experience was against their wishes and/or crossed a boundary that they had set and/or left them feeling violated, used, scared, unsafe or hurt
  • 10. #OurBodiesOurMinds Sexual Violence Survivor • Personal definition • Has been through a potentially traumatic sexual/intimate experience, or set of experiences • Experience was against their wishes and/or crossed a boundary that they had set and/or left them feeling violated, used, scared, unsafe or hurt • Mental health and mental wellness - impacts of traumatic event and ability to be full self
  • 11. #OurBodiesOurMinds What are ways that sexual violence might impact survivors? • Future relationships • Ability to trust • Unexplained stress • Change in emotions or feelings • Impact ability to do work • Ability to focus • Physical and mental health issues • Sleep • Fear • Eating
  • 12. #OurBodiesOurMinds Monologue Kara, 19, she/her In small groups… • Read the monologue out loud • Discuss initial reactions
  • 13. #OurBodiesOurMinds How does Kara seem to feel? • Fear • Everything is different • Grateful for support • Doubt • Disconnect between mind and body • Disconnect between her and her friend • Anger • Empowered in other areas What thoughts might Kara have? • Dad’s response made a difference • Going slow, but trying to process • Doesn’t want to tell other people • Questioning her own reality
  • 15. #OurBodiesOurMinds Monologues Marcus, 45, he/him Alma, 20, she/her In small groups… • Read both monologues out loud • Then, discuss the characters’ thoughts and feelings
  • 16. #OurBodiesOurMinds Marcus Thoughts Its too late to talk about abuse (MST) Holds stigma around definition of being a survivor Feelings Can help daughter and support her May find healing through helping Kara Hope that healing is possible Shame Self blame- victim blaming for his experience and not sharing his truth Thoughts Doesn’t know what happened and doesn’t know what to do/how to respond Girlfriend has a radar and understands trauma; recognized Kara’s behavior Feelings Wants to be helpful Respect Kara’s boundaries Lost and confused Uncertain/Sad/Helpless to help Alma
  • 17. #OurBodiesOurMinds In small groups... • Create a 2-person statue that represents the current relationship dynamics • Half of the room: relationship between Kara and Marcus • Half of the room: relationship between Kara and Alma
  • 18. #OurBodiesOurMinds Kara and Marcus Example statues: What do we see?
  • 19. #OurBodiesOurMinds How is Marcus able to support Kara? What does that support look like? • Supportive of her seeing a therapist, also of reaching out to friends • Careful to validate her • Active listening • Internal support and not bringing out to the world • Kept it about her and didn’t project his trauma/make it about him • Believed her • Empathetic • Showed restraint/didn’t blow up and freak out about this guy • Trained to kill; but didn’t go there
  • 20. #OurBodiesOurMinds Kara and Alma Example statues: What do we see?
  • 21. #OurBodiesOurMinds What is keeping Alma from being able to support Kara in the way that they need? • Communication • Ignorance and sheltering • Uncertainty • Can’t imagine their shared value in this struggle • Respect boundaries • Doesn’t want to overstep • Disqualifies herself because she hasn’t gone through ‘Trauma’
  • 23. #OurBodiesOurMinds What tools or approaches could Alma use to better support Kara in this scene? • Create opportunities to make friendship stronger • Build trust • Show support for other activities (debates/events) • Share her story to be vulnerable/give space for open dialogue with no expectation (again building trust/intimacy) • Distract: activities to relax/self care • Delegate: ask Sam to talk with her/check in • Direct: Be open and ask open ended questions • Name behavior; and what she has noticed; give her option to talk
  • 25. #OurBodiesOurMinds What can we do? • I can open up conversations even I may not feel equipped • I can be conscious of the boundaries of my loved ones • I can listen carefully • I can check in with people around me • I can ask questions about things I don’t understand • I can always shake it off- T Swift • I can lean into situations that feel uncomfortable • I can be a trustworthy person • I can be someone who is kind and open
  • 27. #OurBodiesOurMinds Meet the Panel bit.ly/OBOM-Shasta Caitlin Sanders, she/her Student, Shasta College Lydia Gibson, they/them Student, Shasta College Jessie Ballard, she/her, they/them Program Director, Shasta CARES shastacollege.edu/shastacares Christine Hixenbaugh, she/her/hers Advocate and Prevention Educator, One SAFE Place ospshasta.org
  • 28. #OurBodiesOurMinds Stay in touch! Don’t forget to leave your name and email on the sign-up sheet! @artwithimpact info@artwithimpact.org