This document provides a self-reflection exercise to help users connect with themselves and their relationships with others and nature. It includes reflection questions about getting along with others, difficulties with pleasantries, dealing with disagreements, and expectations of punctuality. The story is about a boy named Suraj who is always late because he says "2 more minutes" and keeps postponing. The questions are meant to help users reflect on their social interactions and how to improve.

1. Self-reflection
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2. Good day. Welcome to self-reflection!
Goodness is innate in humans - however, the daily grind leaves little time
for us to relate with it / our own self. This self-reflection is an attempt to
connect with oneself, and being aware of one’s connect with society and
nature.
The incidents / anecdotes / situations and the questions that follow, are to
help the process - kindly fill-in the response boxes with your thoughts (for
each of the posers) and feel free to save them for future reference /
reflections.
Thank you
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4. Reflection
1. How well do you get along
with others?
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My response

5. Reflection
2. Do you find it difficult to exchange
pleasantries with others?
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6. Situation
You always have a disagreement
with a member in your team.
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My response

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Situation
How will you reach to an
understanding?
My views

8. Reflection
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9. Story
Suraj was a 10 year old boy. He studied at the Baldwin Boys High School. He was a
very nice boy. He spoke to everyone very politely and helped without a second
thought. But Suraj had a problem. He had earned the name ‘2 minute boy’. This was
because Suraj had the habit of saying 2mins for everything. He would postpone
everything by 2mins. And after the 2mins, he would again postpone by 2mins. It
was a never ending saga.
When his mother would wake him up in the morning, he would say, “2 minutes Ma.
Please.” But after 2 minutes, he would say the same thing. This, he did for
everything.
One day, Suraj had school at 7am instead of his usual 8am.
As always, Suraj kept on saying ‘2 minutes’ to his mother when she tried waking him
up and therefore, he went to school running and reached at 7.32am. But the
moment he entered the school, Suraj was shocked. He was about to burst into
tears.
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10. Reflection
5. What happens when I expect
punctuality (from others)
and it doesn’t happen?
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My response

11. Reflection
6. Going forward, what
I may do / could do?
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My response