Mohammad Kashif ali
13-ntu-0202
CONTENT.
Definitions
What is self-esteem.
What self-esteem is not.
Factors that influence's one’s self-esteem.
What is self esteem made of?
Development of self esteem.
Importance of self esteem.
Effects of self-esteem.
Some tips on building a positive and
improving your self esteem.
Definition.
Self Esteem:
Feelings we have about ourselves
What is self-esteem cont.…
Self-esteem refers to the way
we see and think about
ourselves.
Why is Self-Esteem Important
• Self-esteem is important because it can affect:
• Your mental health
• How you behave
• Your decisions
• Your friendships
• Your success
• Your life
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What self-esteem is not
Self Esteem is NOT dependent upon what other
people think of you
Self Esteem is not arrogance, selfishness, or a
desire to feel superior to others
Self Esteem is not temporary
Development of self-esteem.
•A person develops his/her self esteem
throughout the life through experiences.
•In this regard childhood experiences play
an important role in shaping self esteem.
High Self-Esteem
• A person who has high self-esteem feels good
about themselves and feels confident.
• “I think I can” attitude
Effects of High Self-Esteem
• Successful
• Happy
• Fun to be around - Have more friends (magnet)
• Trustworthy
• Full of life
The Effects of High Self-Esteem
-They like to meet new people.
The Effects of High Self-Esteem
-They don’t worry about how others will judge
them.
The Effects of High Self-Esteem
-They have the courage to express themselves.
The Effects of High Self-Esteem
-Their lives are enriched with each new ideas.
The Effects of High Self-Esteem
-They are nicer to be around.
The Effects of High Self-Esteem
- They are magnets to positive opportunities!
People with high self-esteem have an “I think I
can” attitude!
The Effects of High Self-Esteem
Change
the bad
Appreciate
life
Willing
to try
new things Believes
in
self
Is not
a threat
to others
Doesn’t submit
to
peer pressure
Accept
failure
Leader
to
others
Good
Self
Esteem
Low Self-Esteem
• A person who has low self-esteem feels bad about
themselves and has no confidence.
• “I can’t do it” attitude
Effects of Low Self-Esteem
• Distorted emotions and feelings
• Difficulty in trusting people
• Fear of trying new things
• Give up on dreams
• Self-defeating behavior
• Negative and critical about themselves
• Complainers & Criticizers
10 Steps to High Self-Esteem
 Step 1
-Forgive yourself for past mistakes.
 Step 2
-Focus on your positive attributes.
10 Steps to High Self-Esteem
 Step 3
-Follow the example of successful people.
 Step 4
-Become a self talker.
Step 5
-Exhibit a good attitude.
Step 6
-Get plenty of rest.
10 Steps to High Self-Esteem
Step 7
-Practice your talents
10 Steps to High Self-Esteem
Step 8
-Become physically fit.
Step 9
-Learn new things.
10 Steps to High Self-Esteem
Step 10
-Improve your personal relationships.
10 Steps to High Self-Esteem
Final Thought
 You are a unique individual. No one else is
like you in the whole world. This makes you
special already!
 Our time in this world is limited. Make it
happen for you so you leave your mark in
history!
REFERENCES.
o http://www.slideshare.net/zubairsorathia/05-self-
esteem?qid=25dd5f98-073b-4d79-a88e-
eff16c3d805a&v=default&b=&from_search=11acc
essed 07/03/1014.
o http://www.slideshare.net/Moyaob/improving-your-
childs-self-esteem?qid=25dd5f98-073b-4d79-a88e-
eff16c3d805a&v=default&b=&from_search=82
o http://www.slideshare.net/kdcsdross/self-esteem-
14196495?qid=25dd5f98-073b-4d79-a88e-
eff16c3d805a&v=default&b=&from_search=18
2015-5-27
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Self Esteem

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    CONTENT. Definitions What is self-esteem. Whatself-esteem is not. Factors that influence's one’s self-esteem. What is self esteem made of? Development of self esteem. Importance of self esteem. Effects of self-esteem. Some tips on building a positive and improving your self esteem.
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    What is self-esteemcont.… Self-esteem refers to the way we see and think about ourselves.
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    Why is Self-EsteemImportant • Self-esteem is important because it can affect: • Your mental health • How you behave • Your decisions • Your friendships • Your success • Your life
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    7 What self-esteem isnot Self Esteem is NOT dependent upon what other people think of you Self Esteem is not arrogance, selfishness, or a desire to feel superior to others Self Esteem is not temporary
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    Development of self-esteem. •Aperson develops his/her self esteem throughout the life through experiences. •In this regard childhood experiences play an important role in shaping self esteem.
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    High Self-Esteem • Aperson who has high self-esteem feels good about themselves and feels confident. • “I think I can” attitude
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    Effects of HighSelf-Esteem • Successful • Happy • Fun to be around - Have more friends (magnet) • Trustworthy • Full of life
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    The Effects ofHigh Self-Esteem -They like to meet new people.
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    The Effects ofHigh Self-Esteem -They don’t worry about how others will judge them.
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    The Effects ofHigh Self-Esteem -They have the courage to express themselves.
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    The Effects ofHigh Self-Esteem -Their lives are enriched with each new ideas.
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    The Effects ofHigh Self-Esteem -They are nicer to be around.
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    The Effects ofHigh Self-Esteem - They are magnets to positive opportunities!
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    People with highself-esteem have an “I think I can” attitude! The Effects of High Self-Esteem
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    Change the bad Appreciate life Willing to try newthings Believes in self Is not a threat to others Doesn’t submit to peer pressure Accept failure Leader to others Good Self Esteem
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    Low Self-Esteem • Aperson who has low self-esteem feels bad about themselves and has no confidence. • “I can’t do it” attitude
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    Effects of LowSelf-Esteem • Distorted emotions and feelings • Difficulty in trusting people • Fear of trying new things • Give up on dreams • Self-defeating behavior • Negative and critical about themselves • Complainers & Criticizers
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    10 Steps toHigh Self-Esteem  Step 1 -Forgive yourself for past mistakes.  Step 2 -Focus on your positive attributes.
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    10 Steps toHigh Self-Esteem  Step 3 -Follow the example of successful people.  Step 4 -Become a self talker.
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    Step 5 -Exhibit agood attitude. Step 6 -Get plenty of rest. 10 Steps to High Self-Esteem
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    Step 7 -Practice yourtalents 10 Steps to High Self-Esteem
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    Step 8 -Become physicallyfit. Step 9 -Learn new things. 10 Steps to High Self-Esteem
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    Step 10 -Improve yourpersonal relationships. 10 Steps to High Self-Esteem
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    Final Thought  Youare a unique individual. No one else is like you in the whole world. This makes you special already!  Our time in this world is limited. Make it happen for you so you leave your mark in history!
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    REFERENCES. o http://www.slideshare.net/zubairsorathia/05-self- esteem?qid=25dd5f98-073b-4d79-a88e- eff16c3d805a&v=default&b=&from_search=11acc essed 07/03/1014. ohttp://www.slideshare.net/Moyaob/improving-your- childs-self-esteem?qid=25dd5f98-073b-4d79-a88e- eff16c3d805a&v=default&b=&from_search=82 o http://www.slideshare.net/kdcsdross/self-esteem- 14196495?qid=25dd5f98-073b-4d79-a88e- eff16c3d805a&v=default&b=&from_search=18
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