The document discusses research on involving children and parents in the care planning and review process for children in out-of-home care. It finds that while the system aims to involve all parties, there are challenges in balancing different perspectives. Interviews revealed that children's experience of reviews depends on how positive and reassuring the meeting is. While most children attend, older children are more likely to be involved. The roles of social workers and independent reviewing officers in facilitating involvement are examined, alongside key dilemmas around openness, privacy, and formality versus responsiveness. Involving birth parents in plans and children's lives can help if done sensitively.