This document compares family values between Indonesian and American families in several areas: Child raising - In America, children may have their own rooms from birth and learn responsibility early, while in Indonesia babies sleep with parents. Young adulthood - Americans are encouraged to leave home in their late teens/early 20s, while Indonesian young adults typically don't. Elderly - The document doesn't provide details on treatment of the elderly. Nuclear vs extended family - American families typically live independently as nuclear units, while Indonesian families maintain closer ties to extended family. Gender roles - Traditionally the man provided financially and the woman cared for home/children, but these are becoming less fixed