Motivating Yourself
Setting Goals - Categories
•   Physical
•   Financial
•   Spiritual
•   Career
•   Family
•   Mental
•   Social
Setting Goals
• Make sure it is something you want (doesn’t just
  sound good)
• Can’t be in conflict with other goals or your values
• Realistic and achievable
• Specific and measurable
• Short- and long-term steps
• Written down with deadlines
Motivating Yourself
• Put plans on paper. Spell out goals and specific ways
  to reach them.
• Break the goal down into small pieces so that you
  have no excuse for not starting it.
• Establish checkpoints so you can check on your
  progress.
• Remind yourself of the benefits you expect from
  completion of the goal.
Motivating Yourself
• Avoid temptation by deliberately avoiding
  circumstances that might sidetrack you.
  (GET STARTED, don’t stall.)
• Take advantage of energy peaks, those periods of
  the day when you are habitually in top form.
Motivating Yourself
• Take risks. Don’t be afraid to try new methods.
• Set deadlines and hold yourself to them.
• Make an honest distinction between “I can’t” and “I
  don’t want to.”
Motivating Yourself
• Decide how you want to start. What needs to be
  done first?
• Use self-signaling devices…notes, cues, reminders.
• Recognize conflicts and make a choice. Don’t let
  inertia set in.
• Give yourself the right to make mistakes. No one is
  perfect.
De-Motivating Others
• Using fear
• Thinking that what motivates me, motivates others.
• Not recognizing that supporting others’ motivation is
  a process, not a task.
How To Help Motivate Others
• Find out what motivates others
• Reinforce when you see progress
• Celebrate achievements

Motivating Yourself

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    Setting Goals -Categories • Physical • Financial • Spiritual • Career • Family • Mental • Social
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    Setting Goals • Makesure it is something you want (doesn’t just sound good) • Can’t be in conflict with other goals or your values • Realistic and achievable • Specific and measurable • Short- and long-term steps • Written down with deadlines
  • 4.
    Motivating Yourself • Putplans on paper. Spell out goals and specific ways to reach them. • Break the goal down into small pieces so that you have no excuse for not starting it. • Establish checkpoints so you can check on your progress. • Remind yourself of the benefits you expect from completion of the goal.
  • 5.
    Motivating Yourself • Avoidtemptation by deliberately avoiding circumstances that might sidetrack you. (GET STARTED, don’t stall.) • Take advantage of energy peaks, those periods of the day when you are habitually in top form.
  • 6.
    Motivating Yourself • Takerisks. Don’t be afraid to try new methods. • Set deadlines and hold yourself to them. • Make an honest distinction between “I can’t” and “I don’t want to.”
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    Motivating Yourself • Decidehow you want to start. What needs to be done first? • Use self-signaling devices…notes, cues, reminders. • Recognize conflicts and make a choice. Don’t let inertia set in. • Give yourself the right to make mistakes. No one is perfect.
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    De-Motivating Others • Usingfear • Thinking that what motivates me, motivates others. • Not recognizing that supporting others’ motivation is a process, not a task.
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    How To HelpMotivate Others • Find out what motivates others • Reinforce when you see progress • Celebrate achievements