Free sex among Indonesian youth is a growing problem according to the document. Teenagers aged 12-15 are emotionally unstable and prone to peer pressure, making them vulnerable to promiscuity. Promiscuity has negative impacts on mental health, physical health, and social development. It can undermine morality, spread sexually transmitted diseases, and prevent youth from forming families. To prevent promiscuity, the document recommends keeping busy with useful activities, choosing good friends, avoiding stimulating media, fasting, and physical exercise.

1. BAB I
Activity of work Windasari
A. Background
We certainly know that promiscuity it is a form of deviant behavior,
which is "free" in question is past the eastern limits of the existing norms.
Promiscuity is a problem we often hear both within as well as from the mass
media. Teens at the age of 12-15 years is an emotionally unstable individual
prone restraint is not controlled by the right. Family problems,
disappointment, lack of knowledge, and the solicitation of friends who hang
freely make the less potential for Indonesia's young generation in the
nation's progress.
Promiscuity (free sex) have an impact on adolescent mentality and
health. Impact promiscuity (sex-free) in the adolescent mentality is, free sex
can undermine morale and morality, why is that, because of the prominence
of animal behavior in someone spreading nature of selfishness and
indifference properties indefinitely. In addition to affecting the mentality,
promiscuity (free sex) have an impact on the health of the youth. Not long
ago there was news about the desire of a group of people that legalized
abortion, on the pretext of upholding human rights. This occurs because
each year an increase in cases of abortion in Indonesia is increasing, as
evidenced by reports in the mass media or TV shows there is definitely
revealed any cases of abortion. If this happens sec-legalized in Western
countries would undermine religious order, the culture and customs of the
nation. Means it has lost moral values and norms that have long been
ingrained in society.
Activity of work Dedi
B. Definition of Free Sex
Sex means sex, that is a trait or traits that distinguish males and females.
Sexual meaning that has nothing to do with sex or arising from sex, sexual
harassment, which refers to the sex of the sexual dilecehkan. PerIlaku is
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2. anyorm of behavior that appears to be related to the urge to have sex sexual.
Relations meaning sexual intercourse as a form of encouragement
distribution activities sexual above.
Free sex is sexual relations outside the bonds of marriage, either
consensual or free prostitusi. Seks in the world is not only done by the youth
who have been married even too often do with people who are not spouses.
Usually done by the to variations of sex or sexual sensations to overcome
boredom.
Free sex is not very feasible given the huge risks. In adolescents
typically will experience a pregnancy outside of marriage that led to the
abortion. Remember that abortion is dangerous and risky infertility and even
death. In addition, of course, the sex offender is very vulnerable to
contracting the HIV virus that causes AIDS, or other sexually transmitted
diseases.
In people who have been married, sex is done because they probably
just having fun. Usually they are having an affair premises other than the
official partner, even some married couples who are looking for a third
person as a variation of their sex. There is also an exchange of partners. All
the above behavior can be categorized free sex is very risky and the
perpetrators are infected with HIV.
Sexual orientation is the sex in which a person is sexually attracted.
In extreme sexual orientation categorized into two: heterosexual (person
who is sexually attracted to the opposite sex) and homosexual (a person who
is sexually attracted to another person of the same sex). Between the two
poles of sexual orientation, there is still sexual behaviors are difficult to be
included in a particular category as a lot of diversity in it.
Sexually and seskual activity in the same gender. Men are attracted
to men called "gay"., While the women are interested in women's so-called
"lesbian".
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3. The occurrence of homosexuality is still debated. Some say that this
happens at birth (influenced by genes) and some are saying obtained from
environmental influences. Homosexuals are said to be normal if acceptable
in a particular culture and is said to be normal if it is not accepted in other
cultures, but the attitude we should still respect people regardless of their
sexual orientation.
Activity of work Cecep
C. According Opinion
1. According Sarwono (2003) states, that sex is any behavior that is
driven by sexual desire either the opposite sex or the same sex, ranging
from behavior that does like touching, kissing (kissing) kissing yet to
attach the genitals which is usually done by holding the breast or
through oral sex but not intercourse genitals (sex Understanding necking
according
2. Kartono (1977) is a behavior driven by sexual desire, which is the need
to be more free when compared to the traditional regulatory system, and
contrary to the prevailing norms in the system community.
3. According Desmita (2005) notion of free sex is a way of expressing and
releasing all the sexual drive that comes from maturity of sexual organs,
such as intimate dating, making out, to have sexual contact, but the
behavior is not assessed in accordance with the norms for adolescents
have not had the experience of sexual.
4. According Nevid et al (1995) revealed that premarital sexual behavior is
sexual intercourse between men and women despite the absence of a
bond for no physical attraction. Maslow (in Hall & Lindzey, 1993) that
there needs to be fulfilled human beings, one of which is the
physiological needs include basic human needs to survive, the need for
this instinctive nature will usually difficult to control or being held by an
individual, especially a boost sex.
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4. BAB II
Activity of work Dani
A. Why of Free Sex
1. Negative Effects of Mass Media
Mass media such as television, movies, newspapers, magazines and
so recently more and more put up and showing pictures adegen Nudity
and sex as well as a glamorous life far from the values. This is
reinforced with the development of internet technologies that cut across
national boundaries and the time allowed to access the things that can
increase sexual appetite. Information about sex is wrong also disturb the
atmosphere. As a result, teens tend to want to try and eventually fall to
the sex bebs (free sex).
2. Weak Faith
Almost all, if not to say all, free sex, know the burden of sin that
they receive. But somehow, for them it was 'neglected in favor' and the
desire to make as a leader. It shows the lack of a sense of their faith.
1) The absence of sex education that is correct, accurate and based on
religious values.
2) Weak supervision of parents.
3) One in choosing friends.
Activity of work Yuyum & Windasari
B. Impact Hazards And Free Sex
The impact of free sex (free sex), especially in adolescents can be
divided into
1. Physical Hazards
Physical hazards that may occur is a venereal disease (Sexual
Transmitted Diseases / STD) and HIV / AIDS and the dangers of early
pregnancy that is not desired. STDs are diseases that can be transmitted
from one person to another through sexual contact. A person at high risk
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5. for STDs when having sexual intercourse with multiple partners through
vaginal, oral and anal sex. If not treated properly, the disease can have
serious consequences for reproductive health, such as infertility,
blindness in newborns and even death. Sex disease that can happen is
gonorrhea (gonorrhoe), syphilis (syphilis), genital herpes,
lymphogranuloma venereum (LGV), candidiasis, trichomonas vaginalis,
genital warts and so on. Because of the shape and position of the male
genitalia is outside the body, the symptoms of PMS is more easily
recognized, seen and felt.
Signs of STDs in men include:
 Blisters or ulcers on the penis / genitals,
 Wound does not hurt; hard and red on the genitals,
 The presence of warts or grow meat like a chicken's comb,
 Tevere pain during urination,
 Gonorrhea or foul-smelling blood,
 Severe itching round genitals,
 Heat swelling and pain in the groin which then turned into ulcers.
In the majority of asymptomatic women so often do not realize. If
there are symptoms, usually in the form of, among others:
 Pain or pain during urination or sexual intercourse,
 Pain in the lower abdomen,
 Expenses of the vagina / genitals,
 Whitish milky white, clotted and accompanied by itching and
redness of the genitals or the surrounding areas,
 Whitish frothy, greenish, foul-smelling, and itchy,
 Arise bloodstained after sexual intercourse,
 Rash contains fluid,
 Blisters or ulcers on the genitals.
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6. Keep in mind that STDs can be prevented simply by selecting the
pair that looks clean appearance, wash genitals after sexual intercourse,
drinking herbs, take antibiotics before and after sex.
AIDS stands for aquired Immuno Deficiency Syndrome. This
disease is a collection of symptoms due to decreased immune system.
The cause is a virus. HIV itself is an acronym for Human
Immunodeficiency Virus. AIDS is a disease that one mode of
transmission is through sexual intercourse. In addition, HIV can be
transmitted through the use of used needles and HIV-infected people,
receive HIV infected blood transfusion or from pregnant women
infected with HIV to their infants dikandungannya. In Indonesia, the
spread of HIV / AIDS through sexual intercourse most unsafe and
needles (for drug addicts).
After infection with HIV virus, initially did not show specific
symptoms. Just a few weeks after the infected person often suffer from
everyday ailments such as the flu or diarrhea. In the period 3-4 years
later the patient does not exhibit typical symptoms or referred to as a
period without symptoms, at the moment people feel healthy and look
healthy from the outside as well. Afterward, year 5 or 6 starts recurrent
diarrhea, sudden weight loss, frequent canker sores in the mouth, and
swelling in the lymph nodes and in the end could happen in various
infectious diseases, cancer and even death. To detect the presence of
antibodies to the HIV virus, which indicates the presence of the HIV
virus in the body, blood tests by means of Elisa 2 times. Then if the
results are positive, further testing by means of Western blot or Immuno
fluoresensi.
Readiness of a woman to conceive and give birth or have a child is
determined by the readiness of the three cases, the physical readiness,
readiness mental / emotional / psychological and social readiness /
economy. In general, a woman said to be physically ready when it has
completed its body growth (when the body stops growing), which is
about the age of 20 years. So the age of 20 years can be used as
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7. guidelines for physical readiness. Pregnancy at a very early age and
would lead to undesirable risks of pregnancy and childbirth as well as
risks to the fetus as:
 Narrow pelvis,
 Weak uterine contractions,
 Irregularities in blood pressure that can affect pregnancy and
poisoning,
 Convulsions that can lead to death,
 Teenage mothers or do not want and do not feel ready to get
pregnant so she could not take care of her pregnancy well,
 Impaired growth of organs in the fetus,
 Disability,
 Difficult to expect a sense of genuine affection and strong women
who did not want the pregnancy baby dilahirkanya later. So the
future of the child may be neglected,
 Terminating the pregnancy or often referred to abortion. In Indonesia
abortion categorized as illegal or unlawful. Because abortion is
illegal it is often carried out in secret and unsafe. Unsafe abortion
contributes to maternal morbidity and mortality. Abortion is very
dangerous to the health and safety of women, especially if carried
out carelessly by those who are not trained. Continuous bleeding and
infection that occurs after the act of abortion is a major cause of
death of women who have abortions. In addition, abortion also
affects the psychological condition. Feelings of sadness at the loss of
a baby, the inner burden due to feelings of guilt and remorse that can
lead to depression.
2. Dangers of behavioral and psychiatric.
Free sex will cause disorder in the form of sexual desire to have
sex. The patient always occupy his time with a variety of sexual fantasies,
jima, kiss, hug, hug, and shadows shape of a woman's body inside and out.
The patient be lazy, trouble concentrating, memory loss, blank, blank, body
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8. so thin and psychologically unstable. Their minds that sex is just sex and
lust and desire for sex. As a result, when it is not got a friend for free sex, he
would go to the brothels (prostitution) and becomes a rapist. More ironic if
he did not find an adult as a victim, he did not hesitate to rape children under
the age of even the elderly grandmother.
3. Social danger
Free sex will also cause would cause a person is no longer thought
to form a family, have children, let alone bear the responsibility. They just
want to live on top of the apparent freedom. Worse yet a woman doing free
sex will eventually fall into the valley of prostitution and prostitution.
Children who are already born as a result of free sex (adultery) is not getting
the love of his father and his mother’s softness caresses. He will not get
enough attention and education. Once he knew that he was born as a result
of adultery, then it will become rigid mental and marginalized in social
interaction and, in fact rarely he will be involved in the crime problem.
What is even more ironic is often the father of the child born as a result of
free sex no longer clear who the father is.
Free sex would also lead to a messy and the breaking of the rope
silaturrahmi family and kinship. Parents usually will not care anymore to
children who have lost much of this, otherwise a teenager who felt ignored
again by his parents to be more daring, defiant and disobedient longer in the
elderly. He would also have a confrontation with other relatives. This in turn
can lead to frustration and disappointment and resentment was sequel to a
family member.
4. Economy Danger
Free sex offender will weaken the economy because of the
declining productivity of the offender as a result of physical and mental
decline, scattering the treasure to satisfy his free sex. Besides sipelaku will
also seek the treasure and money by any means including on the road as
unclean and vile corruption, cheating, gambling, alcohol and drug business
and so forth.
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9. Activity of work Reygitha
C. Prevention of Occurrence Sex Free
To avoid free sex is necessary to control and control of NAFSA lust.
Several attempts to do is.
1. Fill free time with useful things
A young man when he is alone at a time when an empty time,
would come to her delusion, promptings and passions that led to sin
also sexual fantasies. A young man must know how he spends his
time and fill the empty time. There are so many things that can be
done by a teenager to fill the empty time, can the sports, recreation,
berfaidah reading books, making crafts, attend lectures, following
race and other useful activities.
2. Choosing a Good Friend
A reality and experience proves that when a teen friends with
a good friend and he will be affected on them to do good.
3. Steer and avoid bad media
The mass media is one of the factors that "come" is
responsible for the proliferation of free sex. Many events news on
television and in newspapers and magazines that lustful sex, sexy
pictures, ads that smelled of "pornography" that contributed to the
morale of the youth and stimulate teens to have sex freely. For that
teens need to sort through the news you want to read and television
shows to be watched.
4. Fast
5. Using medical methods
To control the sexual appetite can be pursued medical
methods as follows:
 Often a cold shower in the summer,
 exercising and physical training,
 Steer clear of foods that contain pepper and spices because they
have stimulating properties,
 Do not consume too much nerve stimulator his best beverages
like coffee,
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10. BAB III
EXPLANATION
Activity of work Dedi
A. Picture
1. Handrails
2. Kiss kiss on the cheek and the extent of the forehead
3. The lip kiss (kiss francs)
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11. 4. Hug
5. Petting (dare undress top)
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12. 6. Fingering goto-sensitive part (dare openly)
7. Having sex
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13. BAB IV
CLOSING
Activity of work Indra
A. Conclusion
The conclusion of this paper is that the morality of teenagers have now been
destroyed and many ula cause. And what if such things continue to happen in
the free sex among teenagers then it could lead to the destruction of the pasa
front and ideals of the State. With that let the teens to avoid promiscuity from
ourselves.
B. Suggestion
1. The government should provide counseling and guidance to the youth to not
choose the wrong association.
2. Giving tah impacts ranging from small free sex.
3. The parents should give love needed by the child.
4. To teach moral education from an early age.
5. Be positive and choose your friends well.
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14. BAB V
OUR ARGUMENT
 According my argument ”Cecep Kodar H.” notion of free sex is a
way of expressing and releasing all the sexual drive that comes from
maturity of sexual organs, such as intimate dating, making out, to
have sexual contact, but the behavior is not assessed in accordance
with the norms for adolescents have not had the experience of
sexual.
 According my argument “Dedi Setiadi” Free sex is a behavior
driven by sexual desire shown in the form of behavior is not
commendable.
 According my argument “Yuyum Sumiati” Free sex is a risky
behavior that is a result of accumulative and a combination of factors
that are able to bypass these norms we learn from childhood and we
believe it is a free sex prohibited.
 According my argument “Indra M. Rifa’I” Free sex is any behavior
that is driven by sexual desire to the opposite sex or same-sex
marriages performed outside the relationship.
 According my argument “Windasari” Free sex is not commendable
behavior that violates value-nilaispiritual all religions teach the
values and norms in the mix and of course all religions do not agree
with casual sex. Free sex does not share their values apply.
 According my argument “Dani Wahyudi” Free sex is the
connections made by the couple to satisfy the sexual desires because
of the influence of western culture.
 According my argument “Reygitha I. Kusumah” Free sex is a
means to obtain satisfaction of the perpetrators through relationships
outside of marriage.
 According my argument “Ana Miptahudin” Free sex is defined as
sexual intercourse without legitimate ties to the perpetrators that
caused multiple partners.
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