Do you know the rulings behind the mahr?
What about knowing who can and can’t be your mahrams?
What about walis – do you know their rights over you in relation to marriage?
If you think you know everything there is to know about mahr, mahrams and walis, then prepare to be shocked and amazed as we delve deep into a this highly misunderstood and often mis-represented topic that can easily confuse the best of us!
Sheikh Musleh Khan will help you discover:
• What makes a mahr and the conditions attached to it
• Whether or not your marriage is valid without a mahr
• The fundamental rulings of mahrams in relation to marriage
• Why a wali is needed for marriage
• Conditions which nullify your wali for representing you (yes this happens a LOT and you probably don’t even know this!)
• What you can do if you don’t have a wali
It doesn’t matter whether you’re about to get married or your children are, this is an incredibly important topic which MUST be understood so you fulfil the rights Allah SWT has give you.
New Edited and updated slides.
Ruku by Ruku pointers.
Flow charts and action pointers added.
Self Evaluation chart added
Virtues and duas and much more!
New Edited and updated slides.
Ruku by Ruku pointers.
Flow charts and action pointers added.
Self Evaluation chart added
Virtues and duas and much more!
This slide ;program explains the meaning of Istighfar and Taubah. In the light of Quran and Sunnah, it explains the significance of it and its rewards in this world and the hereafter.
Is free-mixing allowed within cousins?
What does Islam say about working with people of the opposite gender?
What about work socials and group study?
And the big one – where does Islam stand on my relationship with my fiancé?
Allah SWT says in the Qur’an:
"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them...
...And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty."
[Surah al-Noor: 30-31]
Find out all the answers with your host Sheikh Musleh Khan in this Webinar Presenation where Sheikh Musleh will guide you through the Islamic relationship rules of work, family, friends and fiancés!
One of the most popular and oft quoted hadith (sayings attributed to the Prophet Muhammad) is narrated by Mu'awiyah bin Jahima al-Sulami and reported by Imam ibn Hanbal. The hadith relates how al-Sulami went to the Prophet Muhammad and said, "O messenger of Allah, I desire to go on the military expedition and I have come to consult you." The Prophet responded by asking, "Do you have a mother?" Al-Sulami replied, "Yes." The Prophet told him, "Stay with her, because paradise lies beneath her feet."
Connecting with Allah 24/7, Who is Allah, What is Islam, Following Sunnah, Forms of Nafl Salah, Forms of Nafl Fasting, Optional Sadaqa, Remembering Allah, Dua, Adhkar, Zikr of Allah, Morning and Evening Adhkar
New Edited and updated slides.
Section by Section pointers.
Flow charts and action pointers added.
Self Evaluation chart added
Virtues and duas and much more!
This slide ;program explains the meaning of Istighfar and Taubah. In the light of Quran and Sunnah, it explains the significance of it and its rewards in this world and the hereafter.
Is free-mixing allowed within cousins?
What does Islam say about working with people of the opposite gender?
What about work socials and group study?
And the big one – where does Islam stand on my relationship with my fiancé?
Allah SWT says in the Qur’an:
"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them...
...And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty."
[Surah al-Noor: 30-31]
Find out all the answers with your host Sheikh Musleh Khan in this Webinar Presenation where Sheikh Musleh will guide you through the Islamic relationship rules of work, family, friends and fiancés!
One of the most popular and oft quoted hadith (sayings attributed to the Prophet Muhammad) is narrated by Mu'awiyah bin Jahima al-Sulami and reported by Imam ibn Hanbal. The hadith relates how al-Sulami went to the Prophet Muhammad and said, "O messenger of Allah, I desire to go on the military expedition and I have come to consult you." The Prophet responded by asking, "Do you have a mother?" Al-Sulami replied, "Yes." The Prophet told him, "Stay with her, because paradise lies beneath her feet."
Connecting with Allah 24/7, Who is Allah, What is Islam, Following Sunnah, Forms of Nafl Salah, Forms of Nafl Fasting, Optional Sadaqa, Remembering Allah, Dua, Adhkar, Zikr of Allah, Morning and Evening Adhkar
New Edited and updated slides.
Section by Section pointers.
Flow charts and action pointers added.
Self Evaluation chart added
Virtues and duas and much more!
Included topics:
- Betrothal
- Marriage
- Dissolution
- Ancillary claims
- Parent and children
- Adoption
- Legitimacy
- Inheritance
Not included:
- Introduction to the Administration of Islamic law in Malaysia
- Polygamous marriage
Rights and responsibilities of Wife - The heart of the homePure Matrimony
Sisters, are you aware of what your rights are to your husband in a marriage?
Do you know what Allah SWT has decreed for you in the sanctity of marriage?
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Prepare to be amazed as we delve deep into part one of this two-part webinar event looking at the rights and responsibilities of each spouse!
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• How she is treated in the home
• The trust that is placed on her in her husband’s absence
• What it truly means to attain Jannah by adhering to your rights
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It doesn’t matter whether you are married or not, a sister or a brother, we guarantee you’ll learn things on this webinar you may otherwise never have known!
Would you marry yourself? - by Sister Zohra SarwariPure Matrimony
Before you create a list of ideals your future spouse needs to have for you to even consider marrying them, ask yourself this: would you marry yourself?
This isn't a trick a question, but it's highly essential for everyone to ask of themselves before they even consider getting married. In the same way that you would expect certain things in a future husband or wife, they too will have expectations of what they want in you. No one thinks to ask themselves this prior to getting married, but asking this is critical to ensuring you can be the best you can be for a prospective partner.
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InshAllaah, during this webinar Sister Zohra Sarwari will talk about 3 things in particular:
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Brothers, do you know what your rights are to your wife in a marriage?
Did you know that not fulfilling your rights to your wife can incur the anger of Allah SWT?
Sisters, do you know what rights your husband has over YOU?
Marriage is one of the most beautiful ways to complete half of your deen, but a marriage is only beautiful when all rights have been granted to one another.
In part two of this webinar event entitled ‘The Ameer of The Home: The Rights And Responsibilities of A Husband’ you’ll discover exactly which responsibilities Allah places on a husband and which rights the Qur’an and Sunnah has given to them including:
• The responsibility of being the ‘shepherd’ of his family
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• The rights the husband has over his wife
• What it truly means to attain Jannah by adhering to your rights
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So my dear brothers and sisters, make sure you attend ‘The Ameer of The Home: The Rights And Responsibilities of A Husband’ so you can educate yourselves and not transgress the boundaries which Allah SWT has set for you!
Regardless of whether you are single or married, Insha’Allah you’ll learn how to give your family their rights and dues and have a more peaceful and harmonious marriage.
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Despite many success stories both offline and online, the
number of casualties falling victim to marriage bandits is
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before you wreck yourself’ by disclosing the common
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sadness or loneliness at times
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Published classroom materials form the basis of syllabuses, drive teacher professional development, and have a potentially huge influence on learners, teachers and education systems. All teachers also create their own materials, whether a few sentences on a blackboard, a highly-structured fully-realised online course, or anything in between. Despite this, the knowledge and skills needed to create effective language learning materials are rarely part of teacher training, and are mostly learnt by trial and error.
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Mahr, mahrams and walis - Knowing your duties and rights
1.
2. Allah SWT in all his wisdom has placed
extra protection for women in Islam by
giving the men in her life special duties
and roles to fulfil:
The Mahr – which needs to be paid by her
husband to her
The Mahram – who cannot marry her and
therefore acts as her protector during travel
and in life
The Wali – her guardian who is charged with
ensuring her marriage to the most suitable
spouse
3. What is the mahr?
The dowry given to the wife by her husband
It is her right ordained by Allah:
And give the women [upon marriage] their [bridal]
gifts graciously. But if they give up willingly to you
anything of it, then take it in satisfaction and
ease.” [Quran 4: 4]
It is a token of honour and respect for the wife
and demonstrates the seriousness and
importance of the marriage contract
It is given in exchange for the right to enjoy
marital relations
4. Is giving the mahr obligatory?
Husband must give mahr, especially if stipulated in
marriage contract:
“You shall give the women their due dowries, equitably”
(4:4)
However if the wife withholds his rights to intimacy –
she will lose the right of the mahr
Also, if the wife chooses to forgo any part of the
mahr, the husband is permitted to take it, as Allah
SWT says:
“… but if they, of their own good pleasure, remit any
part of it, take it, and enjoy it without fear of any harm
(as Allaah has made it lawful).” (al-Nisaa’ 4:4)
5. Is the mahr a part of the marriage contract?
Although the mahr is obligatory on the husband
and is a right of the wife, it does not actually form
part of the marriage contract unless stated
otherwise.
This is based on the following:
"There is no sin upon you if you divorce women
before touching them or assigning for them a
dowry…”(Quran 2:236)
This means the marriage contract will still be
valid without a mahr being mentioned – however
it is preferred to mention and agree upon the
mahr at the time of the nikah to avoid dispute
6. Can the mahr be taken back?
The husband cannot take back the mahr he gave to
his wife, even if he wishes to divorce her:
And how could you take it (back) when you have gone
in unto each other, and they have taken from you a firm
and strong covenant?” (al-Nisaa’ 4:21)
The mahr is the right of the wife alone, and it is not
permitted for her father or anyone else to take it
except with her approval.
Abu Saalih said:
“When a man married off his daughter, he would take
her mahr away from her, but Allah forbade them to do
that, and gave women the right to the mahr they
received.” (Tafseer Ibn Katheer).
7. What counts as mahr? What can be given?
There is no minimum/maximum amount of mahr that
is specifically mentioned in Qur’an/Sunnah
It does not have to be limited to money - according
to Ibn Al-Qayyim, the strongest opinion is that
anything which has value (regardless of whether it
be something material or something non-material)
can be accepted as mahr
The Prophet SAW accepted a man teaching his wife
the Qur’an as mahr:
"Go, for I have put her under your charge with what you
have of the Qur'an. " [Bukhari & Muslim]
Look at what is given to other women at the time
(what is culturally acceptable or befitting of what the
family can give)
8. What is a mahram?
A person who is forbidden to you for marriage
and therefore acts as a guardian and protector
The person can be a mahram due to:
Blood relations
In-law relations
Suckling relations
Step - relations
Who are your mahrams?
Allah says in the Qur’an:
9. “Forbidden to you (for marriage) are: your
mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your
father’s sisters, your mother’s sisters, your
brother’s daughters, your sister’s daughters, your
foster mother who gave you suck, your foster
sisters, your wives’ mothers, your step-daughters
under your guardianship, born of your wives into
whom you have gone – but there is no sin on you
if you have not gone into them (to marry their
daughters) - the wives of your sons (who spring)
from your own loins, and two sisters in wedlock at
the same time, except for what has already
passed. Verily, Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most
Merciful.” (An-Nisa 4:23)
10. Temporary and permanent mahrams
A mahram can either be temporary or
permanent.
All types of mahrams are permanent with the
exception of your spouse.
When a woman becomes divorced her ex-
husband becomes her non-mahram (ghayr) and
therefore must be treated like all her non-
mahram relations.
However her father-in-law will always be her
mahram even though she is divorced from his
son
11. Non-biological mahrams
Refers to step father, step daughter, adopted
children, adoptive parents etc.
Step mother – once she is married to your father
your step mother becomes permanently
forbidden to you for marriage and you become
her mahram.
Step daughter – You become a mahram for your
step daughter after the marriage contract and
consummation of the marriage to your wife has
taken place.
12. Adoption and Mahrams
A complicated matter – child needs to be breastfed by the
adoptive mother for relationship to become lawful.
If child hasn’t been suckled – as if they were non-mahrams
to you/you are non-mahram to them.
Adoptive mother needs to suckle the child at least 5 times.
They should be suckled in their first 2 years.
The Prophet said:
Suckling forbids (from marriage) that which is forbidden due to
birth.” [Al Bukhari 9/140]
Once this has been established the adopted son becomes
the mahram for any other relation that a biological son
would have:
The same rules apply if you adopt a girl.
13. What age does one become a mahram?
Although many people think the mahram needs
to be an adult, the majority of scholars are of the
view that if the mahram is a boy who has
reached the age of discernment and is close to
puberty, and the woman feels safe when he is
with her, then that is sufficient – the boy who is
close to the age of puberty comes under the
same ruling as an adult.
However the best mahram for a woman when
travelling is her husband or father as they will be
able to protect her properly.
14. What is a wali?
Wali means guardian, protector and custodian
A Wali of a woman is a male guardian who is
responsible for assessing the marriage proposal
and decides in the best interest of the woman.
Wali’s are firstly blood mahrams. A woman’s
main wali is usually her father first.
A marriage without the consent of a wali is not
valid – this is for the protection of the woman
There is no marriage without a walī. (Al-Tirmidhī,
4/226)
15. Who needs a wali?
Women who have never been married and are
virgin need their wali’s permission to get
married
Divorced women who had previous marital
relations do not need the permission of their
wali, however the wali still needs to be part of
the marriage contract
Men do not need a wali, but they need to ask
the wali of a woman they are interested in
marrying for their permission
16. Who can be a wali?
For a man to count as a wali he needs to have
the following:
Religion (and be practising)
Fairness and Maturity
Puberty
Faculty of sense
He also needs to fulfill his duties of a wali by:
Finding the best and most righteous spouse for her
Accepting the proposal of someone that has good
religion and manners
Not refuse her wish to get married if the person is
suitable
17. What about revert sisters or those who do not have a
wali?
A wali MUST be a Muslim, therefore sisters who are
reverts cannot use their fathers as their wali unless they
are a Muslim
Instead, sisters should appoint the local Imam/Sheikh to
be their Wali
Sisters who do not have a wali (e.g. orphans or no male
family) will also need to appoint the local Imam or
Sheikh to become their Wali
The same rules apply – your marriage is invalid without
a wali, and not having a wali is not an excuse to be
married without one!
Again the only concession is that of divorced women but
remember the wali must be present at the time of nikkah
18. What if a wali does not fulfil his duties as a wali?
Sheikh Muhammad b.`Uthaymîn said the following:
“If a woman's guardian prevents her from marrying a
suitable partner of good religion and character, then her
guardianship is transferred to the next in line for
guardianship among her relatives. If all of her guardians –
in succession – refuse, as is usually the case in these
matters, then guardianship transfers to the Islamic judge
who will facilitate the woman's marriage. It is the duty of
the judge to get the woman married once the matter
comes before him and he knows of her guardians' refusal.
This is because the judge has general jurisdiction over the
matter once the specific jurisdiction of her blood relatives
is annulled.”
19. What if a wali does not fulfil his duties as a wali?
The jurists mention that if the wali repeatedly
refuses a woman's qualified suitors, his character
is deemed sinful and this disqualifies his
guardianship. In fact, many scholars are of the
opinion that the right of such a man to lead others
in prayer is nullified!
Some people whom Allah has entrusted with
guardianship refuse to allow the women under
their care to marry qualified suitors. The problem is
compounded by the fact that many young women
are too shy or scared to say anything or to
approach the Shariah courts.
20. Allah has placed multiple forms of protection for
the women in Islam
The mahr is a very important part of the marriage
contract and cannot be disregarded as it is the
woman’s right
Her protectors and guardians have a very
serious responsibility to uphold and should not
take this lightly
Mahrams and Walis should not abuse their rights
over the women under their care as there are
severe consequences to this.
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