3. Summary of Arab culture
Think as a group
Define people as near and far
Conformity of those close-by and
brings
Honor
Social prestige
Secure place in society
4. Arab culture
Rivalry in relationships – high benefit
in ability to dominate
Groups will stick together – dishonor
on entire group
Conformity is honored – notice the
prayers and meaning of Islam –
conformity required
5. Right & Wrong - Arab
Defined by the Qur’an
But because many things are not laid
out, what the group says is usually
key
6. Right & Wrong - Arab
Shame is not necessarily wrong –
Allah has created both good and evil
If there is a wrong, it must be
concealed to avoid shame
7. Shame
Often avoid risks
When shame occurs – deny or blame
shift to something/someone else and
react violently
8. Shame
Often Arabs are easily offended
and expect special treatment
Honor MUST be restored, even at
the cost of one’s life.
9. Revenge
Revenge is sanctioned in the
Qur’an: 6:173
Peace – only in the house of
Islam with
Muslims
Dhimmi
11. Honorable acts
When people come, insist that
they eat and drink
Honor blood relatives, people
near you – especially the eldest
son
12. Honor and education
Especially elder son = educational
honor
Doctorate – a high honor for the
family
It is the degree and not the effort or
knowledge that is important
13. Honor
Marriage raises honor of son, and
especially after the birth of a son
Language is very important – Arab
will listen to anyone who speaks well
14. Honor
Poetry is very important as an art
and defense against shame
Arab hero – defiant & boastful
15. Honor
Wealthy are honored
They can be hospitable
They can be generous
Gets respect and covers many sins
16. Honor
Heritage – proud of it
Dishonorable are forgotten
Age and wisdom – know old
stories
19. Honor and violence
Honors strength, no compassion for
weakness
Violence to obtain honor
It is honorable to reach down to help
the helpless – and Jesus showed
incredible honor when He reached
down to us
20. Can you honor yourself??
No – but people usually do not honor
someone without a cause
Jesus is the only one who can bring us
to God
God honors the one who serves Jesus:
Jn. 12:25-26
21. Summary of Salvation
We need to see that God deals with
guilt, fear and shame throughout the
Bible
We in the west trace the guilt through
the Bible. But we need to see the
others too
22. The Holy Spirit
Convicts of sin, righteousness
and guilt
Guilt – convicts of sin
Shame – exposes. Remember John
3:20 – that we don’t come to the
light, because it exposes our sin
23. The Holy Spirit
Guilt is before God
Shame is before society
God deals with our sin
24. God’s dealing with sin
Propitiation – an act which satisfies
God’s anger at sin. It satisfies the
requirements of the law
Sin of man wrath of God
judgment of God
25. God’s dealing with sin
God’s wrath places people and nations
and groups under his judgment
His answer – sacrifice. Wrath on the
sacrifice
26. Sin and redemption
Redemption cleanses us clearing
our guilt (guilt based cultures)
Redemption works through a
mediator to pay for our sins
(shame cultures)
28. Reconciliation
Reconciliation is restoration of Father-
child relationship
Shame is removed and honor restored
Fear is gone and we are accepted
Again – sacrifice is required
29. A paradijm
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Propitiation – God’s wrath – fear
Redemption – God’s justice – guilt
Reconciliation – God’s honor
30. Repentance
Acceptance of God’s way for us
Turn from sin
Turn from our own innocence
Turn from our own honor
Turn from our own power
31. God’s dealing with sin
Propitiation – God’s wrath – fear
Redemption – God’s justice –
guilt
Reconciliation – God’s honor
32. Repentance
Acceptance of God’s way for us
Turn from sin
Turn from our own innocence
Turn from our own honor
Turn from our own power
33. Christ’s sacrifice
God deals with all aspects on the
cross
Satan will attempt to undermine the
total victory of the cross in our minds
34. Honor before whom?
We need to seek God’s honor, and
not man’s honor
It is the same as rewards in heaven
are different from earth
35. The result of the
resurrection
I Cor. 15:42-43 So also is the
resurrection of the dead
It is sown in corruption, it is raised in
incorruption (guilt – innocence)
It is sown in dishonor, it is raised in honor
(shame – honor)
It is sown in weakness; it is raised in power
(fear – power)
36. Three-fold salvation
Fear, guilt and shame dealt with
In Eden
In the temple offerings & ceremonies
By the prophets
In Isaiah 53
Calvary
Pentecost
37. Expect conflict
The gospel is going to challenge
every culture in some areas
We are sinners
It is our culture which we have created
39. Community is strong
Islam – umma, or community, is
very strong
Shame based culture
Shame based religion
Shame based community
40. Community is strong
Everyone is responsible to care for
others
Seekers want to know about
community, its rules, etc.
41. Difference in approach
The Qur’an spells out do’s and don’ts.
If it is not mentioned, it is probably OK
The Bible gives principles which we
need to apply to different situations
42. Difference in approach
Bonding is very important
The Qur’an allows bonding and still
ethnic or international rivalries to
occur
43. Bonding
At family or tribal level – not too
difficult.
But more difficult with changes in
language, culture, etc.
We tend to want people made in
our own image (people like us)
45. The kingdom of God
The king and subjects – we are to
do the will of the king
The king gives responsibility to
his subjects
46. The bride
We are in a love relationship with
Jesus
We have service in loving
relationships
47. The ekklesia – the
assembly
Scripture reading and teaching
Fellowship and edification
Breaking bread
Prayer
Music is an important part
48. The body
Each member has gifts
The gifts are to build the body
We are to carry on the physical
presence of Jesus in the body – He
indwells us, and we are the temple of
the Holy Spirit
49. Community
We should not expect the
government to care for everything.
We should be careful not to have a
business model of the church in
action
50. Bible teaching to others
The natural man needs propitia-
tion, a sacrifice for sins
The carnal man needs the
termina-tion of an independent
life style
The spiritual man needs the
pattern of daily dying to self
51. Carnal vs. spiritual
believers
Carnal believers – concerned about
their own comfort, welfare & security.
Focus on getting good things.
Alive to physical things
52. Carnal vs. spiritual
believers
Spiritual believers – in tune with
God’s desires, and the needs of
others.
Focus on leading others to Christ,
discipling and serving them
We need to be others-focused
53. Our false assumption
Because we are so individual focused,
we assume that the individual will opt
for salvation first, and then check out
the community
54. Our false assumption
But for a community based culture,
they will want to see what the
community is like, and how it functions
55. Danger
New converts may assume that
they can join the community of
the expatriate missionary rather
than the national church
56. Working with contacts
They will want to identify who you are,
and what your role is in society.
Do you have marks of godliness?
What are these marks in your target
group?
We need to have a correct message
contextualized as needed
57. Is the community valid?
Be transparent in relationships,
struggles, ways to relate to God,
and how God helps through a
Christian community
Do not underestimate the
importance of the body of
believers to a shame-based
society
58. Is the community valid?
We must work so that our church
is open to all types of persons
with different types of cultures,
including shame-based
backgrounds
59. Islamic communities
It is difficult for Muslims to start
their own communities as
Christians from scratch
Let them come into the church
and see how it works for
themselves
60. Adjustments
Muslims may assume that we are very
free with sex because separation is not
rigid
Some of our feasts (Christmas, Thanks-
giving) are more restricted to families
Often a seeker will test the community
61. Spiritual growth
Eventually –the power of the Holy
Spirit must become personal
We need transparency,
repentance & forgiveness
62. Spiritual growth
Old sins need to be dealt with
and forsaken
Confession is an important
question in a shame-based
culture
63. Spiritual growth
He may want to test your hospitality,
your tolerance of other religions, your
materialism, and your interest in him as
a person, as well as your spirituality
If financial challenges come, suggest
that the community will approach the
problem
64. Changed order
Sometimes it is like this:
Community Discipleship
Saving faith
A transparent community reflecting
Jesus will attract unbelievers
65. Difference in community
Islam – not a closed community with all
having rights to leadership. They have
many in quasi-Islamic status looking at
the group
Thus many look at the west as
intolerant in terms of community