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Interview
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In her shoes
Interview with Joanne Burgener
Natalie Widmer
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with Joanne Burgener
Hi Joanne, thanks a lot for your time and for
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discovered that you
work part-time and hav
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with Joanne Burgener
Hi Joanne, thanks a lot for your time and for
checked your background briefly
that you were named
time and have kids. Could you please tell us
what brought you further in your career? And who or
along the way
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along the way?
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Did you ever get the feeling that you’re being treated differently, simply because you’re a woman?
In all honesty, I do believe I had some advantages. Back then, I was the only woman at manager level. No, not
true, there were more. But I was the only foreign women at that level and you were treated like one: you got a
seat at the middle of the table; clients were pleased having a woman in the team; generally I was treated more
genteelly. And as a foreigner I got away with a lot of things, e.g. I could speak to other on a first-name basis.
This made things easier. But sometimes for certain clients I was not asked join in – even today. For some Swiss
clients, being a woman and a foreigner is just too much.
At events, it was also occasionally an advantage to be a woman. As there were not so many women in
attendance, people tended to know me by name.
Career-wise, I got a lot of support from my sponsor. So perhaps it’s also thanks to him that I rarely if ever
experienced any negative treatment.
One disadvantage may be that it was difficult to gain access to men’s clubs. The guys were always talking about
male topics such as cars and I was not interested in that. This may be a bit threatening at the beginning because
you’re in the minority. And it felt a bit like a disadvantage; but I’m not sure whether this is in fact a
disadvantage.
How did you react to or counter such situations?
Well, at the beginning I often didn’t do “guy type of things” like going to the bar after a workshop. But then I
realised, hey, it might be a good idea to take part. However, staying authentic and talking about your own
interests took a bit of courage. Over the years, this became easier. But also today, sometimes I just don’t feel like
going with the flow. And that’s perfectly fine; you don’t have to be part of everything.
What’s important to be a good and authentic leader?
Life experience, knowing your own strengths and weaknesses, not trying to please everyone – of course less-
experienced people also possess that ability. When I was younger, though, this seemed difficult; I wanted to
please everyone. But maybes that’s just a “girl type of thing”.
In your opinion, is there something like a typical male or female leadership style? If yes, how would you
describe it?
Well, at an earlier stage I was convinced it exists – something like a typical male and female leadership style.
But today, I believe leaders are persons who are energised, with whom you like to be with because you feel
trusted and know that you’re in good hands; because you feel you can learn from that person and are being
brought further – even out your comfort zone, you’re still being supported. This is something great, having the
opportunity to work with such people. And it’s also very generous and cannot be taken for granted. When it
comes to leadership style, the old-school, autocratic, patriarchal leadership approach has gone the way of the
dinosaurs. Situational leadership styles, where people adapt their style to specific circumstances, are what bring
you further and, in my opinion, represent the success model for the future. Not one-size-fits-all.
How do you handle personal failure?
Well, a lot of things turned out to be flops. My CV reveals 13 scholastic repetitions. And I failed to pass German.
But also when I had to prove myself for the partner case, such past situations pushed me to give even more.
This triggered a certain desire for recognition. Sometimes even to the point of until zeal.
One example of this was when someone else was assigned the role for Diversity leader before me. I was really
frustrated. I thought, now the door is closed; and I gave up – for once, I didn’t persist. At the same time, I was
undergoing the 5-year assessment, where you work a lot on your personality. This course was originally for men
only. I was then asked: “Why are so frustrated and angry towards men?” Oops. I suddenly realised that this was
actually true; I just hadn’t picked up on that fact and didn’t know why. Only after having heard this from the
instructors was I able to let it go and change it. And then 3 years later, the Diversity leader left the company and
I was offered the position. This showed me, it had to be like this. With this suppressed anger and frustration, I
would not have been able to fulfil this role in a successful way.
These are situations where you sometimes don’t understand why things didn’t work out and you’re frustrated as
a result. But at a later stage, you have to admit that the time was just not right. You had to take a detour.
What is your personal maxim in life? How do you personify it in your daily life?
If I do something, I do it right.
In my daily life, I have a lot of duties and responsibilities. And if I decide to do something, I need to be present
and take the time and do it right. But the more we do, the more difficult it becomes: and that’s our own fault.
We take so much on our shoulders and just let the wheels turn. But we need to slow down sometimes. In all
honesty, I haven’t found the secret recipe yet. However, nothing is worse for clients or employees than giving
them the feeling that you’ve been squeezed in between two other meetings and are mentally not present.
You need to be on your toes, conscious and attentive. Maybe this will become my new maxim in life .
I think this is very important, and honestly I often struggle with that. Outstanding leaders and inspiring
persons possess this great ability: to be in the here–and-now and also convey that sense to the person
opposite you. I have the luck of working with such persons. And it sometimes frustrates me to realise that my
skillset still comes up somewhat short in that regard.
But what keeps you from adding that to your toolbox?
Maybe it’s the feeling of being on autopilot, not able to decide when to do what, yet obliged to attend some
meetings where you don’t want to be? Equally spoken, maybe it’s just the inner unrest that comes from having
a lot on the table. But honestly I don’t know; there is no excuse.
It takes courage to say no to things you don’t want to do or when you see no reason behind the exercise. And
also to accept the discussion that may arise after you’ve said no or dare to question certain decisions. But this
takes time.
What was the most important advice you have received in your career and you would like to share with us?
It’s difficult to say, because you have to do gain own experiences. And this makes human beings more
interesting. Ultimately, you become wiser. But that’s also the nice part; imagine not being allowed to make any
mistakes and ending up with nothing else than your own life experiences and intellectual belongings packed in
a box.
I think persistence and courage are useful traits, but they’re not the only things that help. It took time for me to
realise that I’m not alone; I don’t have to fight by myself. Trying to do it all on your own is a Sisyphean exercise,
so go and look for a sponsor and talk about your success.
Joanne, thanks a lot for your time and the very inspiring and interesting discussion. What I will take away
with me are two things:
What’s needed is persistence and one shouldn’t give up too early. Being frustrated is okay, but not for too long
and not if it keeps you from taking the next steps. Everything has its meaning, and sometimes bit more time
passes before you realise this. Have the courage to question things and also the ability to say no. Don’t doubt
yourself; rather, ask yourself “Is it important for me?” If yes, it’s is absolutely worth taking that extra step.
And for me personally, a very important goal: I want to be attentive, on-my toes and focused.

Interview with Joanne Burgener

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    Did you everget the feeling that you’re being treated differently, simply because you’re a woman? In all honesty, I do believe I had some advantages. Back then, I was the only woman at manager level. No, not true, there were more. But I was the only foreign women at that level and you were treated like one: you got a seat at the middle of the table; clients were pleased having a woman in the team; generally I was treated more genteelly. And as a foreigner I got away with a lot of things, e.g. I could speak to other on a first-name basis. This made things easier. But sometimes for certain clients I was not asked join in – even today. For some Swiss clients, being a woman and a foreigner is just too much. At events, it was also occasionally an advantage to be a woman. As there were not so many women in attendance, people tended to know me by name. Career-wise, I got a lot of support from my sponsor. So perhaps it’s also thanks to him that I rarely if ever experienced any negative treatment. One disadvantage may be that it was difficult to gain access to men’s clubs. The guys were always talking about male topics such as cars and I was not interested in that. This may be a bit threatening at the beginning because you’re in the minority. And it felt a bit like a disadvantage; but I’m not sure whether this is in fact a disadvantage. How did you react to or counter such situations? Well, at the beginning I often didn’t do “guy type of things” like going to the bar after a workshop. But then I realised, hey, it might be a good idea to take part. However, staying authentic and talking about your own interests took a bit of courage. Over the years, this became easier. But also today, sometimes I just don’t feel like going with the flow. And that’s perfectly fine; you don’t have to be part of everything. What’s important to be a good and authentic leader? Life experience, knowing your own strengths and weaknesses, not trying to please everyone – of course less- experienced people also possess that ability. When I was younger, though, this seemed difficult; I wanted to please everyone. But maybes that’s just a “girl type of thing”. In your opinion, is there something like a typical male or female leadership style? If yes, how would you describe it? Well, at an earlier stage I was convinced it exists – something like a typical male and female leadership style. But today, I believe leaders are persons who are energised, with whom you like to be with because you feel trusted and know that you’re in good hands; because you feel you can learn from that person and are being brought further – even out your comfort zone, you’re still being supported. This is something great, having the opportunity to work with such people. And it’s also very generous and cannot be taken for granted. When it comes to leadership style, the old-school, autocratic, patriarchal leadership approach has gone the way of the dinosaurs. Situational leadership styles, where people adapt their style to specific circumstances, are what bring you further and, in my opinion, represent the success model for the future. Not one-size-fits-all. How do you handle personal failure? Well, a lot of things turned out to be flops. My CV reveals 13 scholastic repetitions. And I failed to pass German. But also when I had to prove myself for the partner case, such past situations pushed me to give even more. This triggered a certain desire for recognition. Sometimes even to the point of until zeal. One example of this was when someone else was assigned the role for Diversity leader before me. I was really frustrated. I thought, now the door is closed; and I gave up – for once, I didn’t persist. At the same time, I was undergoing the 5-year assessment, where you work a lot on your personality. This course was originally for men only. I was then asked: “Why are so frustrated and angry towards men?” Oops. I suddenly realised that this was actually true; I just hadn’t picked up on that fact and didn’t know why. Only after having heard this from the instructors was I able to let it go and change it. And then 3 years later, the Diversity leader left the company and I was offered the position. This showed me, it had to be like this. With this suppressed anger and frustration, I would not have been able to fulfil this role in a successful way. These are situations where you sometimes don’t understand why things didn’t work out and you’re frustrated as a result. But at a later stage, you have to admit that the time was just not right. You had to take a detour.
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    What is yourpersonal maxim in life? How do you personify it in your daily life? If I do something, I do it right. In my daily life, I have a lot of duties and responsibilities. And if I decide to do something, I need to be present and take the time and do it right. But the more we do, the more difficult it becomes: and that’s our own fault. We take so much on our shoulders and just let the wheels turn. But we need to slow down sometimes. In all honesty, I haven’t found the secret recipe yet. However, nothing is worse for clients or employees than giving them the feeling that you’ve been squeezed in between two other meetings and are mentally not present. You need to be on your toes, conscious and attentive. Maybe this will become my new maxim in life . I think this is very important, and honestly I often struggle with that. Outstanding leaders and inspiring persons possess this great ability: to be in the here–and-now and also convey that sense to the person opposite you. I have the luck of working with such persons. And it sometimes frustrates me to realise that my skillset still comes up somewhat short in that regard. But what keeps you from adding that to your toolbox? Maybe it’s the feeling of being on autopilot, not able to decide when to do what, yet obliged to attend some meetings where you don’t want to be? Equally spoken, maybe it’s just the inner unrest that comes from having a lot on the table. But honestly I don’t know; there is no excuse. It takes courage to say no to things you don’t want to do or when you see no reason behind the exercise. And also to accept the discussion that may arise after you’ve said no or dare to question certain decisions. But this takes time. What was the most important advice you have received in your career and you would like to share with us? It’s difficult to say, because you have to do gain own experiences. And this makes human beings more interesting. Ultimately, you become wiser. But that’s also the nice part; imagine not being allowed to make any mistakes and ending up with nothing else than your own life experiences and intellectual belongings packed in a box. I think persistence and courage are useful traits, but they’re not the only things that help. It took time for me to realise that I’m not alone; I don’t have to fight by myself. Trying to do it all on your own is a Sisyphean exercise, so go and look for a sponsor and talk about your success. Joanne, thanks a lot for your time and the very inspiring and interesting discussion. What I will take away with me are two things: What’s needed is persistence and one shouldn’t give up too early. Being frustrated is okay, but not for too long and not if it keeps you from taking the next steps. Everything has its meaning, and sometimes bit more time passes before you realise this. Have the courage to question things and also the ability to say no. Don’t doubt yourself; rather, ask yourself “Is it important for me?” If yes, it’s is absolutely worth taking that extra step. And for me personally, a very important goal: I want to be attentive, on-my toes and focused.