Personality is what makes a person a unique person, and it is recognizable soon after birth. A child's personality has several components: temperament, environment, and character. Temperament is the set of genetically determined traits that determine the child's approach to the world and how the child learns about the world. There are no genes that specify personality traits, but some genes do control the development of the nervous system, which in turn controls behavior. A second component of personality comes from adaptive patterns related to a child's specific environment. Most psychologists agree that these two factors—temperament and environment—influence the development of a person's personality the most. Temperament, with its dependence on genetic factors, is sometimes referred to as "nature," while the environmental factors are called "nurture." While there is still controversy as to which factor ranks higher in affecting personality development, all experts agree that high-quality parenting plays a critical role in the development of a child's personality. When parents understand how their child responds to certain situations, they can anticipate issues that might be problematic for their child. They can prepare the child for the situation or in some cases they may avoid a potentially difficult situation altogether. Parents who know how to adapt their parenting approach to the particular temperament of their child can best provide guidance and ensure the successful development of their child's personality. Finally, the third component of personality is character—the set of emotional, cognitive, and behavioral patterns learned from experience that determines how a person thinks, feels, and behaves. A person's character continues to evolve throughout life, although much depends on inborn traits and early experiences. Character is also dependent on a person's moral development .

1. DR ALKA MUKHERJEE
NAGPUR M.S. INDIA
HOW TO DEVELOPE YOUR
PERSONALITY?

2. DR ALKA MUKHERJEE
MBBS DGO FICOG FICMCH PGDCR PGDMLS MA(PSY)
Director & Consultant At Mukherjee Multispecialty Hospital
MMC ACCREDITATED SPEAKER
MMC OBSERVER MMC MAO – 01017 / 2016
Present Position
 Director of Mukherjee Multispecialty Hospital
 Hon.Secretary INTERNATIONAL COUNCIL FOR HUMAN RIGHTS
 Hon.Secretary NARCHI NAGPUR CHAPTER (2018-2020)
 Hon.Secretary AMWN (2018-2021)
 Hon.Secretary ISOPARB (2019-2021)
 Life member, IMA, NOGS, NARCHI, AMWN & Menopause Society,
India, Indian medico-legal & ethics association(IMLEA), ISOPRB,
HUMAN RIGHTS
 Founder Member of South Rapid Action Group, Nagpur.
 On Board of Super Specialty, GMC, IGGMC, AIIMS Nagpur,
NKPSIMS, ESIS and Treasury, Nagpur for “ WOMEN SEXUAL
HARASSMENT COMMITTEE.”
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Achievement
 Winner of NOGS GOLD MEDAL – 2017-18
 Winner of BEST COUPLE AWARD in Social
Work - 2014
 APPRECIATION Award IMA - MS
 Past Position
 Organizing joint secretary ENDO-GYN
2019
 Vice President IMA Nagpur (2017-2018)
Vice President of NOGS(2016-2017)
Organizing joint secretary ENDO-GYN
Organizing secretary AMWICON – 2019

3. • The sum total of your qualities, quirks,
characteristics, beliefs, attitudes and
psychological traits comprises your personality.
• Personality development would involve an
enhancement in all the areas of your life.
• A host of factors like heredity, environment,
family and societal conditions play a role in
influencing and shaping one’s personality.
• Work on all these areas to bring about a well-
rounded development.

5. • Practice optimism and gratitude: Positivity is
the key ingredient for a healthy and peaceful
life. Expunging the negativity from your mind
and life will improve your mental stability.
Studies have shown positive thoughts to
reduce depression and anxiety to a substantial
level.

7. • Each person is unique:
• Remember that each individual is different and
has his/ her unique characteristics and qualities.
Comparing yourself to others around only
increases the distress, especially when you start
focusing on where you are lacking compared to
others.
• Channelize your energy towards your positive
traits.
• Never imitate anyone. Be the one which you are
in actual and never pretend.

9. • Be confident: Inculcating confidence is one of the
first steps towards personality enhancement.
• Confidence gives rise to self-motivation and
makes one aware of their inner capabilities.
• Science shows that when people feel confident,
the chemical changes in their brain lead to a
point when they actually start believing in it. So,
have confidence and know, whatever happens,
you can handle it

11. • Learn social skills:
• Only good-looking will never be sufficient to take
you forward in life or help you in your
relationships with people.
• Hone your social skills. The more success one has
in social spheres of life, the better you would feel
about yourself.
• Try to make use of positive gestures while
interacting with others and watch out for your
body language too.

13. • Communicate better: Good communication is
the time-tested key to good interpersonal
relationships.
• Clear communication can get one through
adverse situations and resolve conflicts that
might seem unsurpassable at first.
• Clear your thoughts and make sure to
communicate whatever needs to be said.

15. • Do not avoid social interactions:
• Just because you feel you aren’t good-looking,
do not avoid meeting people.
• Look for opportunities, go to different events,
participate in social gatherings, and be
proactive.
• The more you eschew social interaction, the
worse you would feel about yourself.

16. • Never quit in life: When people tend to lose hope
and wisdom, they feel like quitting.
• To quit is one of the worst things a person can do
while building their confidence or improving the
quality of their life.
• Remember, you owe it to yourself to take a
second chance and accomplish that dream that
keeps you up at night.
• And when you feel like quitting, as a wise man
once said, “think about why you started”.

18. • Know your positives:
• If every individual has his or her limitations,
then he or she also has positives. These
positives are what you need to concentrate
on.
• Know your strengths.
• Acknowledge them and work with them.
• It would definitely help you to overcome your
challenges and take you into a long run.

20. • Don't compare yourself to others:
• Every person has his own story.
• No two fingers are identical and the same applies
to people. However, people have a tendency to
focus on what others have achieved instead of
seeing how far they have reached.
• To achieve success, assess your abilities, analyze
your situation and develop a plan that works for
your goals

22. • Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone
• Be prepared to challenge yourself by learning
new skills. For most people it’s a huge learning
curve to start an online business, so you must
have a very positive, open-minded attitude
and embrace any changes you need to make.

24. • Never run after perfection: Nobody in this
world is born perfect. Every person has flaws
within them. When faced with criticism,
accept it when it’s positive and let it go when
it’s not. Develop a habit of looking at your
flaws objectively and work on them to
eliminate them one step at a time.

25. • Don’t Fear Failure
• Don’t worry about making mistakes, you will
make loads in your journey and a lot of them
may hold you back for a while, but once
you’ve made them, these methods can be
eliminated and you can move on.

26. • Stay focussed: Developing focus helps people
channelize their energy to the most critical
aspects of their life. Decide your priorities and
focus just on them. Know what matters most
to you and avoid distractions that derail you
from your goals.

27. • Dress confidently: Dressing is an art. Everyone has
flaws and feels incompetent from time to time. But
dressing in what one feels comfortable and confident
in can help them to tide over tough situations.
• Dress up well:
• Focus on how you should dress up for office, party or
any other occasion. Wear according to the occasions.
Good looks no doubt will add to your personality but
what matters the most is how you are dressed up. It
plays a major role in personality development.

28. • Make Yourself Known
• Brand yourself in all your communications.
Whatever content you put out there is a slice
of your personality, so make sure it shows you
in a positive light. It’s you’re trying to sell to
other people, so the more personal the
message the better.

30. • Come Across As A Leader
• Whatever you learn and however little you
know, use it well. Become an authority on
whatever topic you tackle, then you have the
knowledge to pass it on to others and if you
put your message across in the right way, you
will attract followers. Express yourself and
always do, what you say.

32. • Effort And Consistency
• This is linked to your daily plan but is crucial.
Marketing your business every day with
relevant and sustained effort is much better
than huge bursts of activity once a month.
Effort and regularity will win the day every
time.

34. • Be funny & don’t be serious always
• No one likes boring and serious people.
Everyone enjoys the company of someone
who makes them laugh. Do not beat around
the bush just to make others laugh. Try to add
fun while having the conversation, others will
naturally be attracted to you.

35. • Some more good personality development tips at a glance:
• Keep a smart head and keep cool.
• Don’t Copy anyone.
• Create your own personal style
• Don’t doubt yourself
• Be An Active Listener
• Learn to have patience and focus on your communication skills. Be polite
and gentle with your words.
• Be executive in dress
• Don’t shout or be aggressive.
• Be more passionate about your work and be optimistic.
• Accept And Recognize Your Weak Points
• Learn to appreciate others. It helps the same qualities to be grown in us
too

36. THANK YOU