In this Slides, we’ll take about 20 tips that will help you be a better person. They don’t have to be in the following order of course. You might not be able to achieve all of these tips but it’s good for you to try

2. 20 tips to becoming a better
person
By
Taimoor Tayyab

3. Introduction
• One of the things we constantly try to do is be a better person. That’s
because we know that being a better version of ourselves will help them be
more successful in life.
• we’ll take about 20 tips that will help you be a better person.

4. 1. Have the will to change
• Allah won’t change you unless you decide to change. That’s why you
need to be willing to change and actually put some thought and effort
into the idea because when there’s a will there’s a way Insha'Allah.

5. 2. Stop making excuses
• You can’t expect to change if you keep making excuses for anything that
goes wrong with you, because you won’t see anything that needs to be
changed with you that way. You should take accountability for your actions
and take responsibility for your decisions. You shouldn’t blame anyone or
anything for your mistakes. Instead, try to learn from your mistakes, which in
turn will help you be a better person.

6. 3. Stop being angry
• If you let yourself be angry, your anger will modify your decision-making
ability and you’ll start making decisions that aren’t very rational. Anger is also
known for damaging relationships and negatively affects one’s health. So, if
you let it overtake you, it’ll prevent you from improving yourself. It might
even get into trouble. I know controlling anger is a difficult task, but if you
try your best to do so you will benefit from great rewards.

7. 4. Be more self-aware
• In order to become a better person, you should learn to notice yourself and
know how you behave in different situations. Then you’ll know when to
improve yourself if you do something improperly, and continue to do what
you’re doing right. This point is very important because you can’t be a better
person if you don’t know what you should improve of yourself in the first
place.

8. 5. Love yourself
• When you love yourself, you’ll want what’s best for it. Thus, you’ll look for
whatever can make it comfortable and content. Learn to accept yourself for
who you are and only then will you be able to enhance it and feel better. Tell
yourself that you’re kind and compassionate, that you’re worthy and
important, anything that would make you feel loved and accepted by yourself.
You should start by loving yourself because you won’t be able to love other
people if you don’t love yourself first.

9. 6. Set goals for yourself
• Every person should have a certain aim in life. After all, we were brought
into this life for a reason; build this world and work for the hereafter. For
that reason, you should set goals and objectives for yourself to conquer.
Write them down in a note on your phone or on a journal you keep at hand.
Every time you accomplish a goal, you’ll objectively learn more about
yourself and figure out ways of improvement in’sha’Allah.

10. 7. Be thankful and appreciative
• Thank Allah for the countless blessings that He showers upon you each and
every day, and appreciate what you have instead of obsessing over what you
wish you had. Also thank people for whatever good they do to you and
appreciate their thought and effort.

11. 8. Be a role model
• Being a role model to someone will encourage you to constantly strive for
the better because you wouldn’t want to disappoint whoever is looking up to
you. You will always find ways to improve yourself and be more careful how
you behave because you’ll always want to set a good example to others. Just
like when parents want to be role models to their children, they’ll try their
best to make decisions and take actions that their children will respect.

12. 9. Practice self-control
• You should be able to balance between your work life and your life outside
of work. This balance is necessary so that you don’t get bored if you only
focus on work or if you just sit down and enjoy your pleasures. If you get
bored, you won’t be satisfied, and hence, you won’t feel good about yourself.
Remember, everything has its own time.

13. 10. Control your anger and jealousy
• Anger and jealousy are very common human traits. But they are unpleasing
and self-destructing if they get out of control. Again, you’ll be hurting
yourself before others when you get angry at or jealous of someone, hence,
being unhappy and dissatisfied. Try not to compare yourself to others and
think they are better than you.
• Instead remember that there are so many people who are unfortunate and
that you have better circumstances than them Alhamdulillah. That would help
a lot.

14. Conti..
• Also, try not to get easily angered by anything, but if you do, try to forgive
who ever angered you. This doesn’t mean that you’re weak and that it’ll be
like nothing bad happened, on the contrary, what happened still happened
but you’re strong enough to relieve yourself from the heavy weight that was
keeping you down, now letting you heal.

15. 11. Forgive
• When someone hurts you, try to forgive them. I know that might be hard
but just try. If you don’t forgive them for whatever they did and hold that
against them for the rest of your life, you’ll just be hurting yourself more
because it’s unhealthy to hold a grudge. That would only affect your body
and mind negatively.

16. 12. Listen
• It’s very important to listen to people. Sometimes when you listen carefully,
you’ll learn things that you wouldn’t have known if you haven’t given an ear
to it. Although people these days are always busy and in a rush, try to make
some time to listen to others because it will definitely affect your life
positively in’sha’Allah.

17. 13. Be honest
• Being honest is one of the most important characteristics of a good person.
When you’re honest, you’ll feel better about yourself and people will trust
you more because you won’t tell any lies; you’d be straightforward. This way,
you’ll feel comfortable about everything you say or do since you know that
you’re not hiding anything and everything is clear and simple.

18. 14. Be helpful
• Helping others is one of the best ways to make you a better person. When
you help someone in need you will feel self-content and satisfied by your
achievement. You will realize that what you do is worth something to other
people and that you are bringing about good deeds with your
help in’sha’Allah.

19. 15. Do things that you usually don’t do
• Sometimes, there are things that you normally wouldn’t think of doing. You
just don’t want to take that risk. However, doing those things that you usually
wouldn’t do would increase your chance of becoming a better person
because you’ll be challenging yourself to try something new, something you
might have been scared of in the past. Be open-minded and try to get over
your fears and doubts.

20. 16. Make people happy
• Make the people that you love, or any random person you might encounter
in your day, happy. Make them smile. A very rewarding feeling is knowing
that you made someone happy. Think of different creative ways that would
impress someone every now and then. You’ll feel very satisfied with yourself.

21. 17. Show people that you care
• It’s nice to know that someone cares about you, don’t you think? Knowing
that allows us to acknowledge that showing people that we care about them
will make them feel happy, and hence, makes us happy. You can show that by
exclusively telling them that “I care about you” but it’s more genuine to let
them conclude that by your own actions toward them. Do something nice
for them, help them with something they need to do, any small act would
serve this purpose.

22. 18. Give to others
• What you give to others is what truly remains with you because Allah will
reward you more if you give than if you keep for yourself. In fact, when you
give to other people, Allah will reward you in this life and the
hereafter in’sha’Allah. It’s the kind of reward that will make you feel very
gratified and fulfilled. So, give charity to the needy. It doesn’t have to be very
big. Any small contribution will count.

23. 19. Explore your talents
• Are you aware of a skill or talent that you excel at? If you are, put some
effort on enhancing it. Do you think that you don’t have one? Well,
everybody has something they’re good at. If you think that you’re not good
at something in particular, you just haven’t found it yet. Explore your talents.
Try to look for activities that you might be interested in and turn out being
very skillful at. When you do find your talents, be sure to enrich and practice
them. You might even earn a living by them.

24. 20. Do what you love
• Even if you have a job that pays a lot of money, if you don’t love what you
do, you won’t be happy. Who wants to spend their life in a job they hate?
And even if you can’t always turn your hobby into your life career, you
should at least make some time to practice it. Hence, you won’t feel that your
life is empty if you don’t do what you love.
• This is basically it! How many of these tips do you already fulfil in your life?
How many do you not? Do you plan on becoming a better
person in’sha’Allah? Are there any other tips that you can add? Share your
thoughts below and share this article if you liked it!

25. Taimoor Tayyab
Tami_Soft Tech
taimoortayyab80@gmail.com
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