This document appears to be a summary of chapters from a book about manipulating people and relationships using psychological techniques. It discusses how emotions and feelings drive human behavior, and provides strategies for altering a partner's feelings to obtain forgiveness after cheating, create expectations they will feel compelled to live up to, and other interpersonal influence tactics. While some content focuses on understanding psychology, the overall approach seems to prioritize control and coercion over mutual understanding and consent in relationships.
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5 Ways to Create Sexual Tension With a Girl Over TextFrankie Cola
Here are 5 ways to create sexual tension with a girl over text.
Use these texting "tactics" to add a "SPARK" to your text conversations when they're going COLD.
These texting techniques allow you to ramp up the tension and
make a woman want to get physical with you.
Go through the slideshow to learn how.
Words That Attract Women: Your Unfair Advantage Over Rich, Good-Looking Guys...jakedennert
[http://attraction-made-easy.com] Words that attract women? As far-fetched as this may sound to you, I’m not blowing smoke with that title. When you develop a way with words, you really DO have an amazing ‘upper-hand’ with women… an advantage that all of the rich, good-looking guys won’t be able to touch.
Ever been frustrated by a woman just because you couldn’t turn her ON? Ever want to make sure a woman was HORNY before... You tried to even make a move? visit - http://makeanygirlwanttofuck.net/
5 Ways to Create Sexual Tension With a Girl Over TextFrankie Cola
Here are 5 ways to create sexual tension with a girl over text.
Use these texting "tactics" to add a "SPARK" to your text conversations when they're going COLD.
These texting techniques allow you to ramp up the tension and
make a woman want to get physical with you.
Go through the slideshow to learn how.
Words That Attract Women: Your Unfair Advantage Over Rich, Good-Looking Guys...jakedennert
[http://attraction-made-easy.com] Words that attract women? As far-fetched as this may sound to you, I’m not blowing smoke with that title. When you develop a way with words, you really DO have an amazing ‘upper-hand’ with women… an advantage that all of the rich, good-looking guys won’t be able to touch.
Secrets Of Fractionation Seduction Techniques For Massive AttractionGeorge Hutton
http://mindpersuasion.com
This is a powerful but little known technique that you can easily use in many areas to generate massive amounts of irresistible sexual desire, sales, income and all kinds of other good stuff. Learn more: http://mindpersuasion.com/frame-control/
When a Girl Says She's Not Ready For a RelationshipFrankie Cola
When a girl says she's not ready for a relationship, it can REALLY drive you crazy.
You start doubting yourself...
Is there something I did wrong?
And you start getting worried about losing her to another guy.
Allow this fear to ruin you, and you will get needy and push her away.
Or go through this slide show and learn a CLEAR PLAN of EXACTLY what to do in this situation... so that her attraction for you GOES UP, and not down.
How to Make Women Respect You as a Man and Attract More Quality Women into Yo...Frankie Cola
This slideshow reveals how to make women respect you as man.
The problem with today's society is that men act like wussies and don't respect themselves with women. As a result, women don't appreciate them as men.
This presentation shows you how to change your thinking so that you change your behavior and start attracting more quality women into your life.
How to Win Back a Girl Who Has Lost Interest With a Simple Switch in the Way ...Frankie Cola
This presentation is about how to win back a girl who has lost interest in you.
All you have to do is a simple switch in the way you act, that changes her "image" of the way she sees you and it triggers her to chase your validation.
If there's a "hard to get" girl you want to sleep with, you'll want to go through the slideshow above.
Things to Text a Girl to Make Her Smile - The Secret Formula to Sending "High...Frankie Cola
If you're trying to come up with cute things to text a girl to make her smile, I can relate. Sometimes it's tough struggling to come up with a text that compliments a girl without coming off as "weak" -- that was how I felt, until I discovered Rob Judge's secret formula for giving out a compliment in a confident and "cocky" way. I reveal this formula in this presentation along with 3 Examples on how to text girls with it.
Alright go ahead and read the presentation so you can *steal* the word-for-word texts and so you can come up with more compliments to say to a girl you like!
99 Best Text Messages To Send Girls for Instant ResponseRAMESH K.
You got a girl's number and don't to how to start the conversation, use these 99 text message to make her carve you. These messages create desire in a girl's mind, and for more reach my youtube channel dating advice https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_xyQLISe3tHcVAFw05Y0Kw
How to Text Girls to Get Dates Over and Over Again By Using These 7 Expert Te...Frankie Cola
Are you getting numbers from women only to feel disappointed
when they go cold and fizzle out through text?
If you do, then this is the most important slideshow you'll ever
go through.
Here's why:
This slideshow shows you how to text girls to get dates over and over again.
In particular, you'll learn 7 expert texting techniques that attract girls like crazy.
Okay, now go through the slideshow and start getting better "text" responses from women.
4 Cute Ways to Ask a Girl Out Over TextFrankie Cola
Are you having a tough time trying to get a girl out?
Looking for cute ways to ask a girl out over text?
If you're struggling to transition your text conversation into a date, this is the most important presentation you will ever see, and here's why:
In this presentation I will show you how to ask a girl out over text and 4 word-by-word text examples that allow you to do it. They are PROVEN, and they are very clever.
Alright go check them out, and hopefully the texts help you as they helped me.
Examples of What to Text a Girl in Different Stages of the Text "Pickup"Frankie Cola
There are 3 Stages you must go through if you want to
attract a woman over text and get her to agree to go out
with you.
Above, I give you examples of what to text a girl
throughout each of these 3 stages of your "text pickup"
I give you examples of cute, clever, and sweet texts to
send a girl... conversations starters... and ways to ask
a girl out over text.
If you're ready to start getting more dates with the women you text... you'll want to scroll up and learn these texting techniques.
How to Get a Girl to Like You and Get "FEELINGS" For YouFrankie Cola
This is exactly what needs to happen to get a girl to like you, and get feelings for you.
You have to create a psychic tension in her mind (I explain what that is in the quick presentation above)
If you want to get a girl obsessed with you, and to go crazy for you, follow the instructions revealed in the slides...
How to Know if a Girl Likes You - 5 Signs a Girl Likes You vs. 5 Signs You're...Frankie Cola
Is there a way on how to know if a girl likes you?
Let's face it, girls never directly tell you that they like you, so they leave you looking for "clues" like a sleuthy detective. Here are 5 signs a girl likes you and signs you're in the friend zone.
These are signs of attraction from women that answer your question of "am I attractive to girls?"
Some of these signs deal with how to tell if a girl is interested from her body language, and an easy, under-the-radar, "Friend Zone Test" you can do on her to find out if she likes you.
Married women have massive appeal. For a start, they are road tested - They know how to please a man, or they'd never have been proposed to. Moreover, they are unlikely to want anything from you but no strings encounters. She will have her own life, and will want you to have yours too - setting the perfect scene for a casual relationship.
Conversational Hypnosis Techniques teaches you everything you need to know to use conversational hypnosis to command people using perfectly normal conversation. Secret conversational hypnosis techniques are revealed here in this free pdf.
Secrets Of Fractionation Seduction Techniques For Massive AttractionGeorge Hutton
http://mindpersuasion.com
This is a powerful but little known technique that you can easily use in many areas to generate massive amounts of irresistible sexual desire, sales, income and all kinds of other good stuff. Learn more: http://mindpersuasion.com/frame-control/
When a Girl Says She's Not Ready For a RelationshipFrankie Cola
When a girl says she's not ready for a relationship, it can REALLY drive you crazy.
You start doubting yourself...
Is there something I did wrong?
And you start getting worried about losing her to another guy.
Allow this fear to ruin you, and you will get needy and push her away.
Or go through this slide show and learn a CLEAR PLAN of EXACTLY what to do in this situation... so that her attraction for you GOES UP, and not down.
How to Make Women Respect You as a Man and Attract More Quality Women into Yo...Frankie Cola
This slideshow reveals how to make women respect you as man.
The problem with today's society is that men act like wussies and don't respect themselves with women. As a result, women don't appreciate them as men.
This presentation shows you how to change your thinking so that you change your behavior and start attracting more quality women into your life.
How to Win Back a Girl Who Has Lost Interest With a Simple Switch in the Way ...Frankie Cola
This presentation is about how to win back a girl who has lost interest in you.
All you have to do is a simple switch in the way you act, that changes her "image" of the way she sees you and it triggers her to chase your validation.
If there's a "hard to get" girl you want to sleep with, you'll want to go through the slideshow above.
Things to Text a Girl to Make Her Smile - The Secret Formula to Sending "High...Frankie Cola
If you're trying to come up with cute things to text a girl to make her smile, I can relate. Sometimes it's tough struggling to come up with a text that compliments a girl without coming off as "weak" -- that was how I felt, until I discovered Rob Judge's secret formula for giving out a compliment in a confident and "cocky" way. I reveal this formula in this presentation along with 3 Examples on how to text girls with it.
Alright go ahead and read the presentation so you can *steal* the word-for-word texts and so you can come up with more compliments to say to a girl you like!
99 Best Text Messages To Send Girls for Instant ResponseRAMESH K.
You got a girl's number and don't to how to start the conversation, use these 99 text message to make her carve you. These messages create desire in a girl's mind, and for more reach my youtube channel dating advice https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_xyQLISe3tHcVAFw05Y0Kw
How to Text Girls to Get Dates Over and Over Again By Using These 7 Expert Te...Frankie Cola
Are you getting numbers from women only to feel disappointed
when they go cold and fizzle out through text?
If you do, then this is the most important slideshow you'll ever
go through.
Here's why:
This slideshow shows you how to text girls to get dates over and over again.
In particular, you'll learn 7 expert texting techniques that attract girls like crazy.
Okay, now go through the slideshow and start getting better "text" responses from women.
4 Cute Ways to Ask a Girl Out Over TextFrankie Cola
Are you having a tough time trying to get a girl out?
Looking for cute ways to ask a girl out over text?
If you're struggling to transition your text conversation into a date, this is the most important presentation you will ever see, and here's why:
In this presentation I will show you how to ask a girl out over text and 4 word-by-word text examples that allow you to do it. They are PROVEN, and they are very clever.
Alright go check them out, and hopefully the texts help you as they helped me.
Examples of What to Text a Girl in Different Stages of the Text "Pickup"Frankie Cola
There are 3 Stages you must go through if you want to
attract a woman over text and get her to agree to go out
with you.
Above, I give you examples of what to text a girl
throughout each of these 3 stages of your "text pickup"
I give you examples of cute, clever, and sweet texts to
send a girl... conversations starters... and ways to ask
a girl out over text.
If you're ready to start getting more dates with the women you text... you'll want to scroll up and learn these texting techniques.
How to Get a Girl to Like You and Get "FEELINGS" For YouFrankie Cola
This is exactly what needs to happen to get a girl to like you, and get feelings for you.
You have to create a psychic tension in her mind (I explain what that is in the quick presentation above)
If you want to get a girl obsessed with you, and to go crazy for you, follow the instructions revealed in the slides...
How to Know if a Girl Likes You - 5 Signs a Girl Likes You vs. 5 Signs You're...Frankie Cola
Is there a way on how to know if a girl likes you?
Let's face it, girls never directly tell you that they like you, so they leave you looking for "clues" like a sleuthy detective. Here are 5 signs a girl likes you and signs you're in the friend zone.
These are signs of attraction from women that answer your question of "am I attractive to girls?"
Some of these signs deal with how to tell if a girl is interested from her body language, and an easy, under-the-radar, "Friend Zone Test" you can do on her to find out if she likes you.
Married women have massive appeal. For a start, they are road tested - They know how to please a man, or they'd never have been proposed to. Moreover, they are unlikely to want anything from you but no strings encounters. She will have her own life, and will want you to have yours too - setting the perfect scene for a casual relationship.
Conversational Hypnosis Techniques teaches you everything you need to know to use conversational hypnosis to command people using perfectly normal conversation. Secret conversational hypnosis techniques are revealed here in this free pdf.
In Covert Hypnosis Techniques Revealed you will discover how to use perfectly normal conversation to give commands
and persuade people to do what you desire.
The Art of Covert Hypnosis you will teach you the basic techniques you need to master covert hypnosis for free. Discover how you can persuade and command people using everyday conversation without them noticing!
The Power of No: 12 Things to Say “No” To TodayJamesAltucher
Adapted from the book "The Power of No: Because One Little Word Can Bring Health, Abundance, and Happiness" by James Altucher and Claudia Azula Altucher
http://www.amazon.com/The-Power-No-Abundance-Happiness/dp/1401945872
James Altucher Podcast
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-james-altucher-show/id794030859?mt=2
The First 7 Tips To Heal A Broken HeartEmmanuelAmana
Coping with the loss of a relationship may be one of the hardest things you ever have to do. Whether you were with the person for three months or thirty years, breakups can leave you feeling profoundly hurt, confused, and rejected. You won't feel this way forever, though! You can heal your broken heart by these tips.
Good listeners always try to understand what others are trying to communicate, especially when the clarity is missing. People with good listening skills are more likely to understand tasks and projects. They are good at building strong relationships with co-workers, have a strong network, and also are successful in solving problems and resolvinging conflicts.
How to raise your success rate of approaching females by 75%!CashKing2
Ever wanted to learn how to successfully approach females? Well, look no more! This presentation will tell you everything you need to know from what to , and what NOT to do!
You do NOT have to have knowledge in
all areas
NO age is important (you can be
between 0 and 100 years old ...)
Why is this transformational process
important?
You start to know yourself - if you don't
know yourself, you can't expect the
people around you to do it for you.
It is time to let go when your partner wants to end the relationship
with you, and he/she insists on never coming back to you again. It is
pointless to go after your soon to be ex – after all, if you love him/her,
you would wish him/her happiness, right? Get all the info you need
here.
For long-term good relationship with him you need to learn how to get him to commit. This guide will help women's to build good long lasting relation with her husband or boyfriend.
Lots of things matter in life. Your career. Your health. Your finances. But nothing matters quite as much as your relationship. In this guide learn more about how to have a great relationships.
Life shaped by our thoughts
Learn How to attract answers by thoughts when you need it
and How much the power of our thoughts thus the the influence of it in our life
moreover
change to be positive more in your thinking way
In this slide I tryed to describe about human lifestyle like what is life,
purpose of life,
Success of life &
Realities of Life.
. It is most important for every students life that happened in their daily.
Accelerate your Kubernetes clusters with Varnish CachingThijs Feryn
A presentation about the usage and availability of Varnish on Kubernetes. This talk explores the capabilities of Varnish caching and shows how to use the Varnish Helm chart to deploy it to Kubernetes.
This presentation was delivered at K8SUG Singapore. See https://feryn.eu/presentations/accelerate-your-kubernetes-clusters-with-varnish-caching-k8sug-singapore-28-2024 for more details.
State of ICS and IoT Cyber Threat Landscape Report 2024 previewPrayukth K V
The IoT and OT threat landscape report has been prepared by the Threat Research Team at Sectrio using data from Sectrio, cyber threat intelligence farming facilities spread across over 85 cities around the world. In addition, Sectrio also runs AI-based advanced threat and payload engagement facilities that serve as sinks to attract and engage sophisticated threat actors, and newer malware including new variants and latent threats that are at an earlier stage of development.
The latest edition of the OT/ICS and IoT security Threat Landscape Report 2024 also covers:
State of global ICS asset and network exposure
Sectoral targets and attacks as well as the cost of ransom
Global APT activity, AI usage, actor and tactic profiles, and implications
Rise in volumes of AI-powered cyberattacks
Major cyber events in 2024
Malware and malicious payload trends
Cyberattack types and targets
Vulnerability exploit attempts on CVEs
Attacks on counties – USA
Expansion of bot farms – how, where, and why
In-depth analysis of the cyber threat landscape across North America, South America, Europe, APAC, and the Middle East
Why are attacks on smart factories rising?
Cyber risk predictions
Axis of attacks – Europe
Systemic attacks in the Middle East
Download the full report from here:
https://sectrio.com/resources/ot-threat-landscape-reports/sectrio-releases-ot-ics-and-iot-security-threat-landscape-report-2024/
LF Energy Webinar: Electrical Grid Modelling and Simulation Through PowSyBl -...DanBrown980551
Do you want to learn how to model and simulate an electrical network from scratch in under an hour?
Then welcome to this PowSyBl workshop, hosted by Rte, the French Transmission System Operator (TSO)!
During the webinar, you will discover the PowSyBl ecosystem as well as handle and study an electrical network through an interactive Python notebook.
PowSyBl is an open source project hosted by LF Energy, which offers a comprehensive set of features for electrical grid modelling and simulation. Among other advanced features, PowSyBl provides:
- A fully editable and extendable library for grid component modelling;
- Visualization tools to display your network;
- Grid simulation tools, such as power flows, security analyses (with or without remedial actions) and sensitivity analyses;
The framework is mostly written in Java, with a Python binding so that Python developers can access PowSyBl functionalities as well.
What you will learn during the webinar:
- For beginners: discover PowSyBl's functionalities through a quick general presentation and the notebook, without needing any expert coding skills;
- For advanced developers: master the skills to efficiently apply PowSyBl functionalities to your real-world scenarios.
Software Delivery At the Speed of AI: Inflectra Invests In AI-Powered QualityInflectra
In this insightful webinar, Inflectra explores how artificial intelligence (AI) is transforming software development and testing. Discover how AI-powered tools are revolutionizing every stage of the software development lifecycle (SDLC), from design and prototyping to testing, deployment, and monitoring.
Learn about:
• The Future of Testing: How AI is shifting testing towards verification, analysis, and higher-level skills, while reducing repetitive tasks.
• Test Automation: How AI-powered test case generation, optimization, and self-healing tests are making testing more efficient and effective.
• Visual Testing: Explore the emerging capabilities of AI in visual testing and how it's set to revolutionize UI verification.
• Inflectra's AI Solutions: See demonstrations of Inflectra's cutting-edge AI tools like the ChatGPT plugin and Azure Open AI platform, designed to streamline your testing process.
Whether you're a developer, tester, or QA professional, this webinar will give you valuable insights into how AI is shaping the future of software delivery.
Dev Dives: Train smarter, not harder – active learning and UiPath LLMs for do...UiPathCommunity
💥 Speed, accuracy, and scaling – discover the superpowers of GenAI in action with UiPath Document Understanding and Communications Mining™:
See how to accelerate model training and optimize model performance with active learning
Learn about the latest enhancements to out-of-the-box document processing – with little to no training required
Get an exclusive demo of the new family of UiPath LLMs – GenAI models specialized for processing different types of documents and messages
This is a hands-on session specifically designed for automation developers and AI enthusiasts seeking to enhance their knowledge in leveraging the latest intelligent document processing capabilities offered by UiPath.
Speakers:
👨🏫 Andras Palfi, Senior Product Manager, UiPath
👩🏫 Lenka Dulovicova, Product Program Manager, UiPath
The Art of the Pitch: WordPress Relationships and SalesLaura Byrne
Clients don’t know what they don’t know. What web solutions are right for them? How does WordPress come into the picture? How do you make sure you understand scope and timeline? What do you do if sometime changes?
All these questions and more will be explored as we talk about matching clients’ needs with what your agency offers without pulling teeth or pulling your hair out. Practical tips, and strategies for successful relationship building that leads to closing the deal.
Smart TV Buyer Insights Survey 2024 by 91mobiles.pdf91mobiles
91mobiles recently conducted a Smart TV Buyer Insights Survey in which we asked over 3,000 respondents about the TV they own, aspects they look at on a new TV, and their TV buying preferences.
UiPath Test Automation using UiPath Test Suite series, part 4DianaGray10
Welcome to UiPath Test Automation using UiPath Test Suite series part 4. In this session, we will cover Test Manager overview along with SAP heatmap.
The UiPath Test Manager overview with SAP heatmap webinar offers a concise yet comprehensive exploration of the role of a Test Manager within SAP environments, coupled with the utilization of heatmaps for effective testing strategies.
Participants will gain insights into the responsibilities, challenges, and best practices associated with test management in SAP projects. Additionally, the webinar delves into the significance of heatmaps as a visual aid for identifying testing priorities, areas of risk, and resource allocation within SAP landscapes. Through this session, attendees can expect to enhance their understanding of test management principles while learning practical approaches to optimize testing processes in SAP environments using heatmap visualization techniques
What will you get from this session?
1. Insights into SAP testing best practices
2. Heatmap utilization for testing
3. Optimization of testing processes
4. Demo
Topics covered:
Execution from the test manager
Orchestrator execution result
Defect reporting
SAP heatmap example with demo
Speaker:
Deepak Rai, Automation Practice Lead, Boundaryless Group and UiPath MVP
UiPath Test Automation using UiPath Test Suite series, part 3DianaGray10
Welcome to UiPath Test Automation using UiPath Test Suite series part 3. In this session, we will cover desktop automation along with UI automation.
Topics covered:
UI automation Introduction,
UI automation Sample
Desktop automation flow
Pradeep Chinnala, Senior Consultant Automation Developer @WonderBotz and UiPath MVP
Deepak Rai, Automation Practice Lead, Boundaryless Group and UiPath MVP
"Impact of front-end architecture on development cost", Viktor TurskyiFwdays
I have heard many times that architecture is not important for the front-end. Also, many times I have seen how developers implement features on the front-end just following the standard rules for a framework and think that this is enough to successfully launch the project, and then the project fails. How to prevent this and what approach to choose? I have launched dozens of complex projects and during the talk we will analyze which approaches have worked for me and which have not.
JMeter webinar - integration with InfluxDB and GrafanaRTTS
Watch this recorded webinar about real-time monitoring of application performance. See how to integrate Apache JMeter, the open-source leader in performance testing, with InfluxDB, the open-source time-series database, and Grafana, the open-source analytics and visualization application.
In this webinar, we will review the benefits of leveraging InfluxDB and Grafana when executing load tests and demonstrate how these tools are used to visualize performance metrics.
Length: 30 minutes
Session Overview
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During this webinar, we will cover the following topics while demonstrating the integrations of JMeter, InfluxDB and Grafana:
- What out-of-the-box solutions are available for real-time monitoring JMeter tests?
- What are the benefits of integrating InfluxDB and Grafana into the load testing stack?
- Which features are provided by Grafana?
- Demonstration of InfluxDB and Grafana using a practice web application
To view the webinar recording, go to:
https://www.rttsweb.com/jmeter-integration-webinar
GraphRAG is All You need? LLM & Knowledge GraphGuy Korland
Guy Korland, CEO and Co-founder of FalkorDB, will review two articles on the integration of language models with knowledge graphs.
1. Unifying Large Language Models and Knowledge Graphs: A Roadmap.
https://arxiv.org/abs/2306.08302
2. Microsoft Research's GraphRAG paper and a review paper on various uses of knowledge graphs:
https://www.microsoft.com/en-us/research/blog/graphrag-unlocking-llm-discovery-on-narrative-private-data/
3. 3
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Chapter #1
How To Get Your Ex To Do Anything.........................................7
Chapter #2
How To Make Your Partner Forgive
You For Almost Anything.........................................................12
Chapter #3
How To Get Your Partner To Give A Yes Response
For Almost Anything................................................................16
Chapter #4
The Little Known Dirty Tricks...................................................19
Chapter #5
The Power of Social Proof.......................................................22
Chapter #6
How To Get a Date With Your Ex Even
If They Are Reluctant...............................................................26
Chapter #7
How To Get Your Ex To Return Your Phone Calls...................33
Chapter #8
The Note of Last Hope............................................................37
4. 4
A Friendly Warning-
A very common question I received from most of my
friends and family regarding this book was...Why Am I
sharing this information?
What if it gets misused?
Moreover, I always answer it by saying- It is a part of
our life...We can try to deny it...But it's still a fact.
Human psychology is involved in our day-to-day
life...Consider a child who cries every time he/she is told
“NO” for something.
In most cases, crying often gets the child what he
desires...With time the child learns that the best way to
get his desire fulfilled is crying.
Now one can say that the child is trying to manipulate
his parents via crying. But do people say that? NO!
They all know that it's a part of the child's growing up
process.
5. 5
The fact of the matter is all the news media, Politicians,
Businesses and even everyday people use some form of
psychological trickery in day-to-day life.
There is nothing evil about it...As long as you use it for
fair means. I consider it a way of making life easier.
Still let me strongly warn you before we get started....
The words you are about to read might give you the
ultimate power to control people...Yes that's right! You
will be able to control anyone to your way of thinking.
Many people call it mind control and that can be a bit
frightening...But I call it effective persuasion.
I have always been curious to know why people do what
they do...What factors drive them towards doing certain
things and not do certain things. The fact is that all
humans take action based on the way they feel and not
based on what they think and decide.
They always think...Try to decide and get a feeling.
Moreover, the feeling is what either drives them towards
or away from a certain goal.
With effective persuasion skills you can easily get your
ex back, turn enemies into friends, easily land a dream
job, change opinions, make anyone like you, change
objections into acceptance...and even control
people...Yup! I said it again. You can control people with
this stuff.
Now, I am NOT suggesting you should use it to control
6. 6
people. I am simply pointing out the possibilities and
what it can really do for you.
But let me also point out that any wrong use of this can
actually backfire...This stuff is like fire...It can be used
to cook your food and can also be used to cook you.
Therefore, be very careful.
The only reason I am sharing this stuff with you is
because I know that rejection or breakup is a stressful,
frustrating process to go through, and can be very
disturbing.
I have been through what you are going through and I
understand that an extra effort is needed to save a
relationship in some cases...
Therefore I expect you to use this wisely and only when
needed.
Now I leave it on you...So let's get to it.
7. 7
"People don't care how much you know--until they know how
much you care."
-John C. Maxwell
Do you know that the majority of the decisions made by
people are based on emotions?
Why do you think people stick to their habits of drinking
and smoking when they already know it might kill them?
Why do you think an obese person keeps on overeating
when he already knows he is obese?
Why do you think some people always end up doing the
exact opposite of what's needed to be done when they
already know what the right thing to do is?
If one was to follow common logic doing any of the above
will only lead to massive pain. But people don't follow logic
at all times...They always get driven by the way they
feel...This is the reason why "I don't feel like it" Or "I feel
like doing it" are some of the most commonly used lines.
There are only two types of feelings humans tend to
experience regularly...The GOOD and the BAD.
Humans have a natural tendency to do more of anything
that makes them feel "GOOD" and less of anything that
makes them feel "BAD".
So simply put the reason why your ex left you was because
8. 8
most of your acts gave birth to those bad negative feelings
which they struggled to deal with.
And with time these feelings tend to get anchored....Here is
an exampleJohn goes to work everyday...Does his best at the job...But
his boss is still not happy.
John's boss pushes him to do better every single
day...Constantly warns him that he might be fired if his
performance doesn't improve. So what does this do to
John?
Let's get into John's head and see how he looks at this
whole scenario.
John- Oh Heck! It's Monday...I'll have to go to work again!
Oh Boy! My boss is just too hard to handle...I don't know
how I will manage today.
So you see the pattern here? Whenever john thinks about
his Boss, he experiences high levels of anxiety and fear,
which are negative feelings.
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Let's take another exampleCindy is frustrated at Jeff because he always comes back
late after work...She feels Jeff is not spending enough time
with her...So she decides to call Jeff at work.
Cindy- Hey! It's me...Are you going to be late again
today?
Jeff- I have a lot of work here...I am not sure.
Cindy- This is what you say everyday...I know you will
never change.
Jeff- Don't you understand I have work to do? I make
money so that we can have a comfortable life...You just
don't know how to appreciate my hard work do you?
Cindy- Oh Jeff! You are just too focused on yourself...It's
always about you isn't it?
Jeff- I don't have time for this...I have to go. Bye!
Every single time Cindy would call Jeff at work...Jeff would
know she is going to nag him and he would associate pain
to the event. Therefore, in other words...From Jeff’s point
of view...
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Do you understand where I am going with this? Jeff would
try to avoid Cindy’s calls as much as possible because he
has anchored negative feelings to the event.
Now let's take this same example and do it the right way...
Cindy- Hey! It's me...Sorry if I disturbed you...But I was
just missing you and wanted to talk.
Jeff- Oh Honey! I am so sorry...I know I have been
coming home late regularly...I know I haven't been
keeping my promises.
Cindy- No No! I know it's real hard for you with all the
increased work pressure...I know you are doing it so that
both of us can have a comfortable life.
Jeff- I am really lucky to have such an understanding
wife...I think I can leave early today...Let's go for a long
drive.
Cindy- No it is ok! I just called to see how you were doing.
I am really lucky to have such a hardworking husband who
cares so much about me.
Jeff- Don't worry! I can take an early leave today. I'll be
home by 6...Be ready...We are going out today!
Cindy- Ok! See you soon. Bye.
Do you see the difference? This is what I call giving them
the "Gift of Good Feelings".
Most individuals tend to give their partners the "Burden of
Bad feelings" instead of the "Gift of Good Feelings".
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✓ Emotions & Feelings are the foundations of action.
✓ Alter your actions to give your partner the gift of good feelings.
✓ Look at the situation from your partner's point of view.
✓ Show them that you understand what they are going through.
✓ Appreciate their efforts...Even if it's a small effort.
✓ Show them that you don't expect anything in return.
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One of the most common questions I get from my readers
is- "How can I get him/her back if I cheated?"
Well in order to get started you must again look at the
whole situation from your ex's point of view...Your ex must
be feeling(1) Hurt- Because you cheated.
(2) Used- Because they never knew you were doing it
behind their back with another partner.
(3) Rejected- By cheating you have indirectly rejected
them.
Once again, the feelings of being hurt, used and rejected
fall into the category of bad & negative feelings.
Therefore in order to make them forgive you...You must
turn this situation from Bad to Ok to better to good. So it
works in 4 stagesBAD> OK> BETTER >GOOD
Step 1- You must accept that you made a mistake- A
lot of people try to deny even when they have been caught
red-handed in the act of cheating. Therefore, the very first
step is to admit to your mistake.
Step 2- Show your ex that you understand how they
feel- A major reason why some people never get forgiven
is because they fail to acknowledge how their ex feels. You
must express that you understand you have hurt
them...This can be done by saying-
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“You must be feeling so bad because of me...”
At this, they would either say..."Yes I am very hurt" or "Yes
I am upset".
No matter what response you might get...You should still
move on to the next step.
Step 3- Take complete responsibility for your faultThis is the step where your ex would promote from stage 1
of feeling "BAD" to stage 2 feeling "OK".
Here is what you should say"It's all my fault...My stupidity has caused so much pain to
you..."
Step 4- Show them that you are suffering too- This is
the point where your ex would shift from the stage of
feeling "OK" to feeling "Better" because now you will show
them that you are hurt too.
If you were in a car accident and the driver who hit you
suffered injuries as well...Your anger would automatically
be diminished.
You would be angrier if the offender walked away without
any injuries...As long as you know the offender is
hurt...You will not react much because you know they
suffered for their mistake.
Similarly...You have to show your ex that you did not get
any pleasure out of this whole deal...You were hurt too.
Here is what you should say“I have been feeling so guilty after what I did...I am totally
disgusted with myself...How could I hurt someone I
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loved....”
Step 5- It wasn't all your fault- If you show up late for
work and tell your boss that you woke up late...Will he
believe you? Absolutely not!
However, if you were to tell him that you were right on
time but there was a big traffic jam? Your boss will have no
option but to forgive you...You see the chances of
forgiveness double when the mistake took place due to
reasons beyond your control.
Now let's apply that to this situation...You should say"My friends got me drunk that night" Or "I was so stupid
that night, I drank too much"
When you say this, it means you weren't really in your
senses when the whole act of cheating happened...And it
was all under the influence of alcohol.
Step 6- You don't expect them to forgive you- This is
the most vital step of the whole deal...You must show your
ex that you don't expect them to forgive you...Because you
know you have done something which can never be
forgiven.
Therefore, you should say something along the lines of"I know that I can't make up for all the pain I have caused
you...I have done something which is not even worthy of
forgiveness...But still! I really want you to know I am sorry
but I don't expect you to forgive me...I take this as
punishment for hurting you. You are the best thing that
ever happened to me and now I have ruined it all."
This is where reverse psychology gets into action and your
ex will find it extremely hard "Not to forgive you"...But in
certain cases it might not happen right away. You might
have to give it a few days. After following, the abovementioned steps make sure you leave your ex alone for the
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next few days.
It gives them the required space to re-think the whole
situation and increases your chances of being forgiven.
✓ Your focus should be to pull your ex out of the bad or negative state
of mind into a good or highly positive state of mind.
✓ Admitting to your mistakes is the best defence under this situation.
✓ Act as if you are ready to accept any consequences or punishments.
✓ Prove that you have not gained anything out of your actions.
✓ Assure your partner with solid evidence that such an act will never be
repeated in the future.
✓ Show them that you have suffered tremendously due to your actions.
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Do you know that people normally tend to do what you
expect them to do? They always try to live up to other
people's EXPECTATIONS.
So the method I am going to share with you is pretty
simple yet powerful...All you need is to form an expectation
and your partner will do everything in his/her power to live
up to it.
For exampleJen fears that Gary might cheat on her some day...So she
indirectly communicated to Gary that she expects him
"NOT TO CHEAT". This is how she sealed the deal...
Jen- You remember my old friend from college, Amy?
Gary- Yeh! What about her?
Jen- Her husband cheated on her.
Gary- Oh! But why?
Jen- Don't know...It didn't seem like her husband was that
kind...But who knows nowadays.
Gary- Hmmm.
Jen- You know what? I am really lucky to have you as my
husband...I know you have a very strong personality and
you will never do such a thing to me...Even if some girl
jumps on you.
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Gary- Honey! I can't even think about doing such a thing.
I very happy to have you as my wife as well.
So you see the pattern here? Jen dropped a seed of
expectation in Gary's mind and now even the thought of
cheating would make Gary think twice. Jen formed an
expectation and Gary will have to follow through.
Similarly, you can apply this same technique to your
relationship in other ways...Let's take another example.
Beena wants Ben to buy her a nice expensive gift for her
birthday...
Ben- So your birthday is just around the corner…Are you
excited?
Beena- Yeh! Very excited...Actually I am looking forward
to it...Because each year you have a very big surprise lined
up for me. But you always end up spending too much...I
don't want you to spend so much.
Ben- Oh Baby! I can do that much for the love of my
life...Can't I?
Beena- Well...I know you...No matter what I say you will
still have a big surprise lined up for me.
So Beena formed up this expectation that it is going to be
something big this year as well...Which would
subconsciously force Ben to arrange something big. This is
where he would make sure he over delivers because Beena
has an expectation.
This technique works equally well in other areas of life as
well.
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✓ People always do what they are expected to do.
✓ People will always follow through on an expectation as long as you
clearly specify in advance what you expect from them.
✓ Always give examples of how other people screwed up in the same
situation. Giving such examples will increase your partner's level of
commitment to your expectation. Due to which they are more likely to
follow through with it.
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Ok Now! This is the chapter where I am going to reveal all
the dirty little tricks you can use right away to get your ex
back or stop a breakup. But before we move on to it let me
warn you once again...I do not take any responsibility for
these. You will be using these at your own risk.
However, one thing is for certain...These tricks are damn
effective & they work surprisingly well. Ready? Let's get to
it.
Dirty Little Trick 1This is what I discovered by accident...I was sending an
SMS to one of my friends but I ended up sending it to
another number right below my friends number on my
phone book.
That was a big "AHA" moment and I realized that this can
be successfully used to get one's ex back or stop a
breakup.
So this is what you should do...Send the following SMS to
your ex"Yeh! It was so much fun...So you are picking me up
tonight right?"
After reading this, your ex will probably send you a text
back asking what are you talking about?
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This is where you should text them back saying"Oh! Sorry...That was meant for someone else, but your
name is right below that person's name in the phone book.
I sent it to you by mistake."
Your ex will instantly get jealous and would start fearing
that you are dating someone else...and would freak out
thinking maybe you have moved on. Their insecurities
would be triggered. They would want to know more and
they would start desiring you again.
Here is how you can use this trick-
✓You can use this if your ex is completely trying to
avoid you and is not answering your calls.
✓Can be used as a conversation opener if you
haven't talked to your ex in a while.
✓Can be used to make your ex instantly desire you
even if they are trying to avoid you.
✓It can be used as a jealousy tactic to make your
ex want you again.
Dirty Little Trick 2If you have Myspace, Facebook or any other social
profile online make sure you add as many people as
possible. The trick here, is to increase the amount of
people on your friend's list who are of the opposite gender.
Take things even further, by getting pictures with new
people in highly social environments & upload it to your
profile. The more you appear to be around new people of
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the opposite gender, especially in photos, the more proof
you give your ex that you already have a lot of people
around you.
This will trigger your ex's insecurity and he/she will start
thinking that maybe you have already moved on and your
life is now better than what it used to be...So in a way they
would feel you are happier without them.
Also by getting pictures in social environments they would
start thinking that you are dating again and would fear that
they are about to lose you.
Dirty Little Trick 3You should use this trick when your ex is not completely
avoiding you but at the same time isn't showing much
interest. This would work very well on the phone, email,
messenger or even SMS.
While in conversation with your ex...You should ask them
the following question"Where should one go on a first date?"
Just ask them the question...And let them answer. Your ex
will definitely ask you why you are asking or the reason
why you want to know?
At this just tell them that you just want to know and act
real excited...But don't tell them anything.
This is another rare jealousy tactic where your ex might
fear that maybe you are dating again.
I am sure you are all excited right now but be very careful
with these tricks...Only use them when you absolutely need
them & see no other option.
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So what exactly is social proof? In the most simplest
terms, humans naturally tend to do what other people are
doing.
Here is an example- A set of 20 students were made to sit
in a classroom and all of them were given a general survey
with 2 choices namely A & B. 17 of those students were
asked to choose A on purpose.
Each person was asked the question one by one and 17
people chose option A as they were told…Guess what the
rest of the three people did? They chose A as well. But
why?
Simply because humans tend to think in groups. They
always tend to trust social sources more than they trust
their own logical and rational thinking.
Now consider this…You are sitting in a movie theatre and
all of a sudden, you see a group of people rushing out…
Someone thinks that the building is on fire. What would
you do? You would rush out too.
Why? Because you think, the building must be on fire when
all these people are running out. Then you get outside just
to realize that it was a prank played by someone.
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You can see similar examples in the marketing world…
When apple came out with the mp3 player named I-pod it
quickly took the world by storm. What was so special about
it? It was just a simple mp3 player. Something that most
people had in their cell phones anyway.
Apple was smart enough to integrate social proof in their
marketing campaigns, due to which it created mass
influence, and as a result everyone was buying it.
Moreover, why were they buying it? Because their friends
were buying it...And you had to have it since your friends
had it too.
Now you might be thinking ok I understand all this but how
exactly would this help me get my ex back?
Put it this way…Your ex will never be convinced as long as
you keep on telling them that you have changed. They just
wouldn’t believe you because they have subconsciously
accepted the fact that you might be saying it just to get
them back.
But what if one of your friends says it? Do you know that
your ex will believe it instantly because the information is
coming from a third source?
Do you see how social proof is involved here? Your ex
would think- Hey! If he(Your Friend) saw it then it must be
true.
You can easily get a friend, family member or any other
person to plant a seed of curiosity in your ex’s mind.
Here is how to do this…Get one of your friend’s to say any
of the following statements in the presence of your ex…
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“I spoke to (Your Name) yesterday…He looks so much better
now. I don’t know what he has done but he seems to be
getting younger by the day.”
“I saw (Your Name) the other day…He had this super hot girl
next to him…Seems like he is dating again.”
Oh my god! Did you see (Your Name) lately? She has lost so
much weight. She looks so pretty now.
What’s going on with (Your Name)…She seems so happy now.
She never used to be this way before…I think she is having a lot
more fun lately.
Do you get what I am trying to convey here…Statements
like these said by one of your mutual friends would plant a
strong seed of curiosity and your ex will get extra eager to
know more about your life.
And this goes beyond just social proof…There are more
reasons why this would have an extra impact…
✓ It’s coming from a third source (Your friend) which would
be more trustworthy.
✓ Now they know you have changed but they can’t be a
part of your new good life which would only raise their level
of desperation.
✓ They would fear that they might not be good enough for
you anymore because you have this new personality and
they don’t know if they would measure up to your new
standards.
✓ They would fear that maybe someone new came into
your life which led to this change…This would further
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increase their worries that you might move on.
✓ Your ex will constantly bother your friend for crumbs of
news from your new life.
✓ They will want to know if you are still interested in them
or if you have really moved on.
✓ Eventually they would end up contacting you just to
settle their curiosity.
✓ Only do this with the friends that are trustworthy. There is a
possibility that your friend might give away your secret therefore choose
the right person for this.
✓ Keep the compliments believable. Ask your friend not to say anything
that might come across as fishy.
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There might be times when your ex might not show the
kind of interest you were expecting them to show. In such
cases…Most people lose hope and quit. This is where some
situational understanding is required.
I get many mails from my readers telling me that their ex
refused to go out and I always respond by saying- Your ex
wasn’t emotionally motivated to take action. Moreover, that
is directly related to what you said and how you said it.
You see what you said or the way you said it just wasn’t
powerful enough to get your ex to take action…Due to
which your proposal was turned down. In order to get your
ex to take action you must first understand how this whole
process works.
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So your words will plant a thought in your ex's mind…
Which would eventually give your ex a feelings which would
be positive or negative and based on that your ex would
take action.
Imagine you get the news that you won a million dollar
lottery? What would be your immediate reaction? You will
be blasting with joy and would race over to the lottery
office to collect your money.
On the other hand imagine being called by one of your
friends who always wants money from you…Would you
avoid his/her call? If yes why?
You see the difference between the above two cases is
quite simple…The events that took place led to a thought in
your mind that got transformed into negative or positive
feelings based on which you took the appropriate action.
Positive feelings always drive the person towards taking
action and negative feelings always drive the person
towards inaction.
In order to get your ex to take action all you need to do is
make sure that at the end of your interaction your ex is full
of positive feelings which would drive him/her to give a yes
response to your request.
The best way to do this is to use everything which would
evoke positive feelings in your ex’s mind.
The Deadline TrickGiving deadlines is known to be one of the strongest
psychological tricks ever…In fact this trick works so well
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that your ex would find no excuses or reasons to refuse.
Several studies show that human beings don’t like to be
restricted…They do not like it if they are told they can not
have something.
All you need to do here is just tell your ex that you are
leaving the city and you want to meet them before you go.
By letting them know you are about to leave, You are
already shutting a big door on them…Due to which they will
fear that they may not see you again or this might be the
last time.
This would be a great incentive for them to take action
now…Because they know they won't get another chance to
act in the future.
The Curiosity Builder TrickHumans want instant gratification…They don’t like to wait.
Take for instance, how people get into debt. People end up
with debt, simply because they spend the money they don't
have to buy the things they think they need. So what does
this all boil down to? People aren't patient enough to wait
till tomorrow.
That's why they pay 30-40% extra as interest on the loan
they took to buy a new car right away instead of waiting till
the time they have saved enough money to buy it. They
might get into huge debts due to this but they still do it
because they want instant gratification.
When people are told that they can’t have it now…It
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invokes a very strong psychological motivation to get it. We
see an example of this in many TV dramas where a secret
is just about to be revealed…Where all of a sudden…A
message pops upTo be continued…
Now you might hate the fact that you have to wait till
tomorrow to discover the rest of the story but it will give
you enough emotional charge and curiosity that you will
definitely tune in the very next day too.
Similarly you can use this same technique on your ex…
Make up an interesting story and get your ex curious. Once
you see your ex is building interest…Pause and say…
“Oh! I totally forgot…I need to rush. It’s a long story! We
can’t do this on the phone…How about coffee this Friday?”
Or another way of doing this would be to tell your ex that
something amazing has happened in your life and you are
having an absolute blast…Say something along the lines of“So many amazing things have been going on in my life…I
would love to share it with you…It’s a long story so we
can’t do it on the phone. How about we meet at xyz
place?”
All the above statements would evoke strong positive
curiosity and intent due to which your ex will be forced to
take affirmative action.
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The 3rd person trickThere might be times when your ex would be reluctant to
meet you one-on-one. Under these cases it’s always best to
ask one of your mutual friends to join the meeting. While in
conversation with your ex drop in this lineOh…Sandy wants you to come to this new place this
weekend. She specially asked me to call you…Do you want
to come?
Having a 3rd person in the meeting would be a lot less
threatening to your ex and the chances of getting a yes
increase.
You can either plan this with your mutual friend and tell
him/her to leave early where you and your ex can get
some privacy or you can isolate your ex during the meeting
where you would get a shot to discuss further things.
The Expectations trick-
This trick works extremely well if your ex has good
relations with your family. Your ex can easily refuse you but
would find it very hard to turn down a request made by
your family.
A good way to use this trick is to let your ex know that
your mother or dad wants to meet him or you can use a
family function excuse. You can say that it’s a family
members birthday and your mother expects your ex to
come to the event.
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The reason why this trick is effective is because most
people have this positive impression on their partners
parents…And to save this positive impression they would
follow through with the request.
Make it extra easyHumans are lazy by nature…We believe in taking shortcuts.
People don’t want to do things themselves…They would
rather have everything ready made.
Your ex will never take positive action unless you make it
extremely easy for them. Do it in a way that your ex will
have to make minimal or no effort at all.
For exampleDo not choose a meeting point which is too far from where
your ex lives instead choose a meeting point your ex likes
and also Choose a day which fits into your ex’s schedule.
The easier it is the lesser objections your ex would have in
meeting you.
Seal the deal tacticIf your ex made a commitment towards meeting you it
does not mean that they will actually meet you. They might
come up with last minute objections and decide to cancel
on the day of meeting.
A great way to ensure this does not happen is to let them
know that you have put off other important tasks just to
meet them. For example- Tell them that you will take some
time off work…Delay an important task or cancel a crucial
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meeting just to see them.
This way everytime your ex will think about coming up with
an objection he/she would get this emotional block of
disturbance…Due to which they would feel guilty and will
smoothly follow through with their commitment.
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One of the major reasons why your ex might not be
returning your phone calls may be due to the fact that you
are doing everything which is triggering negative thoughts
in their mind.
We have already discussed in the first chapter how humans
react positively to the gift of good feelings and negatively
to the burden of bad feelings. Therefore if you have not
succeeded in getting your ex to return your phone calls so
far then you have definitely been burdening them with bad
feelings.
The most common mistake people make is trying to force
their ex in some way or the other to return their calls. For
exampleJohn…Please call me…It’s an emergency.
Jen…I am missing you so much. Please call me back.
You see such approaches do not work as your ex feels the
extra burden and will only end up getting annoyed if you
keep on leaving them message after message which people
normally do.
You see the key to getting your calls returned is to appeal
to two elements namely- Curiosity and positivity.
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You will have to make your ex curious in a positive manner
if you want your phone calls returned and the best way to
do this is to leave a highly positive message which involves
an incentive for your ex.
Here is a sample message---------------------------------------------
Hi kate…It’s me John. Just wanted to let you know that you have helped me
transform into a totally new person. You might not know this but indirectly you
have helped me in more ways than you can realize. I truly appreciate what you did
for me. Please give me a call when you get back I would like to personally thank
you.
--------------------------------------------With this message you are not only building curiosity but
also giving your ex the gift of good feelings by appreciating
them for what they did. You see this message is clearly
stating it’s core purpose and its not one of those needy or
desperate messages which would only annoy or make your
ex worry. But there are some things you still need to take
into account….
Make sure your message is not confusing...
Generating curiosity has nothing to do with confusing the
person in this case…Always send messages which clearly
define their purpose.
The last thing you want in this situation is for your ex to be
confused as once they realize you are trying gimmicks on
them they would instantly go back to the defensive mode
and you will be avoided more than ever before.
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Make sure you do not leave any confusing messages such
as…
Oh My God…It’s an emergency call me etc. First you are
not stating what the emergency is and at the same time it
sounds pretty fishy.
But when you use the other message by telling them how
thankful you are…They are more likely to return your
phone call.
This is because they aren’t exactly sure what they did for
you due to which which you want to thank them. This is
triggering their curiosity positively which would motivate
them to call you back.
Make it clear that you have something good in store
for them...
This goes back to the same concept of giving them the gift
of good feelings…As a kid my father called me from work
one day…Telling me he has a big surprise in store for me
that evening.
Since I heard there was something exciting on the way…I
was positively curious all day to know what it was. I just
couldn’t wait for my dad to get back home and tell me
what it was.
You see it was clearly stated in his message that he has
something good for me…Therefore you need to do the
same. You will have to let your ex know that you want to
thank them for something they did as it will positively
charge them to return your call.
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✓ Your message should communicate that you don't need anything from
your ex...Rather you just want to thank them. This will instantly force
your ex to put their defences down.
✓ No matter how interesting the message is unless you make it clear it
won't get you the desired result.
✓ Make sure you do not sound desperate while recording the
message...The way you say it also counts.
✓ Do not leave more than one message...Sending several messages will
only work against you.
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There are times in life when no matter what you do
things just don’t go your way…The same might be true
when it comes to getting your ex back. It might seem
that there is no chance and things might not be in your
favor.
But there is a stunning technique which will turn the
tables within seconds. A sufi poet once said- If all
doors close before you…A secret one will open which
will show you a secret way no other eyes have ever
seen.
This is where my note of last hope comes in…No
matter how awful your situation might be…No matter
how bad you screwed up…No matter how hopeless it
seems. This trick will do the patch work.
When you have tried everything else and nothing has
worked…Write a handwritten card or a letter to your
ex.
What you write in the letter will determine your
chances with your ex therefore it is absolutely crucial
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that you write the right thing. But what is the right
thing here?
Let me break it down so that you understand it better…
Your letter should follow this pattern1- Lighten their load by accepting the breakup.
2- An apology in case you did something wrong.
3- Tell them that you realized your mistakes.
4- Trigger their curiosity by telling them something
exciting happened in your life.
5- Close on a highly positive note.
Here is a sample letter for you______________________________________
Kate,
Just wanted to let you know that you were absolutely right about the breakup…
Now I know that it was the right thing to do. You are a wonderful person and you
deserve the best. I am sorry for having messed it all up.
I went through a pretty exciting transformation...A lot of amazing things have
been happening lately. I would love to tell you about it some time.
Anyway I just wanted to thank you for everything and hope we can be friends in
the future.
Bob
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This letter contains all the most essential ingredients
needed to be emotionally appealing to your ex.
This will instantly trigger your ex’s mind and would
create a situation of emotional confusion which would
drive them towards you in order to know more about
your life.
The best thing about writing a letter is that it always
gets read no matter what...Getting in touch via phone,
email or Sms might not get your message read but
writing a personalized letter always works.
Another reason why this is very effective is because it
acts as a constant reminder and every time your ex
will see it laying on the table some place it will really
trigger their curiosity and they would think about you.
The more they think about you the more they would
desire to get back with you.
✓ Only use this trick when nothing else has worked.
✓ Do not apologize unless you made a mistake which deserved an
apology. Or else it might make you come across as desperate.
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✓ Keep your letter short and up to the point.. A long detailed letter
would only make you sound desperate and this might work against you.
✓ Do not send more than one letter. Some people keep on sending letters
after letters thinking it would work in their favor but this only further
annoys your ex.