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From “I can’t”
to “I will”
www.susangrandfield.com
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Stories we hold as true…..until we don’t
What stories are you telling yourself?
The purpose of our stories
o Safety
o Sense of identity
o A way to navigate the world
Re-writing your story
1. Awareness
2. Acceptance
3. Willingness to let go
4. Shift perspective
5. Reinforcement
Shifting perspective
At my best
Solutions focused
Creator
Free from stories / labels
Not at my best
Problem focused
Victim
Defined by stories / labels
Re-writing your story
1. Awareness
What are your “stories” / limiting beliefs? Write them down
2. Acceptance
Can I accept them as simply stories I have told myself / been told by others?
3. Willingness to let go
What is possible if I let these go? What is likely to happen if I hold on to them?
4. Shift perspective
Who am I at the top of the ladder?
5. Reinforcement
Spend time “at the top of the ladder” every day (morning meditation, post-it
note reminders, visualisation, alerts throughout the day)
Connect with me:
www.susangrandfield.com
susan@susangrandfield.com
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"From 'I can't' to 'I will'"

  • 1.
  • 2.
  • 3.
  • 4. From “I can’t” to “I will” www.susangrandfield.com susan@susangrandfield.com
  • 5. Stories we hold as true…..until we don’t
  • 6.
  • 7. What stories are you telling yourself?
  • 8. The purpose of our stories o Safety o Sense of identity o A way to navigate the world
  • 9. Re-writing your story 1. Awareness 2. Acceptance 3. Willingness to let go 4. Shift perspective 5. Reinforcement
  • 10. Shifting perspective At my best Solutions focused Creator Free from stories / labels Not at my best Problem focused Victim Defined by stories / labels
  • 11. Re-writing your story 1. Awareness What are your “stories” / limiting beliefs? Write them down 2. Acceptance Can I accept them as simply stories I have told myself / been told by others? 3. Willingness to let go What is possible if I let these go? What is likely to happen if I hold on to them? 4. Shift perspective Who am I at the top of the ladder? 5. Reinforcement Spend time “at the top of the ladder” every day (morning meditation, post-it note reminders, visualisation, alerts throughout the day)