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Find a mentor, 
Be a mentor 
David Bolton 
@lightningdb
What is a mentor?
A person who willingly invests their time listening and 
dispensing advice and ideas for the purpose of helping 
someone improve themselves and their performance.
What is an apprentice?
A person who willingly asks for, receives, and acts on 
advice and ideas for the purpose of improving 
themselves and their performance.
Competitive Advantage 
* Your job is to mentor for the mentored’s 
competitive advantage 
* Your desire as someone being mentored is 
to increase your own competitive advantage 
* Reference: Andy Grove’s High Output Management
Everyone needs 
perspective 
Especially when doing new things!
Times are a changin’ 
The mentor you need has changed. 
(The mentor you need to be has not.)
It doesn’t matter if you’ve gone from 
senior developer to team lead, or team 
lead to development manager or 
development manager to functional 
manager or department manager, 
you’re now rarer than you were before.
Finding a mentor 
Previous mentors? 
Background? 
Number? 
Where? 
Are they any good? 
A boss?
Evaluate a mentor 
Evaluate mentors based on 
the advice they have for a 
person that is not you.
Now, the people you are 
mentoring are usually in a 
completely different situation
Be a mentor 
Your limitations 
Your values 
Adding value 
Discover their path 
Outgrowing
Biases 
* Watch out! 
* Search Google for “Cognitive Bias”
Coaching?
David Bolton 
@lightningdb 
http://davidbolton.net

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Find a mentor, Be a mentor

  • 1. Find a mentor, Be a mentor David Bolton @lightningdb
  • 2.
  • 3.
  • 4. What is a mentor?
  • 5. A person who willingly invests their time listening and dispensing advice and ideas for the purpose of helping someone improve themselves and their performance.
  • 6. What is an apprentice?
  • 7. A person who willingly asks for, receives, and acts on advice and ideas for the purpose of improving themselves and their performance.
  • 8. Competitive Advantage * Your job is to mentor for the mentored’s competitive advantage * Your desire as someone being mentored is to increase your own competitive advantage * Reference: Andy Grove’s High Output Management
  • 9. Everyone needs perspective Especially when doing new things!
  • 10. Times are a changin’ The mentor you need has changed. (The mentor you need to be has not.)
  • 11. It doesn’t matter if you’ve gone from senior developer to team lead, or team lead to development manager or development manager to functional manager or department manager, you’re now rarer than you were before.
  • 12. Finding a mentor Previous mentors? Background? Number? Where? Are they any good? A boss?
  • 13. Evaluate a mentor Evaluate mentors based on the advice they have for a person that is not you.
  • 14. Now, the people you are mentoring are usually in a completely different situation
  • 15. Be a mentor Your limitations Your values Adding value Discover their path Outgrowing
  • 16. Biases * Watch out! * Search Google for “Cognitive Bias”
  • 18. David Bolton @lightningdb http://davidbolton.net