Enlightened
    Parenthood
    Why putting your kids in a
  good school is not good enough


A 21st Century Learning Readiness Check


                                          1
In the age of the industrial revolution people
  needed to learn the 3Rs and acquire some
     basic cognitive skills and they were
                 set for life...


                                                 2
Education was mostly based on
Behaviourist Learning Theory




                                3
In the 20th century people needed a stockpile
of knowledge and basic cognitive skills and that
        ensured lifelong employment...
  Education in the 20th century emphasized
                ’Learn to Earn’

                                                   4
Education was influenced by
Cognitivist Learning Theory




                              5
21st century offers the opportunity to
 discover your interests, learn more
     about them and pursue your
            calling in life...
 One can ’yearn to learn... and earn’

                                         6
Current Influences
- Constructivist Learning Theory




                                   7
Current Influences
- Humanist Learning Theory




                             8
Current Influences
- Social Learning Theory




                           9
The challenge is to keep pace with change,
   exploding knowledge and complexity




                                             10
Interdependence with fellow humans, other
species and environment adds to the complexity




                                             11
Most important, for true happiness, one needs
 to have a life pursuit that goes beyond own
    self-interest and adds meaning to life



                                                12
In the 21st century you can...




                                 13
“Empower and enable your children to formulate
       their own meaningful life philosophy
                      and
        learn the abilities to pursue it with
            conviction and compassion “
For this, as a parent, you need
   to make the most of the
 Second Strand of Education
What is the
Second Strand of Education?
The first strand is formal education which usually
  focuses on imparting a stockpile of knowledge
             and basic cognitive skills

                                 Formal
                                 Education
                                 (Stockpile of
                                 Knowledge and
                                 basic Cognitive
                                 skills)
Second Strand of Education constitutes
    Higher Cognitive skills, Self-Learning skills and
Pursuit of Passion with Compassion... supplemented online

   Higher Cognitive
   skills, Self-Learning,
   Pursuit of Passion
     Connection-centric
      Online Learning
      -   Learners
      -   Mentors
                                            Formal
      -   Content                           Education
      -   Conversation
What is the importance of
Second Strand of Education?
The 21st Century Context…
To survive and thrive in the 21st century…

    Knowledge                                      Learn to
    explosion                                     Self-Learn




       …learn to self-learn and keep reinventing yourself
21st Century




What you know
21st Century


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     network /connections

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Traits that become critical in
  today’s context include...




                                 28
-   Character
-   Pursuit of passion, with compassion
-   Pursuit of wisdom and tranquility of spirit
-   Fostering lifelong yearning for learning
-   Epistemological Modesty (awareness of own ignorance)
-   Dialectical Bootstrapping
    (internal conversation between reason and emotion)


                                                           29
As a parent, the Learner Dispositions you
need to foster in your children include...




                                             30
- Curiosity, inquisitiveness, a yearning to learn
- Imagination, creativity, deep & independent
  thinking
- Self-aware, self-disciplined, determined,
  persevering
- Loves to play and tinker, with ideas and things

                                                    31
- Emotionally mature (understands emotions) - can
  dialogue between reason and emotion
- Risk taker, Problem Solver, Decision Maker
- Empathetic collaborator, multi-sensory
  communicator
- Meta-cognition (thinks about own thinking, biases)

                                                       32
Dispositions you need to have as a parent...




                                               33
- Facilitate your children construct meaning,
  through hypothesis, discovery, experimentation
  and conversation
- Encourage discovery of passion and purpose
- Curator and filter good learning material
- Co-creators and collaborators


                                                   34
- Coach, guide, mentor (a friend, philosopher and guide)
- Deeply caring
- Infectiously enthusiastic
- Good role-model (vis-a-vis desired student
  dispositions)
   o able to demonstrate that there is fun in deep learning
     and hard work

                                                              35
One Caution!




               36
While in the midst of a Phase Change it is very
         difficult to predict what the future will hold...




From 99ºc to 1ºc we cannot                From 1ºc to 99ºc we cannot
anticipate what will happen at 0ºc        anticipate what will happen at 100ºc




                                                                        37
We are NOW in the midst of a Phase Change...
         we do not know what the future will hold...

                                    Current
                                Phase Change



                                                      Internet
Language
                                               The amount of knowledge
                                                in the world has doubled
                                               in the past 10 years and is
                                               doubling every 18 months
               Writing                                            - ASTD


                             Printing Press
                                                                    38
We
are
currently
preparing
students
for

jobs
that
don’t
yet
exist...
using

technologies
that
haven’t
yet
been

invented...
in
order
to
solve
problems
we

don’t
even
know
are
problems
yet.

                  Richard
Riley,
Secretary
of
EducaKon

                  under
President
Clinton



                                                          39
Thus, these ideas about enlightened
  parenting will need to evolve
      as the context changes




                                      40
Also, bigger issues are afoot...




                                   41
We have the ability to
Create a Better World or breed...
We can bridge or further widen the
     divides and inequalities...




                  Have Not
We can make life simple or add to complexity...




                                                  44
We are ’Homo Sapiens Sapiens’...
the species that knows, they know


       Utopia                  A
Divided
                                 World


              The choice will be ours!
                                           45
Good Reads
 - “The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources of Love,
   Character and Achievement“ - David Brooks
 - “A Whole New Mind: Why Right Brainers will Rule the
   Future“ - Daniel H. Pink
 - “The Life-Smart Kid“ - Lawerence J Greene



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Atul Pant
More on Timeless Lifeskills:
www.facebook.com/lifeskills

Enlightened Parenting

  • 1.
    Enlightened Parenthood Why putting your kids in a good school is not good enough A 21st Century Learning Readiness Check 1
  • 2.
    In the ageof the industrial revolution people needed to learn the 3Rs and acquire some basic cognitive skills and they were set for life... 2
  • 3.
    Education was mostlybased on Behaviourist Learning Theory 3
  • 4.
    In the 20thcentury people needed a stockpile of knowledge and basic cognitive skills and that ensured lifelong employment... Education in the 20th century emphasized ’Learn to Earn’ 4
  • 5.
    Education was influencedby Cognitivist Learning Theory 5
  • 6.
    21st century offersthe opportunity to discover your interests, learn more about them and pursue your calling in life... One can ’yearn to learn... and earn’ 6
  • 7.
  • 8.
  • 9.
    Current Influences - SocialLearning Theory 9
  • 10.
    The challenge isto keep pace with change, exploding knowledge and complexity 10
  • 11.
    Interdependence with fellowhumans, other species and environment adds to the complexity 11
  • 12.
    Most important, fortrue happiness, one needs to have a life pursuit that goes beyond own self-interest and adds meaning to life 12
  • 13.
    In the 21stcentury you can... 13
  • 14.
    “Empower and enableyour children to formulate their own meaningful life philosophy and learn the abilities to pursue it with conviction and compassion “
  • 15.
    For this, asa parent, you need to make the most of the Second Strand of Education
  • 16.
    What is the SecondStrand of Education?
  • 17.
    The first strandis formal education which usually focuses on imparting a stockpile of knowledge and basic cognitive skills Formal Education (Stockpile of Knowledge and basic Cognitive skills)
  • 18.
    Second Strand ofEducation constitutes Higher Cognitive skills, Self-Learning skills and Pursuit of Passion with Compassion... supplemented online Higher Cognitive skills, Self-Learning, Pursuit of Passion Connection-centric Online Learning - Learners - Mentors Formal - Content Education - Conversation
  • 19.
    What is theimportance of Second Strand of Education?
  • 20.
    The 21st CenturyContext…
  • 21.
    To survive andthrive in the 21st century… Knowledge Learn to explosion Self-Learn …learn to self-learn and keep reinventing yourself
  • 23.
  • 24.
    21st Century n ow t ok d n ee y ou at Wh What you know
  • 25.
    21st Century n ow t ok d n ee y ou at Wh GAP! What you know
  • 26.
    21st Century Fill the ‘gap’ by using kn ow cknowledge of to d nee your you h at network / W connections What you know
  • 27.
    Second Strand ofEducation c c Learning facilitated by Need for different Cognitive skills, Self-Learning, Online Networks Pursuit of Passion with Compassion c c Fill the ‘gap’ by using knowledge of your network /connections now d to k nee ou Wh at y What you know 27
  • 28.
    Traits that becomecritical in today’s context include... 28
  • 29.
    - Character - Pursuit of passion, with compassion - Pursuit of wisdom and tranquility of spirit - Fostering lifelong yearning for learning - Epistemological Modesty (awareness of own ignorance) - Dialectical Bootstrapping (internal conversation between reason and emotion) 29
  • 30.
    As a parent,the Learner Dispositions you need to foster in your children include... 30
  • 31.
    - Curiosity, inquisitiveness,a yearning to learn - Imagination, creativity, deep & independent thinking - Self-aware, self-disciplined, determined, persevering - Loves to play and tinker, with ideas and things 31
  • 32.
    - Emotionally mature(understands emotions) - can dialogue between reason and emotion - Risk taker, Problem Solver, Decision Maker - Empathetic collaborator, multi-sensory communicator - Meta-cognition (thinks about own thinking, biases) 32
  • 33.
    Dispositions you needto have as a parent... 33
  • 34.
    - Facilitate yourchildren construct meaning, through hypothesis, discovery, experimentation and conversation - Encourage discovery of passion and purpose - Curator and filter good learning material - Co-creators and collaborators 34
  • 35.
    - Coach, guide,mentor (a friend, philosopher and guide) - Deeply caring - Infectiously enthusiastic - Good role-model (vis-a-vis desired student dispositions) o able to demonstrate that there is fun in deep learning and hard work 35
  • 36.
  • 37.
    While in themidst of a Phase Change it is very difficult to predict what the future will hold... From 99ºc to 1ºc we cannot From 1ºc to 99ºc we cannot anticipate what will happen at 0ºc anticipate what will happen at 100ºc 37
  • 38.
    We are NOWin the midst of a Phase Change... we do not know what the future will hold... Current Phase Change Internet Language The amount of knowledge in the world has doubled in the past 10 years and is doubling every 18 months Writing - ASTD Printing Press 38
  • 39.
  • 40.
    Thus, these ideasabout enlightened parenting will need to evolve as the context changes 40
  • 41.
    Also, bigger issuesare afoot... 41
  • 42.
    We have theability to Create a Better World or breed...
  • 43.
    We can bridgeor further widen the divides and inequalities... Have Not
  • 44.
    We can makelife simple or add to complexity... 44
  • 45.
    We are ’HomoSapiens Sapiens’... the species that knows, they know Utopia A
Divided World The choice will be ours! 45
  • 46.
    Good Reads -“The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources of Love, Character and Achievement“ - David Brooks - “A Whole New Mind: Why Right Brainers will Rule the Future“ - Daniel H. Pink - “The Life-Smart Kid“ - Lawerence J Greene 46
  • 47.
    Atul Pant More onTimeless Lifeskills: www.facebook.com/lifeskills