This document summarizes key aspects of child development between the ages of 2-5 years. It discusses the neurophysiological development occurring in children's brains during this time. It also outlines the growth of children's cognitive skills, motivation, self-awareness and emotional regulation. Parenting styles that best support children's development are described, including authoritative parenting and scaffolding techniques. Strategies for addressing common behavioral issues in preschoolers like aggression, impulsivity and lying are provided.
This document discusses various factors that influence children's experiences and development during the elementary school years. It covers the importance of school, the roles of parents, neighborhoods, school administrators, teachers, children themselves, and peers. Specific topics covered include parenting styles that promote success, dealing with challenging behaviors, shyness, bullying, and learning disabilities. The overall message is that children's experiences are shaped by multiple influences, and parents, schools, and communities must work together to support healthy development during this important stage.
Your Life Satisfaction Score (beta) is an indicator of how you thrive in your life: it reflects how well you shape your lifestyle, habits and behaviors to maximize your overall life satisfaction along the five following dimensions:
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►2. Positive emotions & gratitude, indicating how well you embrace positive emotions;
►3. Skills & expertise, measuring the ability to grow your expertise and achieve something unique;
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Social development from birth to 8 years occurs in stages as children learn to interact with others and develop relationships. In the first month, social development focuses on attachment to caregivers. Between 3-6 months, babies begin to understand their bodies and respond to familiar faces. By 9-12 months, children recognize themselves and others and start to communicate intentionally. Toddlers explore independence between 1-2 years while beginning to adjust to other people. Preschoolers work on skills like sharing, taking turns, and understanding rules between 3-5 years. School-aged children form friendships, develop empathy, and distinguish gender roles from 5-8 years.
This document provides guidance on effective parenting in several sections. It discusses that parenting is a gift, labor of love, and about enjoying time with children. It also explores parenting myths and the different parenting styles of authoritarian, permissive, and democratic and their outcomes. The A-Z section lists effective parenting skills from accepting children to valuing their opinions. It discusses addressing situations like children misbehaving and offers a parent's pledge to love, listen, praise, and respect children while enjoying time together.
This document provides guidance for parents on nurturing children in a positive way. It advises that children are malleable when young and can be shaped with good values. However, parents should not pamper children excessively or grant all their demands. Being firm on unnecessary wants while still providing necessary items is important. Parents should also encourage healthy habits like avoiding junk food, managing screen time, and developing interests in other activities. Effective communication through patience, understanding, and leading by positive example can help children learn discipline and responsibility.
1) The document discusses parenting education and styles, as well as early childhood development. It provides information on parenting processes, education methods, and programs.
2) The summary observes parenting education activities at the Seto Gurans Early Childhood Development center in Bandipur, Nepal. Children are separated by age group and engage in age-appropriate activities to support holistic development.
3) A conclusion is that while the ECD center effectively supports child development through play and learning, parents could benefit from further education on nutrition and home management to fully support their children's growth.
'Parenting and family ties christian parenting and counselling in the home'Dr Wango Geoffrey
Many Christian parents want to bring up their child based on religious philosophy. This Power Point focuses on parenting and family ties based on the book, Parenting: Counselling in the Home. The Christian parenting concept is a life-long process based on Christian principles and values inasmuch as it involves constant and continuous guidance and counselling, coaching and mentorship of the child. The authors’ emphasis on an all-round growth, development and nurturing of the child is attuned to the Christian perspective. The Christian parent/s wants their child upbringing to correspond to the Christian philosophical underpinnings, a rigorous methodological discipline. In particular, there is need for meeting the physical, intellectual, emotional, social and spiritual needs of the child that must be critically aligned to the Christian philological task. The PowerPoint offers empirical illustrations on that foregrounds Christian ethos while promoting effective Christian parenting and counselling based on the author’s immense hands-on experience of working with parents, teachers, counsellors, psychologists, social workers, religious leaders, children and families. This position is distinctive and decisive in modern living with the positivist perspective in that Christian living is highlighted as the focal point in effective parenting. The PowerPoint is a useful guide to parents, counsellors, teachers and social workers dealing with children and young people based on Christian principles.
This document discusses various factors that influence children's experiences and development during the elementary school years. It covers the importance of school, the roles of parents, neighborhoods, school administrators, teachers, children themselves, and peers. Specific topics covered include parenting styles that promote success, dealing with challenging behaviors, shyness, bullying, and learning disabilities. The overall message is that children's experiences are shaped by multiple influences, and parents, schools, and communities must work together to support healthy development during this important stage.
Your Life Satisfaction Score (beta) is an indicator of how you thrive in your life: it reflects how well you shape your lifestyle, habits and behaviors to maximize your overall life satisfaction along the five following dimensions:
►1. Health & fitness, reflecting your physical well-being and healthy habits;
►2. Positive emotions & gratitude, indicating how well you embrace positive emotions;
►3. Skills & expertise, measuring the ability to grow your expertise and achieve something unique;
►4. Social skills & discovery, assessing the strength of your network and your inclination to discover the world;
►5. Leadership & meaning, gauging your compassion, generosity and how much 'you are living the life of your dream'.
Visit www.Authentic-Happiness.com to check your Life Satisfaction score. Free, no registration required.
Social development from birth to 8 years occurs in stages as children learn to interact with others and develop relationships. In the first month, social development focuses on attachment to caregivers. Between 3-6 months, babies begin to understand their bodies and respond to familiar faces. By 9-12 months, children recognize themselves and others and start to communicate intentionally. Toddlers explore independence between 1-2 years while beginning to adjust to other people. Preschoolers work on skills like sharing, taking turns, and understanding rules between 3-5 years. School-aged children form friendships, develop empathy, and distinguish gender roles from 5-8 years.
This document provides guidance on effective parenting in several sections. It discusses that parenting is a gift, labor of love, and about enjoying time with children. It also explores parenting myths and the different parenting styles of authoritarian, permissive, and democratic and their outcomes. The A-Z section lists effective parenting skills from accepting children to valuing their opinions. It discusses addressing situations like children misbehaving and offers a parent's pledge to love, listen, praise, and respect children while enjoying time together.
This document provides guidance for parents on nurturing children in a positive way. It advises that children are malleable when young and can be shaped with good values. However, parents should not pamper children excessively or grant all their demands. Being firm on unnecessary wants while still providing necessary items is important. Parents should also encourage healthy habits like avoiding junk food, managing screen time, and developing interests in other activities. Effective communication through patience, understanding, and leading by positive example can help children learn discipline and responsibility.
1) The document discusses parenting education and styles, as well as early childhood development. It provides information on parenting processes, education methods, and programs.
2) The summary observes parenting education activities at the Seto Gurans Early Childhood Development center in Bandipur, Nepal. Children are separated by age group and engage in age-appropriate activities to support holistic development.
3) A conclusion is that while the ECD center effectively supports child development through play and learning, parents could benefit from further education on nutrition and home management to fully support their children's growth.
'Parenting and family ties christian parenting and counselling in the home'Dr Wango Geoffrey
Many Christian parents want to bring up their child based on religious philosophy. This Power Point focuses on parenting and family ties based on the book, Parenting: Counselling in the Home. The Christian parenting concept is a life-long process based on Christian principles and values inasmuch as it involves constant and continuous guidance and counselling, coaching and mentorship of the child. The authors’ emphasis on an all-round growth, development and nurturing of the child is attuned to the Christian perspective. The Christian parent/s wants their child upbringing to correspond to the Christian philosophical underpinnings, a rigorous methodological discipline. In particular, there is need for meeting the physical, intellectual, emotional, social and spiritual needs of the child that must be critically aligned to the Christian philological task. The PowerPoint offers empirical illustrations on that foregrounds Christian ethos while promoting effective Christian parenting and counselling based on the author’s immense hands-on experience of working with parents, teachers, counsellors, psychologists, social workers, religious leaders, children and families. This position is distinctive and decisive in modern living with the positivist perspective in that Christian living is highlighted as the focal point in effective parenting. The PowerPoint is a useful guide to parents, counsellors, teachers and social workers dealing with children and young people based on Christian principles.
Families form complex systems where parents and children influence each other bidirectionally. Parenting styles vary along dimensions of warmth/responsiveness and control. Authoritative parenting with balanced warmth and control tends to produce children with the best outcomes. Divorce can negatively impact children's development, though effects depend on factors like age and parental cooperation. Peer relationships also influence development as children's play becomes increasingly social, moving from solitary to cooperative play. Sociodramatic play allows children to rehearse social roles and develop skills like empathy.
This document discusses various stages of child development according to Erikson and Piaget's theories. It outlines needs of children such as feeling safe, respected, and included. Issues children face include family problems, bullying, loss, and challenges like child labor, poverty, and violence. The role of the counselor is to understand each child, identify problems, apply appropriate techniques like play therapy, and maintain confidentiality.
This is a short talk delivered to parents of La Salle Academy's (Iligan City) Kindergarten pupils. Thanks to the invitation of Mr. Pendang of the Guidance Office.
The document provides information on physical maltreatment of children, including definitions, types, signs, and factors. It defines physical abuse as the intentional use of physical force against a child that could harm their health, survival, or dignity. Signs may include bruises, injuries, burns, and fractures. Factors contributing to physical abuse include parental characteristics like violence and stress, as well as characteristics of the child like disabilities. Prevention strategies include education, support groups, and improving socioeconomic conditions to reduce risk factors for abuse. Treatment focuses on helping the child process the abuse and developing coping skills.
This document discusses parenting late adolescents and young adults. It covers several topics:
1. Teens say parents provide physical affection, help with problems, and reliability in relationships.
2. Parenting dimensions change as teens gain more independence, though secure attachments and authoritative parenting still predict teen competence.
3. Authoritative parenting encourages emotional and social competence in teens of all ethnic groups worldwide by balancing demands with responsiveness.
This document discusses various parenting styles and strategies for effectively raising children. It provides guidance on when to say "no" to children, setting limits, teaching life skills at different ages, and the importance of open communication and showing love daily. The four main parenting styles discussed are neglectful, permissive, authoritarian, and authoritative, with authoritative parenting being identified as the most effective approach.
'Parenting and family ties counselling in the home'Dr Wango Geoffrey
The PowerPoint Presentation is based on the book, Parenting: Counselling in the Home. The book seeks to address the challenges of parenting in modern living. From the onset, the authors define parenting as the process of promoting and supporting the physical, emotional, social, spiritual and intellectual development the child from infancy to adulthood. Parenting is an on-going process. Nonetheless, it has become extremely difficult in today's society for parents, especially the ever busy working father and/or mother and in particular the single parent, to adequately attend to all the needs of the child. The book helps make greater gains by assisting parents with important learning support services including a range of information on various issues in life and home. It adopts the Positive Parenting strategic approach which is constructive, purposeful, practical and progressive. The book accomplishes this task by: (1) assisting parents in understanding the needs of the child; and, (2) providing parents with information and support about child growth and development. The book is written primarily for parents as well as a wide range of people from the helping and health professions. These include: Clinical Psychologists; Counsellors; Psychologists; Psychiatrists; Sociologists; Social Workers; Physicians; Nurses; Teachers and other educators; members of the clergy as well as personnel working in the home, school and education.
The document is a presentation about enhancing parenting skills through parent involvement given by Chris Martin, a retired NFL player. He discusses the six levels of parent involvement using football analogies: 1) Parenting is like a ball carrier or coverage on the field 2) Communication is like plays being discussed in a huddle or changed at the line of scrimmage 3) Volunteering is like being a playmaker who makes big contributions 4) Learning at home gives an advantage like playing on your home field 5) Decision making relies on experts like signal callers 6) Collaboration taps community resources like man coverage or a balanced line. The presentation encourages parents to get involved in their child's education.
An overview of Positive Parenting
Strategies for raising children through positive approaches. Contains strategies for preventing and treating challenging behavior
The document discusses various aspects of parenting and provides guidance. It notes that parenting has evolved over millions of years in the paleopallium region of the brain. While some awareness and correction of mistakes may be needed, natural parenting should generally be allowed to retain its charm. Specific to humans, the chief task of parenting is to ensure the infant's survival given their vulnerability. Intellectual theories on parenting should be kept in mind but not interfere with natural biological parenting. Parenting involves numerous functional areas like physical health, intellectual development, social behavior, and mental health. The roles and challenges of parenting are changing with factors like the rising status of mothers and interest of fathers. Both over-parenting and under-parenting should be
Experiences build brain architecture in childkanti choudhary
The document discusses how a child's early experiences shape the development of their brain architecture. It notes that brain architecture provides the foundation for future learning, behavior, and health. The brain develops from the bottom up, with simpler circuits forming first followed by more complex ones. Early experiences and interactions between children and caregivers are especially important for building strong neural connections. Toxic stress can weaken this architecture and impair development if stress responses remain activated for long periods without support. However, nurturing relationships act as a buffer against toxic stress.
The document provides an overview of 10 basic principles of good parenting according to psychologist Laurence Steinberg's book "The Ten Basic Principles of Good Parenting". The principles are: 1) What you do matters 2) You cannot be too loving 3) Be involved in your child's life 4) Adapt your parenting to fit your child 5) Establish and set rules 6) Foster your child's independence 7) Be consistent 8) Avoid harsh discipline 9) Explain your rules and decisions 10) Treat your child with respect. The document emphasizes that following these principles can help children develop in a healthy way and avoid problems, though perfect parents do not exist.
Powerpoint parenting plans for children with special needsBrenda McCreight
Children who have special needs require specialized parenting plans that reflect the child's unique capacity to make transitions, to have health care needs met, and to have therapeutic services provided in each home.
how stressful it is to see our kids at the urge of almost developing anxiety issues in today's fast tracked lifestyle. more understanding and a lot more love can cure parents-children bond. this presentation is dedicated to all the parents who want to see their kids grow into more compassionate humans.
There is biggest and Important role of parents in our life and development. Our Father love and goodness is very bigger than the any Mountain and our mother love and goodness is much deeper than the any Sea. Every Father and mother play very prestigious and important role in our mental, physical, social, financial and most important in Career development. So here are some points which show importance of parents and role of parents in a child's life.
Parenting style and onset of child psychopathologyRichard Asare
Mental health of children depends on the way parents interact with them. Though every parent wishes to provide the best at home, they may not be giving the best to their children as no full proof method of bringing up children has been invented. This is because no two children are alike. There are more differences between children than we ordinarily believe. Moreover, culture, society, gender of the child and a host of other factors interact with the upbringing of children
Steve Vitto Positive Parenting Part TwoSteve Vitto
Steve Vitto's presentation for Parent Nights at Reeths Puffer Elementary School, Shelby Association for Retarded Children-Shelby Town Hall, & Muskegon, Michigan ARC
2010
Available in English and Spanish
svitto@muskegonisd.org
This document provides information on parenting styles and tips for effective parenting. It discusses how demanding, controlling or indulgent parenting can lead to issues for children like increased risky behaviors. The most effective parenting involves being warm, supportive, consistent and having open communication. Setting clear rules and avoiding knee-jerk reactions can help. The document recommends websites for more parenting resources and tips.
This document discusses effective discipline strategies for parenting teens. It argues that physical punishment is psychologically damaging and teaches teens that violence is acceptable. Instead, discipline should involve clear rules that are consistently and respectfully enforced through logical consequences. Effective discipline is also balanced with warmth and respect. The goals are to teach responsibility while maintaining a healthy relationship between parent and teen.
Developmental psychology studies various factors that influence child development, including infant-directed speech, attachment, caregiver characteristics, and parenting styles. Language develops more fully when infants hear infant-directed speech from caregivers. Secure attachment in early childhood is important for social and emotional development. Caregiver characteristics like responsiveness, emotional availability, and mental health can impact attachment and development. Parenting styles like authoritative parenting tend to lead to the most positive outcomes for children.
Middle and late childhood spans ages 7 to 12 years. During this period, children experience significant physical, cognitive, emotional, social, and moral development. Physically, they continue growing and developing motor skills. Cognitively, they progress from concrete to more abstract thought. Emotionally, they develop more complex self-concepts and understanding of emotions. Socially, relationships with parents change and same-sex peer groups become more important. Moral reasoning also advances during these years.
Families form complex systems where parents and children influence each other bidirectionally. Parenting styles vary along dimensions of warmth/responsiveness and control. Authoritative parenting with balanced warmth and control tends to produce children with the best outcomes. Divorce can negatively impact children's development, though effects depend on factors like age and parental cooperation. Peer relationships also influence development as children's play becomes increasingly social, moving from solitary to cooperative play. Sociodramatic play allows children to rehearse social roles and develop skills like empathy.
This document discusses various stages of child development according to Erikson and Piaget's theories. It outlines needs of children such as feeling safe, respected, and included. Issues children face include family problems, bullying, loss, and challenges like child labor, poverty, and violence. The role of the counselor is to understand each child, identify problems, apply appropriate techniques like play therapy, and maintain confidentiality.
This is a short talk delivered to parents of La Salle Academy's (Iligan City) Kindergarten pupils. Thanks to the invitation of Mr. Pendang of the Guidance Office.
The document provides information on physical maltreatment of children, including definitions, types, signs, and factors. It defines physical abuse as the intentional use of physical force against a child that could harm their health, survival, or dignity. Signs may include bruises, injuries, burns, and fractures. Factors contributing to physical abuse include parental characteristics like violence and stress, as well as characteristics of the child like disabilities. Prevention strategies include education, support groups, and improving socioeconomic conditions to reduce risk factors for abuse. Treatment focuses on helping the child process the abuse and developing coping skills.
This document discusses parenting late adolescents and young adults. It covers several topics:
1. Teens say parents provide physical affection, help with problems, and reliability in relationships.
2. Parenting dimensions change as teens gain more independence, though secure attachments and authoritative parenting still predict teen competence.
3. Authoritative parenting encourages emotional and social competence in teens of all ethnic groups worldwide by balancing demands with responsiveness.
This document discusses various parenting styles and strategies for effectively raising children. It provides guidance on when to say "no" to children, setting limits, teaching life skills at different ages, and the importance of open communication and showing love daily. The four main parenting styles discussed are neglectful, permissive, authoritarian, and authoritative, with authoritative parenting being identified as the most effective approach.
'Parenting and family ties counselling in the home'Dr Wango Geoffrey
The PowerPoint Presentation is based on the book, Parenting: Counselling in the Home. The book seeks to address the challenges of parenting in modern living. From the onset, the authors define parenting as the process of promoting and supporting the physical, emotional, social, spiritual and intellectual development the child from infancy to adulthood. Parenting is an on-going process. Nonetheless, it has become extremely difficult in today's society for parents, especially the ever busy working father and/or mother and in particular the single parent, to adequately attend to all the needs of the child. The book helps make greater gains by assisting parents with important learning support services including a range of information on various issues in life and home. It adopts the Positive Parenting strategic approach which is constructive, purposeful, practical and progressive. The book accomplishes this task by: (1) assisting parents in understanding the needs of the child; and, (2) providing parents with information and support about child growth and development. The book is written primarily for parents as well as a wide range of people from the helping and health professions. These include: Clinical Psychologists; Counsellors; Psychologists; Psychiatrists; Sociologists; Social Workers; Physicians; Nurses; Teachers and other educators; members of the clergy as well as personnel working in the home, school and education.
The document is a presentation about enhancing parenting skills through parent involvement given by Chris Martin, a retired NFL player. He discusses the six levels of parent involvement using football analogies: 1) Parenting is like a ball carrier or coverage on the field 2) Communication is like plays being discussed in a huddle or changed at the line of scrimmage 3) Volunteering is like being a playmaker who makes big contributions 4) Learning at home gives an advantage like playing on your home field 5) Decision making relies on experts like signal callers 6) Collaboration taps community resources like man coverage or a balanced line. The presentation encourages parents to get involved in their child's education.
An overview of Positive Parenting
Strategies for raising children through positive approaches. Contains strategies for preventing and treating challenging behavior
The document discusses various aspects of parenting and provides guidance. It notes that parenting has evolved over millions of years in the paleopallium region of the brain. While some awareness and correction of mistakes may be needed, natural parenting should generally be allowed to retain its charm. Specific to humans, the chief task of parenting is to ensure the infant's survival given their vulnerability. Intellectual theories on parenting should be kept in mind but not interfere with natural biological parenting. Parenting involves numerous functional areas like physical health, intellectual development, social behavior, and mental health. The roles and challenges of parenting are changing with factors like the rising status of mothers and interest of fathers. Both over-parenting and under-parenting should be
Experiences build brain architecture in childkanti choudhary
The document discusses how a child's early experiences shape the development of their brain architecture. It notes that brain architecture provides the foundation for future learning, behavior, and health. The brain develops from the bottom up, with simpler circuits forming first followed by more complex ones. Early experiences and interactions between children and caregivers are especially important for building strong neural connections. Toxic stress can weaken this architecture and impair development if stress responses remain activated for long periods without support. However, nurturing relationships act as a buffer against toxic stress.
The document provides an overview of 10 basic principles of good parenting according to psychologist Laurence Steinberg's book "The Ten Basic Principles of Good Parenting". The principles are: 1) What you do matters 2) You cannot be too loving 3) Be involved in your child's life 4) Adapt your parenting to fit your child 5) Establish and set rules 6) Foster your child's independence 7) Be consistent 8) Avoid harsh discipline 9) Explain your rules and decisions 10) Treat your child with respect. The document emphasizes that following these principles can help children develop in a healthy way and avoid problems, though perfect parents do not exist.
Powerpoint parenting plans for children with special needsBrenda McCreight
Children who have special needs require specialized parenting plans that reflect the child's unique capacity to make transitions, to have health care needs met, and to have therapeutic services provided in each home.
how stressful it is to see our kids at the urge of almost developing anxiety issues in today's fast tracked lifestyle. more understanding and a lot more love can cure parents-children bond. this presentation is dedicated to all the parents who want to see their kids grow into more compassionate humans.
There is biggest and Important role of parents in our life and development. Our Father love and goodness is very bigger than the any Mountain and our mother love and goodness is much deeper than the any Sea. Every Father and mother play very prestigious and important role in our mental, physical, social, financial and most important in Career development. So here are some points which show importance of parents and role of parents in a child's life.
Parenting style and onset of child psychopathologyRichard Asare
Mental health of children depends on the way parents interact with them. Though every parent wishes to provide the best at home, they may not be giving the best to their children as no full proof method of bringing up children has been invented. This is because no two children are alike. There are more differences between children than we ordinarily believe. Moreover, culture, society, gender of the child and a host of other factors interact with the upbringing of children
Steve Vitto Positive Parenting Part TwoSteve Vitto
Steve Vitto's presentation for Parent Nights at Reeths Puffer Elementary School, Shelby Association for Retarded Children-Shelby Town Hall, & Muskegon, Michigan ARC
2010
Available in English and Spanish
svitto@muskegonisd.org
This document provides information on parenting styles and tips for effective parenting. It discusses how demanding, controlling or indulgent parenting can lead to issues for children like increased risky behaviors. The most effective parenting involves being warm, supportive, consistent and having open communication. Setting clear rules and avoiding knee-jerk reactions can help. The document recommends websites for more parenting resources and tips.
This document discusses effective discipline strategies for parenting teens. It argues that physical punishment is psychologically damaging and teaches teens that violence is acceptable. Instead, discipline should involve clear rules that are consistently and respectfully enforced through logical consequences. Effective discipline is also balanced with warmth and respect. The goals are to teach responsibility while maintaining a healthy relationship between parent and teen.
Developmental psychology studies various factors that influence child development, including infant-directed speech, attachment, caregiver characteristics, and parenting styles. Language develops more fully when infants hear infant-directed speech from caregivers. Secure attachment in early childhood is important for social and emotional development. Caregiver characteristics like responsiveness, emotional availability, and mental health can impact attachment and development. Parenting styles like authoritative parenting tend to lead to the most positive outcomes for children.
Middle and late childhood spans ages 7 to 12 years. During this period, children experience significant physical, cognitive, emotional, social, and moral development. Physically, they continue growing and developing motor skills. Cognitively, they progress from concrete to more abstract thought. Emotionally, they develop more complex self-concepts and understanding of emotions. Socially, relationships with parents change and same-sex peer groups become more important. Moral reasoning also advances during these years.
1) Theories of social and emotional development in middle childhood focus on children developing skills and either a sense of competence or inferiority. Schools play an important role through teacher expectations, classroom environment, and peer relationships.
2) Social and emotional problems can include conduct disorders, depression, and anxiety which are treated through parenting programs, therapy, and medication if needed. Most children overcome challenges and are prepared for adolescence.
3) Peer relationships become important for social learning and friendship development, while schools aim to foster success through high expectations and support of all students.
Families form complex systems of interacting elements where parents and children influence each other bidirectionally. Parenting styles vary along dimensions of warmth/control and influence child outcomes. Divorce is distressing for children and impacts development, though effects depend on factors like age and parental cooperation. Play allows children to develop social skills through stages from solitary to cooperative pretend play, supporting cognitive, emotional, and social development.
This document discusses families and relationships. It states that families form interacting systems where parents and children influence each other bidirectionally. Parents socialize children through direct instruction, modeling, feedback, reinforcement, and punishment. Effective parenting involves warmth and appropriate control. Children are also influenced by parenting styles like authoritative, authoritarian, indulgent, and uninvolved. Divorce can negatively impact children's development, though effects depend on age and parental cooperation. Play benefits children's social and emotional development.
This document provides information for parents going through divorce to help their children. It discusses the stages of divorce and how children are affected at different ages. Key points are that children need involvement from both parents, divorce creates changes that affect children, and developing positive communication skills and reducing conflict can help children adjust. Maintaining meaningful relationships and involvement from both parents through the divorce process is important for children.
This chapter discusses social development in preschool-aged children. It covers how children develop their self-concept, gender identity, and sense of morality during this stage. Children learn to engage in social relationships with peers and begin to understand other people's perspectives. The chapter also examines parenting styles, play, aggression, and cultural differences in child-rearing practices during the preschool years.
This chapter discusses social development in preschool-aged children. It covers how children develop their self-concept, gender identity, and sense of morality during this period. Children learn to engage in social relationships with peers and begin to understand other people's perspectives. The chapter also examines parenting styles, play behaviors, aggression, and cultural differences in child-rearing practices during the preschool years.
It is a good practice for people to follow co-parenting skills. Kids need both their parents in life to grow up. It keeps both parents involved in the kid’s life. It can be a daunting task for the parents to implement the same, but it is to be done for the kids.
This document discusses the important role that parents play in their children's social and emotional learning. It outlines how children learn emotional skills from observing their parents' relationships and interactions. When parents are emotionally competent and can help children work through feelings, children develop healthier emotional regulation. The document also discusses how schools and parents can collaborate to support children's social, emotional, and academic development through activities like parenting workshops, interactive homework, and family-school teams. Strong school-family partnerships benefit students' learning and well-being.
Attachment Parenting: Transform your family with expert tips.
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Slide Description:
Welcome to a journey of love, connection, and profound parenting principles. In this enlightening slide, we delve into the heart of attachment parenting, a philosophy that emphasizes the importance of building secure emotional bonds between parents and their children.
Slide Content:
Introduction to Attachment Parenting:
Explore the core concepts of attachment parenting, an approach that seeks to foster a strong emotional connection right from the start. Understand the significance of nurturing bonds that last a lifetime.
Building Trust Through Responsive Parenting:
Discover the power of responsive parenting techniques that promote trust and security. From prompt responses to a child's needs to practicing active listening, learn how these simple yet impactful strategies lay the foundation for a secure parent-child relationship.
Connection through Everyday Activities:
Uncover practical tips on how everyday activities can become powerful tools for bonding. Whether it's co-sleeping, babywearing, or shared playtime, find out how these moments contribute to a child's emotional well-being.
Parental Presence and Emotional Intelligence:
Delve into the role of parental presence in cultivating emotional intelligence. Explore ways to enhance your child's self-awareness and social skills through mindful interactions and shared experiences.
Balancing Independence and Attachment:
Understand the delicate balance between fostering independence and maintaining a strong attachment. Gain insights into how attachment parenting principles adapt to different stages of your child's development.
Realizing the Benefits:
Learn about the long-term benefits of attachment parenting, from enhanced emotional resilience in children to the establishment of a secure base for exploration and learning.
Overcoming Challenges:
Address common challenges faced by parents practicing attachment parenting and explore practical solutions. From societal misconceptions to individual concerns, find guidance on navigating potential obstacles.
Resources and Further Reading:
Conclude your exploration with a curated list of recommended resources and further reading materials. Empower yourself with additional knowledge and insights to enrich your attachment parenting journey.Embark on a transformative experience as we unravel the intricacies of attachment parenting. This slide is a gateway to fostering a deep, meaningful connection with your child, creating a nurturing environment that lays the groundwork for a lifetime of love and understanding.
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The document discusses different parenting styles and their outcomes on children's development. It identifies three main parenting styles: authoritarian, where parents have absolute control and children are expected to obey without question; permissive, where parents make few demands and allow children freedom without limits; and democratic, which involves setting clear limits but also fostering independence and encouraging open communication. The outcomes associated with each style are also outlined, such as children from authoritarian homes often being unhappy and rebellious, while those from democratic homes tend to be happy, high-achieving and cooperative.
PARENT'S INVOLVEMENT IN CHILD EDUCATION.pptxDzLariza2
The document discusses four main parenting styles: authoritarian, authoritative, permissive, and uninvolved. Authoritarian parenting involves strict rules and punishment for misbehavior, which can lead to children with low self-esteem and rebellion. Authoritative parenting includes clear expectations but also open communication and explanation of rules, resulting in confident and independent children. Permissive parenting has few rules and high freedom for children, but this can cause issues with self-regulation. Uninvolved parenting provides basic needs but little communication or expectations, leaving children self-sufficient but struggling with emotions.
This document summarizes a speech given on the importance of parent-child relationships. It defines parent-child relationships as the interactions between parents and children, including nurturing, teaching, and helping. It then discusses four types of parent-child relationships (secure, avoidant, ambivalent, and disorganized) and how a child's early experiences with their parents shape their attachment style. The document also outlines some common problems in parent-child relationships like poor communication, lack of attention, disciplinary issues, and lack of mutual respect. It concludes by providing some ways to repair relationships, such as spending quality time together, giving praise, and having patience.
These slides are about the development of school childs....the development includes the cognitive development....physical development...emotional development...intelligence...intelligence levels.....their courses....their bahavior and all
This document summarizes key aspects of social and psychological development in middle childhood, between ages 6-12. It discusses Erikson's stage of industry vs. inferiority, the development of self-esteem and self-concept, importance of friendships and social skills, impacts of family structures like divorce and single parents, and characteristics of good and bad caregivers for children in group homes.
The document discusses social and psychological development in middle childhood from ages 6 to 12. Key topics covered include identity development, self-esteem, friendships, gender differences, family structures, and social skills. Children develop more complex self-concepts and compare themselves to peers. Their self-esteem generally increases, though some groups face challenges. Friendships become more important and are influenced by gender and social competence. Family structures are increasingly diverse.
1. During middle childhood, children begin to venture out from close family supervision and explore friendships and social interactions with peers. Getting along with peers becomes crucial as difficulties can cause serious problems.
2. Children develop an understanding of social comparison and their own abilities based on peers. They also develop their own culture and moral codes separate from adults with values of protecting friends and avoiding telling adults about problems.
3. Family structure, function, income and conflict can impact children's development, but resilience also allows children to cope with stress when they have social support from caring parents or religious communities.
The document discusses social development in early childhood. It notes that early childhood programs should facilitate socialization by helping children learn social skills and rules through interactions with peers and adults. The document then outlines several theoretical perspectives on socialization, such as psychosocial, constructivist, behaviorist, and sociocultural theories. It provides examples of important social and emotional skills for children to learn and discusses how social competence develops through peer interaction and relationships.
Emotional intimacy strengthens between couples as they age together. Those in midlife may experience empty nesting as children leave home, while taking on caregiving roles for aging parents. Menopause and andropause bring physical and emotional changes. Maintaining a strong marriage through communication, shared interests, and time together provides benefits in later life. Widowhood involves grieving and establishing a new identity, though some pursue new relationships. Sibling bonds often deepen with age if nurtured over the years.
This document discusses parenting challenges during times of adversity such as natural disasters, foster care, homelessness, and national violence. It describes the effects of these hardships on children and families. Research shows that children experience more stress and symptoms like PTSD after disasters, especially if their families had preexisting difficulties. Foster children generally have more behavioral and emotional problems than other children, though their outcomes depend on the type of foster placement. Homeless children face stresses of poverty in addition to their housing instability, but can do well if their mothers are stable. The document recommends interventions like counseling, summer programs, and multi-family support groups to help families cope during and after adversity.
This document discusses parenting challenges related to illness, death, and victimization. It provides an overview of systems perspectives on family trauma. Key points include: chronic illnesses affect 10% of children; Bowlby's stages of grief; polyvictimization is common; and maltreatment risks increase in contexts of poverty, substance abuse, and social isolation. Interventions aim to ensure child safety, reduce hyperarousal, and build secure attachments through home visiting programs.
American parents work among the longest hours while also spending significant time on childcare and household duties. Between 1965 and 2000, mothers increased their time in paid work while fathers took on more childcare and household responsibilities. However, parents have achieved this by decreasing leisure activities, community involvement, and time with friends and spouses. While parents wish for more leisure and family time, work-life balance in the US is challenging due to limited benefits and protections for working parents. Flexible work policies and supportive work environments can help reduce stress for working parents and allow positive feelings from work to carry over to home life.
This document discusses parenting in lesbian and gay families. It describes how lesbian and gay families are formed and the stresses they face from lack of legal protections in many states. When same-sex marriages have legal status, families report feeling closer, more accepted, and children are less likely to be teased. Reasons for becoming parents, pathways to parenthood, and practical questions are also examined. The transition to parenting is explored for gay men and lesbian mothers, noting both similarities and differences compared to heterosexual parents. Parenting styles and children's adjustment are also assessed, finding little difference between lesbian/gay parents and heterosexual parents. Special challenges and strengths of growing up in lesbian and gay families are discussed.
This document summarizes research on parenting in divorced and remarried families. It discusses the grief process after divorce, factors that influence adjustment, common reactions in children and parents, and long-term consequences for children. It also outlines challenges and tasks in stepfamilies, different stepfamily types (neotraditional, matriarchal, romantic), crises and changes over time, and qualities associated with successful stepfamily relationships.
This document discusses various topics related to adoptive parenting and parenting through reproductive technologies. It notes that adoptive families have become more diverse, including more single parents and LGBTQ parents. Children adopted transracially or internationally may experience challenges with cultural socialization and discrimination that parents need to address. Openness in adoption is associated with fewer behavioral problems in children. Effective communication styles between parents and adopted children can help reduce risks of problems like anger and noncompliance in teens. Parents must be sensitive to adopted children's feelings of loss. Overall, most adopted children do well despite early life adversities, though emotional problems are somewhat more common during school years.
This document discusses parenting when unmarried, including teen parenting and parenting by single mothers. It notes that unmarried parents face more stresses due to factors like poverty and lack of support. Having a supportive co-parent or family members can help single mothers and their children. Programs aim to improve parents' relationship skills and children's development through home visiting and preschool. While challenges exist, stability, protective factors in children and parents, and father involvement can lead to positive adult outcomes for children of unmarried parents.
This document summarizes research on parenting early adolescents during puberty. It discusses the physical, emotional, cognitive, and social changes that occur during puberty and how they impact behavior. Parenting approaches that can help early adolescents adjust include providing information, maintaining healthy routines, setting limits to protect teens from risky decisions, and being a source of comfort. Teens want more autonomy but also still need parental support and guidance. Effective parenting involves open communication, mutual problem solving, and encouraging structured activities that develop skills and passions.
CFD 163-Chapter 14-Stress, Abuse, and Family ProblemsKim Sutton
This chapter discusses various stressors that families experience and how they cope with challenges. It addresses intimate partner violence, child abuse, substance abuse, and other issues. Families draw on internal strengths and resources to manage stress, but may seek outside help for more severe crises. Unresolved stress can contribute to health problems if not addressed properly. The chapter provides information on identifying and preventing different types of family abuse.
CFD 163-Chapter 15-Divorce, Single-Parent Families, and StepfamiliesKim Sutton
This chapter discusses divorce, single-parent families, and stepfamilies. It covers changes in divorce laws that have eliminated fault-based divorces and established no-fault divorce. This has led to an increase in divorce rates. Children of divorced families often experience emotional and social problems, though the impact depends on various factors. Single parents face financial struggles and stigma. Stepfamilies involve complex relationships as children have biological and step-parents and siblings. Building strong stepfamily relationships requires recognizing the children's existing bonds and avoiding favoritism.
CFD 163-Chapter 12-Parenthood Joys and ChallengesKim Sutton
This chapter discusses the joys and challenges of parenthood. It notes that married couples and cohabiting couples tend to be happier raising children than single parents. Parental happiness is associated with higher education, financial resources, shared responsibilities, and social support. The chapter also examines parenting styles and their influence on children's development, as well as trends in parenting approaches and the role of fathers.
CFD 163-Chapter 11-Marriage: Building a Strong FoundationKim Sutton
This chapter discusses ways to build a strong marriage foundation. It notes that marriage helps build strengths, improves communication and intimacy. It also discusses factors like delaying marriage, divorce rates, and cohabitation that have affected marriage. The chapter outlines qualities of healthy marriages like independence, maturity, assertiveness, seeing each other as friends and lovers. It emphasizes the importance of premarital preparation, ongoing work to maintain the marriage, prioritizing the relationship, reconciliation after conflicts, commitment, prayer and forgiveness in building a strong marriage.
This chapter discusses managing economic resources and the relationship between finances and well-being. It notes that income correlates with happiness up to a point. Poor families often live in substandard housing and neighborhoods with more crime. Financial stress damages relationships while financial agreement and communication predict marital satisfaction. The chapter examines household incomes, expenses, and debts by demographic and provides tips for budgeting and reducing debt.
This chapter discusses gender roles and power dynamics within families. It explores how gender roles have changed over time to be more equal but cultural differences still exist. Women now earn higher degrees at higher rates than men but still earn less. While time spent on housework and childcare has decreased for all, women still shoulder a larger burden. Theories like social learning theory and family systems theory aim to explain how gender roles develop. Egalitarian relationships with balanced power tend to be happier than traditional power dynamics.
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2) It explores topics in family science from different academic disciplines and different conceptual frameworks for examining families.
3) The chapter emphasizes that families are complex systems with interconnected members that balance stability and change over time through various stages of the family life cycle.
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3. Neurophysiological Development
Children’s brains are active and primed for
learning
Compared to adult brains, children’s
brains:
Have twice as many synapses
(connections among brain cells)
Are 2 ½ times more active and requires
more glucose
Have more neurotransmitters that
facilitate transmission of information
from one cell to another
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4. Children’s Growing Cognitive Skills
Children’s thinking becomes more complex with increased attention
span and memory
Children reason about what they observe
Identifying reliable authorities; deciding on fair rules; asking questions until
they get answers
Children also reason about people’s feelings
What causes them; ways to handle fears
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5. Mastery Motivation
Some children have strong desires to investigate objects and
problems and achieve mastery
Children high in this quality persist with challenging tasks and take
pride in solving problems, learn more in preschool
Parents’ warmth, encouragement, and openness in conversations
promote mastery orientation
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6. Self-Evaluative Emotions Develop
Emotions of pride, shame, and embarrassment
At the end of age 5, the emotion of guilt develops
Children are very self-conscious; concerned about others’ reactions to
their behaviors and judgments; have strong desire to meet standards
For example, in a lab experiment in which their judgement of the size of
an object differed from the group:
Children abandoned their own accurate judgement and agreed with the
inaccurate group judgement; but only if it was public
When the judgment was given privately, they maintained their own opinion
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7. Two Orientations to Their Performance
Global Performance
Orientation
Children believe their success or
failure reflects their value as a
person
Feel great when they succeed and
bad when they fail
Avoid tasks when they fail, say they
are no good at it
Specific Learning
Orientation
Children look at success or failure
as a specific event and not as a
reflection of them as a person
Feel they may need more practice
Confident and willing to learn; they
believe they will improve
Children learn more in preschool
with this orientation
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8. Sense of Self
Children are beginning to organize self-perceptions, and tend to have
global view of themselves as all good or all bad
Most children see themselves as all good
Children who have been abused are more likely to see themselves as
all bad
Children seem to internalize parents’ feelings, either positive or
negative, not only about themselves but about others as well
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9. Parents’ Feelings about Others Shape
Children’s Self Perceptions
When mothers are cold and angry in interactions with children and
children see parents in conflict:
Children feel others do not like them
Preschool children’s self-perceptions predict kindergarten teachers’
ratings of children as:
Angry, sad, withdrawn, and unable to get along with others
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10. Parents’ Feelings about Their Parents
Influence Children’s Feelings
Parents who report anger and little love for their own
parents are:
Less supportive of marital partners
Critical and authoritarian with their children
Sons and daughters of angry mothers are more likely to be sad,
depressed, and withdrawn in kindergarten
Sons and daughters of angry fathers were more likely to be described as
angry and noncompliant in kindergarten
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11. Parents’ Positive Attitudes Affect
Children’s Self Perceptions
Parents’ sensitive interactions with children give children a sense of
security and trust in relationships with others
When parents are warm and accepting
Children are more likely to think well of themselves and assume others will
like them too
Contributes to high self-esteem
Children seem to internalize parents’ views of them
Positive as well as negative
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12. Parent’s Socializing Gender
and Ethnic Identity
Parents not only convey a sense of overall self-worth but also socialize
children’s sense of gender (what is means to be a boy or girl) and a
person of their ethnic culture through:
Books they read
Comments they make drawing attention to a person’s gender or race
Play objects and activities they provide
Conversations they have
What children observe in society about the treatment of others has an
impact as well
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13. Children Construct an Identity
Children take in information and construct an identity over time that
includes
Parents’ messages
Interactions with peers
Messages and culture at school
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14. Children’s Views of Rules
Children make a distinction between
Moral rules that concern sharing, helping, not fighting or hitting
Conventional rules like clothes to wear
Children are more concerned with kindness than with social
conventions
They believe, like adolescents, that choices of free time, activities, and
clothing are personal choices and under their control
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15. Parents’ Emphasis on Fairness and
Inclusiveness
When children are preschoolers, they are sensitive to being members of groups
Wearing a t-shirt for three weeks, even though it brings no privileges, leads them to think
of themselves as members of a special group
Children think highly of their own group, “We are the best,” and do not yet think negatively
of other groups
Parents can use moral rule of fairness and equal treatment of all to encourage
children to include all children in play groups
Parents can also model favorable regard for all cultural groups in advance of children’s
tendencies to exclude non-group members as they get older
Parents’ reading to children and/or attending other groups’ cultural events teach
appreciation for all
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16. Parents’ Play and Conversations
with Children
Parents’ play with board games and imaginative play help:
Children’s cognitive development
Children’s social and emotional skills
Conversations with children convey important cultural values
and messages that can boost or decrease self-esteem
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17. Promoting Executive Functions (EF)
Executive function grows rapidly in these years
Parents can do the following to encourage EF
Engage in imaginative play with children, taking different roles, encouraging
their planning
Engage in interactive games with turn taking and waiting your turn so
children pay attention in fun activities
Engage in activities with increasing levels of difficulty like puzzles so there
are challenges
Keep the atmosphere a positive one
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18. All Interactions Teach Children
Everything parents do with children
affects children:
Conveying children’s acceptance and
importance
Teaching them values of culture with
regard to gender and ethnic identity
Rules for living
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19. Important Period for Regulation
In this period, children:
Gain greater control of negative feelings and behavior like aggression and
impulsivity
Attention span, memory, and ability to regulate feelings and behavior
increase as prefrontal cortex develops
Parents’ help is important to increase children’s self-regulation as it
predicts many positive school behaviors:
Academic and social skills
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20. Parenting Typologies
Diana Baumrind developed parenting typologies on observations of
parent-preschooler interactions
Baumrind presents a framework for parenting behaviors that
combines:
Positive attention to child as in attachment theory
Verbal limit setting of behavioral methods
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22. The Best Parenting Style
Authoritative Parents
Set limits and high standards for children
Attend to child’s individuality, needs, and preferences
Help children reach standards, explaining, reasoning, structuring
activities so children can achieve high standards
Verbal methods are used for discipline
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24. The Zone of Proximal Developmen
In scaffolding, the parent provides
scaffolds or supports to facilitate the
child’s development
• Adjust task to challenge but not to
overwhelm child
• Problem-solve with child- raise
questions, wonder about possible
options
• Give amount of help needed until
child gains skills, then withdraw help
• Give encouragement to
counterbalance frustration involved
in learning
25. Analogy
Scaffolding is like helping a child
learn to a ride bike
• Give a lot of support in beginning,
maybe using training wheels
• Take wheels off, and provide a
supportive hand at the back of
the bike seat
• When child can balance and
pedal, parent lets go
26. Applying Principles to Children’s
Fearful Behavior
Genetic contribution to child’s behavior
Respect children’s feelings; avoid criticism
Parents encourage change in small steps
If child is very shy at school, start by inviting friend or relative over to house
to play
Elicit children’s fears and problem-solve what child might do so child has
strategies to use
Be a sideline coach as needed; if successful, go to another’s house
Be child’s advocate (day care, preschool) gain insights from teachers
Talk with child and develop plans to handle behaviors of concern
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27. Helping Child Control Aggression
As study of aggression showed, pp. 245-246, 70% children were low
or very low on physical aggression in the preschool years
3% were high at age 2 on this dimension and remained high
throughout the childhood period studied until age 9
A significant group start out moderately high but half decreased in
aggression
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28. Helping Child Control Aggression cont.
High levels of aggression had roots in childhood deprivation
beginning at birth and continuing till age 9
Mothers emotionally stressed because of depression, limited income
Mothers less sensitive, harsher parents
Mothers less stimulating
Anger seemed a protest against a depriving, non-nurturant world
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29. Helping Child Control Aggression cont.
Highly aggressive child accumulated problems
Parent was angry at child’s aggressive behavior
Preschool teachers and peers found child difficult
When entered school, had difficulty paying attention, complying with
directions and academic work was below grade level
By age 9, child had academic, social, peer, teacher, parent problems
By age 9, child described self as lonely and angry
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30. Interventions to Help Aggressive
Children
When mothers and teachers of aggressive preschool children learned
positive parenting principles and replaced criticism and negative
responses to aggressive behaviors with redirection and guidance,
children’s aggressive behaviors declined
Benefits were seen a year later for children whose mothers attended just half the
sessions
At end of a year, behavior of 80% of aggressive children fell in the category of
low-risk for conduct problems
Surrounding child with adults who practiced positive parenting stopped the
negative pathway that the highly aggressive two-year-olds were on
Including social skills training for aggressive children is very useful
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31. Helping Under-Controlled Children
A longitudinal study of impulsivity in the years from 3 to 6 and follow-
up at age twelve reports:
Importance of self-control for academic, social, and personal success in
elementary school, like other studies documenting its importance in
predicting physical, occupational, and emotional well-being into adulthood
About 20% of young children have this problem in preschool years and
often related to family stressors, number of stressors was more important
than the specific kind
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32. Interventions
Positive parenting that gives children structure, routines, guidance in
an atmosphere of positive feelings helps
Guiding children verbally through approved actions
Encouraging self-instruction as Vygotsky recommends are helpful
along with
Dreikurs’ use of encouragement and his attitude towards mistakes
helps children gain control of their actions
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33. Reducing Lying
When adults ask preschoolers not to carry out an act like peeking
under a box, and the adult leaves the room, about 80% peek
About two-thirds of those who break the rule, lie about doing so
Younger children do not cover the lie well so they say what is under the box and have
no explanation for knowing it
Those children with most advanced understanding of how others think are best liars
because they lie about peeking and say they do not know what is under the box
Children are most likely to lie when culture is a punitive, harsh one and much less
likely when culture is more understanding
Parents less likely to have difficulty with lying if understanding and not harsh
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34. Mindfulness Training for Young
Children
Self-regulation involves using cognitive methods , like thinking,
paying attention to actions, in order to control feelings and impulsive
behaviors
Preliminary studies with mindfulness training with preschool children
suggest it is a way to increase regulatory skills and more systematic
studies are required to understand and clearly document benefits
Mindfulness training helps damp down the intense feelings of stress,
anxiety that can disrupt control
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35. McHale’s Parents Are in Authority Stage
and Family Life Is Intense
Parents’ are setting and enforcing reasonable limits
Parents are teaching important values
Fathers are more often involved in caregiving and have their views
Children have energy, their own desires, and often resist parents’ rules
Parents have to enforce consistently without anger
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36. McHale’s Families Live in Intense
Emotional Atmosphere
Parents are teaching values and have strong feelings about them
More opportunities for parents to disagree as both may have strong
views about values and do not want to compromise
Often a second child enters the family
Time when developmental delays may be identified in children
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37. McHale and Colleagues’ Findings when
Children are 30 Months
Parents are busy setting limits consistently
Fathers more involved in family life
Parents want more time with each other and with the family
“Negative emotion had become a feature of family life during the
toddler years in a manner seldom seen in infancy.”
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38. Disagreements on values, and each
wants his or hers to be imposed
Parents worried that other parent
was hampering child’s development
by being too protective
Parents worried that other parent
was hampering development by not
encouraging independence
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Source of
Conflicts
39. Parents’ Level of Control
Two-thirds of these middle-class
parents say they or spouse or both
needed to learn greater control of their
tempers
They worried that they lacked enough
patience
As previous studies noted, parents’
anger is taken personally by young
children even when it springs from
unrelated sources
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40. Adding Another Child to the Family
Often during this period that family has a second or third child
Pre-Second Child Family
Tight triangular unit with intense contact between parents and
between parent and child
Discipline is child-centered and relies on verbal persuasion
First child is central focus of family life
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41. Following Birth of Additional Child
First child is no longer center of both parents’ attention
Focus of family life is on caring for helpless baby
When both parents have less time, they fall back on adult-centered
parenting measures of making demands of children, giving directives
Older children lose attention and also child-centered discipline
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42. Many Ways of Managing
Parents may split family responsibilities, and each do half of all
activities
Parents may be responsible for separate domains, and one care for
first child, and other, the second child
Parents may organize a support network that helps with routine
chores so parents can spend time with both children
Many families manage and at end of year, 63% of preschoolers want
another sibling
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43. Ways to Encourage Positive Sibling
Relationships
Recall program described in Chapter 5 for establishing positive sibling
relationships
Helping children negotiate play overtures and acceptance
Helping children to understand other sibling’s point of view and
feelings
Coaching children in expressing feelings and solving disagreements
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44. Learning of Child’s Delays
or Special Problems
In this period, a child’s delays or
special needs may be identified
Very stressful to parents and
other children in family
May vary from mild to severe,
requiring various levels of
intervention
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45. Family Stress Theory Increases
Understanding of Family’s Coping Skills
Level of stress will vary depending on family’s perceptions of delay or
special needs
Level of stress will affect all family members
Level of stress will depend on family’s resources, support network,
problem-solving skills
When stress is high, parents increase their resources by recruiting
relatives, friends to pitch in to help with siblings or shop or supply
food
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46. Parents’ Many Tasks
Getting accurate diagnosis, getting second opinions if needed
Finding best services available
Including care for child in work and family activities
Maintaining relationships with other parent and family members
Having open family communications about delays
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47. Strategies Parents Find Useful
at Stressful Times
Emotional
Focusing on the many positive
aspects of life
Finding humor in situations
Getting moral support and
comfort from others
Realizing they can not do it all
Cognitive
Setting priorities and doing
things that are most necessary
Planning how to use time and
energy
Taking on tasks if no one else can
do them
Limit volunteer work
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48. CFD 250
Parenting in Contemporary Society
Missouri State University
Springfield, Missouri
Kim Sutton, M.Ed.