This document describes the author's experience with his wife and first child. They found out in 2008 that they were expecting their fourth child together. Due to issues with their landlord, they moved their family from Florida back to North Carolina over the holidays. The author continued working in Florida for six more months before transferring to a new job in Georgia. They decided to have the baby in North Carolina where the wife was comfortable with her doctor. The author was able to be home for the birth during his time off between jobs.