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Boards and Asking Styles
A Roadmap to Success
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
president,

asking matters
BrianSaber
presented by
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
asking 

styles
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
why asking matters
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
Many ways to ask
Many ways to be effective
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
asking styles
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
how do you interact with people?
extrovert = derive energy

from others
introvert =
talk to think
derive energy

from oneself
think to talk
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
asking styles
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
how do you take in information?
analytic =
inductive

fact-oriented
intuitive =
data to idea
deductive

idea-oriented
idea to data
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
asking styles
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
fact based
goal oriented
strategic
competitive
driven
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
asking styles
big picture
high energy
creative
quick
engaging
feelings oriented
attentive
caring
thoughtful
selfless
detailed
thorough
methodical
responsible
observant
what’s

the goal?
what’s the
opportunity?
what’s

the plan?
what moves

my heart?
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
asking styles
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
available online at
www.askingmatters.com
…or on your smartphone
asking styles
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
not more effective
not less effective
just different
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
asking styles
your board’s
asking style
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
asking styles
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
five steps of the ask
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
your board’s asking style
MaryRM/GG
PaulRM/GG
RhondaRM/GG
TerriMC/KS
KathyMC/RM
ArthurMC/RM
AliceGG/RM
GeorgeGG/RM
JillGG/KS
AngelaGG/KS
RyanKS/GG
ToriKS/GG
PhilKS/MC
KeishaKS/MC
HarrisonKS/MC
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
your board’s asking style
MaryRM/GG
PaulRM/GG
RhondaRM/GG
TerriMC/KS
JillGG/KS
AngelaGG/KS
RyanKS/GG
ToriKS/GG
PhilKS/MC
KeishaKS/MC
HarrisonKS/MC
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
AliceGG/RM
GeorgeGG/RM
AliceMC/RM
GeorgeMC/RM
KathyMC/RM
ArthurMC/RM
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
fact based
goal oriented
strategic
competitive
driven
big picture
high energy
creative
quick
engaging
detailed
thorough
methodical
responsible
observant
feelings oriented
attentive
caring
thoughtful
selfless
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
leadership
leadership
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
asking styles
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
five steps of the ask
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
make sure things
are doable
remember the people
being impacted
keep everyone’s
eye on the prize
keep the big
picture alive
leadership
strategy vision
plan heart
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
make sure things
are doable
remember the people
being impacted
keep everyone’s
eye on the prize
keep the big
picture alive
leadership
not big on process can be unfocused
can be inflexible can be overly-empathic
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
strategic
planning
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
make sure things
are doable
remember the people
being impacted
keep everyone’s
eye on the prize
keep the big
picture alive
planning
strategy vision
plan heart
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
fundraising
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
asking styles
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
five steps of the ask
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
fundraising
facts & figures
outcomes & goals
strategies
big picture
vision
possibilities
methods
systems
plans
mission
participant stories
your own stories
goal stories opportunity stories
plan stories heart stories
staff & volunteer
program and fundraising staff
two fundraising staff
two volunteers
partnering
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
fundraising
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
fundraising
exercises
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
asking styles
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
five steps of the ask
• choose someone you would partner with to solicit a donor
• take a guess as to their Style (share your Styles)
• how do we complement each other?
• what might our #1 challenge be working together and
how might we address it?
• who would take various roles:
• opening the conversation
• making a case for support
• asking for the gift
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
exercise #1
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
• break into groups of three
• everyone makes a 1-minute case for support for your
organization
• 5-minute discussion on how each of your Asking Styles
impacted your case
• repeat
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
exercise #2
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
www.askingmatters.com/Bloomerang
Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
PDF of Slides
Your Asking Style Exercise
Ask As You’d Be Asked Exercise
How to Support Each Asking Style Chart
Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020
www.askingmatters.com/
book-special
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personally inscribed!
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Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success

  • 1. Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 Boards and Asking Styles A Roadmap to Success Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 president,
 asking matters BrianSaber presented by Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
  • 2. Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success asking 
 styles Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 why asking matters Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success Many ways to ask Many ways to be effective Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 asking styles Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
  • 3. Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 how do you interact with people? extrovert = derive energy
 from others introvert = talk to think derive energy
 from oneself think to talk Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success asking styles Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 how do you take in information? analytic = inductive
 fact-oriented intuitive = data to idea deductive
 idea-oriented idea to data Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success asking styles Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 fact based goal oriented strategic competitive driven Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success asking styles big picture high energy creative quick engaging feelings oriented attentive caring thoughtful selfless detailed thorough methodical responsible observant
  • 4. what’s
 the goal? what’s the opportunity? what’s
 the plan? what moves
 my heart? Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success asking styles Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 available online at www.askingmatters.com …or on your smartphone asking styles Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 not more effective not less effective just different Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success asking styles
  • 5. your board’s asking style Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 asking styles Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success five steps of the ask Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 your board’s asking style MaryRM/GG PaulRM/GG RhondaRM/GG TerriMC/KS KathyMC/RM ArthurMC/RM AliceGG/RM GeorgeGG/RM JillGG/KS AngelaGG/KS RyanKS/GG ToriKS/GG PhilKS/MC KeishaKS/MC HarrisonKS/MC Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 your board’s asking style MaryRM/GG PaulRM/GG RhondaRM/GG TerriMC/KS JillGG/KS AngelaGG/KS RyanKS/GG ToriKS/GG PhilKS/MC KeishaKS/MC HarrisonKS/MC Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success AliceGG/RM GeorgeGG/RM AliceMC/RM GeorgeMC/RM KathyMC/RM ArthurMC/RM
  • 6. Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 fact based goal oriented strategic competitive driven big picture high energy creative quick engaging detailed thorough methodical responsible observant feelings oriented attentive caring thoughtful selfless Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success leadership leadership Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 asking styles Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success five steps of the ask Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 make sure things are doable remember the people being impacted keep everyone’s eye on the prize keep the big picture alive leadership strategy vision plan heart Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
  • 7. Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 make sure things are doable remember the people being impacted keep everyone’s eye on the prize keep the big picture alive leadership not big on process can be unfocused can be inflexible can be overly-empathic Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success strategic planning Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 make sure things are doable remember the people being impacted keep everyone’s eye on the prize keep the big picture alive planning strategy vision plan heart Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
  • 8. fundraising Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 asking styles Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success five steps of the ask Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success fundraising facts & figures outcomes & goals strategies big picture vision possibilities methods systems plans mission participant stories your own stories goal stories opportunity stories plan stories heart stories staff & volunteer program and fundraising staff two fundraising staff two volunteers partnering Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success fundraising
  • 9. Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success fundraising exercises Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 asking styles Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success five steps of the ask • choose someone you would partner with to solicit a donor • take a guess as to their Style (share your Styles) • how do we complement each other? • what might our #1 challenge be working together and how might we address it? • who would take various roles: • opening the conversation • making a case for support • asking for the gift Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 exercise #1 Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success
  • 10. • break into groups of three • everyone makes a 1-minute case for support for your organization • 5-minute discussion on how each of your Asking Styles impacted your case • repeat Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 exercise #2 Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 www.askingmatters.com/Bloomerang Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success PDF of Slides Your Asking Style Exercise Ask As You’d Be Asked Exercise How to Support Each Asking Style Chart Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 www.askingmatters.com/ book-special Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success personally inscribed! free shipping! cool door hanger!
  • 11. Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020 Boards and Asking Styles: A Roadmap to Success Brian Saber | © Copyright 2020