The document discusses the concept of finding a 'quality woman,' arguing that such labels are subjective and lack clear parameters. It emphasizes the importance of defining personal criteria for a partner rather than expecting a perfect match to appear. Ultimately, it suggests that while finding compatibility requires effort and introspection, it is a worthy goal for those interested in building a meaningful relationship.

2. Where you can find a "quality
woman"?

3. I hate to break it do you, but they
don't exist.

4. No, I don't mean like that. I don't
mean in the bitter, "poor me" sense
that you'll find bleeding all over the
"manosphere" (whatever THAT
means.)

5. I mean that you simply can't put labels
like "quality" on people without having
a specific set of parameters.

6. One thing that Maltz taught in Psycho-
Cybernetics is to NEVER compare
yourself to others.

7. Take the next random dude you meet
on the street, for example.

8. You're going to be better at a bunch of
stuff than he is.

9. He's going to be better at a bunch of
stuff that you.

10. At least today.

11. Tomorrow?

12. Maybe a different story completely.

13. Does this mean it's hopeless finding
what you might subjectively describe
as a "quality woman?"

14. Not at all.

15. But first, you've got to ditch that label,
because it's pretty meaningless.

16. Reminds me of this movie called
"Punching The Clown."

17. There was this guy who was a
singer/comedian.

18. He had this weird style of playing his
guitar while spitting out ridiculous
jokes, that "sort of" sounded like a
song.

19. One day, a big Hollywood Exec came to
see him in a studio.

20. "Show me your FUNNIEST gag!" The
exec said.

21. So the guy starts singing one of his
deadpan, slow boiling type humor.

22. The exec interrupts him. "No, no.
Show me one that's FUNNY right off
the bat!"

23. This went on for a while, until the exec
gave up.

24. Of course, the meaning of the scene is
that "funny" is not some objective
thing like a law of mathematics.

25. Even something that's funny to one
person may not be funny to somebody
else.

26. So stop looking for some kind of
magical "quality woman" to jump out
of the shadows and magically solve all
your girl problems.

27. Change the word "quality" for "a girl
that satisfies most of my criteria, and
for whom I satisfy most of hers."

28. Now, this leaves most guys at a loss,
because they don't really HAVE any
criteria, other than she's got to be hot
and not throw a drink in his face when
he talks to her.

29. So the first step is to actually
determine your own criteria.

30. What do you want in a woman?
Naturally, the more women you
interact with, the more you'll find tune
your criteria.

31. And guess what?

32. You'll find plenty of women that satisfy
YOUR criteria, but you don't satisfy
THEIRS.

33. Most guys don't like to hear this.

34. Most guys think all they need to do is
shave, shower, put on some expensive
cologne and the "quality women" are
supposed to beat a path to their door.

35. Doesn't work like that.

36. Is it easy?

37. Not in the least.

38. Will you get rejected a lot?

39. Absolutely.

40. Will it take time?

41. Yes.

42. Will it happen like in the movies?

43. Probably not.

44. But it is possible.

45. Just not easy.

46. But finding a woman that matches
your criteria, and for whom you match
hers, is something that you should
aspire to as one of your life goals. (If
building a relationship is indeed one of
your plans in life).

47. Not something that just "happens"
when you're out with your buddies.

48. Now, let's be honest.

49. A lot of guys aren't willing to put in the
work.

50. That's fine.

51. They'd rather spend their entire lives
without a woman, or short term
relationships, which for many guys is
perfectly fine.

52. Ultimately it's up to you.

53. What do you want?

54. What will it take to get it?

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