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Qualities of Active Listeners

  Desire to be        No desire to
“other-directed”    protect yourself



Desire to imagine      Desire to
the experience of    understand,
    the other         not critique
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Skills for Active Listening

BODY LANGUAGE   Examples:
                Sitting forward
                Eye contact
                Nodding head




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Skills for Active Listening
OPEN-ENDED     Examples:
 QUESTIONS
               What happened
               after that?
               Who was there?
               What did they do?
               How did that work?



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Skills for Active Listening

REPEAT CONTENT   Examples:
                 So what I hear you
                 saying is . . .




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Skills for Active Listening

ACKNOWLEDGING   Examples:
   FEELINGS
                You’re feeling ___.
                It makes you
                (feeling) that . . .




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Skills for Active Listening

DON’T JUDGE    Examples:
               Bite your tongue!




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Skills for Active Listening

BEING QUIET    Examples:
               Count to yourself.




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Trying It Out

LISTENER             Active listening



                  A success that they’ve
SPEAKER                experienced



               Make note of active listening
OBSERVER       skills being used. Feedback.


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ACTIVE LISTENING

Body Language    Open-Ended
                  Questions


                 Acknowledge
Repeat Content
                   Feelings


 Don’t Judge      Be Quiet


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Trying It Out

LISTENER             Active Listening



                 The biggest challenge of
SPEAKER
                    being an educator


               Make note of active listening
OBSERVER       skills being used. Feedback.


                                     American Student
                                    Achievement Institute
ACTIVE LISTENING

Body Language    Open-Ended
                  Questions


                 Acknowledge
Repeat Content
                   Feelings


 Don’t Judge      Be Quiet


                          American Student
                         Achievement Institute
Trying It Out

SPEAKER              Active Listening



                 What made them want to
SPEAKER           become an educator



               Make note of active listening
OBSERVER       skills being used. Feedback.


                                     American Student
                                    Achievement Institute
ACTIVE LISTENING

Body Language    Open-Ended
                  Questions


                 Acknowledge
Repeat Content
                   Feelings


 Don’t Judge      Be Quiet


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                         Achievement Institute
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http://asai.indstate.edu • May be reproduced with proper citation for educational purposes.

Active listening

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    © 1996-2003 AmericanStudent Achievement Institute http://asai.indstate.edu • May be reproduced with proper citation for educational purposes.
  • 2.
    Qualities of ActiveListeners Desire to be No desire to “other-directed” protect yourself Desire to imagine Desire to the experience of understand, the other not critique American Student Achievement Institute
  • 3.
    Skills for ActiveListening BODY LANGUAGE Examples: Sitting forward Eye contact Nodding head American Student Achievement Institute
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    Skills for ActiveListening OPEN-ENDED Examples: QUESTIONS What happened after that? Who was there? What did they do? How did that work? American Student Achievement Institute
  • 5.
    Skills for ActiveListening REPEAT CONTENT Examples: So what I hear you saying is . . . American Student Achievement Institute
  • 6.
    Skills for ActiveListening ACKNOWLEDGING Examples: FEELINGS You’re feeling ___. It makes you (feeling) that . . . American Student Achievement Institute
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    Skills for ActiveListening DON’T JUDGE Examples: Bite your tongue! American Student Achievement Institute
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    Skills for ActiveListening BEING QUIET Examples: Count to yourself. American Student Achievement Institute
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    Trying It Out LISTENER Active listening A success that they’ve SPEAKER experienced Make note of active listening OBSERVER skills being used. Feedback. American Student Achievement Institute
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    ACTIVE LISTENING Body Language Open-Ended Questions Acknowledge Repeat Content Feelings Don’t Judge Be Quiet American Student Achievement Institute
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    Trying It Out LISTENER Active Listening The biggest challenge of SPEAKER being an educator Make note of active listening OBSERVER skills being used. Feedback. American Student Achievement Institute
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    ACTIVE LISTENING Body Language Open-Ended Questions Acknowledge Repeat Content Feelings Don’t Judge Be Quiet American Student Achievement Institute
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    Trying It Out SPEAKER Active Listening What made them want to SPEAKER become an educator Make note of active listening OBSERVER skills being used. Feedback. American Student Achievement Institute
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    ACTIVE LISTENING Body Language Open-Ended Questions Acknowledge Repeat Content Feelings Don’t Judge Be Quiet American Student Achievement Institute
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    © 1996-2003 AmericanStudent Achievement Institute http://asai.indstate.edu • May be reproduced with proper citation for educational purposes.