The document discusses the need for Vendor Relationship Management (VRM) systems to give customers more control over their relationships with companies. It argues that current Customer Relationship Management (CRM) systems are one-sided in favoring vendors' ability to "manage, control, and own" customers. VRM aims to enable customers to manage their own data and set terms for how vendors can interact with them. This could help shift the balance of power towards mutual relationships rather than vendors treating customers as "captives" or "eyeballs." The document outlines several potential capabilities of VRM systems, such as expressing preferences to vendors and paying for priority customer service. It also proposes an "r-button" symbol to help VRM and CR