behaviour

1. Body Language is aboutBody Language is about
 PP ostureosture
 EE ye contactye contact
 OO rientationrientation
 PP roximityroximity
 LL ookook
 EE xpressionxpression

2. NVCNVC
 Body Language is described byBody Language is described by
psychologists as a language ofpsychologists as a language of
signals.signals.
 They say we express our feelings andThey say we express our feelings and
thoughts in gestures, movementsthoughts in gestures, movements
and attitudes, unaware that we areand attitudes, unaware that we are
doing so.doing so.

3.  Kinesics-Kinesics- the study of bodythe study of body
movement - will tell us that 50% ofmovement - will tell us that 50% of
information on the character, impactinformation on the character, impact
and credibility of a person isand credibility of a person is
conveyed by body language.conveyed by body language.

4. ImportanceImportance
 Communicate more forcefully byCommunicate more forcefully by
using your body effectively.using your body effectively.
 Harmonise your inner and outerHarmonise your inner and outer
attitude so that you feel moreattitude so that you feel more
relaxed and experience less stressrelaxed and experience less stress
in yourself and in yourin yourself and in your
relationships with other people.relationships with other people.

5.  Learn more about others fromLearn more about others from
their body language than fromtheir body language than from
what they say.what they say.
 Learn the difference betweenLearn the difference between
studied and spontaneous bodystudied and spontaneous body
signals, making it difficult for othersignals, making it difficult for other
to hide their true selves.to hide their true selves.

6. GlancesGlances
 A look that could killA look that could kill
 Stolen lookStolen look
 Come hither lookCome hither look
 I am available lookI am available look
 A fish eyeA fish eye
 Voluptuous eyesVoluptuous eyes
 Droopy/drowsy eyesDroopy/drowsy eyes
 Peaceful eyesPeaceful eyes
 Confused eyesConfused eyes
 Tired eyesTired eyes
 Stoic eyesStoic eyes

7.  Learning is acquired by readingLearning is acquired by reading
books, but the much more necessarybooks, but the much more necessary
learning, the knowledge of the world,learning, the knowledge of the world,
is only to be acquired by readingis only to be acquired by reading
men and studying all the variousmen and studying all the various
editions of them.editions of them.
Lord ChesterfieldLord Chesterfield

8.  Watch out for the man whoseWatch out for the man whose
stomach doesn’t move when hestomach doesn’t move when he
laughs.laughs.

9. EYE CONTACTEYE CONTACT
 The eyes of men converse as muchThe eyes of men converse as much
as their tongues, with the advantageas their tongues, with the advantage
that the ocular dialect needs nothat the ocular dialect needs no
dictionary, but is understood worlddictionary, but is understood world
over.over.
EmersonEmerson

10. HandshakeHandshake
 There is a hand that has not heart inThere is a hand that has not heart in
it, there is a claw or paw, a flipper ofit, there is a claw or paw, a flipper of
fin, a bit of wet cloth to take hold of,fin, a bit of wet cloth to take hold of,
a piece of unbaked dough, a colda piece of unbaked dough, a cold
clamming thing we recoil from orclamming thing we recoil from or
greedy clutch with the heat of sin,greedy clutch with the heat of sin,
which we drop as a burning coal.which we drop as a burning coal.

11.  There are many wise men, that haveThere are many wise men, that have
secrets and transparentsecrets and transparent
countenancescountenances

12.  What you are speaks so loudly that IWhat you are speaks so loudly that I
cannot hear what you saycannot hear what you say
EmersonEmerson