Knowledge workers bring far more than just their intellectual skills to a project. They bring their fears, their prejudices, their motivations, their emotional history, and their personalities to the table too. At kick-off meetings we openly discuss our roles and skill sets, but these other intangible things are never exposed.
23. Ask questions like these...
What are your processes and tools?
What’s working, and what’s not?
What does your team look like?
What other teams and departments do you
work with?
Where are the bottlenecks?
What are your challenges?
24. ...not these
What are your business requirements?
What functionality do you need?
What buttons do you want on the admin
panel?
25. The magic sentence
(I have no idea how Kristina
can hear anything over that
loud party hat.)
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“Tell me more
about that.”
28. Tory
Marketing Manager
Her boss doesn’t respect her
She doesn’t know how to defend
her ideas
Afraid of losing her job
Feels she’s on shaky ground with
the advent of digital
WHAT’S GOING ON?
29. Tory
Marketing Manager
Give her digital resources
Discuss ways to defend your ideas
together in advance
Give her YOUR respect
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
31. Felix
Business Analyst
He doesn’t really understand the
domain of the project
He’s afraid that if he deviates he’ll
be shown up
THE SITUATION
WHAT’S GOING ON?
33. Sharon
Head of Customer Care
Frequently says, “I’ve been saying
that for four years...”
Sighs and rolls eyes during
meetings when recommendations
are made
THE SITUATION
34. Sharon
Head of Customer Care
Feels she hasn’t been heard in the
past and isn’t going to get the
credit she deserves
Feels sidelined by the new project,
which she doesn’t own
THE SITUATION
WHAT’S GOING ON?
35. Sharon
Head of Customer Care
Turn her into an ally
Get her on board
Give her credit for her ideas in
front of other team members
THE SITUATION
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
36. Karl
Digital Editor
Has worked here for a long time
Helped build current version of
website
Seems uncooperative
Takes a long time to submit work
THE SITUATION
37. Karl
Digital Editor
Feels threatened by negative
attention on current site
He’s struggling with perfectionism
Doesn’t like to show his work
THE SITUATION
WHAT’S GOING ON?
38. Karl
Digital Editor
Take time to understand past
challenges and history
Make sure he feels heard
Treat his deliverables as works in
progress, collaborate
THE SITUATION
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
40. Laura
Compliance Officer
Afraid of being sued
Motivated by doing her job well
Sees herself as a champion for
compliance
THE SITUATION
WHAT’S GOING ON?
41. Laura
Compliance Officer
Ask for feedback, not revisions
Make a visible effort to understand
the regulatory environment
THE SITUATION
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
42. Lee
Technical Architect
Doesn’t seem to trust you
Doesn’t get involved at workshops
Seems condescending
Doesn’t answer your questions in
detail
THE SITUATION
43. Lee
Technical Architect
Has had bad experiences with non-
technical people in the past
Developed prejudices
THE SITUATION
WHAT’S GOING ON?
44. Lee
Technical Architect
Demonstrate your technical
understanding early
Create clear, useful deliverables
Avoid marketing jargon and
buzzwords
THE SITUATION
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
45. Saul
Stakeholder from HR
Difficult to get hold of
Uncooperative during interviews,
doesn’t open up at all
Gives one-word answers or says he
doesn’t know
Extremely defensive
THE SITUATION
46. Saul
Stakeholder from HR
He’s suspicious of the project and
your motives
Afraid that he doesn’t know the
answers
THE SITUATION
WHAT’S GOING ON?
47. Saul
Stakeholder from HR
Become his friend
Be open about the project objectives
and your motives
Reassure him
Ask about things that he knows well
to get him comfortable
THE SITUATION
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
56. Everyone has their reasons.
He’s scared of
taking
responsibility.
She’s
struggling
with
perfectionism.
He’s worried
about
looking
stupid.
She’s afraid
that she’ll
be blamed.