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2. There's a lot of misconceptions about
what women want.

3. Often times somebody will proclaim
they've finally uncovered what women
really want.

4. But then you find out it's because
they've done a survey.

5. This should tell you right away they
have no idea what they are talking
about.

6. Why?

7. First, realize that attraction is not a
choice.

8. What women are attracted to is based
on subconscious instincts that they
themselves rarely understand.

9. This is hard to understand from a guy's
perspective.

10. There's a clear and obvious set of
observable indicators of what
generally peaks a guys interests.

11. So when any guy describes what is
attractive, it's pretty simple. If a girl is
hot, she's hot.

12. But since girls are not as attracted to
looks as guys are, it's hard to put their
finger on what gets them going.

13. Here's another example.

14. Everybody likes food.

15. Everybody likes slightly different food.

16. Sometimes you want pizza, sometimes
you want steak and lobster, sometimes
you want something exotic.

17. It all depends on your mood.

18. If somebody asked you, "What kind of
food do you find delicious?" You might
come up with an answer that sounded
good.

19. But if you were walking into a
restaurant and saw some food you'd
never seen before, you may suddenly
decide this was your favorite dish of all
time.

20. You simply cannot objectively decide
or measure or plan what kind of food
you think is "delicious."

21. When it comes to being attracted to
guys, on a deep level, women are in
the same situation.

22. They simply can't predict or plan or
consciously predict who they'll find
attractive.

23. Sure, they might give an answer that
"sounds good."

24. But just like in the food example
above, that's going to go out the
window when they see somebody who
REALLY gets them going.

25. Does this mean it's completely
hopeless?

26. Does this mean there's nothing you
can do?

27. Yes and no.

28. No if you've got your eyes on ONE
particular girl.

29. If you've tried to create attraction and
have failed, there's really not much
you can do.

30. Imagine having a dinner party and
cooking some food.

31. But then your guests don't really like
it.

32. Do you think you could "make them
like it" by changing your clothes, or
putting different music on in the
background?

33. Obviously not.

34. But this is what guys try to do when
they try to get that "One Girl" to like
them.

35. I hate to break it to you, but if she
doesn't like you, she's not likely going
to.

36. Unless you're willing to totally change
your personality and behavior.

37. On the other hand, this is great news.

38. Why?

39. Because you can generally figure out if
a girl likes you or not pretty quickly.

40. And instead of wasting your time
trying to get "one girl" to like you, you
can spend your precious time finding
"a girl" that likes you.

41. And once you find her, all you've got to
do is be yourself, and she'll like you.

42. The real you.

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