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9. Now, there's a lot of ways to explain
this, in terms of free will or fate.
10. One way might be that the person who
has the most information is in the best
position to exercise his or her "free
will," while people with less
information are locked into "fate."
11. Most people go through life and
readily give up their choices, or their
free will, to fate.
12. It's easy that way. If you rely on fate to
give you good things or bad things,
you'll never feel like a failure.
13. Sure, you won't usually get very much,
but you won't feel as if you've tried
and gotten rejected.
14. I'm sure you can understand the
attraction of this position.
17. But if you plan your life around what
you DON'T want to have happen,
rather than what you do, you ARE
leaving it up to the gods.
18. But what if you were to look at your
life like the guy in the spy plane?
19. What if you got a really, really big
picture of where you were going?
20. Instead of each situation being a life or
death, fail or succeed, win or lose,
you'd see it as one step along the
MASSIVE journey that is your life.
21. If you practiced looking at your life in
this way, it would be easier to "shift"
between "big picture" thinking and "in
the moment" thinking.
22. What if the guy in that spy plane told
the guy in the car about the wreck, as
soon as it happened?
23. He'd know about it before everybody
else, and would know EXACTLY which
roads to take to avoid the accident,
and get to wherever he was going.
Safe and on time.