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2. Many guys tell themselves they'd like
to get better at talking to girls.

3. Getting their numbers, going on dates,
and creating relationships.

4. Then they go out with their buddies,
maybe think about approaching, and
try something.

5. Then they get blown out, and go
home.

6. While it's admirable to want to
improve your skills in any areas, you've
got to go about it the right way.

7. The dating forums are filled with angry
guys who've tried a few times, didn't
get what they wanted, and then
figured the game was rigged, or the
world is not worth dating, or any other
narrative that protects their ego.

8. But think of it this way.

9. Imagine you wanted to learn to play
the piano.

10. So you went and bought yourself an
expensive keyboard.

11. Then you bought a songbook by Bach
or some other master composer.

12. Without even learning how to hold
your fingers correctly, you opened
your songbook to some random page,
and tried to interpret those crazy
looking squiggly lines, and started
banging away.

13. Your friends (whom you'd invited to
give you moral support) started
laughing hysterically.

14. Or maybe they tried to give you some
advice.

15. Or maybe they told you that all pianos
were rigged somehow, and you had to
be some kind of insider to know how
to play them correctly.

16. Does this sound like a great way to
learn the piano?

17. Of course it doesn't.

18. Things like learning music, or a
language or a martial art, take time.

19. We know they take time.

20. In fact, if you have ZERO knowledge of
any kind of martial art, how long
before you'd be ready to enter into a
black belt level tournament?

21. At least a couple years.

22. A couple years of dedicated practice,
focused exercises, and serious dieting.

23. Talking to girls is no different.

24. You don't start at the top level.

25. You don't go the hottest bars in town,
talk to the hottest girls, and expect to
get some decent results.

26. Social skills are learned skills.

27. Sure, some people are naturally good,
just like some people are naturally
gifted in music or sports.

28. But that doesn't mean you can't learn
how to play.

29. How do you learn seduction?

30. Same way you'd learn anything else.

31. Start slow.

32. Practice consistently.

33. Give yourself plenty of time.

34. The best way to start to practice your
social skills is to simply talk to people.

35. Any time you see somebody that
might be interesting, simply start up a
conversation, and see what happens.

36. If you do this regularly, like working
out at the gym, you will improve.

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