4. Meaning
A strong feeling that makes you want to hurt
some one or be unpleasant because of
something unfair that has happened.
Anger is a natural emotion.
It is nature’s way of telling us that
something wrong in our lives has gone
anywhere.
Anger is like a mirror.
It reflects your inner instability
It makes you blank and blind
5. STAGES OF ANGER
Low self esteem
Irritation
Hatred
Frustration, useless feeling
Verbal
Aggressive- loose control, acting out
inappropriately
Physical violence
Differences between aggression and anger.
Express your anger appropriately
6. Consequences of anger
Affects your physical health
It affects your Immune system.
Gives coronary diseases and high blood pressure
It affects the nervous system and Digestive
system.
It affects the mental health.
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9. CAUSES OF ANGER
Try to change the past.
Unfulfilled desire
Lots of negativity in our mind and fixed belief
system
Try to change others
10. Anger Management
A compilation of stress reduction technique for
channeling one’s angry feeling in to social
acceptable direction.
Develop the ability to cope up.
11. STEPS TO TAME ANGER
Know what pushes your button
Know your body get anger signs
Stop and thing.
Cage your rage.
Decide what to do.
Calm down
Name the problem
Find solution
Pick the best
Evaluate the solution
Congrats yourself.
Show mutual respect
Make changes if necessary
Review.
12. 1-2-3 Turtle
1.Go inside your shell
Think before you Speak & act
Take a “TimeOut”.
Time heals every thing
Leave the room
2.Take a deep breath
Calm yourself
3. Walk away
Think a good solution.
13. Ways to stop an Argument
Never accuse a person of being wrong
Admit your mistakes
Be pleasant and polite
Stop blaming others
Blaming only keeps people upset.
I express my feelings & try to work things out
14. Techniques
Self awareness – Breath control
Reason out- Write it down
Think rationally than emotionally
Process anger calmly.
Don’t be attached.
You are different from your Idea.
Letting things go.
Needing differ from wanting.
Extreme words drive extreme things
Express yourself accurately.
15. How to deal with Insults
Why people insult you ?
Insecure – Don’t feel good about themselves
Jealous - Not they getting enough reward
Proper understanding of their disability (Lack of
understanding)
Fond of You- playful teasing
Responding to it – not to react to it
Stay calm, Express how you exactly feel, simply
ignore, Use Ignore and report Insults – related to
gender, disability Indulge in self care , Do little
good things to you.
16. 7 Phrases for responding to rude
People
Simple “Thank You”
Appreciate their perspective
Keep calm and keep going
B clear & Explain
Put across your point of view that you are right.
Last nail on heated argument- laugh it away.