2. information means text & data
communication means saying & meaning
enabling means acting upon the saying
empowering means enabling the meaning
transforming means changing for good
3. Communication lies behind everything that
takes place in an organization and becomes
intermingled with all other functions and
processes to a level such that, separating it
from the art of management is impossible.
Communication is the most time-
consuming process that a manager engages
in, thus improving management strongly
depends on improved communication
standards.
4. Kinesics – non-verbal modality through gestures
Oculesics – use of eyes to communicate
Proxemics – use of space to communicate relationships
Para language – the tonal effect in sounds
Chronemics – use of time to express interest
Artifactics – communication through attire or artifacts
Touch/Haptics – the language of touch
Non-verbal communication
6. An interest is a motivator, an underlying need, desire, or concern, e.g., I want to feel financially
secure or I need more money with the arrival of a second child.
A goal is a desired outcome or result, e.g., I want to make 60 lakhs this year.
A position is a stated result or proposal, usually in a negotiation or conflict, e.g., I deserve a 10%
salary increase.
A strategy is the method or path for achieving a goal, e.g., I will first try to negotiate an increase
in my salary, then, if this does not achieve my goal, I will search for a second job on weekends.
Tactics and actions are specific steps to be taken, hopefully following a strategy, e.g., contact the
placement office in my professional society to identify possible weekend positions.
Terminology
7. You get
what you
negotiate
You don’t
get what
you deserve
What is at stake?
‘The two words 'information' and 'communication' are often used interchangeably, but they
signify quite different things. Information is giving out; communication is getting through.’
Sydney J. Harris
12. Strategy Best Used When
Avoidance Conflict is trivial, when emotions are running high and time
is needed to cool them down, or when the potential disruption
from an assertive action outweighs the benefits of resolution
Accommodation The issue under dispute isn’t that important to you or when
you want to build up credits for later issues
Forcing You need a quick resolution on important issues that require
unpopular actions to be taken and when commitment by
others to your solution is not critical
Compromise Conflicting parties are about equal in power, when it is
desirable to achieve a temporary solution to a complex issue,
or when time pressures demand an expedient solution
Collaboration Time pressures are minimal, when all parties seriously want a
win-win solution, and when the issue is too important to be
compromised
13. Negotiation
The spirit of negotiation begins with
A__
M___
Q________
‘Negotiation in the classic diplomatic sense assumes parties more anxious to
agree than to disagree.’
15. Negotiation
The two spirits of negotiation begins with;
1) Focus on Interests. Not positions
2) Improve the Communication
(information & temperature)
16. Positions Interests
Where do you want to reach? Why you want to reach the position?
B Collaborates B Competes
A Collaborates
A Competes
Results in a
good outcome
B wins position
A loses interest
A wins position
B loses interest
Both lose
interest
17. Positions Interests
How do you want to reach? Why do you want to reach the position?
The need for BATNA
Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement
Is the future
of the
relationship
important?
Is the outcome
important?
YES NO
YES
NO
Collaboration Accommodation
Competition Avoidance
18. Positions Interests
How do you want to reach? Why do you want to reach the position?
• Aim high to begin with – easier to lose ground than gain
• Give concessions ‘reluctantly’
• Break down complex deals
• Aim for ‘Yes’ through ‘No’
• Always get agreements in writing
• Seek clarification to define your interest
• Don’t leave gains on the table
• Be Assertive and maintain emotional control
19. Language:
Make proposals with open questions such as:
“What would happen if we…?”
“Suppose we were to…”
“What would be the result of?”
Dealing with rigids: “What would need to happen for
you to be willing to negotiate over this?”
Negotiation
20. "I think it's important to reason from first
principles rather than by analogy," Musk
said in an interview with Kevin Rose.
"The normal way we conduct our lives is we reason by analogy," he said. "[With analogy] we are doing
this because it's like something else that was done, or it is like what other people are doing.[With first
principles] you boil things down to the most fundamental truths … and then reason up from there."
SpaceX could build a rocket for about 2%
of the typical price.
Battery technologies from $600 / kilowatt-hour
to $80 / kilowatt-hour.
Musk: Well, I do think there’s a good framework for thinking. It is
physics. You know, the sort of first principles reasoning. Generally
I think there are — what I mean by that is, boil things down to
their fundamental truths and reason up from there, as opposed
to reasoning by analogy.
Through most of our life, we get through life by reasoning by
analogy, which essentially means copying what other people do
with slight variations.
Aristotle’s “first principles” or “origins”
Decartes uses method of doubt, now called Cartesian doubt, to
systematically doubt everything he could possibly doubt, until he
was left with what he saw as purely indubitable truths
Negotiate your limitations – First Principles
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NV3sBlRgzTI
22. Negotiate your limitations – First Principles
Students
Who owns their minds? Influencers?
How to make Influencers recommend Jetking?
How can I make influencers collaborate with Jetking?
How can I win the trust of influencers?
23. 7 Powers of Influence
Discipline
Ambition
Trust Collaboration
Discipline
of POWER
Punish
32. Why trust is more importantDiscipline
Individual benefits are more important than collaborative sharing
Collaboration today is more non-human
End goals are still not distinctly clear during collaboration
Trust aligns values
Individuals are keen about consistency
Building trust is difficult but lasts longer
Collaboration requires hierarchy; trust is fluid
Collaboration can also lead to indiscipline or conspiracies
Trust aligns to meet ambition irrespective of direction
Trust enhances risk-taking capability; collaboration eliminates risk
33. Influence of TrustDiscipline
Compete Neutral Simple Coordinated Complex Integrated
Competing for
ambition by
gaining higher
influence on
resources or
attention
Small groups
where none is
either
impeding or
helping each
other out
Collaboration is
limited to
communication,
expertise or
information
sharing
Collaborators
align for
executing
projects both
formally or
informally for
shorter time
durations
Collaborators
align for
executing
projects which
can be pretty
large for a single
organisation and
require collective
impact
Collaborations
are merged
towards one
large hairy
ambition
Nil Trust High
Communication Project/Activity Collective Impact Real-time