Are you being misunderstood

1. Are you being misunderstood …
and what you can do about it
By Weekend Business School
May 22, 2021

2. Probing questions
• Do you know that it’s not your view, it’s theirs?
• What are your feelings behind being misunderstood?
• Are you seeking validation?
• Do you have a desire for control?
• Are you afraid of being judged?
• Are you fearful of intimacy?
• Do you trust others?
• Are you possibly codependent?
• Do you know how to effectively communicate?
• Are you actually misunderstood or do just feel misunderstood?

3. What to do?
• Get to Know and understand Yourself Better-Become a “Me Detective”
• Learn to Communicate More Clearly
• Work on your self-esteem.
• Set your personal communication goal

4. The value of being misunderstood
• Being misunderstood shows you your boundaries.
• It shows you where your communication prowess ends and where
you need help.
• It shows you an opportunity to express yourself and grow.
• Best of all, it gives you a chance to better learn yourself and what
really drives you.

5. How do you move past being misunderstood?
• You have the right to respond but not the obligation.
• Others’ views of your opinions don’t diminish your worth.
• It’s okay to be misunderstood.
• Feel the emotions without rationalization.
• Write an imaginary response.
• Sleep on it.
• Let it go.

6. Courtesy:
Weekend Business School
(a division of HoneyRock Multiconsult Ltd)
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