about deep communication skills via new way

1. Deep communication
By Dr.Fady
Nassif

3. Who IM ?
Who others ?
How to communicate ?

4. 1- Agreement between us .
- ( self awareness )
human behavior
ENNEAGRAM types over view
Exercise 1 : know your own type
- how to be positive ?
space mentality not particle mentality
exercise 2 ( detection your particles ,challenge )
victim mentality
self acceptance
wheel of the life , confidence
- exercise 3 own wheel of life
- exercise 4 what is your plan to overcome
Agenda
day 1

5. Basics of communication
Exercise 5 ( bad phone )
- pinches ( irritant) :
Ex: 6 what are your pinches and what pinches to others ?
Ego states ( parent – adult – child )
Exercise 7 ( ego state chairs one statement )
Ex 8 ( imagine scenario and others detect what ego states )
Attention type 3 ( colors )
Exercise your own color energy
Exercise go out your comfort zone in 3 minutes presentation
and try 2 new colors
Summary and closing
Agenda
day 2

6. Agreement
Beginner mind
Be in the level 2 of attention not in level 1 please
Ask in any time
Take the exercise serious
Don’t excuse go out and return ASAP

7. Why communication ?
Did you remember once time or more ,some one be angry
from you ? And you didn’t want this ?
Some one didn’t understand what you want and do
another action and you lost money ,time, may be more
Some one didn’t know how you love him ?
Some one assume you arrogant

8. Who IM ? Who are you ?
Self awareness
human behavior
1- genetic ( nature
)
2- acquired
3- welling

9. Self aware
Clear
Deep
Inward
Has vision
Able

10. ENNEAGRAM types

11. • The main personality
types* include:
1. The Perfectionist –
Productive, organized,
wise, ethical and
reliable, this type of
personality is concerned
with doing things right
100 % , living right and
improving themselves
and things around them.
They can be judgmental
, critical , controlling and
anxious as well.

12. 2. The Helper –
Generous, insightful
and caring, Helpers
must be loved to feel
their value and react
positively to others.
They can also be
martyr ‫شهداء‬ like and
possessive , and
sometimes overly
accommodating

13. 3. The
Achiever – A
pretty self ,
the achiever is
driven by
success and
hates failure.

14. • 4. The Romantic – A
key character in almost
every plot line, the
Romantic is addicted to
emotion and must
experience her feelings.
She doesn’t wish to be
ordinary and can
sometimes be self-
conscious, moody or
self-absorbed.

15. • 5. The Observer – At
their best, they are
analytical and
consumed with
knowing and
understanding the
world around them. At
their worst, they can
come off as critical of
others, intellectually
arrogant and negative

16. • 6. The Questioner
– “Do I fit in?” is a
common thought
for the Questioner,
a personality driven
by the need for
security. While they
can be
compassionate
and warm, they
can also be
paranoid ,
defensive and rigid

17. • 7. The Adventurer –
True adrenaline
junkies, No. 7’s thrive
on activities, want to
contribute to the world
and don’t enjoy
suffering. Their
confidence and
spontaneity can
sometimes be
interpreted as
narcissism and lack of
discipline

18. •8- The Asserter The
Asserter doesn’t want to
take “no” for an answer
and wants to be self-
reliant. Authoritative,
energetic and loyal, No.
8’s can also be
rebellious, self-centered
and aggressive to avoid
feeling inferior or
dependent.

19. • 9- The Peacemaker –
Nines hate conflict
and want to smooth
things over, but their
emotional responses
to various situations
can vary from genteel
and polite to
obsessive and forceful

21. Exercise 1
• What is your type ?
• Strengths ?
• Area of development ?

22. How to be positive ?
space mentality
Victim mentality
Self acceptance
Plan to overcome , improve continuous
improvement KAISEN

23. Self acceptance Vs self rejection
Self tolerant vs self intolerant
Self loving vs self hate
Confident vs in confident
Forgiven vs in forgiven
Self worth vs low self worth
Self motivation vs self destruction

24. How ?
Admit your areas of development but
don’t judge by forever that you are
If you lie not mean you are Layer
forever

25. Victim mentality
Don’t act the
role of the
victim ?

26. Space mentality vs particle menatality
Exercise 2
Detect your 5 challenges , barriers, particles
in your life , your work
space mentalityHabits
Family
Money

27. Space
Dynamic
+ ve
Open
Creative
Proact
Particle
- stagnant
- ve
Close
Traditional
Reactive

28. Wheel of confidence / life exercise
Physical
Relationship
Money
Spirituali
ty
Communic
ation
Prestige
Developme
nt

29. Exercise : Make your own wheel ?

30. - summary
human behavior
( self awareness ) and ENNEAGRAM types over view
- how to be positive ?
space mentality not particle mentality
victim mentality
self acceptance
wheel of the life , confidence

31. Action plan day 1
• Type :
• Your strength's ?
• Challenges inside you ?
• Challenges outside you ?
• I will stop do ?
• I try to do ?
• Space mentality , what particle ?
• Wwhat solutions ?

32. Thank
you
This our
target in
tomorrow
ISA