Introduction to The Anatomy of Peace - Resolving the Heart of Conflict

1. Conflict - Anatomy of Peace Tong Ka Io 2011.07.12

3. 1. 理論知識

6. 衝突與團隊績效

7. 良性衝突 (Functional Conflict) 支持團體目標並增進團體績效的衝突。 © 2005 Prentice Hall Inc. All rights reserved. 惡性衝突 (Dysfunctional Conflict) 妨害團體績效的衝突。

9. 衝突處理意圖

11. 以上是有關衝突的理論知識 這些知識十分重要和有用 但不是今天我們要談的內容

12. 2. 個人體驗

15. 衝突的多層結構

16. 3. 問題子女

24. 4. 和平的心

25. Kingdom of Heaven

31. A story

32. 5. “ 同謀”

33. Duel at the mall

42. 6. “ 在箱子裏”

63. 7. 和平金字塔

72. If we try to correct our children when the other elements of the pyramid are not in place, our correction will always be wrong The first 4 levels are all concerned with helping things go right

73. If my correction of my children isn’t working The solution is not to try still more methods of correction, but to do a better job of teaching When we seem to locate a problem at one level of the pyramid we should always look below it for the solution

74. If my teaching is consistently falling flat The solution is not to teach more, but to build better relationship When we seem to locate a problem at one level of the pyramid we should always look below it for the solution

75. If I seem unable to build the right kind of relation- Ship with my children I had better look at my relationship with my spouse When we seem to locate a problem at one level of the pyramid we should always look below it for the solution

76. If my relationship with my spouse isn’t what it should be What does that reveal about my personal way of being? When we seem to locate a problem at one level of the pyramid we should always look below it for the solution

79. Father’s choices How to correct my sons? Go get them immediately Wait for them to come home Make absolutely clear that it is totally unacceptable Father’s choices

82. Father’s choices How to correct my sons? Go get them immediately Wait for them to come home Make absolutely clear that it is totally unacceptable Father’s choices How to help things go right? Build relationship Teach

90. 8. 總結

91. The Peacemaking Pyramid Dealing with things that are going wrong Helping things go right

98. 人生公式