72. If we try to correct our children when the other elements of the pyramid are not in place, our correction will always be wrong The first 4 levels are all concerned with helping things go right
73. If my correction of my children isn’t working The solution is not to try still more methods of correction, but to do a better job of teaching When we seem to locate a problem at one level of the pyramid we should always look below it for the solution
74. If my teaching is consistently falling flat The solution is not to teach more, but to build better relationship When we seem to locate a problem at one level of the pyramid we should always look below it for the solution
75. If I seem unable to build the right kind of relation- Ship with my children I had better look at my relationship with my spouse When we seem to locate a problem at one level of the pyramid we should always look below it for the solution
76. If my relationship with my spouse isn’t what it should be What does that reveal about my personal way of being? When we seem to locate a problem at one level of the pyramid we should always look below it for the solution
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79. Father’s choices How to correct my sons? Go get them immediately Wait for them to come home Make absolutely clear that it is totally unacceptable Father’s choices
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82. Father’s choices How to correct my sons? Go get them immediately Wait for them to come home Make absolutely clear that it is totally unacceptable Father’s choices How to help things go right? Build relationship Teach