Ride the Storm: Navigating Through Unstable Periods / Katerina Rudko (Belka G...
#1 Strategy You Can Use Instantly to Get Your Ex Back AND Stay Together!
1. #1 Strategy You Can Use
Instantly to Get Your Ex Back
AND Stay Together!
2. So you've broken up with your ex. It is highly probable
that you are going through emotions such as denial,
frustration, sadness and anger. During this difficult time
your rational thinking becomes clouded by these
emotions and you may be tempted to do things that you
may not do otherwise, such as: calling your ex
incessantly, pleading for you to get back together,
sending e-mails, letters, text messaging, etc.
3.
4. This is absolutely understandable. However, it is
definitely not the best way to convince your ex to get
back to you. There is in fact a certain strategy you can use
that will get you ex back quickly and painlessly.
Keep in mind that although this strategy is very powerful,
it is just a first step that initiates the process of getting
your ex back.
5. So what exactly should you do to? It's simple...ignore you ex for a
while. This may seem counter-intuitive but it is in fact one of the
most effective strategies you can use. It means you need to stop
initiating contact whatsoever with him or her: no more calling,
begging and pleading to get back together, leaving messages on
their voicemail, or any other means of contact. If you fail to do so,
your ex will realize that you are desperate and needy. He or she will
also know that you will always be available to them - basically they
won't respect you anymore and this will kill your chances of getting
them back.
6. The best way for handling this kind of situation is to give them some
space and not come across as someone who can't handle being
single and alone. Preferably, you should tell them that you in fact
agree you should spend some time apart for a period of time. If you
do this in a non-emotional and nonchalant way, your ex will think of
you as an independent and strong person, and this will become very
beneficial when the time comes for you to re-establish contact with
them. This strategy may seem completely counter-intuitive but it
works.
7. Another benefit of applying this strategy is that it will
give you enough time to be by yourself for a while.
Spending some alone time is the only way to let the
negative emotions you associate with the break up to
subside. Only then can you decide on what course of
action should be without your emotions clouding your
judgment.
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that countless couples are using to successfully get their
relationships back on track.
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